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Greetings!
As I write this, I'm watching multi-colored leaves drift
slowly from half-empty branches of the maple tree
outside my office window. Fall is absolutely here,
and with it a realization that the year is soon
ending. It's time to take stock and examine where
we are, right now, what paths we've chosen to get
us to this place, and where we'd like our paths to
lead us. Part of the work I do in my SPEEK
communication coaching is executive leadership
training, where we take a good long look at these
very issues. This issue of the SPEEK newsletter will
focus on what it takes to be a great leader-- and
how great actors and great leaders share similar
traits.
Eleni Kelakos
SPEEK founder and faciliator
| Great Leaders and Great Actors: What do they have in Common? |
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Who are your favorite screen actors?
I love Morgan
Freeman, Vanessa Redgrave and Edward Norton. I
love them
because they do me a huge favor: They let me
actually relax and give over completely
to the movie. Why? Because I never catch
them acting. They are authentically and truthfully in
the moment. Their truth is in perfect alignment,
with no seams exposed, no inconsistencies. Their
work is congruent. As an actress, I'm the first
person to notice the "work" that's being done under
the onscreen gloss. I'm the one that notices when
the actor onscreen takes an inauthentic action (like
lifting a supposedly heavy suitcase as if it were a
feather). And when I notice, I am immediately pulled
out of the reality of the movie. I no longer believe.
And that makes for a lousy movie-watching
experience.
The same holds true with a great business leader, or
a great leader in general. Take Nelson Mandela, for
example. Like a great actor, he never pulls you "out
of the moment" by exhibiting glaring inconsistencies
in word or deed. His is aligned in spirit, action and
belief. His words are married to his belief system,
and to his strong, clear vision. As a result, we
watch, listen and believe-- with the same faith and
attention we give a great actor.
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| Acting is Doing: The Power of Intention |
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My beloved New York acting teacher, Michael
Howard, explained the essence of acting like
this:
Acting is Doing? What are you there to DO?
I am constantly asking my SPEEK clients this
question, particularly as it regards verbal
presentations--
and especially when the presentations are designed
to persuade and catalyze their audience, as is so
often the case with business leaders.
What are you there to do? Or put another
way, what is your purpose or INTENTION?
Great
leaders are clear
about their intention-- For their business, for
themselves, for
the given moment.
A great leader, like a great actor, will look at the
scene-- or situation-- presented to her, and ask
herself: "What am I here to
do, and how how can I do it most effectively?" A
clear intention pushes like a skewer through the meat
of a presentation, linking all the information to a clear
and focused purpose. A clear and strong intention is
what keeps you alive and in the moment,
powerfully connected to the material and
to your audience.
I often suggest to my clients that they literally write
out their intention on a piece of paper and keep in
handy before and even during their presentation.
And I insist that they use ACTIVE VERBS as much as
possible-- "to motivate, to excite, to seduce, to
move, to shake up, to challenge"-- action words that
hook them in emotionally and give them something
very specific to DO. Because not only does
an intention need to be clear, it needs to be
something you can wrap yourself passionately
around. Because passion is catching: If
you are impassioned, you will impassion your
audience.
So, instead of stating your intention in a ho-hum way
("I'm going to inform the
audience about my new product)" create an intention
for your presentation that gives you something really
compelling to chomp on, like "I'm going to
inspire and entice my
colleagues into rabid support of this new product!"
Great leaders fire themselves us so they, in
turn, can fire up their audience! The
more passionately you
feel about what you're there to do, the more
successful you will be in achieving it!
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On a recent visit to the National Museum of the
American Indian in
Washington D.C., my eye was pulled from the
remarkable collection of artifacts to this inscription
on the back of a teenager's t-shirt:
A Leader is One Who
Knows the Way,
Goes the Way,
and Shows the Way.
I had to admit that those simple words distill the
elements of leadership to their very essence.
When
you know squarely who you are, in terms of what
you think, what you believe and what you intend;
when you are willing to walk your talk by taking
action that remains in alignment with those
thoughts, beliefs and intentions; and when you are
able to clearly, and unwaveringly, communicate
those thoughts, beliefs and intentions to your
colleagues, staff or co-workers, you are being a
leader in the truest sense.
Are you clear about what you know, what you
truly
believe? What is your moral code, and are you willing
to stand by it? Are you clear about why you are
here and what you intend to do with your beliefs,
actions, talents and gifts?
Leadership
training can
help you answer these questions and help you be a
more authentically powerful and effective leader.
Find out more about SPEEK leadership training.
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