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July 2009 Chapter Flash
In This Issue
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT
FACILITATOR TIP
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM LEADER TIP
OUTREACH TIP OF THE MONTH
BOOK REVIEW
ONLINE RESOURCES
Upcoming Events 
13th Annual Retreat for all Circle of ParentsŪ Families in Minnesota
August 29 & 30 at beautiful Bay Lake Camp near Garrison, Minnesota
Contact: Joan Johnson at (218) 821-6429 or jjohnson@pcamn.org
Upcoming Training 
Facilitation Skills & Children's Program
August 8th near Little Falls
Contact Priscilla at pbennett@pcamn.org to register  
List of Groups 
Click here for a current list of groups in Minnesota.
Contact Us
Please send feedback and suggestions for
future issues to:
 
 
Circle of ParentsŪ Statewide Office
Priscilla Bennett
Communications Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099 ext. 111
pbennett@pcamn.org
 
Our Regional Coordinators:
 
Metro Office
Alice Lynch
Metro Program Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099
alynch@pcamn.org
 
Northeast Regional Office
Joan Johnson
Northeast Program Coordinator
9057 Sunset Strip
Pequot Lakes, MN 56472
218-821-6429
jjohnson@pcamn.org  
 
Southeast Regional Office
Barb Sorum
Interim Director of Family Support Services
606 East 5th Street
Albert Lea, MN 56007
507-377-7665
bsorum@pcamn.org
 
Southwest Regional Office
Susan Thomes
Southwest Program Coordinator
PO Box 202
Silver Lake, MN  55381
218-308-1311
 
Western Regional Office
Mary Weaver
Western Program Coordinator
32662 Birchwood Shore Drive
Underwood, MN 56586
218-770-1385
mweaver@pcamn.org
Our Mission 
The mission of Circle of Parents is to empower parents to create healthy and loving families through positive parenting and mutual self help.
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CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT
Morrison CountyJoan Johnson, Northeast Program Coordinator 
Circle of ParentsŪ is expanding again in Morrison County. This chapter started up two years ago by partnering with the Child Protection Team. They have gone from one group that met every other week to FOUR groups that meet every week. The original group meets weekly at the Head Start facility in Little Falls and the other open group recently started meeting weekly in Pierz. Ammanda Weidenbach, their Children's Program Leader, has gone through the training offered by Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota and provides the leadership for each of their open groups. (more)
FACILITATOR TIP
What is Mutual Self-help? 

Sharing and equal status: Ideally, a self-help group operates on an egalitarian basis. The input of each person is valuable. Everyone is or has been coping with the same difficulty, so in that way everyone is the same.
Giving and receiving help: In addition to receiving help, group members can also offer to help others. People benefit just as much from helping as receiving. The confidence and self-esteem of members is enhanced as they find that they have something to offer. (more)
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM LEADER TIP 
Sue Thomes, Southwest Program Coordinator  
Creating a sense of belonging and ownership in a group is a great way to encourage repeat attendance.

  Let children help create group rules - they are often fair minded and more apt to follow rules they have helped create.
  Plan exciting activities (science, art, games), allowing children to offer ideas of things they would like to try.
  Have children take turns bringing a snack each week (if your group doesn't already offer one).
  Help children plan and produce a program for their parents. Spend a little time each week practicing songs, skits, or whatever interests them. (more)
OUTREACH TIP OF THE MONTH
Mary Weaver, Western Program Coordinator
One of the hardest aspects of having a Circle of ParentsŪ group is helping the community be aware of this wonderful resource. Research on community engagement notes there are three basic methods to engage your community: writing, speaking, and one-on-one conversations. 

Writing
  Writing your own articles, editorials, and such is effective for a number of reasons:
  You will have the opportunity to tell your own story in your own words.
  You will be communicating about and connecting people with the issues directly affecting the mission of your Circle of ParentsŪ group - the definition of advocacy!
  Through this communication, you will educate - a big part of the mission of just about every organization. (more)
BOOK REVIEW
BookThe Playful Parenting: A Bold New Way to Nurture Close Connections, Solve Behavior Problems, and Encourage Children's Confidence
Lawrence J. Cohen

From Amazon Reviewer Kelly:
I whole heartedly recommend this book to ALL parents. Dr. Cohen's ideas completely changed the tone of our household. We were going through a very difficult phase with our three year old that was turning into a downward spiral of negativity. Nobody liked the way things were going. We'd read a mountain of "discipline" books, none of which was helpful in our situation. (more)
ONLINE RESOURCES 
Hand in Hand Parenting 
The website, Hand in Hand Parenting, has some good articles available in both English and Spanish. They also have some inexpensive literature for sale. Additionally, they offer teleseminars that you can attend from any location, podcasts that you can download to your iPod or computer, and a Yahoo discussion group! Check it out and let us know what you think. www.handinhandparenting.org