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your place for wellbeing... november 2009
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Your Place for Well Being ... February 2011
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Matters of the Heart Amy L. West Director

Welcome to February, also known as the relationship month. As you may know, the essence of CUP is relationship. We believe that connected relationships with self, others and the community are the foundation of well-being and a fantastic life. I invite you to consider some of the services at CUP that support various ways of being connected. For example, Sandra Kuhn supports her clients to investigate and expand parenting relationships, Jane Donnelly offers an exploration of body and spirit through yoga or Reiki, and Jann Jennelle creates the space to deeply engage with the physical self through massage or myofacial release. As a practitioner and the Director of CUP, I desire to be as present as I can to my relationships. In order to to do this, I have discovered that I must first be dedicated to my own journey of transformation and well-being. To participate in this pilgrimage, I endeavor to devote time, energy, and resources to my relationship with myself. In honor of this intention, I just returned from an experience that gave me the opportunity to remember how important relationships truly are. The retreat reminded me to turn inward and explore what is true for me before looking to the outer world for an answer. This turning in represents and requires me to have a relationship with myself and allows me to authentically connect with others. From this inward knowing, my "cup runneth over" with abundance and I connect with my outer relationships in a much more loving, respectful manner. I can engage in this way of being in relationship only when I give it to myself first. Just like airlines instruct us before our flight departs, "put your own oxygen mask on first before helping others..." February has an entire day devoted to relationships. I invite you to experiment with your relationship to yourself and enjoy the bounty! I look forward to seeing you here at CUP! Warmly, Amy L. West, Director
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Staying Motivate
Terri Redder
Financial Advisor
2011 is upon us and we have one month under our belts. With the start of a New Year, I listed a few goals and opportunities to improve for 2011. Yeah for me for a few months; yet, I often times find myself mid-year not staying as motivated as I am now. Why? It is not about the goals and my great intentions. It's about staying motivated to achieve what I so intently want to achieve - I set the goals, no one else set them for me.
In December, I wrote about reflecting on 2010 and refocusing for 2011. I took some time to reflect on 2010 in each of the six "F" toward overall well being:
Faith, Family, Feelings, Finances, Fitness, Friends
For 2011, I've put together a few annual goals in each of these areas such as spending more time with my family and friends, staying healthy with more raw foods in my diet, exercising, and saving more money by sticking to a budget. I have them written down in a binder and have placed items on my calendar to create a routine activity. These goals created in January are set with great intention; however, I realize my motivation fizzles out as I near the middle of the year. To keep the intensity throughout the year, my first thought is to break my annual goals down to monthly mini-goals allowing me to stay on track and make adjustments if needed before the year is gone. By intently scheduling time each month and tracking my process I will be able to celebrate smaller accomplishments more frequently in hopes to accomplish the overall annual goals set.
In addition to the monthly goals, I realize that it's not about setting the goals or tracking them - it's about my motivation to stick to my intentions. Heidi Grand Halvorson, PhD, helps us understand how to stick to a plan once we've made it. Her article, "5 Easy Steps for Spending Less" is focused on staying motivated and she suggests five effective strategies we can use for spending less in her article published on Psychology Today. To view her 5 Steps, Click here.
Wishing you all the motivation to stick to your resolutions and goals by being specific, setting concrete actions, and rewarding yourself for good behavior. Terri Offering John Hancock Insurance products. Registered Representative/Securities and Investment Advisory services offered through Signator Investors, Inc., Member FINRA, SIPC. VantagePointe Financial Group is independent of John Hancock, Signator Investors and any affiliates. 3333 Evergreen NE, Suite 200, grand Rapids, MI 49525 (616) 534-9623. 104-20101117-63208
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Partner Yoga
Jane Donnelly,
Certified Yoga Instructor
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Loving Relationships
Love...
Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through the good times and bad. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for weaknesses.
Love is content with the present, it hopes for the future, and doesn't brood over the past. It's the day-in, day-out chronicles of irritations, problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories and common goals.
If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you lack. If you don't have it, no matter what else there is, it is not enough.
Author Unknown
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et cetera
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