San Francisco Psychotherapy Research Group, Clinic and Training Center Newsletter
Issue #20
January 21, 2008
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EDUCATION COMMITTEE CORNER
 
From Patsy Wood

To all interested SFPRG members and Control Mastery therapists and interns:

We are a group of Control Mastery therapists and interns who are planning a workshop for the March workshop that focuses on multicultural issues and Control Mastery theory. In an effort to gather information from our membersand newsletter readers about your cultural background and those of your clients, we have created the survey which can accessed by clicking on the link below.

We would appreciate you taking 10-15 minutes of your time to fill this survey out. All of your input will be completely anonymous and that will provide some preliminary information about our membership and readership and the diversity of clients that we treat.

We also hope that this survey will demonstrate how many of us are working with diverse clients which is valuable information for us as a group as well as important for our accrediation to provide Continuing Education credits as well. Click on the link provided at the bottom for the survey and follow its simple format.

We really appreciate your help in this effort and plan to share the results in an upcoming newsletter. We also hope you all have a healthy and happy 2008.

Sincerely, Patsy Wood; Emily Barrett; Claire Arbour; Beth Kita; Amy Basford


TRAINING PROGRAM CORNER
 
From Barbara Sapienza

Would you like to hear our up-coming events in the training program?

We are off to a good start with Alan Rappoport leading the morning seminar for January. For the next two weeks a former intern, Trevor Graham Ph. D., will return to present on DBT, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, a treatment that has been especially successful in treating adolescents and is amenable to group work. We are pleased to welcome a former intern as a teacher.Read On


RESEARCH CORNER
 
From Marshall Bush

I have a book recommendation: The Political Brain by Drew Westen. Westen is the most savy psychoanalytic political strategist I have ever come across. His book not only clearly analyzes the unconscious emotional appeals Republicans make to people's unconscious fears and prejudices and pathogenic beliefs, he also has wonderful advice for all of us on how to fight back in all areas of our lives, including our inner worlds.


ANNOUNCEMENTS
 

Anyone interested in offering their time as a supervisor at the March workshop on Thursday afternoon from 3:15 to 4:30 should contact Jessica Broitman right away so she can put you on the schedule. Also anyone who plans to attend and would like supervision, please let Jessica know as well. She can be reached at drjess@comcast.net.

PARENTING SERIES: Dr. Mary Sparks is presenting on Jan. 23rd at the Swedenborgen Church at 7pm. Here is a description of her topic: Worry and Anxiety--How They Impact Parents and Kids

Children as well as parents are deeply affected by anxiety and worry. These emotions are often misunderstood and misinterpreted by other members of the family. We will discuss what anxiety and worry looks like in children and teens and how parental worry is often experienced as highly critical by children. Time will be provided for questions.

The Institute of Contemporary Psychoanalysis presents:

A THERAPIST'S EMOTIONAL VULNERABILITY: ENVY, SHAME AND HUMILIATION

Presented by Lynne Jacobs and Donna Orange

Saturday, April 5, 2008 from 9:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

UCSF Laurel Heights Conference Center

3333 California Street, San Francisco

Jane Jordan, ICP North Coordinator

415-931-5730


OPINION PARAGRAPHS
 

Another perspective on our research: I enjoyed reading George Silberschatz's discussion of research in the context of our research group, although he seemed to hold the misconception that research, excitement about research, is a thing of the past. Upon reading George's discussion, one might get the impression that we haven't been doing research in recent years or right now, when in fact we have had, and still have a highly developed and rather passionate program of research, including the important ingredients George discussed, that is focus, leadership and collaboration. In a following article, I describe the history and current state of our program of research, and extend an invitation to members of the SFPRG to participate in our studies.

Lynn E. O'Connor, Ph.D.

Professor; The Wright Institute

Associate Clinical Professor; UC Berkeley

Director; Emotion, Personality & Altruism Research Group URL: www.eparg.org

Phone: (415) 821-4760 E-mail: lynnoc@aol.com


CO-NARCISSISM, PART THREE
 
From Alan Rappoport

The following is Part 3 of our serialization of Alan Rappoport's article, Co-Narcissism: How We Accommodate to Narcissistic Parents. Please see previous issues of the Newsletter for the preceding parts of the article, or view the whole article by clicking on the link just below.

Psychotherapy

Co-narcissistic people automatically and unconsciously assume that everyone is narcissistic. They have the same fear about the therapist, but are able to enter treatment because they also believe that the therapist may be different. The most significant aspect of co-narcissistic patients' work in therapy consists of determining to what degree the therapist is narcissistic. We might even say that the therapy consists of helping the patient develop confidence that the therapist is not narcissistic. It is powerfully healing for the patient to experience a relationship that is not based on narcissism. Co-narcissistic people are therefore greatly helped by the therapist's embodiment of Carl Rogers' principles of accurate empathy, interpersonal warmth and positive regard, and personal genuineness. Read On


A CONTROL MASTERY PROGRAM OF RESEARCH
 
From Lynn O'Connor

Editor's note: You can access the website Lynn refers to in her article by clicking on the link below.

The following is a brief description of our research, from 1989 through our current studies. In 1989, I was reviewing all the psychotherapy "plan formulations" I could get my hands on. I think I read about 8-10 written formulations and what struck me was that despite our claiming every therapy is "case specific," the plan formulations were all essentially the same. Underlying the patient's problems, survivor and separation guilt were identified. (I have come to think it is the treatments that are case specific, not the plan formulations).

I originally come from a sociology/anthropology research background therefore the methods in those fields, and in social-personality psychology are familiar and even natural to my thinking. From this, I began to think about testing our major constructs using different methods than had been used before, in the history of research of the SFPRG. Furthermore, I observed that many of our publications were in psychoanalytic journals, with a few others in prestigious psychology research journals that are not read by many people. Having noted that a major construct in our theory and practice is empathy-based interpersonal guilt, with a primary focus on survivor guilt, I decided to try to find a way to measure this construct, and get studies going using this measure. I aimed to get our theory, that is our theoretical ideas, out in the larger world of psychology, and beyond that, the world at large, by making it possible to study this construct in a popular way. We were using a new paradigm, with altruism at its center, and it was important to get this out. Read On


Con't: Training Center Corner
 

Denny Zeitlan will then present for two weeks on group therapy utilizing his experience both in CM theory and group therapy, as well. We have three interns who will consult with him about beginning a group within the framework of their internship. We hope to get a group started with supervision from members of our community.

In February Marcia Herman will pick up the morning case seminar for the month. Afternoon didactics are 13th February with couples therapists Chris Armstrong and Lou Dangles, followed by Marshall Bush who will do two weeks on Dreams from a Control Mastery perspective leading us into the March workshop.

We have enjoyed Jan Martin, our Norwegian intern who finished on 20 December 07. We celebrated his experience and our group with a lunch at my house. We look forward to news of him from the Norwegian contingency.

To date we are low in number of referrals. November and December were especially slow, although referrals are beginning to come in now. Please remember us. We have a talented and eager group of interns who want to work. And a great group of supervisors, as well. We wish you a happy new year. Barbara


Con'td: Co-Narcissism
 

These behaviors by the therapist provide a direct contradiction to the experiences that have caused their problems. Patients will seek to determine how safe they are not to accommodate their behavior to the therapist's imagined needs, but to be able to experience and express themselves freely. The patient will carefully observe the therapist's behavior and make judgments about how much the therapist is able to consider the needs of the patient and how open he or she is to the patient's experience. The patient will also want to see that the therapist is not co-narcissistic, so that the patient can use the therapist as a model who shows by example that she or he believes it is safe to be assertive and not to orient oneself around another's needs. The patient will therefore observe the therapist for signs of how assertive he or she is, and also pay attention to examples the therapist may provide from his or her own life to assess how free of co-narcissism the therapist may be.

In addition to the beneficial effect of the relationship between therapist and patient, a major part of the therapy process involves understanding how events and experiences in patients' early lives resulted in their current fears, inhibitions, and orientation towards others. I find it very helpful in my work as a therapist to explain narcissism and co- narcissism to my patients. Having an intellectual understanding of the nature of the problem goes a great distance towards helping them make sense of their lives and why their relationships take on the characteristics that they do. It also gives us a framework within which we can discuss the issues of concern to them, and helps them understand what to work on to free themselves from these problems. A description of my own theoretical approach can be found in the books, Transformative Relationships (Silberschatz, 2005) and How Psychotherapy Works (Weiss, 1993).

Narcissistic people seek therapy much less frequently than those who are primarily co- narcissistic, and are more difficult to help. Their deep- seated conviction of their own worthlessness, and their strong defenses against the therapist discovering this "truth" about them, makes it difficult for them to feel safe with the therapist and to benefit from the therapeutic relationship. The therapist also has to cope with the patient's poor ability to empathize with the therapist. This lack of empathy is manifest in a variety of inconsiderate behaviors, and can challenge the therapist's ability to maintain a good sense of self-esteem. Narcissistic people, compared to co-narcissistic people, are therefore less personally satisfying for the therapist to work with when they do seek treatment. They are also less professionally rewarding to work with because of their difficulty in engaging in the therapeutic process. Treating them empathically, helping them to feel safer to empathize with others, not losing self-esteem in the face of inconsiderate behavior by the patient, and expressing one's own experience as appropriate are all important elements in working with narcissistic people. (Once, when I told a narcissistic patient of mine that her criticisms of me were hurting my feelings, she was astonished. She said that she had no idea that her behavior had any effect on anyone. She became much kinder towards me following that interaction.) As with the co-narcissistic person, helping the person to gain an understanding of the origins of their problems (usually identification with a narcissistic parent) can also be very useful.


Con't: A Control Mastery Perspective of Research
 

We set about constructing our measure of empathy-based guilt including survivor, omnipotent, and separation guilt. We added in a subscale of "self hate" as an indirect measure of depression. Joe Weiss, Hal Sampson, and Marshall Bush all worked on this project, providing numerous potential items, representing statements that their highly guilt-prone patients had said over their years in practice, using our paradigm. These statements became items on the Interpersonal Guilt Questionnaire (IGQ). Jack Berry and I worked on putting the measure together, testing out each item we had been given in a series of pilot studies which some of you worked on, that is handling the test construction issues. Jack is a specialist in test construction by the way. This then was the beginning of a highly focused research program, with empathy- based guilt in the center. Many of you have been involved in this work, and I hope you know how much we have appreciated your contributions.

Before I mention many of the studies that have been done since the mid 90s to the present day, let me report that our tactics have worked, in an escalating way; the more studies out there, the more publications (and I have not been able to totally keep up with everything published), the more we get requests for permission to use our guilt measure, on a weekly basis. We have numerous studies going on all over the world, and this includes studies conducted by dissertation students, other programs of research, larger entities like hospitals and divisions of governments. To use our measure means becoming familiar with the primacy of empathy-based interpersonal guilt, that is at the heart of our theory of people's problems and how to treat them. Bill Meehan did the first study using the measure, as he was trying to find out if women in recovery from chemical dependency were more guilt-prone than were men. They were, and both were more guilt-prone than were people in a community group. By the way, us therapists were also found to be highly guilt-prone in one of our pilot studies, using ourselves as the subjects.

Many dissertations using the IGQ have been carried out -far too many to list here, suffice it to say, we now have empirical evidence that survivor guilt is significantly associated with depression (including hospitalized depressed patients,) anxiety, addiction, procrastination, OCD, Neuroticism, perfectionism, and other specific problems. Perhaps most intriguing is that we recently discovered using a new measure of altruistic behavior, that survivor guilt is uniquely associated with kindness to strangers. In addition, in an experiment carried out by a student of David Sloan Wilson (an evolutionary biologist) in David's lab, in which students were playing one of the economic games, they found that our subscale of survivor guilt was the only measure that significantly predicted cooperative behavior in the games. That is, students who were higher in this subscale, were more cooperative with partners, when playing this game. What this means when seen from a evolutionary perspective is that while survivor guilt may have deleterious effects on the individual, or in "within group competition" it may be a motivator for cooperation, and therefore it may have a positive effect in "between group" competition. An aside, from this description, you can see that we are collaborating with other labs, with scientists from other disciplines, and from other locations.

Our research program has not just involved using the IGQ. We have also conducted psychotherapy studies that need to be mentioned. Nnamdi Pole conducted a dissertation at UCB in which he replicated Polly Fretter's dissertation on the effects of therapists' interpretations on patient progress, only Nnamdi not only audio recorded all 16 sessions, but in addition he video taped, and gathered physiological data such as heart rate, skin conductivity and movement. Nnamdi's results are slowly being published. Nnamdi's study was carried out in Bob Levenson's lab at UCB, but George, Joe, Polly and I were all very involved in the research. Any publications related to this work should be in the office, and listed in our list of publications.

Finally, in the initial formation of the training clinic, we established a solid program integrating research with clinical work. We started our clinic and training program with Jessica, Gilbert Newman and myself. I was both clinical and research director (we were short handed then, to be sure) and we decided the program would not begin, i.e. our students would not see one patient, until we had a research component in place. Jane Weisbin decided (and was willing) to make the first year (or more) of this project her dissertation, and she took the lead in carrying out the study. We ended up with three years of data, including weekly use of the Lambert Outcome Questionnaire, providing us with a week-by-week picture of how things were going, from the client's perspective. Jane presented the first year of findings to the research group in a Saturday meeting of the March Workshop, and then she presented the findings of the first year at the APA meetings in Hawaii. Jane is now analyzing the whole data set, including all three years, and writing it up for publication.

All of these studies mentioned are related to our program of research and whenever we have a large study underway there is an air of promise and excitement. With Jack Berry as Co-Director, I direct a lab, housed at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, the Emotion, Personality & Altruism Research Group (URL: www.eparg.org) whose work is deeply connected to the SFPRG, although located at the Wright Institute, where the SFPRG training program and clinic first functioned. Joe Weiss was a founding member of EPARG. We are involved with students - many whom are members of the SFPRG, and seasoned clinicians from around the Bay Area, and some from other countries and cultures. We continue to study guilt; currently we are looking at the adaptive purpose of survivor guilt, and are carrying out experimental studies of survivor guilt in "normal life", with amazing results. (To see an example, go to www.eparg.org and then go to "current studies" and look at the study "Life in the Office." If you look at each condition, you will see the experimental design.

Members of the SFPRG are invited to participate in our studies. As a research component of SFPRG, we invite everyone to join us in however you can or want to. Students are invited to consider doing their dissertations with us -with the understanding that they become the PI (lead investigator) of the study, and of course first author of any publication coming out of the study. We have an elaborate online system by which we collect data, we have UCB undergraduates working with us, in a program I conduct along with Steve Hinshaw, Chair of the Psych Department at UCB, called "Research from the Eye of the Clinician."

We are lively, alive and kicking and have been since 1989. The ideas of this group have inspired and continue to inspire numerous research projects, and programs of research. I thank Joe, Hal, Marshall, George, John, and everyone else involved, for setting the SFPRG off in the research direction. We want and need our younger, newer members to come forward, and take up leadership of studies. We know that up and coming generations are the life-blood of viable research groups and programs. Students, please contact us if you are interested in working with us.



See you at the March Workshop and if you haven't gone over your information for the new Directory please take the time to finish that up for Rob at the office.


Kathie Dunn MFT, Editor
San Francisco Psychotherapy Research Group, Clinic and Training Center

Phone: 415-561-6771
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