Riverview Estates
The Front Porch News
May 2010
Greetings!
 
The month of May is designated as Older Americans month.  As the Director of Assisted of Living, I, Eileen Della Penna, am deeply grateful to be given the duty of overseeing such a generation as this.  At Riverview Estates the senior population is extraordinary; each resident has many life stories.  There are those who endured the torture of war, and I thank them for protecting and serving our country. Some lost many family and friends to the 1918 Influenza. They all lived through the Depression.  Today's older Americans are the most adaptable generation.  Many only had outside plumbing as a child.  Television and radio were not invented yet!  I recently admitted a 95 year old resident to Assisted Living who had her laptop under her arm and was talking on her cell phone.
 
With her permission, I would like to introduce Legatha Ransom, as an example of our wonderful residents.  Legatha is a 94 year old who is very attractive with thick white hair and sparkling blue eyes.  She always has a smile, is always soft spoken, and will always ask you how you are doing. 
 
Legatha and her husband moved to Riverview in 2000.  Her husband was a chemist and worked into his eighties. Her husband, Milton, passed away in 2006; they were married almost 62 years.  Legatha always thought that when they grew to be older Americans, they would live at Riverview Estates.  Legatha said, "When my husband and I discussed actually coming here, Milton asked 'Legatha do you think we are too young to come to Assisted Living?'"  Legatha laughed out loud and said, "I was 84 and he was 86."  Mrs. Ransom was a volunteer as the President of the Auxiliary in the 1980's.  She says, "I started working in Activities and had a Trivia team which competed with other facilities, we were the best!"
 
Legatha raised 2 children and came from a big family, thus she did not start pursuing her personal interests until she was in her sixties.  She started to swim and drove across country, both in her sixties. This remarkable woman started taking flying lessons at 82.  Yes, I mean flying - an AIRPLANE!  
 
Legatha says, "There are many people who feel getting older is something to fear, but I have enjoyed each season of my life.  It is your journey."  Legatha closes with, "I have strong faith, I am not fearful, and here at Riverview Estates, I have so many spiritual and chapel opportunities."  With a smile Legatha adds, "I don't have to cook!"
 
This month remember what it means to be a courageous older American.  As you enjoy your journey, remember our doors are always open to help you along the way.
 
Eileen Della Penna, RN
Director, Assisted Living
 
In This Issue
Ask Jane
Alzheimer's Support Group
Volunteers of the Year, 2009!
Auxiliary Sales
Straberry-Radish Salad
"Ask Jane" Director of Social Services
 
Dear Jane,

My mother was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. I would like to care for her at home as long as I am able to, but I need some ideas on how to communicate better with her. Can you help me?

Signed,
Signed,  Ed from Edgewater Park

Dear Ed,
 
An important thing to remember is to use concrete words and phrases. The person afflicted with Alzheimer's disease is not going to remember multiple phrases at once so be specific say "here is your toast," instead of "it's time for breakfast."  They also tend to become more confused with multiple choices so you want to limit the number of choices in a question. For example, ask, "Would you like a glass of orange juice?" instead of, "What would you like to drink?" If she does not seem to understand the meaning of a certain word, try another word that has the same meaning.
 
Often you may want to try to use signals rather than words to express yourself. Try waving or gently touching her arm to say hello. Smile or nod to show you understand what she is saying.  You might try motioning with your hand to invite her to join you in an activity. Show her what you want. Try pointing to something in addition to naming it. Label frequently used items and photos. A picture of a toilet on the door of the bathroom is often helpful.
 
Pay attention to what is really being said. Try to understand the meaning behind what you hear. The words may not come out right, so look beyond the words she is speaking. You may try to offer suggestions and try to anticipate her needs.
 
A very important thing is to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. If you do not practice self care you will be no use to your mother. Join a support group. Find others who you can talk to. Learn what services are available to you.

 
Jane Bohn, CSW
Director of Social Services
Riverview Estates
jane@riverviewestates.org
 
 
 
If you or someone you know has a question you would like to ask Jane please email you questions to jane@riverviewestates.org  and put "ask Jane" in the subject line.  I will post a question and its response in each month's newsletter.

Alzheimer's Support Group
 
Riverview Estates offers a support group for caregivers and family of those affected by Alzheimer's disease.  This is an informal group that meets the first Wednesday of every month at 6:30pm. This group is free and provides information about the disease process, support, and services that are available. Please join us. For more information please contact Jane Bohn at (856)829-2274 ext.113 or via email at jane@riverviewestates.org
 
Congratulations to our Volunteers of the Year, 2009!
 

Charlotte & Bob

Charlotte Marant, resident volunteer of the year and Robert Maerten, community volunteer of the year, smile after receiving their awards at the annual Volunteer Appreciation Brunch at Riverview Estates. 

 
The full story of their nominations can be seen in the next edition of RiverViews, our print newsletter.  If you do not receive the RiverViews and would like to, please call Opal Vogt at 856-829-2274, ext. 150 and ask to be added to our mailing list.
 
Auxiliary Sales
 
Our next Saturday sale will be on May 15, 2010 from 10:00 am to 12:00 noon.  We call these sales our mini sales.  The next major sale is our June Fair on Saturday, June 12, 2010 from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm.  We will not have any more sales after the June Fair until August.  More details to follow.
 
We offer gently worn clothing for women and men, Attic Treasures, featuring a doll collection of great beauty, our wonderful jewelry table, boxed cards at a great price, linens and things, many books at a fantastic price and much more.
 
The women and men in our Auxiliary are hard workers and supporters.  We volunteer all hours to make sure our sales are productive and thanks to the many people, some regulars, we are helping to keep the Home functioning.  We thank those who have donated and those who will donate in the near future.  We have been able to give to the Home, over 57 years, $310,00.00 and counting. 

If you have a volunteer heart and want to help the Auxiliary achieve their goals, call the President of the Auxiliary, Mary A. Lashley at 609-315-3337 and she will get you started.  We are in need of helpers at this time.   God Bless and Thank you for your support.
 
 
Strawberry-Radish Salad
 
Fresh fruits and vegetables are tossed with a delicious fat-free lemon salad dressing for this refreshing low-calorie side dish.

Servings: 6 servings
Total: 35 mins
 
Ingredients
1 pint fresh strawberries, hulled and halved or quartered
2 oranges, peeled and sectioned
6 radishes, sliced paper thin
3 green onions, thinly bias-sliced
4 teaspoons lemon juice
1 tablespoon sugar
1 5-ounce package mesclun
No-Fat Lemon Vinaigrette
Salt (optional)
Ground black pepper (optional) 
 
Directions
1. In a medium bowl, combine strawberries, orange sections, radishes, green onions, lemon juice, and sugar. Let stand at room temperature for 10 to 15 minutes to allow flavors to blend.
2. In a large bowl, toss the mesclun with the No-Fat Lemon Vinaigrette. If desired, season to taste with salt and pepper. Arrange mesclun mixture on a serving platter. Spoon strawberry mixture on top of mesclun mixture.
3. No-Fat Lemon Vinaigrette: In a small stainless-steel saucepan, combine 1/3 cup finely chopped shallots, 1/4 cup dry white wine, 3 tablespoons sugar, 1 tablespoon rice vinegar, and 3 cloves garlic, minced. Stir in 1 teaspoon cornstarch. Cook and stir until mixture is slightly thickened and bubbly. Cook and stir for 1 minute more; cool. Stir in 1 teaspoon finely shredded lemon peel and 1/4 cup lemon juice. 
 
Nutrition Facts
Calories 99, Total Fat 0 g, Saturated Fat 0 g, Cholesterol 0 mg, Sodium 10 mg, Carbohydrate 23 g, Fiber 3 g, Protein 1 g.
Percent Daily Values are based on a 2,000 calorie diet 
 
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May Events

 

5/1 The Magic Show

5/3 Ice Cream Social

5/7 Name that Timeless Tune w/Jackie

5/8 Mother's Day Tea

5/11 Sing w/Nice n' Easy

5/11 Activity Meeting

5/12 Sing w/Jim Laurie

5/14 Food Committee Meeting

5/15 Sing w/Jerry Snyder

5/18 Birthday Party

5/19 Sing w/ Gloria Turk

5/19 Town Meeting

5/21 New Beginnings Meeting

5/21 Sing w/George Sinkler

5/22 Flower Planting

5/22 Daisy Troop Afternoon Tea

5/25 Resident Council

5/26 Sing w/James Steele

5/28 Tea Time with Eileen

5/29 SCORE Event-Freyda Thomas 
 
Wii Bowling Every Friday at 10:00 in the E-wing Living room
Eileen's Idioms
"Right off the bat"
You knew right off the bat, that David was in love with Rosie.

Meaning: immediately, spontaneously, and without delay

Origin:  This saying comes from the game of baseball in the late 1800's. 
As soon as a ball is hit by a bat, it flies away instantly, without a second's delay. 
 
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Free Lunch
Who says there's no such thing as a free lunch?  Come tour our beautiful facility and stay for lunch on us in our dining room.  For more information or to schedule your free tour and lunch, contact Jane Bohn at (856)829-2274.