Total Leadership News
April 2010
 
Hi!
 
The wild winter has passed at last and, as a new season begins, glimmers of hope in the economic news are beginning to fill the warm air.  I'm happy to report that interest in Total Leadership continues to grow and that we're increasing our capacity to help people around the world find creative ways to improve performance in all parts of their lives -- work, home, community, and self -- by finding mutual value among them. 

 

In this issue get a quick update on where we've been, check out my recent blogs, read about and watch videos on the ground-breaking White House Forum on Workplace Flexibility in which I had the thrill of participating, read a letter from an old friend in Japan, and discover two great new books.

                                               
In this issue
Where in the world is Total Leadership
Recent blogs: the First Couple, more
From the community: news from Japan
In the media: White House Forum
New books we like
                                               
Where in the world is Total Leadership
 

Since our last issue we've had the privilege of working with students at the Wharton School and with people in a variety of different organizations, including:


*  Instituto de Empresa
*  The Junior League
*  Animas (a division of J & J)
*  Coca Cola Enterprises
*  Securities Industry Institute
*  State Government Affairs Council
*  Robert Wood Johnson Clinical Scholars
*  Women's Healthcare Executive Roundtable
*  Eisai


Our Total Leadership client services team is growing to meet increasing demand.  We're now delivering enterprise-wide solutions in person and virtually, supported by our still-closed-to-the-public social networking interactive site, where participants are actively engaged in peer-to-peer coaching.

Contact us to learn more about our suite of Total Leadership solutions.

                                               
My recent blogs

The First Couple and a New Era of Workplace Flexibility
 

April 2


The one thing President Obama got wrong in his remarks at the close of yesterday's buzz-filled White House Forum on Workplace Flexibility was when he started by saying that he would not be as good as his wife, who'd spoken earlier to open the half-day meeting. whitehousePerhaps he was just being kind, or coy.

From where I sat  (my comments in this video are at minutes 43.30-47.15 and 79.30-80.45), I'd say that they were equally inspired and inspiring. Both spoke with the kind of clarity and grasp that comes from personal reflection on real struggle. Both know well, from experience, what it means to try to make it all fit somehow -- work, home, community, and your private self. More>>


Tweet or Meet? How to Choose Your Medium Wisely

March 12

When Stevie Wonder first sang "I just called to say I love you", no one wondered whether he would have been better off tweeting his message instead of picking up the phone. Not so today.

Recently, in my Wharton MBA course on leadership from the point of view of the whole person, we grappled with the challenge of how to choose among the various media options available today for connecting with important people in all the different parts of your life. We came up with 17 different media currently in use for interpersonal contact, including face-to-face (verbal and non-verbal), phone, email, snail mail, text and video messaging, blogs, podcasts, online forums, even music sharing and online gaming, among others. More>>

 

Honing Your Skills as a Peer Coach

February 24

Okay, let's say you and a few colleagues or friends have formed an informal peer coaching network dedicated to helping each other improve performance. What's next? As I described in my last post, you can be either directive or nondirective in your coaching approach. Here, I'll offer ideas for how you can increase your ability to do both forms well, and so enjoy the benefits of being part of a fruitful and fun coaching community. More >>

 

How to Cultivate a Peer Coaching Network

February 2

Who's the better quarterback, Drew Brees or Peyton Manning? Perhaps a more compelling question for you, the developing leader, is this: How did these guys -- and all the great performers you might admire -- get to be so good at what they do? A healthy dose of natural talent, of course - but talent only gets you so far. They also had real passion for the game, and coaching support that enabled them to improve their performance capacity continually over years of practice. Assuming you've got some talent and the requisite passion, let's look at your coaching network and see what we can do to upgrade it.

We all need somebody to lean on. More>>

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From the community: letter from Japan

Philippe Byosiere and I went to graduate school together at the University of Michigan in the early 1980's.  After a long hiatus in our correspondence, he wrote recently "to share my positive experiences in teaching Total Leadership in 'experimental' format to my Japanese EMBA [Executive MBA] class; experimental in the sense that I wanted to experience...how it could be applied in a Japanese context, given that the nature of the psychological contract between employer and employee is much more inclusive.  The skepticism at the start of the class was all around, alluding specifically to the fact that four-way wins are only possible in the West.  I took a lot of heat for that.  However... [students] started to grasp that small changes would upset their zero-sum game mindset...the experience was positive...I have come to the conclusion that I would end the experimental phase and teach Total Leadership in our MBA program." 

Stay tuned for more news from Japan, as we're now working on a Japanese translation of my book.

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Until next time, Stew


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In the media:
White House Forum
on Workplace Flexibility
The main story to which I want to draw your attention to is what the White House is doing to drive a shift in our national consciousness about the issue of workplace flexibility. 

Click here to view my interview on ABC News  about the powerful messages now being conveyed by our country's chief executive and his wife.


Learn more about Total Leadership in the media at Links We Like and our Press page. 


New books we like


Kevin and Hannah Salwen

The Power of Half

A couple of years ago, this family, living the American dream, decided to do something that changed their lives as a family:  They sold their Atlanta mansion, moved into a house half its size and value, and gave away the proceeds ($800,000) to the Hunger Project, to support development efforts in Ghana.  powerofhalf2How they reached this decision, and their adventures in actually going through with what seemed like a crazy idea from the start, are the subjects of this brilliantly composed page-turner, The Power of Half. 

It is chock full of leadership wisdom and will challenge the way you think about your role in society.  Kevin Salwen spent 18 years as a writer and editor for the Wall Street Journal. He left in 2000 to start his own company, and has been an entrepreneur ever since. He and his daughter, Hannah, were recently featured in a New York Times article by Nicholas Kristof, in addition a great deal of other well-deserved media attention. Go here for more information about this inspiring story.   



Michael Bungay Stanier

Do More Great Work: Stop the busy work and start the work that matters

If you ever feel that your working life has become an overwhelming churn of emails interrupted by the occasional meeting, then you may just need Michael Bungay Stanier's new book, Do More Great Work: Stop the busy work and start the work that matters.

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It's a book that's both practical and inspiring. It's purpose is to help you do more great work -- work that's meaningful, work that you care about, work that makes a difference -- and to do less of the other stuff. It contains 15 "maps", exercises to help you find, start and sustain your own "Great Work". Original guest contributions from fascinating people are scattered throughout, and it includes a full list of additional resources. This book offers a practical way to help you find and do more great work, now.

For more stuff we like go here.

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