Get into the right frame of mind to start purging. Tell yourself how much you'll enjoy the space you'll clear, the uncluttered look you'll uncover, the satisfaction of giving valuable items to your favourite charity. Cultivate a network of recipients for your unneeded possessions. Make regular trips to the local second hand shop to donate or sell your items. Pass along good used toys and clothing to friends with younger children. Offer books in good condition to your child's school librarian, or donate them to a hospital or daycare centre.