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A Little Magazine
by and for the
Residents of Southport
Number 31
September 2012
Photo: Diane Roberts
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Join the SVV Team
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I met Sandy Bernstein in mid-August at a reception welcoming new owners to Southport. She and her husband Joel took up part-time residence here in May. Sandy is a writer, among other things (see her bio on the last page), and the newest contributor to Southport Village Voices. Be sure to read her poem in this issue of SVV. And don't miss Lydia Biersteker's poem about August, also in this issue; it captures many of our feelings as we move from summer into fall. As usual, there are several articles about Southport residents in this issue--Bill & Ellen Enright, Al Benjamin and new owner Rosann Salvaggio. I'm grateful to the corps of writers who do the interviews, perhaps our most generally popular feature: Joy Evans, Dick Fellenberg and Ernest Ruber. There are so many talented people at Southport and lots of interesting stories to be told. Interviewing people is a great way to meet your neighbors--old or new--and we definitely could use more help on this front. If this is something you would like to do, let me know. Several recent stories in SVV came about only because someone alerted me to a special event in the life of a resident. (Ed Pirozzi told me about Al Benjamin's award, described in this issue.) Clue me in when you hear about something that would make good reading in SVV. That holds true for travel adventures, as well. If you would like to share one of your adventures, contact the peripatetic Karlyn Curran. She'll interview you and do the writing. 
Finally, thanks for your comments about SVV. It's always nice to receive compliments, but information and advice about what we could do better may be even more helpful. David Kapp, Editor
davidkapp@comcast.net
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SOUTHPORT PROFILE
an interview with Ernie Ruber
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Bill & Ellen Enright with Flossie
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Bill Enright was born in Manhattan, but his family moved to Avon, Massachusetts when he was two. He attended Avon public schools and Braintree's Thayer Academy and went on to graduate from Boston University and Suffolk University Law School. As a senior at Thayer, Bill was an All New England Private School center halfback in soccer, an undefeated Independent League wrestling champion and finished the baseball season with a .495 batting average and 36 stolen bases.
Bill's father grew up in a poor family in East St. Louis and would sometimes talk about the times when he did not have enough to eat. Despite this challenging beginning, he believed that America was the greatest country that ever existed. The most meaningful years of his father's life, even in view of the success he later achieved in business, were those he spent in the US Navy during World War II.
Bill's mother was raised in an immigrant Jewish family that fled the Russian revolution around 1917, arriving in this country with little more than the clothes on their backs. They too believed in America as the land of opportunity, viewing hard work and education as the keys to success. Bill's mother drove her children to succeed and appears to have accomplished her goal: his brothers include a financial planner, an retired Navy man who is now an instructor in computer operating systems, and another with a PhD in mathematics and computer science who works for a French arbitrage firm.
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Bill has practiced law for 30 years and continues to work for a firm in Hyannis.
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Fresh out of college in the early 1970s, Bill worked as a licensed electrician. He was a deliveryman for a year or two (and still maintains his proud membership in the Teamsters just in case) before reverting to work as an electrician installing security systems. In 1979, he decided to attend law school and shortly after passing his bar exams in 1982, he joined the Air Force as an attorney. He served on active duty in California for four-plus years before deciding to enter private practice as a lawyer on Cape Cod. He's had many business relationships in his 30 years as a lawyer and has been associated with the Law Offices of John C. Manoog in Hyannis for the last seven years. He concentrates on civil law, particularly personal injury law, and on criminal law where, he quips, he represents the "misguided and misunderstood."
In deciding not to pursue a career in the Air Force, however, Bill did not leave the military altogether. Shortly after leaving active service in 1987, he joined the Massachusetts Air National Guard, where he continued to serve for 22 years, retiring as a full colonel. He was recalled to active duty following the attacks of September 11, 2001 and served an additional 13 months in defense of his country. Those months, he says, were the most meaningful part of his service.
Bill's wife Ellen was born and raised in Brockton, which she remembers as a wonderful and beautiful city. "I rode my bike everywhere and must have put a million miles on it," she says. Her father was a well-known podiatrist in town, and she remembers walking down Main Street with him and hearing people greet him warmly with, "Hi Doc!" Her father was a compassionate man, often accepting wine, fish or other fare as compensation for his services. "My mother was beautiful, outgoing and loved to entertain or be entertained," Ellen says, "As a young woman, she was named Miss Roxbury."
Ellen was active in high school sports and enjoyed art. She went to UMass Amherst as an undergraduate and then to Massachusetts College of Art, where she earned an MFA. Ellen taught art for ten years in the Norton schools but lost that position in 1978 through a reduction in force. She took a job in a personnel placement agency and ended up placing herself in good job with Leading Edge, a computer products company. When she and Bill moved to California with the Air Force in 1982, Ellen attended school to learn how to be an officer's wife. But she also went to work for Sprint and eventually became western regional manager of their long distance services. After 20 years in private business, Ellen opened an art and antiques business and operated it successfully for a number of years.
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It's an Enright tradition to cook dinner together in New Year's Eve. And the menu must always be a new one.
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Ellen and Bill met in February 1981 at a poker game in Stoughton and they married in November of the same year. While Bill may have won some of her money that first night, Ellen won Bill. "He's the only man I ever asked out," she says with a big smile on her face. It's been more than 30 years now and they both still feel like winners. They continue to enjoy one another's company and love to cruise and vacation together, hike, play golf and, occasionally, play poker or go to a casino.
The Enrights have enjoyed an annual tradition ever since they met: cooking together on New Year's Eve. But it's not just cooking anything; it has to be something they have never cooked before. Over the years they have cooked such things as Lobster Thermidor, Asian food and foods native to many other countries. Each year it becomes harder to find something new to cook, but they spend a lot of time working on their menu and they'll come up with a great meal for New Year's Eve 2012.
Ellen and Bill share their home with Flossie. They've rescued many cats over the years, but Flossie is special cat. She always seems to have a smile on her face, loves her home and her family and, if you are a guest in the home, you are her friend as well.
Both Bill and Ellen participate in Southport activities. He plays pool, chess and poker, while she plays golf, mah jong, bocce and poker. They attend many Southport events and have become friends with many of their neighbors. Bill moved to Southport with some trepidation but he now says, "It's nice not having to mow a lawn or shovel snow and we've made some wonderful new friends." And Ellen nods in agreement and adds, "It's a great place to live."
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Do you know a Southport resident with an interesting story? Let me know about it and perhaps they'll end up in Southport Village Voices. Thanks.
David Kapp
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POETRY
Good-Bye August
by Lydia Biersteker
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I've never considered August to be a real month,
not in the sense of June or July
or for that matter, December.
August was always a gateway month,
the time of year
when daylight visibly disappeared
at a good clip each evening.
As a child, there was the anticipation
of an upcoming new school year,
seeing old friends and making new ones.
It was time to go shopping
for scratchy wool clothes
and confining shoes.
August was the good-bye month;
so long, windows opened to the sounds
and smells of summer,
see ya, Keds and drippy Creamsicles,
good-bye, dodge ball,
and staying out 'til the street lights came on.
Every school-aged child knew
that the real start of the year
was the first day of school,
a fresh new beginning,
once the hanger-on, dog days
lumbered on by.
August's demise brought structure
to my young life
whether I wanted it or not.
I'm older now, lots older.
But I find myself thinking
of courses I could take,
changes of direction I could go in.
And once again,
as it happens every year,
I'm torn between the old and the new
as August fades into September.
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NON COMPOS MENDES
About That Memorial...
by Bob Mendes
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I was at the Advisory Board meeting the night my friend Peter LeBlanc proposed a memorial at Southport for veterans killed in military action. I even voiced my opinion saying: I'm neither for nor against it, but if it becomes a reality I think it should be built with private funds rather than association money. I'm happy to see that the current proposal is in agreement with that view. Since the Advisory Board meeting, I've continued to think about the proposed memorial and, although mine may be an unpopular view, I don't think Southport is the proper venue for such a project. I am not a veteran but I absolutely consider myself a patriot. I have great pride in my country and deep respect for those who have given their lives to defend it. So why do I feel the way I do? These are my thoughts. Southport has no standing for such a memorial. We are not a home for veterans, nor are we affiliated with any veterans' association, nor in any way associated or allied with any branch of the military. We are just a residential community, a neighborhood like any other. Would hosting a memorial be a "nice thing to do?" Perhaps, but if we are to have a memorial for those killed in wars, would we also consider having a memorial for those who died in the Holocaust or the tragedy of 9/11? Or for the firefighters and police who protect us at the risk of their lives? I honor the ultimate sacrifice made by those who have died to defend our freedoms, but there are many memorials for veterans in many nearby locations. One such memorial exists just a little over a mile away at the Mashpee Rotary. Another, much more accessible memorial is sited in the Community Park across the street from the Mashpee Town Hall. The Veteran's Garden there is a lovely area to visit, a place to reflect and to get in touch with your own thoughts and feelings. We even have the ultimate veterans' memorial about 20 minutes away: the National Military Cemetery in Bourne. More can be less. Given the number of memorials in our immediate vicinity I can't help but feel that if we add another veterans' memorial to those already existing, it would tend to minimize the impact of all memorials and trivialize their very concept. Again, I have the deepest respect and even a sense of reverence for those who have made the ultimate sacrifice. I just don't think Southport is the proper venue for a manifestation of these feelings. My final thought on the subject is this: If this project does go forward, the final decision to do so should be made by the residents of our community, and I recommend that a vote be conducted to determine the will of ALL those who live here.
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NEW IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD
Rosann Salvaggio an interview with Joy Evans
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Rosann Salvaggio moved to Southport from Allentown, Pennsylvania in February, but she is no stranger to the charms of Cape Cod. She had visited her good friend Lorraine Burgoyne at Southport several times; now they are next-door neighbors on Portside Drive, as well as friends and neighbors in Fort Myers, Florida. Rosann grew up on the highest mountain in the Poconos. Her late husband Ed was a mechanical engineer for Dupont, and his career took them from Pennsylvania to Texas, then to Delaware and back to Texas. Now she is excited to be living near the seashore. Rosann's career is centered in education. She began as an elementary school teacher and later became a principal. Currently, she is director of school programs for Computer Aid Inc., a global tech company headquartered in Allentown. Twelve years ago, Rosann was charged with creating an education/business partnership that would revolutionize the way information is delivered to students, particularly those at, or below, the poverty level. Finding the right programs, assessing the needs of students, locating the right schools and developing partnerships with these schools were some of her challenges. Over the years, Rosann has helped to build a learning culture in troubled schools and to turn them around. Starting with three charter schools and expanding to ten over the years, these schools now partner with Lehigh University, Penn State and DeSales University, using technology to enhance the educational experience. Rosann is able to accomplish most of her work using her computer, coupled with frequent trips to Pennsylvania where she mixes business with visits to family and friends. When she first contemplated a move to an adult community, Rosann explored the Allentown area but couldn't find anything comparable to Southport. Now, as a resident, she takes advantage of many activities here, including golf, yoga, water aerobics, and mah jong. She has joined the Garden Club and attends Women's Coffee. This very busy lady has found a way to balance her many professional obligations with a healthy dose of recreational activities, and she finds Southport to be the perfect community in which to fulfill her needs. Friendly neighbors, outstanding facilities and a beautiful location offer the best of everything. She also enjoys traveling and hopes to go on a riverboat cruise in the near future. |
It's Never Too Late to Say Merci!
as told to David Kapp by Al Benjamin
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Newly Knighted: Sir Alfred Benjamin
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Southport resident Al Benjamin, on opening his mailbox a couple weeks ago, was delighted to find something considerably more interesting than bills and junk mail. A letter from the French Ambassador informed him that he had been appointed a Chevalier (Knight) of the French Legion of Honor for helping to liberate France in World War II.
Al was a 19-year-old teenager from Dorchester when he enlisted as an aviation cadet in the Army Air Corps in 1942. After extensive training he was commissioned in April 1944 and assigned to duty as a navigator for a B-17, flying daytime bombing missions out of southern England. The targets were usually munitions and industrial targets, most often in Germany.
The B-17 a high-flying (35,000'), long-range bomber, earned a reputation as the "Flying Fortress," for its ability to defend itself and return to base despite extensive battle damage. But the crews were well aware that on any given mission some planes might not return. As a navigator, Al had observed the locations where flak could be expected and had noted these on a chart so that they could be avoided. That was working well until his 13th mission, when flak damaged two of the plane's four engines.
The aircraft could have made it back to England on the two remaining engines but, at about 14,000', the third engine quit, and the crew jettisoned everything that wasn't bolted down. It wasn't enough. Then, the fourth engine began to fail; the Flying Fortress was going down and the pilot gave the order to jump at 10,000'. Al had never jumped from a plane before, so his first reaction was to hesitate. But given the other option and with a little nudge from a fellow crewmember, he stepped out into thin air.
Al's parachute was smaller than those of the other men since it had been designed to fit into the very tight space he had occupied as navigator in the B-17. So, falling at about 1,000' per minute, he arrived in Belgium before the rest of the crew and was immediately surrounded by men with machine guns. He was not wearing a uniform or other identifying insignia, but rather specially designed thermal clothing that looked a bit like an "electric blanket." And the heavy-duty fur galoshes that he had needed to keep his feet warm had disappeared on the way down.
His greeters turned out to be Belgian freedom fighters. Al was injured but he used his high school French to explain the situation as best he could. The Belgians hid him in a farmhouse and later took him to a Catholic hospital. Grateful local residents came to shake his hand and thank him for his part in helping to defeat Nazi Germany. No American troops showed up to retrieve the crew, all of whom survived the jump, so a nurse gave them money to take a streetcar to Charleroi, where they found the American Army HQ. From there, they were evacuated to Paris and eventually returned to England and resumed their missions.
So, nearly 70 years later, how is it that the French Government is just now getting around to thanking Al for his service? It turns out that he told his story to a member of the American Legion-a man he met while shopping in Florida last winter. Apparently the man put some wheels into motion, and voila! Al will now add a new honor to the decorations already earned for his service in World War II (including the Purple Heart and a number of Air Medals).
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Fellow Chevalier of the Legion of Honor "Lucky Lindy"
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The French Legion of Honor was established by Napoleon Bonaparte in 1802 to "acknowledge services rendered to France by persons of exceptional merit," according to the French ambassador's letter. Many people from many walks of life have been so honored over the centuries, but Al was especially pleased to note that fellow airman Charles Lindbergh, "Lucky Lindy," is also enrolled in the Legion of Honor. I think we can agree that, in 1944, Al was pretty lucky, too.
As we wrapped up our conversation, I asked Al how he felt about his new honor. "Please call me Sir Alfred," he said. Congratulations Sir Alfred, and thanks once again for your service to the country.
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POETRY Tower of Time by Sandy Bernstein
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The drive up the hill was inspiring, a country road nestled inside a wooded landscape, it was a bright, crisp fall day with golden oaks and burning elms exploding all around, and I so lost in thought as we approached the brick infirmary building. It stood majestically on the hill, its clock tower a sentinel overlooking the quiet suburbs below. Keeping time since 1930 it serves as a reminder of another era guarding the many secrets and stories I know lay hushed inside. The tower, a stately structure, a commanding force of its own beckoned me, and the longer I gazed upon it the more I felt removed from the present; suddenly I could hear feet shuffling from room to room, and smell the harsh scent of antiseptic, I could almost reach out and touch the starched linen. I heard voices talking in low whispers; the sound of the sick, my own mother bedded down inside one of those rooms. But I could only imagine her young, sickly form, recalling stories and notes from her daily journals. As I walked along the perimeter glimpsing the back I spotted the rusty remains of the tunnel that once connected the main buildings. Grass grows through the cracks now of the once meticulously maintained courtyard, and the screened in porches where patients often sat out in the fresh air hoping for a cure, are crumbling from neglect. I walked away, feeling the past mingle with the present as those voices drifted out over the boundaries of time, for no amount of brick and mortar can quiet the lingering spirits still roaming the halls of this forgotten era, where a chain link fence is all that separates the timelines; keeping trespassers out and ghosts within. Written following a visit to the Middlesex County Sanatorium in Waltham, 1998
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TRAVEL
Beyond Croatia:
Montenegro, Bosnia-Herzgovina & Slovena
by Karlyn Curran
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Croatia, Montenegro, Bosnia-Herzegovina, Slovenia--all republics in the former Yugoslavia, all affected to some degree by the ethnic wars (1991-1995) that followed its break-up and all visited by my sister Susan and me in May. Last month my focus was on Croatia; this month I'll write about the other three countries.
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Orthodox Church Interior in the Medieval City of Kotor, Montenegro
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Montenegro lies just south of Croatia on the coast of the Adriatic Sea. It is a small country with less area than Connecticut. Because it is bordered by and culturally aligned with Serbia, it became part of the country of Serbia and Montenegro after Yugoslavia broke up.
In 2006 it declared its independence and is now the Republic of Montenegro. Although there was no war on its soil, it joined forces with the Serbian army to attack Croatia. We went there on a day trip from Dubrovnik.
Today Montenegro is a relatively poor country with an underdeveloped infrastructure. It has dramatic, rugged mountain cliffs that rise out of the Bay of Kotor, Europe's southernmost fjord. It also has drab Communist inspired architecture and run-down concrete apartment blocks. However, it is successfully and aggressively developing its tourist trade and aspires to be the Monte Carlo of the Adriatic.
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Mostar's Iconic Old Bridge, Rebuilt in 2004
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We drove along the Bay of Kotor to the town of Kotor, a well-preserved medieval town at the head of the bay and then down the other side to the Budva Riviera. Here we saw beautiful beaches and cheap hotels intermixed with new five star resorts and casinos. Its harbor was filled with luxury yachts, some of which were larger than any I've ever seen before. In spite of its beauty, I thought Montenegro lacked the charm of Croatia.
We took another day trip to Mostar in Bosnia-Herzegovina. We saw no dramatic coastal scenery and no luxurious tourist resorts, just the evidence of a heart-wrenching history.
Bosnia-Herzegovina is a complex country, about the size of New Hampshire and Vermont together. It has a very small coastline on the Adriatic Sea but is mostly landlocked. Its citizens practice three faiths and use three languages and two alphabets. The Ottoman Empire ruled the country for 400 years in the 15th century and left behind Turkish architecture and culture and the Muslim faith. One-half of the population today is Muslim. Minarets dot the city's skyline and the call to prayer is announced five times a day. Orthodox Serbs constitute about one third of the country's population and the rest are Catholic Croats. They each speak their own but similar language. The Bosniaks (Muslims) and the Croats use the Roman alphabet while the Serbs use the Cyrillic one.
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Young Women on Their Way to a Graduation Ceremony in Mostar
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Under the rule of Marshall Tito they all lived together in relative harmony. When Bosnia-Herzegovina seceded from Serbia in 1992, the Orthodox Serbs, who didn't want to declare independence, joined the Yugoslavian army in fighting the Bosniaks and the Croats. Even while they were driving the Serbs out of Mostar, the Bosniaks and Croats turned against each other. In intermarried families brothers sometimes fought against brothers. The war was bloody and Mostar was reduced to rubble. The famous Old Bridge, built by the Ottoman Turks and beloved by all Mostarians, was bombed by the Croats and collapsed into the river.
Today Mostar, the largest city in and unofficial capital of Bosnia-Herzegovina, still bears the physical and emotional scars of war. On the highway into Mostar we saw bombed out shells of houses and on the main street of the town we saw bombed out and bullet scarred buildings. Bosnia-Herzegovina is poor with up to a 40% unemployment rate and many people get by with help from relatives who have left the country.
Although the city is rebuilding as fast as it can, money is tight. The most impressive structure that was rebuilt is the symbolic and beautiful Old Bridge. Its reconstruction, completed in 2004, was overseen by UNESCO and funded by international donations. It spans the Neretva River and divides the city into two parts: Croats live on one side and the Bosniaks on the other. Souvenir stalls sell the same kinds of merchandise on the touristy street leading to and from the bridge. However, the Muslims and Catholics stay in their own parts of the city and seldom cross the bridge. Very few Serbs remain in Mostar; they have moved to a different part of the country.
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Ljubljana in Prosperous Slovenia
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My heart goes out to the citizens of Bosnia-Herzegovina. The European community came together to help rebuild Dubrovnik because it is a UNESCO heritage site and a big tourist draw. Except for the funds to rebuild the Old Bridge, Bosnia-Herzegovina has experienced no such outpouring of help. As our guide told us, "We don't keep these bombed out buildings as monuments to remind us of the war; we just don't have the money to rebuild them."
Slovenia, the smallest (about the size of New Jersey) and most prosperous of the former Yugoslavian republics, lies to the north of Croatia and is bordered by Croatia, Italy, Austria and Hungary. Even during Tito's time, Slovenia, with only 8% of Yugoslavia's population and territory, was responsible for 60% of its industry. It was the first to declare its independence. Because of its relative isolation from the rest of Yugoslavia and its homogenous population, its transition to independence was much more peaceful. Fighting lasted only ten days and Slovenia emerged as a free nation relatively unscathed. Today it has the healthiest economy of all of Europe's formerly Communist countries. It joined the European Union in 2004.
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Bled Castle on Bled Lake
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We ended our trip at Lake Bled, a popular resort for both Slovenians and tourists. The lake is tucked between high mountains with one tiny island in the middle and the medieval Bled Castle perched on a cliff above it. On our first night there Susan and I took a pletna boat, a flat-bottomed boat rowed by an oarsman who stands at the back of the boat, to the island. In the small church, the only structure on the island, we heard a wonderful concert of church and traditional Slovakian music sung by a children's choir and a women's a cappella group. It was a treat that we stumbled upon quite by accident.
Another day we walked to the former lakeside villa of Marshall Tito, now a luxury hotel. Susan took a bus up to the castle and walked back down the mountain. We also took a day trip to Ljubljana, the capital city of Slovenia. Pretty and laid-back, it was a good place to people watch. We toured the Old Town, explored the huge market place, bought a few souvenirs and ate pizza at an outdoor cafe before returning to Lake Bled.
All too soon our trip was over. It was filled with history, beautiful scenery and fun. We appreciated it all but, to paraphrase the song, "We left our hearts in ... Dubrovnik!"________________________________________________________________________ If you've had an interesting travel experience that you would like to share with SVV readers, please contact Karlyn Curran. You need not write the article yourself; Karlyn will be happy to interview you and write the article for you.
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DINING OUT
Wonderful Waterfront Dining in Woods Hole
by the Southport Phantom
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The View
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Picture yourself sitting here overlooking Eel Pond and enjoying the view of boats docked and waiting to sail off to Martha's Vineyard, Nantucket or wherever. The Phantom took these pictures from the Captain Kidd restaurant in Woods Hole where the drinks are always satisfying and the food is great. Everything is served quickly by very friendly staff. What a perfect setting. Captain Kidd offers all the great seafood favorites, daily specials, and their onion rings may be the best on the Cape. We found Captain Kidd on one of those perfect summer afternoons when everything was calm and the temperature was about 75 degrees. Hyannis is our usual destination  |
The Meal
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because we know it so well, and sitting at the water's edge always brought us toBaxter's or Tugboats restaurants. I'll have to admit, though, that this spot is even better if you want to enjoy our relaxing Cape Cod atmosphere. The Phantom and his guest both ordered the lobster special, served "lazyman's" style with most of the splitting already done by the chef. My wife is the lobster expert and she enjoyed every bite, down to the smallest claw. I usually enjoy lobster only when I'm sitting at the water's edge, so this was the perfect day to depart from my usual steak, hamburger or fried fish. I'm glad I did.  |
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The Captain Kidd Restaurant and Bar is located on Water Street in Woods Hole. The price range for entrees is $12 to $18. Dinner is served nightly from 5:00 - 11:00 pm (June thru Labor Day, so get there soon). There are three menus to choose from: Tavern Dinner menu, Waterfront Dinning Room menu, and the Tavern Lunch menu. Parking just down the street is only $3 with no time limit, so relax, stay for a second drink and enjoy the ever-changing view as boats return from the Islands, fishing for stripers or blues, or from an afternoon cruise out of Falmouth Harbor. |
SIGNS OF THE TIMES
ABCs for Young Techies
discovered by Jonathan Leavitt
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Contributors to the September 2012 Edition of
Southport Village Voices
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Sandy Bernstein is a freelance writer and web designer. Her poetry, articles, and fiction have appeared in such publications as The Writer Magazine, Writers' Journal, Poetic Voices, Flashquake Magazine, Mind Fire, and many other print and web publications. Currently she is working on a novel, an excerpt appears on her website www.sandybernstein.net. She is a long time member of the Stoneham Writers Group.
Lydia Biersteker grew up in Somerville, Massachusetts. She met her husband Dale on the beach at Falmouth Heights in 1969, while he was stationed at Fort Devens. After Dale retired in 2005 from his executive position with the USPS, they moved to Vero Beach, Florida but decided that they preferred New England. They moved to Southport in July 2011. Dale plays golf, and Lydia likes gardening, walking, writing poetry and short prose, exploring genealogy, and lunching with friends. Together, they enjoy dining, exploring wineries and brew pubs, walking the trails of Cape Cod, traveling and playing with their grandkids, who live with their son in Newburyport.
Karlyn Curran moved to Southport from New Jersey in 2003. She has a daughter, son-in-law and three grandchildren in Falmouth and two sons, their wives and two granddaughters near Hanover NH. After her husband passed away and she retired from her teaching career, she moved to New England to be closer to her children. She loves Southport and Cape Cod. Even more than that, she loves being a "hands-on" grandma. She caught the travel bug from her husband and this has resulted in a chronic condition.
Joy Evans and her late husband Bob moved to Southport from Sandwich seven years ago. Joy retired from her position as a college administrator in 1995 on the same day that Bob retired as director of promotion services for the Gillette Company. They spent part of their year in Southwest Florida, where Joy writes for a monthly newsletter. Sadly, Joy has three daughters and two grandchildren.
Dav id Kapp, with his wife Billie, moved from Connecticut to Southport in November 2009. David retired from a career as a university library administrator, after working in the libraries at Brandeis, Harvard and the University of Connecticut. He was a building consultant for the planning of a number of major university libraries and was, for many years, the editor of Connecticut Libraries. Billie enjoyed a career as an educator and social sciences consultant. The Kapps are frequent visitors to Hawaii where their son, daughter, grandson and many other family members live.
Bob Mendes began his career as an advertising copywriter at Doyle Dane Bernbach in New York before becoming senior vice president of marketing for a west coast department store chain. He left that position to start Pacific Sports, a sports and general marketing agency. There he developed "The Reading Team," a children's literacy program sponsored by the National Football League and the American Library Association, which used NFL players as literacy role models. Bob is the author of "A Twentieth Century Odyssey, the Bob Mathias Story." After retiring, he served as executive director of the Glendora (CA) Chamber of Commerce. When grandson Adam was born, Bob and Bette moved to Cape Cod, where they recently celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary. Neither retires well. He's had a number of part-time jobs, has written two more books, and volunteers; Bette serves on committees at Southport and at the Falmouth Jewish Congregation. Their son Steve is a pediatrician and lives in Marion with his wife Sarah and their children, and a second son, Jeff, practices law in Indianapolis.
Ernest Ruber and his wife of 55 years, Natalie, came to Southport in 2002 and enjoyed their life together here until her death in 2011. Ernie retired from Northeastern University where he was Professor of Biology and Ecology. He designed and recently revised and renewed the interpretive nature trail at Southport and writes occasional nature/science articles for Southport Village Voices. He also reports on pool tournaments, in which he usually plays and often wins, for the Southport Newsletter. Ernie has two children and one grandchild.
SPECIAL THANKS TO
Al Benjamin, Bill & Ellen Enright and Rosann Salvaggio
for their interviews,
Jonathan Leavitt for his Techie Alphabet, and
Diane Roberts for her photograph.
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