The most powerful evidence of the impact Youth Homes has on the lives of those we serve comes from our youth themselves. Kelly's amazing journey to freedom and healing is one that will forever leave an indelible mark in the minds of those who have come to know and love her - a mark that reminds us of the power of hope.
To see the beautiful young lady Kelly has grown into today, one would never know the years of suffering and repeated emotional and physical abuse she endured at the hands of her mother. Going to school, having friends and watching television were things she never knew because Kelly was kept prisoner in a small closet from the time she was four until she made her escape at age 17. In her prison, she was fed once per day, rarely bathed and used a bucket to go to the bathroom. She was told she was worthless and mentally retarded from the time she could remember. Throughout her childhood, Kelly's severely alcoholic mother kept family, friends and neighbors unaware of her very existence and although she never really knew her father, the times he was there were chaotic filled with shouting and fighting. Although Kelly had two other siblings, the abuse was passed on to them and they became co-abusers of Kelly. At age 17, Kelly finally found the strength to escape through a small window. A neighbor noticed a very small, dirty, skinny young girl whom at first glance appeared to be 12-13 years old. Kelly was quickly rushed to emergency where she was promptly treated for malnourishment, various injuries and trauma.
Kelly's courage to escape marked a turning point in her life and led her to Youth Homes Pryor Center where she quickly bonded with residential supervisor Margie Darnes. Youth Homes provided a normal schedule, balance, regular healthy meals, clothing and in Kelly's words, "it finally felt like a real home." Kelly bonded right away with mentor and former Youth Homes' board member Allison McClish who came into her life in 2003 and has been an instrumental part of her healing. Kelly fondly remembers their first outing together at The Spaghetti Factory and affectionately refers to Allison as mom.
She proudly wears a special locket around her neck, a gift given to her by Allison which reads, "I am a Survivor" - a strong reminder of Kelly's incredible journey to find freedom and hope. Allison and Kelly still remain very close today.
Kelly now knows she is smart and beautiful on the inside and out. Her future plans include becoming an artist and writing a book about her journey. She feels her story may help others find healing and hope and believes it will touch the lives of others with a strong message that they don't have to be afraid - there is hope. When asked what Kelly would say to other foster youth, she said, "stay off drugs, stay in school and make the right decisions. Take advantage of all of the opportunities you have been given." Kelly is currently employed at a local non-profit thrift store supporting Futures Explored where she recently won employee of the year!
All of us at Youth Homes are very proud of how much Kelly has overcome. We wish her a bright future full of all the love and happiness she deserves!
