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Be gentle...bearing with one another in love. (Ephesians 4:2 NIV)
We all have a right to our emotions, but God holds us accountable for how we handle them. Anger is one emotion we must learn to control. It's never okay to "let it all out" on those God has entrusted in your care. "Don't sin by letting anger control you...anger gives a foothold to the devil" (Ephesians 4:26 NLT). Satan would like nothing better than to gain entry into your home and make it into a living hell. And every time you fly into a rage, you lose ground to him! A hot temper shows great foolishness (Proverbs 14:29 NLT).
Nobody can be everything you want them to be, all the time. Remember you are NOT everything THEY want all the time! You cannot have a long-term, loving relationship without learning to accept human weaknesses. Instead of dwelling on what your spouse or children lack, choose to focus on your collective strength as a family.
Don't involve your children in your marital disputes and PLEASE don't let them become the targets of your misdirected rage. Your emotional outbursts hurt your children more than you will ever know. Mom, your actions and attitudes will either bless or scar your children for life. Behavioral patterns are passed from generation to generation. Teach them the right path (Proverbs 22:6) or else they will end up with your emotional disposition and volatility! Provide them a peaceful environment to flourish emotionally, spiritually and mentally.
Remember you are not in charge. God is. He is asking you to set the example they will want to follow. Jesus said, "If I am lifted up...I will draw all people" (John 12:32 NCV). Let your faith be the glue that holds your family together.
Stay above...always.
Yours & His,
Angela |
