Are you asking God to bless your plans or are you asking Him to show you His?  Don't ask God to bless your plans, ask Him to show you His - they're already blessed.  God told Abraham when to leave home (See Genesis 12:1) and Jacob when to go back home (See Genesis. 31:3).  He even told Elijah where to find food in the middle of a famine (See 1 Kings 17:1-5).  And His promise to you is, "Along unfamiliar paths I will guide them".  All you have to do is ask Him to guide in the paths He's already chosen for you.  God never changes.  If He talked to people all through the Bible, He'll talk to you too.
 
The question is, have you learned to recognize His voice yet?  Nothing should be more important to you than learning to hear from God for yourself.  Don't rely on others to hear for you.  He is your Father!  Other believers should only confirm or clarify what He's already shown you.  You are unique!  God has a personal plan and a specific destination for you.  Take the time to ask Him about it for His Word says, "He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them His way" (Psalm 25:9 NIV).