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It's here! An eight-session workshop for parents of kids with special needs!  Let me share with you what this video series is and what it is not:

 

It is something very unique! Mike and I have been in the world of "special needs" for 25 years and we have found that practical biblical help for special families is rare.

 

It is not your basic support group, where parents can leave the discussion groups feeling more depressed than when they arrived!

 

It is real people sharing from their hearts. No one who interviewed or spoke on the videos was coached about what to say beyond the main topic they were presenting.

 

It is not, alas, a professional job in videography. But we did get better at it as time went on. It was kind of like parenting: you finally learn what you are doing when you are about finished! But we think viewers will get so lost in the content that they will not notice much of our lack of video skill :)

 

It is both informal and structured. It is informal in that the discussion groups are designed to be comfortable and to encourage open sharing. It is structured in that the worksheets, which contain much scriptural support, will keep the discussions from "going south," and provide positive tracks to run on.

 

 In summary, the video interviews and presentations are rich with real-life perspectives from a wide variety of special-needs situations. The worksheets that accompany them are full of biblical truth to guide the thoughts and discussions of the groups after the video clip. 

 

Did I mention that it's offered to your group or church completely free?  And it is easy to facilitate; in fact, you can click here to see the "Easy as 1,2,3" instructions! (For more information contact bev@special-heart.com)

 

Let me introduce you to the parents and their kids who participated in the video series.  

 

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 Session One

 

 Mike Linder speaks about

"The Big Picture," sharing from Psalm 19

how pursuing God's perspective

has helped him to

"hear the music" when circumstances

are hard, such as when two of his children preceded him to heaven. 

 Mike and his wife Bev had three children,

two of them, Kristie and Brad were born with significant physical disability.

Session Two 

 

 

Anna Carrillo continues the thought  of "The Big Picture," sharing in an interview how she has felt the need to "grieve" for what might have been for her daughter Maycee, who has a seizure disorder and requires total care. Yet, in the big picture, she realizes that Maycee is, as Anna puts it, "made right by His design."

   

 

 

 

Lou Carrillo, Anna's husband and Maycee's

dad,  shares some concluding thoughts

on the important role that parents

play in bringing out the "person"

in the special child.  Lou and Anna have four children.

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

Session Three

 

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 Bev Linder shares how parents are fellow workers with God in nurturing a child's soul (I Cor. 3:6-9).  She shares a personal journal entry describing how her son Brad was able to have a joyful spirit because of having his mind on the truth of scripture, even when his physical disability put him in embarrassing and "left out" situations. 

     

Session Four  

  

 Tom and Vicki Griffin share from their hearts in an interview on the topic of "Seeing the Potential In Your Child."  The Griffins have four children, including Steven who has Down syndrome.  The video takes us into the Griffin's classroom where

 Steven's face is aglow because of his accomplishments!

 

 

 

 

Intro to Session Five

Bev Linder shares how "mama's the mirror" (and so is dad!)--that is, how our kids have a mirror that they look into each day to see who they are...it's our face!

 

 

 

Session Five

 

Karen Leonard shares how she and her husband Jim seek to enjoy their son Steven, who has processing issues, in practical ways.  She shares her determination to stop worrying about her son's future and rather to enjoy today with him, realizing that these are precious moments not to be wasted in worry.  She wants her son to remember her smile!

 

 

 

Session Six

 

John and TammyJohn and Tammy share in a "table talk" interview how they daily enjoy their son Duncan who is on the autism spectrum.  They talk about realizing God's daily opportunity to start fresh and to seek His strength for the challenges of each day.  They share how they as a couple "tag team" in giving each other needed breaks and time alone.  They live out the truth "the joy of the Lord is my strength" in raising their son.  They have learned the value of laughter, which comes from trusting God.

 

 

 Session Seven 

   Belinda

Belinda Letchford from Australia speaks candidly from her home, where she schools her four children, including Daniel, who has auditory and sensory processing delays. Belinda shares how the goal is the same for the child who has more difficult challenges, but the journey of getting to the goal (loving and obeying God) can look much different than for the typical child.  She shares "strategies" for helping the child who needs more support in areas of developing character traits such as "deference" (having regard for others), and self-control. 

 

 

 

 

 Session Eight

 

Mike and Bev Linder share the concept of how "discipleship" was taught to their kids who had physical challenges and very difficult life circumstances as a result.  For these kids, part of discipleship was learning to "give thanks in all things" (I Thess. 5:18).  They also share how teaching their more typical child self-control, which was difficult for him, was part of discipling him so that he could slow down long enough to listen and to learn about God.  And how about the young person who has a very severe cognitive challenge?  They point to an example of some friends who refused to believe that their daughter with cerebral palsy could not "take in," simply because she had a difficult time giving out.

 

 

Here is the short video introduction to the workshop series "There's a Person In There."
 
Intro to There's a Person In There
Intro to There's a Person In There
 
 
I hope we haven't overwhelmed you with all the information.  If you don't have time to explore it all now, please save this email.  Also, feel free to forward it to anyone you know who might have an interest!
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Contact bev@special-heart.com with questions or comments!