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The Monthly E-Newsletter of the Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement
May 2009

Dear colleague,

Welcome to the May edition of the Grief Brief, the monthly e-newsletter of the Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement (ACGB).

Following the devastating bushfires in Victoria in February we made a request for assistance from bereavement practitioners. There was a generous response to this request with offers received from 305 counsellors who were prepared to provide their services on a voluntary basis.

Some of these offers have been taken up, but we are finding that most of the people contacting us for bereavement support following the bushfires need counsellors who can visit them in their local area, so some of you will not have heard from us at this stage. Because of the high levels of trauma in the experience of these clients we are particularly keen to work with practitioners with specific skills in traumatic bereavement.

In the immediate aftermath of the fire, the primary focus for most people has been on material assistance such as housing, clothing, financial support and other needs. We expect that the need for bereavement counselling will become more apparent as time goes on. Our sincere thanks to those people who offered their services. It is a mark of the generosity of the bereavement field that so many people have offered to assist.

The Australian Center for Grief and Bereavement was proud to host the 8th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society in Melbourne in July 2008. I am pleased to announce that the 9th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society will be held from June 21 - 25, 2011 at the InterContinental Miami, Miami, Florida USA. This meeting will be hosted by the Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC). The 33rd Annual ADEC Conference will be held concurrently with this international conference. Further details on the conference will be available from the ADEC website in the coming months.

In the past month we have released two new podcasts from the 8th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society, held in Melbourne, Australia and hosted by ACGB in July 2008. The first is a keynote presentation by Prof. Grace Christ on The Six Year Mourning and Reconstitution Process of Widows of Firefighters Lost in the 9/11 Attacks. Accompanying this podcast is a copy of the presentation notes by the author which have been included as part of the podcast feed. To subscribe to these, and other presentations visit this link.

We have also recently produced a new brochure titled About grief, which can be downloaded here.

Christopher Hall
Director
Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement
In This Issue
2009 International Educator - Dr. John R. Jordan
Location of 9th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society Announced
Statewide Specialist Bereavement Service
Practice Snapshot
International Conference Keynote Recordings and Notes Released
International Educator 2009
Dr. Jack Jordan

We are delighted to announce that
Dr. John R. Jordan will be the 2009 International Educator, and will present workshops in Melbourne, Sydney, Canberra, Brisbane and Adelaide from 23rd July to 7th August 2009.

Jack Jordan is a licensed psychologist in private practice in Wellesley, MA, and Pawtucket, RI, USA where he specializes in working with loss and bereavement. He is also the founder and until 2007 was the Director of the Family Loss Project, a research and clinical practice providing services for bereaved families. He has specialized in work with survivors of suicide and other losses for more than 30 years. Jack maintains an active practice in grief counselling for individuals and couples. Jack will present two one-day workshops:

Program 1
21st Century Approaches to Grief Counselling and Therapy

Program 2
Traumatic Loss: Bereavement After Sudden, Unexpected and Violent Death
 
Download a program brochure.
International Conferences
ADEC









Miami
June 21 - 25, 2011
9th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society and
ADEC 33rd Annual Conference

InterContinental Miami, Miami, Florida USA



ACGB logoApril 7-10, 2010
ADEC 32nd Annual Conference
Death, Dying and Bereavement: It's All About the Story

Hyatt Regency Crown Center
Kansas City, MO USA

The abstract submission site for this conference has now opened and a call for Concurrent Session and Poster Abstracts has been made. Visit the conference site here. Keynote speakers will include:

Britt Hysing-Dahl, a pioneer within the field of hospice and palliative care in Norway. She is currently a clinical social worker at Bergen University Hospital working with seriously ill and dying patients. She is the CEO of the Norwegian Society Western Norway, CEO of the largest nursing home in Norway and City Counsellor of Bergen.

Thomas Lynch, essayist, poet and funeral director of Lynch & Sons funeral home in Milford, Michigan. He is regularly featured on the op-ed page of The New York Times, The Boston Globe and The Times of London.

Robert Neimeyer, PhD, is professor and director of psychotherapy research in the Department of Psychology, University of Memphis. Prof. Neimeyer is editor of two respected international journals, Death Studies and the Journal of Constructivist Psychology and a former president of ADEC. The author of over 300 articles and book chapters, he is currently working to advance a more adequate theory of grieving as a meaning-making process.
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Statewide Specialist Bereavement Service
telephone counselling
The Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement provides two toll-free telephone services for bereaved Victorians and those who care for them.

Bereavement Information and Referral Service
This service provides information and referral assistance to members of the general public who need information on bereavement services available within Victoria. The service can also provide information on bereavement related issues. The service is unable to provide telephone bereavement counselling to callers. Download a copy of our brochure or call 1300 664 786.

Practitioner Consultancy Service
This service provides information, consultation and support for practitioners who are working with bereaved clients experiencing complex and prolonged bereavements. Download a copy of our brochure or call 1300 858 113.

Both services operate Monday to Friday from 9:00am to 5:00pm.

The ACGB is funded by the Department of Human Services to provide a statewide specialist bereavement service for individuals, children and families who need assistance following the death of someone close to them. A range of specialist services and programs are provided across Victoria. Volunteers are integral to the delivery of the wide range of services provided by the ACGB.
Practice Snapshot

A challenge to grieve

Recently we received a request to visit a lady in a nursing home who had experienced a significant bereavement and the staff felt she would benefit from bereavement counselling. She suffers from a severe chronic illness and is unable to speak. However she understands everything that is said, communicates with her eyes and is able to respond with sounds of laughter or crying.

When we first took the referral we wondered how we could effectively help this lady. However I felt that I would be able to communicate with her, and I made an arrangement to visit her.

On my first visit, a staff member who knew this lady well, joined in the interview. Interestingly, this staff member had also had a significant bereavement. Being able to give the lady permission to grieve by giving information and asking questions, so that she could answer yes or no, was very helpful to her.

It is commendable that the staff recognised the need for this acknowledgement and expression of her grief. We cannot underestimate the value of giving everyone this opportunity.

What a privilege it is to work in this area and to know that you can make such a difference.

Annie







Annie Norrish
Coordinator - Community Outreach Service
Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement


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In the past month we have included additional recordings of keynote presentations from the 8th International Conference on Grief and Bereavement in Contemporary Society, including a keynote presentation by Prof. Grace Christ  on the Six Year Mourning and Reconstitution Process of Widows of Firefighters Lost in the 9/11 Attacks. Included are a set of lecture notes which address the lecture content.

Prof. Grace Christ
Prof. Grace Christ

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