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August 20, 2011
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Hello all! Hope your summer is exciting, relaxing and enjoyable and thank you for opening your newsletter. If you have not yet renewed your Membership, please do so today. We need you!

If you are not yet a member of SFPRG, now is the time to do so. We are moving into an exciting period with plans to become an Institute, with all the trimmings. Be a part of this trek. Check the Membership Committee News column for info on membership.

Thank you for your interest and time and know we welcome articles for upcoming issues. If it's interesting to you, it's interesting to others!

PRESIDENT'S REPORT
 
From Steve Foreman

August 14, 2011

Dear Colleagues,

I hope you are having a wonderful summer. I would like to announce a special new addition to our Board, Rachel Fierberg. Rachel is the first non-therapist to become a Board Director. She is a Stanford MBA who has worked as a Chief Financial Officer for several California for-profit industries. Rachel wants to devote her considerable expertise to promoting a worthy non-profit organization and has chosen SFPRG to donate her time and attention. She will serve as Chair of the Fundraising Committee. I have known Rachel for many years and we are lucky to have her join us.

Several important educational programs are coming up this fall. The Post-Graduate Comprehensive Course on Control Mastery Theory is returning to San Francisco this year. (Last year, the course was offered in Berkeley.) We are planning approximately twenty class sessions beginning in early October and continuing into 2012 every Wednesday evening from 7 to 9 pm. Each class will be comprised of one didactic lecture and one hour of case conference. The core faculty will include John Gibbins, Peter Schumacher, Irwin Gootnick, and myself. You can sign up for the first 9 sessions through December, 2011 by going to SFPRG.org and registering (click the link below). The course will be a rich grounding in Control Mastery Theory, starting with an overview of the theory and presenting the Plan Formulation, the drive to Mastery, the role of Safety, the importance of Altruism and Guilt, Testing, and Research of the San Francisco Psychotherapy Research Group.

Planned topics for the Winter and Spring include Shame and Guilt, Couples, Child and Family, treating Anxiety, Dreams, Sexual Disorders, Comparative Theories, Addictions, Attachment Theory, Mentalization, and Intersubjectivity. It will be a very exciting and rewarding class, if past experience is any predictor. The faculty is terrific and the fellow students have always been quite impressive.

Conferences that are being offered this fall include Denny Zeitlin's impressive half-day seminar on Couple Therapy, November 5. We are also offering Psychotherapy Case Formulation: An Introduction to Control Mastery Theory on October 15, 2011. Larry Hetrick is offering a new case conference, Schema Therapy and Control Mastery Theory on Tuesdays from 9:30 to 10:30 in addition to the usual list of case conferences and research meetings. Please see SFPRG.org for a complete list of classes and conferences. Read On


MEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE NEWS
 
From Kathie Dunn

As you know, we are almost 2 months into our annual Membership Renewal drive. While you may have read news that we are okay financially this only means we have lowered our deficit.

Our need for your membership renewal is crucial to our future and to the satisfaction of our mission statement. Please, show the value of SFPRG to you by renewing your membership today! We are asking you to renew at the higher level of $350 if you can. We need to know that our budget can go forward through the year and your renewal is fundamental to us.

Click the link below, go to Membership, then Membership Renewal and follow the instructions for renewing your membership through our secure web site. I thank you in advance for continuing to support SFPRG, its mission and Control Mastery Theory.

Please become an SFPRG member today! Click the link below, go to Membership, then Become a Member and support an organization which helps people make a difference in how their lives are lived and how the psychotherapy community views its role in being helpers.

Other news from Membership: We have developed a plan of action to nurture the future of SFPRG through closer contact with our Clinic and Training Center Interns, past and present. A benefit of interning here is membership in SFPRG until said intern becomes licensed. We will be contacting past interns to let them know their benefit relationship with SFPRG will continue and to ask for assistance, through committee work, to continue the nurturance of SFPRG's future.

The Membership committee will also begin a more concerted effort to bring people interested in Control Mastery Theory into SFPRG, especially as we move toward becoming an Institute. We have new subscribers to this newsletter almost weekly and we are interested in how you made the choice to receive the newsletter, how you benefit and what can we do more of or better. Please contact me, kathiedunnmft@comcast.net, and tell your story. We are interested in how Control Mastery theory of psychotherapy, originated by Joe Weiss and researched by Hal Sampson and SFPRG, is disseminated, what you see as the pros and cons and how you make use of Control Mastery Theory in your lives and practices.

Best Wishes,

Kathie Dunn


CLINIC NEWS
 
From Carol Drucker

The new training year begins September 7th at the clinic. We will have our largest group of interns yet and are trying to figure out exactly how we will fit into the training room. There will be 15 trainees many of whom are either returning and/or continuing their training.

What is unique about this group is the diversity of nationalities and of degrees. We have 6 post-docs all of whom were here this past year or were trainees who have returned to get further training. These include Helga Fasching,Ph.D.; Ilysa Goldblatt, Ph.D.; Karly Kaplan, Ph.D.; Bob Nemerovski, Ph.D.; Rick Pomfret, Ph.D.;and John Synder, Ph.D. There will be 4 pre-doc interns - Laura Condylis, Reeta Herrnes and Jodi Enkstrom who are returning and Camerin Ross who is just starting. Amy Friedman, MFT will be continuing as well. There will be a new MSW student from Smith - Alyssa Bogetz.

Then we have 3 international students - Burcu Toker, who is from Turkey, just finished a masters at SF State and is staying in the area just to study with us; and Trond Amundsen and Andreas Jensen who are Ph.D. students from Norway who will be spending the year with us.

Jessica and I are very excited about the group and are so pleased to see the ways in which CM is spreading around the globe.

The training calendar is complete and I want to thank all of you who have and are going to give your time to teach and supervise our students. We would not have a training program is it were not for all of your help. Please refer patients to these talented students! Remember that our fees begin at $35/session. We can see children, adolescents, adults, couples and families.

Carol Drucker - Director of Training SFPRG Clinic


EDUCATION COMMITTEE NEWS
 
From John Gibbins

The fall class schedule is laid out on the website and mailing announcements are at the printers. We will be having our usual excellent set of weekly case conference classes in both San Francisco and the East Bay, taught by Peter Schumacher, Alan Rappaport and Norman Sohn, Steve Foreman, Carol Drucker and Michael Lowenstein. There will be a new class offered Tuesday mornings on the interface between CMT, Schema Therapy, and facets of neuropsychiatry and psychopharmacology, taught by Larry Hettrick.

In addition, we are once again offering a Post-Graduate Course on Control Mastery Theory, this year in San Francisco, on Wednesday nights. This course is structured as past courses have been, with two hour sessions divided between a didactic portion and a case conference portion. In the fall, the course will teach basic CMT concepts, and in the spring, special topics will be addressed, with many SFPRG members being invited to teach topics of interest to them.

Our Saturday workshops in the fall include an introductory class, titled "Psychotherapy Case Formulation," with an emphasis on that facet of the basic theory, and Denny Zeitlin's course on Couple Therapy.


FIRST ANNUAL HONORARY FUNDRAISING DINNER
 
From Steve Foreman

First Honorary Fundraising Dinner

We are beginning a new tradition of honoring members who have made significant and meaningful contributions to SFPRG whether it be through teaching, doing research, giving workshops, presenting at conferences, supervising, administering programs, or promoting Control Mastery Theory and the mission of SFPRG. We want this event to be a yearly opportunity for old and new friends to socialize, to appreciate each other, and to recognize important work that many people have made to our group. We also hope this event will raise some money for SFPRG as well as raise the profile of what our group is doing and what individuals have done for SFPRG.

This year, our first Honorary Fundraising Dinner will recognize two old friends and long standing major contributors to SFPRG, Suzanne Gassner Ph.D. and Irwin Gootnick, MD. We will be honoring Suzanne and Irwin at dinner at Quan Bac restaurant at 4112 Geary Street between 5th and 6th Avenues on October 1, 2011 at 6:30 pm. The cost of the dinner will be $75 per person, proceeds going to SFPRG. Registration will be through brown paper tickets.com. Reservations and payment can be made by clicking the link below: http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/193661 Read On


REVIEW OF MARSHAL BUSH'S "PSYCHOLOGY OF THE ARTIST SERIES: MATISSE
 
From Eric Taggart

Marshall Bush's Psychology of the Artist Series - Matisse

On July 22nd we had our second session of Dr. Marshall Bush's "Psychology of the Artist Series." We were filled to capacity with around 30 attendees who came out to hear Marshall and Dr. Stan Steinberg speak about Matisse and his work.

Along with Picasso and Duchamp, Matisse is considered one of the pioneers of the revolutionary changes in art in the 20th century. At his father's encouragement Matisse had initially gone into law, passing the bar with distinction and taking a clerking position which his father had arranged. It appears that his mother was more supportive of his creativity, and within a couple of years, Matisse became completely consumed by painting. Much to his father's chagrin he changed professions: "From the moment I held the box of colors in my hands, I knew this was my life. I threw myself into it like a beast that plunges towards the thing it loves." And to his fiancée who would become his wife, he issued the warning: "I love you dearly mademoiselle; but I shall always love painting more."

The talk was full of insights into the heart and mind of Matisse, and included some entertaining stories from Stan, who enjoyed many years of friendship with Sarah Stein, one of Matisse's major patrons and artistic confidants. There was lots of audience participation at the talk, and feedback from attendees was very positive.

Prior to the discussion the attendees were shown a slideshow of 100 paintings and 25 sculptures and then filled out a corresponding questionnaire. The same questionnaire was completed again at the end of the talk following another viewing of Matisse's work. The questionnaire investigates how appreciation of an artist is affected by increased historical and psychobiographical information.

For those interested in Matisse, Picasso, the Steins, or the Parisian Avant-Garde, be sure to check out the Stein Collect exhibition at the SFMOMA on display through Sept 6th. It's an exceptional exhibition that was four years in the making and includes an unusual amount of biographical and historical information.

Our next meeting in the series will be Oct 14th from 5:30-8:30. We will be looking at the life and work of figurative artist Modigliani. Our guest speaker is SFPRG Clinic Executive Director and talented artist, Dr. Jessica Broitman.

-Eric Taggart


WHAT ARE YOU READING? "Altruism, Aggression and Oxytocin"
 
From Steve Foreman

Altruism, Aggression and Oxytocin

Altruism is a very central notion in Control Mastery Theory. Altruism influences how individuals hold themselves back from pursuing healthy developmental goals because of guilt and worry about how that progress might deleteriously affect parents and other family members. Many in our research group have promoted the idea that there is an evolutionary, biologic basis for altruism. (See Michael Friedman: "Toward a Reconceptualization of Guilt", 1985; Lynn O'Connor: "Pathogenic beliefs and guilt in human evolution", 2002; Steve Foreman: Breaking The Spell, 2009, and Heather Clague: "Evolution of Human Cooperation as Applied to Therapy and Relationships", 2010).

Some have doubted whether altruism could be evolutionarily determined. Others have struggled with the idea that humans can be both altruistic at times and murderous at others. These discussions of the evolutionary determinants of human behavior often get muddied with notions of morality and values. For example, if we feel that helping neighbors is good and killing them is bad, how can we say that humans are both good and bad if we believe humans are genetically programmed to do both? Evolutionary forces don't usually conform to a feel-good narrative of human morality, only the story of what leads to the survival of one gene or set of genes over another. How can people be so fundamentally helpful and hurtful to other people at the same time?

Richard Dawkins (The Selfish Gene, 30th edition, 2006) noted, "Often altruism within one group goes with selfishness between group . Young men are expected to die as individuals for the greater glory of their country as a whole. Moreover, they are encouraged to kill other individuals about whom nothing is known except that they belong to a different nation." (p.9) Read On


ART SERIES
 
From Marshall Bush

I wanted to let you know that the discussion group on the art and psychology of Modigliani has been rescheduled to Oct. 14. The original date of Sept. 23 conflicts with the Society for Psychotherapy Research Conference in Banff. (Please consider going.) The discussion on Modigliani will meet in the conference room at 9 Funston Ave. from 5:30 to 8:30. Bring a bag dinner. The meetings are informal and fun. The featured speaker is Dr. Jessica Broitman, one of SFPRG's many talented artists. Contact me if you have any questions or are planning to attend. Thanks, Marshall Bush


PLEASE DONATE TO INTERNS
 
From Helga Fasching

COMPUTER, MONITOR, AND PRINTER NEEDED

As you know, we will be 15 interns starting in September. Up until now, the interns have used Rob Petitpas' office to gather, to do their work, to chat, and to exchange ideas. However, 15 people are a few too many to descend on Rob's office on a regular basis, and we would like to use the conference room at 9 Funston as an "intern lounge." For this reason, we, the interns, will gladly accept the following donations:

· One not-too-dated computer (laptop or desktop)

· One monitor

· One printer

· Monetary donations to purchase paper and cartridges

· Side tables

· Rugs

· Very small desk

· Table lamps

Please email or call me, if you are willing to donate. You do not know how much the new group of interns will appreciate your generosity! Thank you.

Helga Fasching

415.677.7946 ext. 5

helga.p.fasching@gmail.com


1ST ANNUAL ART PARTYand AUCTION
 
From Eric Taggart

SFPRG Art Party and Auction - December 3rd Mark your calendars for the upcoming SFPRG Art Party and Auction on Saturday, December 3rd. We are very pleased to announce that the Weiss family will be donating one of Joe's original paintings to be auctioned off at this event. There is a lot of excitement among the board members for this fundraiser, and we look forward to broad artist participation and a large turnout. The show will include both Funston buildings and we expect well upwards of 40 pieces of all sizes and mediums. Invitations to SFPRG artists (of whom we're aware) will be in the mail shortly. More information will follow in upcoming newsletters. This will be a great opportunity to see the work of our colleagues and make some tax-deductible holiday purchases that support the mission of SFPRG. Expect food. Expect drink. Expect good art and great fun!!!

Contact erictaggart@gmail.com to participate or for more information.


OFFICE SUBLET IN SAN FRANCISCO
 
From Irwin Gootnick

Very lovely, desirable psychotherapy office available full or part time near the corner of 6th Ave and California Street. This is a central location for 3 MUNI bus lines or shopping on Clement / Geary Streets, with plenty of meterless street parking. The building is all psychotherapy offices, all with sound-insulated double doors and front door security locks. There is a waiting room with a bathroom for clients. The office is12.5x13.5 and is in the back of the building so there is no street noise. It is very bright.

You have the option of subletting. If you need furniture, the current beautiful furnishings belong to a prior leaseholder who is happy to leave them there to provide continuity of use by other therapists. The room furnishings include five two-drawer steel file cabinets with separate locks for confidential records. Contact Irwin Gootnick directly at 415-221-5204. or igootnick@aol.com

California Street at 6th Ave (google map) (yahoo map)


OFFICE SUBLET IN KENTFIELD
 
From Harriette Grooh

PSYCHOTHERAPY OFFICE FOR SUB-LET

SUITE 100, ROOM 7

1030 SIR FRANCIS DRAKE BOULEVARD

KENTFIELD, CA 94904

AVAILABLE BY THE DAY: MONDAY, TUESDAY, THURSDAY, and FRIDAY* $220 / month / day

The building is centrally located in Marin near the College of Marin. It is a beautifully maintained one-story, accessible professional building with private parking lot. The suites are designed for use by psychotherapists. Features include a waiting room with call lights, piped sound in the common areas, private bathroom for tenants, secure separate entrance, and micro-wave / refrigerator. This office is large, tastefully furnished, and includes a landline phone. The arrangement comfortably accommodates four to five persons: two reclining leather chairs w/ ottomans, one loveseat, a desk and chair.

Sub-tenant should be licensed and have proof of professional liability insurance.

*Sorry, partial days or hourly rents are not available.

Please contact:

Harriette Grooh, PhD

EXCHANGE: 415-924-8311

CELL: 415-686-7262

EMAIL: hgroohhga@cs.com


Cont'd: President's Report
 

Another new event this Fall will be our first annual Honorary Award and Fundraising Dinner. This year we are honoring two long-standing members of the SFPRG community, Suzanne Gassner, Ph.d and Irwin Gootnick, M.D., who have made major contributions by teaching workshops, writing, lecturing, and doing research. On October 1, 2011, we are having a dinner open to SFPRG members and those to want to recognize our honorees at Quan Bac, 4112 Geary Blvd, starting at 6:30 pm. Please see a separate column in this newsletter for more information about this event.

Every year we plan to honor those who have contributed to SFPRG by teaching, doing research, writing, supervising, administering programs, and promoting the theory and the organization. We are charging a little more than the cost of the meals to raise some money for our group as well as offering an opportunity for old friends to get together and appreciate one another. Please come and support Suzanne and Irwin, the research group, and each other.

We are also still planning our Art Party Fundraiser on December 3. We hope to have a fun social event where people can come and talk, appreciate art, and appreciate artists who are mostly members of SFPRG. This is also a fun fundraising event. Artists will be asked to contribute a certain amount in order to show their work and possibly sell their wares. We are also asking for a small donation for art-lovers to pay at the door. A special event this year will be an auction of a special piece of art from Joe Weiss, graciously donated by his family. The proceeds will go completely to SFPRG. It should be a very exciting and satisfying event.

Best wishes for a terrific Labor Day and end of summer. I look forward to talking with you in September.

Steve Foreman


Cont'd: Honorary Dinner Fundraiser
 

Suzanne is a Training and Supervising Psychoanalyst at the Institute for Contemporary Psychoanalysis as well as at the San Francisco Psychoanalytic Institute. She is an Associate Clinical Professor in the Graduate Department of Psychology at the University of California at Berkeley. She has had numerous other faculty positions and many academic awards including election to Phi Beta Kappa as well as to National Honor Societies in Science and in Psychology.

Suzanne has extensive experience as a researcher. She was a Research Psychologist at the Department of Psychiatry at Mount Zion Hospital from 1975 to 1990 and was a principal co-investigator on a Chapman Research Grant. She has been an active, contributing member of the San Francisco Psychotherapy Research Group since 1975. She has co-authored one book on Competency-Based education and over 20 articles and chapters on a wide variety of subjects including child psychotherapy, child development, unconscious guilt, supervision, and the process of psychotherapy. She co-authored two chapters in Joe and Hal's 1986 book, The Psychoanalytic Process.

Suzanne has presented at numerous major conferences relating Control Mastery Theory to Self Psychology, Intersubjectivity, Psychoanalytic Theory, Survivor Guilt, Trauma, and many other subjects. She has presented with Joe Weiss and Hal Sampson many times and has been a regular fixture at the yearly International Conferences on Control Mastery Theory in March presenting on comparative theories and Control Mastery Theory.

Irwin Gootnick, MD is a psychoanalyst who graduated from the San Francisco Psychoanalytic Institute in 1979. He is an Associate Clinical Professor at the University of California, San Francisco. He has been a member of the San Francisco Psychotherapy Research Group since 1979 where he participated in research on the psychotherapeutic process.

Irwin has published several articles on the treatment of schizophrenic patients, as well as "The problem of treating an intensely suffering patient: To gratify or frustrate," in The Psychoanalytic Review, 1982. He has also published two popular books, Why You Behave in Ways You Hate and What You Can Do About It, PenMarin Books, 1997, and Self Help For Smarties, PenMarin Books, 2007. He was a solo guest on the Oprah Winfrey Show discussing his first book.

Irwin has been a great teacher of Control Mastery Theory. He offered a case conference for many years introducing Control Mastery Theory to third year psychiatric residents at UCSF for which he won the best teacher of the year award twice. He then taught a case conference at the California Pacific Medical Center for another decade for which again he won the best teacher of the year for three of those years.

Irwin has been a workhorse at SFPRG, teaching workshops on the treatment of difficult patients for many years at the yearly International Conferences on Control Mastery Theory. He has also played a large role teaching in the yearlong course, New Directions In Control Mastery Theory in 2009-10 and is a major contributor in the 2011-12 Post-Graduate Certificate Course, A Comprehensive Course on Control Mastery Theory.

I have been honored to participate with Suzanne and Irwin over the years, teaching and presenting together, and I have been in the audience at numerous events where they have been speakers. It will be a pleasure to recognize both of them at our first Honorary Fundraising Dinner in October. Please join us in recognizing Suzanne and Irwin, supporting SFPRG, and enjoying a wonderful dinner together.

Steve Foreman


Cont'd: What are you reading?
 

It has long seemed to me that if altruism is genetic and evolutionarily based, it would be felt and practiced by individuals at the level of the tribe, the unit of population in which humans have been organized for most of our developmental history. Furthermore, altruism towards members of our family, tribe, or clan must go hand in hand with the capacity to be aggressive to those who are in the next family, tribe, or clan who threaten our land, food, mates and children. With this perspective, there is no contradiction between our human ability to love and protect our loved ones while at the same time plunder, murder, and rape our more distant neighbors. These capacities are in all of us and have always been used through human history to protect and preserve one's own people and to kill the "other".

The interesting question is how do we determine who "we" are versus the "other". Just as Noam Chomsky said that humans are all genetically equipped to learn language but not necessarily any particular language, we are all equipped to identify with some group, but not necessarily a particular group. Some of us define our group more universally, some more narrowly. Some see all of humanity as our "brothers and sisters." Others see only our racial or national group. Some are vegetarians because they have compassion for all animals. Some omnivores feel compassion for the animals they eat but have equal compassion for the vegetables.

We see historically how sophisticated, cosmopolitan cities such as Beirut, where neighbors could live together successfully for hundreds of years can become violence-torn war zones where neighbors can kill each other because of ethnic or religious differences. This same story gets repeated in almost every region, in every culture, in every era. People can live together with love and cooperation and then shift to vicious mutual destruction. Even married couples who are making love one day can be betraying and killing each other the next.

Despite the compelling logic of such a biologically based phenomenon where members of one tribe or ethnic group could love, affiliate, be compassionate, and sacrifice for each other while hating, killing, raping, and stealing land from the members of the next group, certain questions remained unanswered. The most difficult question is what is the mechanism? How could such complex behaviors be biologically based and transmitted through the genes?

The Role of Oxytocin

Recently, there have been a raft of articles appearing about the role of the hormone oxytocin. Oxytocin is a neuropeptide, closely related to vasopressin, produced in the hypothalamus and released to the posterior lobe of the pituitary. (See Neumann, "Brain Oxytocin, A key regulator of emotional and social behaviors in both females and males", Journal of Neuroendocrinology 20, 2008.)

Oxytocin has long been known to be a hormone involved in childbirth and lactation. It dampens the amygdala's response to fear (Carter, The Human Brain Book, 2009). It promotes anxiety relief and protection from stress. Bowlby noted that when babies cry, there is a release of maternal oxtocin, the milk "let-down factor" that stimulates the release of breast milk. He used this observation to illustrate that "attachment" is a genetic, biologically based phenomenon, a primary human motivation that went far beyond Freud's mechanistic hypotheses that love was merely derivative of tension-reduction (Bowlby, Separation, 1972).

Oxytocin in also known to be released in men and women during orgasm. It is thought to be a strong modulator of attachment between men and women in loving relationships and between parent and children. Oxytocin promotes monogamous pair-bonding in mammals. It has been known as the "feel-good" hormone that seems to be at the core of much attachment bonding in the family. It also promotes empathy and social bonding.

There is literature on the role of oxytocin in trauma. Not only does oxytocin help mothers forget the pain of childbirth, there is evidence that oxytocin facilitates bonding between women and their abusive fathers and husbands (Descilo, "Understanding and treating traumatic bonds", 2009; Taylor et. al., "Biobehavioral Responses to stress in females: Tend-and befriend, not fight-or-flight", Psychological Review, in press).

In addition to its affiliative effects, it is known to result in aggressive behavior in lactating mothers to potential threats toward their babies. (See Lawson, "Neural Correlates of Coalitionary and Violent Behavior Tendencies", May, 2010)

Two very interesting studies have been published by Carsten De Drew from the University of Amsterdam ("The Neuropeptide Oxytocin Regulates Parochial Altruism in Intergroup Conflict Among Humans", Science, 2010; "Oxytocin Promotes human Ethnocentrism", Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 2011).

In the first study, the authors presented data that subjects were likely to distribute money to people in the experimental "in-group" versus the "out-group" after inhaling oxytocin. In a second study published this year, Dutch subjects were asked to press a key in response to Dutch, German, or Muslim sounding names. Under the influence of inhaled oxytocin, subjects favored the "in-group" (Dutch names) again at the expense of the Muslim or German names. Similarly, in answer to questions of who they would help in an overloaded lifeboat, or to potential victims of an oncoming train, subjects were more likely to save the Dutch sounding names rather than the Muslim names, under the influence of recently inhaled oxytocin. The authors concluded that oxytocin enhanced ethnocentric discrimination.

Shamay-Tsoory and colleagues at the University of Haifa found that inhalation of oxytocin increased envy and gloating in subjects who had either lost or gained money in an experimental game of chance. (Shamay-Tsoory, et. al., Intranasal Administration of Oxytocin Increases Envy and Schadenfreude (Gloating), Epigenetics and Suicide, Nov. 2009).

Another study looked at oxytocin and singing, showing that professional and amateur singers had increased levels of oxytocin after a singing lesson. (Grape, et. al., "Does singing promote well being? An empirical study of professional and amateur singers during a singing lesson," Integr Physical Behavioral Science, Jan-Mar, 2003.)

De Drew and other authors argue that oxytocin in increased in any activity where people get together in groups including pep rallies, soccer games, concerts, military gatherings, and church gatherings. Singing and music are often integral to social gatherings. Grape et. al.'s study supports the role of oxytocin with regard to music which complements the view of oxytocin as central to group affiliative feelings in social gatherings. It seems that oxytocin may play an integral biological role in social events that enhance tribal or intergroup cohesion and that may also lead to intertribal conflict or aggression.

The brain is a very complex organ and there are a multitude of hormonal and neurochemical influences on human behavior. It is simplistic to suggest that one hormone rules all social behaviors. But it is instructive how certain behaviors that are directly influenced by oxytocin are actually not so disparate but may be fundamentally connected - sex, falling in love, monogamy, familial bonding, group affiliation, attachment to abusers, loyalty, self-sacrifice, discrimination, aggression in protection of children, ethnocentrism, and violence against "others". This gives a more compelling view of how altruism can be adaptive to the survival of the certain genes or gene clusters. It makes sense that altruism toward the family, the clan, and the tribe is intimately associated with discrimination and aggression toward others outside the family, the clan, and the tribe. The role of oxytocin gives a likely mechanism whereby this natural human tendency to promote the family at the expense of the "other" can be effected.

This morally perplexing dual nature of man was clearly laid out by Rheinhold Niebuhr, a theologian and political philosopher, in his wonderful book Moral Man and Immoral Society (1932). (Niebuhr, by the way, was credited as the author of the Serenity Prayer, "God grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things that I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.")

In "Moral Man and Immoral Society", Niebuhr wrote that a man can be moral and altruistic to others acting as an individual but could not do so when acting as part of a group. He wrote, "Individual men may be moral in the sense that they are able to consider interests other than their own They are endowed by nature with a measure of sympathy and consideration for their kind . But all these achievements are more difficult, if not impossible for human societies and social groups. In every human group there is less reason to guide and to check impulse, less capacity for self-transcendence, less ability to comprehend the needs of others, and therefore more unrestrained egoism than the individuals, who comprise the group, reveal in their personal relationship" (pp xi-xii).

Niebuhr went on to say, ""Man is endowed by nature with organic relations with his fellow-men; and natural impulse prompts him to consider the needs of others even when they compete with his own. With the higher mammals, man shares concern for his offspring . Since those early days the units of human cooperation have constantly grown in size, and the areas of significant relationships between the units have likewise increased. Nevertheless conflict between the national units remains as a permanent rather than a passing characteristic of their relations to each other; and each national unit finds it increasingly difficult to maintain either peace or justice within its common life." (pp. 2-4) Steve Foreman



Thank you all for your interest in Control Mastery theory, SFPRG, our Clinic and Training Center. Please respond to any of the articles and/or write a piece on a topic that interests you.

Sincerely,

9 & 10 Funston Ave, The Presidio
SFPRG and Kathie Dunn, MFT
San Francisco Psychotherapy Research Group, Clinic and Training Center

Phone: 415-561-6771