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Fall 2005

Greetings!

As I write this, I'm watching multi-colored leaves drift slowly from half-empty branches of the maple tree outside my office window. Fall is absolutely here, and with it a realization that the year is soon ending. It's time to take stock and examine where we are, right now, what paths we've chosen to get us to this place, and where we'd like our paths to lead us. Part of the work I do in my SPEEK communication coaching is executive leadership training, where we take a good long look at these very issues. This issue of the SPEEK newsletter will focus on what it takes to be a great leader-- and how great actors and great leaders share similar traits.

Eleni Kelakos SPEEK founder and faciliator

The Way of the Leader
  • Featured Article
  • Great Leaders and Great Actors: What do they have in Common?
  • Acting is Doing: The Power of Intention

  • Great Leaders and Great Actors: What do they have in Common?

    Who are your favorite screen actors?

    I love Morgan Freeman, Vanessa Redgrave and Edward Norton. I love them because they do me a huge favor: They let me actually relax and give over completely to the movie. Why? Because I never catch them acting. They are authentically and truthfully in the moment. Their truth is in perfect alignment, with no seams exposed, no inconsistencies. Their work is congruent. As an actress, I'm the first person to notice the "work" that's being done under the onscreen gloss. I'm the one that notices when the actor onscreen takes an inauthentic action (like lifting a supposedly heavy suitcase as if it were a feather). And when I notice, I am immediately pulled out of the reality of the movie. I no longer believe. And that makes for a lousy movie-watching experience.

    The same holds true with a great business leader, or a great leader in general. Take Nelson Mandela, for example. Like a great actor, he never pulls you "out of the moment" by exhibiting glaring inconsistencies in word or deed. His is aligned in spirit, action and belief. His words are married to his belief system, and to his strong, clear vision. As a result, we watch, listen and believe-- with the same faith and attention we give a great actor.


    Acting is Doing: The Power of Intention

    My beloved New York acting teacher, Michael Howard, explained the essence of acting like this:

    Acting is Doing? What are you there to DO?

    I am constantly asking my SPEEK clients this question, particularly as it regards verbal presentations-- and especially when the presentations are designed to persuade and catalyze their audience, as is so often the case with business leaders.

    What are you there to do? Or put another way, what is your purpose or INTENTION? Great leaders are clear about their intention-- For their business, for themselves, for the given moment. A great leader, like a great actor, will look at the scene-- or situation-- presented to her, and ask herself: "What am I here to do, and how how can I do it most effectively?" A clear intention pushes like a skewer through the meat of a presentation, linking all the information to a clear and focused purpose. A clear and strong intention is what keeps you alive and in the moment, powerfully connected to the material and to your audience.

    I often suggest to my clients that they literally write out their intention on a piece of paper and keep in handy before and even during their presentation. And I insist that they use ACTIVE VERBS as much as possible-- "to motivate, to excite, to seduce, to move, to shake up, to challenge"-- action words that hook them in emotionally and give them something very specific to DO. Because not only does an intention need to be clear, it needs to be something you can wrap yourself passionately around. Because passion is catching: If you are impassioned, you will impassion your audience.

    So, instead of stating your intention in a ho-hum way ("I'm going to inform the audience about my new product)" create an intention for your presentation that gives you something really compelling to chomp on, like "I'm going to inspire and entice my colleagues into rabid support of this new product!" Great leaders fire themselves us so they, in turn, can fire up their audience! The more passionately you feel about what you're there to do, the more successful you will be in achieving it!


    Featured Article
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    On a recent visit to the National Museum of the American Indian in Washington D.C., my eye was pulled from the remarkable collection of artifacts to this inscription on the back of a teenager's t-shirt:

    A Leader is One Who Knows the Way, Goes the Way, and Shows the Way.

    I had to admit that those simple words distill the elements of leadership to their very essence. When you know squarely who you are, in terms of what you think, what you believe and what you intend; when you are willing to walk your talk by taking action that remains in alignment with those thoughts, beliefs and intentions; and when you are able to clearly, and unwaveringly, communicate those thoughts, beliefs and intentions to your colleagues, staff or co-workers, you are being a leader in the truest sense.

    Are you clear about what you know, what you truly believe? What is your moral code, and are you willing to stand by it? Are you clear about why you are here and what you intend to do with your beliefs, actions, talents and gifts?

    Leadership training can help you answer these questions and help you be a more authentically powerful and effective leader.

    Find out more about SPEEK leadership training.
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