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National Juvenile Justice Director

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Eric Kelly

Fort Wayne, IN
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Latham, NY
 
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Tacoma, WA

Dan Chapin
 Grand Rapids, MI

Gareth Unruh
Denver, CO 
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LeadershipLeadership for Your Soul Eric Kelly

Thinking Creatively

Eric Kelly

   

I am good friends with United Airlines.  Last year was 46,000 miles and this year I am a little over 26,000 already.  I know Chicago O'Hare International Airport like the back of my hand (did you know they just opened a new sushi restaurant?).  Last year I was traveling and away from my home office over 75 days.  Besides the grind of packing, unpacking, packing, unpacking, packing, unpacking, etc., it can put a serious dent on creativity. Creativity takes time!  We need to immerse ourselves in deep thought and relaxation before creativity can flow. Did you know that Google employees are asked to spend 55% of their job just thinking up crazy ideas? CEO Larry Page knows that a majority of their ideas won't ever come to realization but a few will.  

 

What about you?  Are you able to set aside times to just be creative and dream?  I have learned that I can't schedule 3-4 hours to "be creative" I need to protect entire days.  This seems impossible doesn't it?  It is tough, but it can be done by adjusting your schedule and holding certain days free.  This will mean saying no to some things short term, or maybe jam packing a few days to leave one day a month free.  Is it worth all the effort?  Absolutely!  It is very easy to get caught in a rut and not to have creative ideas flowing into the ministry.  Take the steps today to dream big for the teens you have been called to reach! 

WidespreadCollaborative Community Strategy

Gareth Unruh  

 

Gareth Unruh

Is there value in a Collaborative Community Strategy?  You may have heard the quote, "If you want to go fast, go alone.  If you want to go far, go together."

 

We all strive to have healthy ministry sites - doing holistic ministry for every kid, one at a time.  I'm the first to admit that I cannot meet every need of every kid we work with, nor am I able excel at every program we provide for kids.  I consider it my job to be a bridge between the local church and the incarcerated or previously incarcerated youth I work with.  Healthy programming is using preaching, teaching, small groups, large groups, special events, socially conscious effort and the list goes on. 

 

Our Denver chapter has had a 40 year relationship with the Department of Human Services providing chaplaincy inside the four walls of juvenile facilities.  Our relationship and collaboration with this agency is crucial for the success of young people.  At times we are called upon to do time consuming projects, but we count the cost and consider the relationships we have built that allow us to reach more kids.

 

The juvenile courts, residential facilities, youth programs aligned with our vision, mentoring programs, Big Brothers/ Big Sisters, Boy Scouts, other prison ministries...all of these groups have a specific purpose and can be utilized to make lifelong disciples of Christ.  Youth that just get out of detention centers will rarely walk through the doors of a church, but they would go to the local Young Life club at their school.  Some chapters are blessed to have Campus Life working hand in hand with their JJM or City Life teams to help kids get matched with a mentor from their community center. Some have Campus Life working with their local Teen Parents to help young couples get connected to a supportive small group.

 

In Denver there is a homeless youth shelter called Sox Place where Doyle Robinson, the director, and I have become good friends.  We collaborate to help the kids that are on the run and those that make more poor choices after getting kicked out of their homes.  Drug and alcohol programs, mental health counselors, feeding programs, G.E.D and educational programs, gang prevention and rescue programs...we have to work together for the sake of our city and the kids in it.  The better we are connected and the more we utilize relationships we have developed in the state/county, the more kids we can reach.  

 

Do you have a strategy?  How many partnerships are you intentionally working on right now?  What is the purpose and goal for those relationships?  Have you attended a youth ministry prayer breakfast lately?  Are you a part of the

National Network of Youth Ministers?  Do you give yourself away: your gifts, talents and ministries?  How many community friends do you serve alongside?

 

Many Directors of facilities, Parole Officers, Social workers, and state staff call YFC their spiritual advisors.  What a great reputation to move us forward in our movement "for every kid, one at a time!" 

 

FacesFaces of the Field  Scott Hirdes

Meet Scott Hirdes  

  

How did you first get involved with YFC?

I heard about YFC at a basketball game I was officiating. The coach was a local Pastor who thought I would be a good fit for the ministry of Youth for Christ.  I had just left a previous ministry where I had been for over 20 years. The coach didn't even know I had left.

 

Why do you love your job?

I love listening to hurting teens who have come to what they think is the end of the line and then telling them about Jesus. I love sharing the difference He has made in my life and the difference He wants to make in their lives.

 

How long have you been on staff?

I have been on staff going on 5 years. 

 

Favorite Crowd Breaker?

I have so many! I think the one I like most is the Coke bottle with the string and ring where you try to stand the Coke bottle up-right.

What's in your car CD player right now?

I don't have anything in my CD player. I listen to AM radio.

 

How can we pray for you?

Please pray for our summer camps out in the woods. This is a great time to challenge hurting youth with the changing message of Christ.

ResourcesJJM Resources
First Questions to Ask/Answer When Starting a New Site


You have finally gotten that appointment that you have been working on for months. You know that based on this meeting the facility will either open their doors wide to you and the JJM ministry or look at you just like any other religious group wanting to indoctrinate their youth. Preparing for this encounter is key. We hope this guide gives you some questions to be thinking about before you enter the doors of the facility. All the questions in this guide have been asked of our staff at one time or another.

 

Be ready to answer:

 

1. What is YFC/JJM?  

2. What is your purpose for being here?

3. What kind of program do you want to run?

4. How do you hire and train your volunteers?   

5. How long will you be here? (Duration of commitment)

 

Think about asking:

 

1. What counties are you serving?     

2. Have you ever had churches/other organizations in here?  Thoughts?       

3. Could I have a tour?          

4. What do you require of myself and our volunteer team to start programming inside your facility?     

5. How are you meeting the religious needs of the population you serve?   

 

Want to see all the questions?  You can download the entire document here. 

 

CultureYouth Culture 

 

Here's a roundup of 10 troublesome trends, some old and some new, that your teen may be exposed to this school year:

 

1. Biting and cutting and sucking blood

Yes, as unbelievable as it sounds, there's a vampire movement afoot thanks to the glamorous portrayal of teen vampires on the Twilight series and The Vampire Diaries and the popularity of HBO's True Blood. Besides the serious bacterial dangers of human bites, it can be a mode of HIV transmission that's not covered in most sex ed classes.

 

2. Circle lenses/decorative contact lenses

A look made popular by Lady Gaga and YouTube, circle lenses create a big doe-eyed appearance and have become popular among teenage girls. Illegal to sell without a prescription, but easily bought online, doctors are concerned about risks of blinding infections and damage to the cornea.

 

3. ADHD prescription drug abuse

The same drugs being used to treat attention deficit disorder are being freely shared by some teens on college campuses and high schools to give them an edge at preparing for exams. Not only is the stigma gone, but kids who have the prescriptions are the go-to favorites during finals. If your child uses ADHD drugs, warn him or her against sharing. If your child doesn't, make it clear that these are serious medications with side effects, not study aids.

 

4. Tobacco escalation products

Many teens are convinced that, unlike cigarettes, smoking a hookah or using chewing tobacco is not harmful. In fact, hookahs do use tobacco (referred to as Massel) which comes in a wide variety of flavors-including apple, strawberry, and coconut-intended to create a "graduation strategy" so that kids get hooked by starting them with milder tasting, more flavored substances. This trick is also used with a product called "Snus", a non-chew, no-spit oral tobacco that's also available in variety of sweet and fruity flavors. Also increasingly popular with teens, using Snus lets them stay under the radar at school and still get their nicotine fix, because it's stuffed between the lip and the gum. Make sure your teens know that these products have their own dangers, as well as leading to nicotine addiction.

 

5. Tanorexia/Tanning salons

Even though exposure to tanning beds before the age of 30 increases a person's risk of developing melanoma by 75 percent, this real danger is dampened by television shows that depict it as trendy and fashionable. One study of university students found that more than 90 percent of tanning-bed users know about the risks of premature aging and skin cancer but continue to tan because they think it looks good.

 

6. Tattoos

Tattoos have become extremely popular among teens. Although most states have laws prohibiting minors from getting them, they are poorly enforced. Recent data suggest that more than one-third of adults in the U.S. under the age of 35 now sport at least one tattoo. Outbreaks of community-associated methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA) skin infections among tattoo recipients have been related to sloppy infection control practices. And tattoos are estimated to account for more than twice as many hepatitis C infections as injection drug use. Other infections, including HIV, can also be contracted through tattooing. If your kids insist on tattoos, make sure that they go to a licensed practitioner.

 

7. Piercings

Besides traditional ear piercings which carry the standards risks of infection, allergic reactions to nickel, and scar formation, kids are piercing other parts of their bodies, including their nose, naval region, lips, eyebrows and tongues, as well as areas hidden from parents, such as the nipples and genitals. Bacterial infections are not uncommon as are risks of hepatitis, tuberculosis, HIV and tetanus. Deformity and scarring can be permanent. Make sure your kids are aware that needles wielded by anyone but a health professional or certified technician can be lethal weapons.

 

8. Tech use at night

Do you know what your kids are doing in their bedrooms at night? It's likely they're texting their friends, chatting on Facebook, or playing video games. The high-tech bedrooms of many teenagers, are anything but dark and quiet. They often go to sleep listening to their iPods, and exchange text messages late into the night. In fact, this seems to be typical teenage behavior. No wonder they're tired in school. Encourage your child to make it a habit to completely unplug well before bedtime.

 

9. Texting while driving

There have been reports of teens getting into serious car accidents texting while driving because they keep their hands and eyes on their cell phone keys, rather than the steering wheel. The practice is widespread and getting worse. According to a 2010 survey by AAA and Seventeen Magazine, 86 percent of drivers, age 16-19 admit to risky driving habits, up 25% from a 2008 survey. And those who texted, sent, on average, 23 text messages while driving in the past month. Sixty percent of teens say they drive while talking on their cell phones, up nine percent from a 2008 survey.  Make sure your teen drivers have headsets in the car so they can take needed calls and keep their hands on the wheel.

 

10. Noise exposure

According to published research, about 12.5 percent of American children between the age of 6 and 19 have measurable noise induced hearing loss in one or both ears. Exposure to harmful sounds can injure the delicate hair cells in the inner ear. We have a fixed number of cochlear hair cells and they don't regenerate, so it's important to prevent damage in the first place to reduce the need for a hearing aid later in life. To protect their hearing, they should turn down the volume from headsets, televisions and car radios, and set the top volume level on their MP3 player to a safe level.

Eric Kelly Sig
Eric Kelly
National Juvenile Justice Director