This past spring has brought some dynamic changes in Becker County. In addition to their original Circle of ParentsŪ group in Detroit Lakes, another group opened in Frazee. This new group meets on Thursdays from 10 to 11:30 a.m. at Bethlehem Church in Frazee. Read More

While the basic concept of the talking piece is simple - speak only when the talking piece is passed to you - its impact on Circle dialogue is multifaceted and profound. The talking piece generates and then sustains an inclusive dialogue. To those who are quiet, shy, or struggling to find their voice in a group space, the talking piece offers an opportunity to share what's on their minds and hearts. Conversely, to those accustomed to asserting their views, the talking piece offers an opportunity to listen and ponder. The talking piece opens doors of communication not only outwardly among those in the Circle but also inwardly for each participant by lending a focus for inner reflection. The talking piece moves around the Circle, people listen in a heartfelt way that connects and heals. Read More

What are Chapters telling us about how to attract and retain parents to Circle of ParentsŪ support groups? What seems to be working?

Secrets of Great Parents ~ Dayle Lynn Pomerantz Published 2007 SGP Press

The author takes the reader on a journey of positive parenting from A to Love: Awareness, Balance, Communication, Discipline, Encouragement, Framework, Growth, Health, Independence, Joy, Knowledge, and Love. One of my favorite sections on positive parenting states, "Be curious, not furious. Learn to take a few seconds to think before rushing into a situation as long as it isn't dangerous. There is usually a little time to spare. Think, 'What do I want to accomplish here? What would be a positive response?' Then you will be better prepared to respond to the situation."