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Shalom Congregants and Friends.....
Last Friday evening, we heard a very inspirational talk by Gary Wolff, the UConn Hillel director, about Jewish life on the Storrs campus! He has done a wonderful job in re-invigorating, with student help, the organization there. This Shabbat we will have our Hebrew school students help lead our Friday evening service. Shabbat morning we will have a special baby naming service as we celebrate the naming of Allyson Paige Sutton, granddaughter of Marcia and Jim Sutton. It'll be fun! Saturday afternoon we are having a hav-deli event -- hope you made your reservation!! It was very meaningful for Beth Hillel to host the special program honoring Holocaust survivors Thursday morning. Over 100 people were in attendance. I shared a few words, as did Rabbi Lazowski. Shiri Sandler, one of the curators of the Museum of the Jewish Heritage in New York City gave a meaningful talk, and several state officials, including our own David Baram, were present and gave certificates of honor, Each survivor present also received a copy of the book, The Holocaust by Bullets, by Father Patrick Dubois, who had spoken in Hartford last fall. There are two special daytime events coming up this week. First, there is a need to involve more than the clergy in the planning of interfaith events. Thus the Bloomfield Interfaith Clergy Association is "morphing" into the Bloomfield Interfaith Association. We will have an open meeting on Tuesday, February 15, at noon here at Beth Hillel. Join us; give the office an RSVP as we are serving a light lunch. See the article in Chai-lites for additional information. Second, some congregants have requested a study opportunity during daytime hours. So, as described in the Chai-lites, I am starting a Thursday "Lunch and Learn" program on alternate Thursdays from the "shmooze." First one will be this week -- February 17 -- maybe you can join our class at 11am? If so, please let the office know! Adar 7 is the traditional yahrzeit of Moshe Rebbeinu. It thus marks a period of time devoted to discussion about end-of-life issues. I am preparing and will soon be sending out to the congregation a booklet to serve as a guide for dealing with death and funerals. Also, on Sunday, March 6, I have organized a panel discussion on "Life After Death," sponsored by WeInstein Mortuary, to be held at the JCC - CONSIDER ATTENDING! Purim is coming! Norma Bursack has written a delightful Purim play that is read -- not acted--- and we are looking for some volunteers to assist in reading it at services Saturday evening, March 19... let the office know if you are willing to share in the fun! Lastly, this coming week is "Random Acts of Kindness Week." Consider doing some extra, caring mitzvot to make the world a better place. The BHS Brotherhood has adopted the "Pay It Forward" program -- read the Torah column by Rabbi Gold on this topic as well.
Shabbat Shalom...... I hope you will be with your "synagogue family" at some time here at Beth Hillel Synagogue.
Rabbi Gary and Iris Atkins
"All it takes to study Torah is an open heart, a curious mind and a desire to grow a Jewish soul." |
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Shabbat Services & Candle Lighting Times
CANDLE LIGHTING
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Friday, February 11, NLT 4:59pm EST SHABBAT SERVICE TIMES Friday, Feb. 11 8:00pm Saturday, Feb. 12, 9:30AM, 4:45pm Mincha then HAV-DELI!!!!!
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Joke of the Week
"What do you say to a hitchhiker with one leg???????"
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Congregational Announcements
Membership Drive
At our Congregational meeting on Jan. 25, 2011 we voted to stay in our present location while conducting an agressive membership campaign. Every member of Beth Hillel should consider himself/herself a member of the Membership Committee.
If you would like to volunteer to stuff envelopes, make phone calls or talk to prospective members, please e-mail or call Norman Cohen, 860-242-1498, norman0112@comcast.net.
We look forward to hearing from you,
Norman Cohen
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Bloomfield Interfaith Association
The Bloomfield Interfaith Clergy Association is expanding its outreach to include all who are interested in interfaith dialog and understanding. In addition to supporting the annual community Thanksgiving and Dr. Martin Luther King remembrance services, the goal of the Bloomfield Interfaith Association will be to foster relationships and support between the various groups that call Bloomfield their home.
A first meeting will be held on Tuesday, February 15, at 12noon at Beth Hillel Synagogue, 160 Wintonbury Road. A light lunch will be served. So that appropriate plans can be made, please call the synagogue at 242-5561 and share your plans to attend.
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United Synagogue Turns Inward
New focus on member synagogues proposed along with outreach to non-traditional minyans.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Stewart Ain Staff Writer The Jewish Week
Faced with a declining membership, an increasing number of Jews who shun synagogue affiliation and the movement's "best and brightest" migrating to post-denominational or Modern Orthodox settings, the congregational arm of Conservative Judaism is seeking to reinvent itself.
Under a proposed strategic study that was one year in the making, the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism will refocus to concentrate exclusively on helping its 652-affiliated congregations "deliver a vibrant Conservative Judaism to North America," Rabbi Steven Wernick, its executive vice president and CEO, told The Jewish Week.
"With the reality of priorities and resources, we feel that at this time the primary task of United Synagogue is to partner with congregations," he explained, adding that there would no longer be an "emphasis on individual Jews." In addition, there would also be an attempt to reach out to havurot and independent minyanim often comprised of single and young married couples without children who grew up in Conservative congregations but no longer want that structure.
"Supporting them today could help build Conservative kehillot [sacred communities] tomorrow," according to a draft of the strategic plan. The report suggests dropping the words "synagogue" and "congregation" and replacing it with the word "kehilla" because a congregation is a "sacred community." The change would be seen as welcoming to those who believe in Conservative ideas but are uncomfortable with the "Conservative movement" label. In addition, it is hoped that the USCJ can "become a nexus for serious, post-denominational Judaism as well." "The motivation of North American Jews for synagogue affiliation has changed and we need to create an organization that operates as an engagement model," Rabbi Wernick explained.
The proposed changes come following blistering criticism of the USCJ two years ago from both lay leaders and clergy of its affiliated congregations. They charged that the organization lacked vision and financial transparency, and was in drastic need of an overhaul to make it relevant to its members.
Although the 1990 National Jewish Population Survey found the Conservative movement to be the largest denomination with 43 percent of affiliated Jewish households, that figure plunged to 33 percent in 2000. Since then, affiliation has continued to decline. The USCJ said it has lost about six percent of its congregations (a drop from 693 in 2001 to 652 in 2010) and about 15 percent of its members (dropping from 241,300 membership units to 204,200). The largest membership change came in the Northeast, which recorded a 30 percent plunge in membership units.
The drop in membership impacted the largest congregations the most. Whereas in 2001 there had been 36 congregations with more than 1,000 membership units, that figure dropped by 33 percent to just 24 in 2010. And the number of congregants in those synagogues plunged by 38 percent from 49,400 membership units in 2001 to 30,700 last year. "Among congregations of every size and in every region, there is growing ambivalence about their continued membership in USCJ," the strategic report said. "At a time when they are cutting their own congregational budgets and clergy's salaries, few leaders express enthusiasm for paying dues to an organization that they feel is not delivering."
Among the strongest critics was Arthur Glaberman of Scarsdale, a founder of Bonim, a group of lay leaders from a number of Conservative synagogues. A former president of Shaarei Tikvah in Scarsdale, Glaberman said he was pleased to see the plan recommend that synagogue dues to USCJ be lowered. Dues currently provide 80 percent of the organization's $10.5 million budget. But Glaberman questioned the way the plan proposes to reduce dues - by attracting philanthropists.
"I'm skeptical how that is going to be done when this is a time when people are not writing checks to new organizations," he said. "United Synagogue has never really relied on serious philanthropic outreach; how is it going to develop it now?" These philanthropists would also be invited to sit on the board of the USCJ and asked for a minimum gift of $10,000 annually. The current board raises only a little more than $100,000.
But Rabbi Michael Siegel of Chicago, a leader of the Hayom Coalition, 25 of the largest USJC synagogues that had also lobbied for change, welcomed the idea. "The United Synagogue is an international organization that could very well impact the future of American Judaism," he said. "From that perspective, it is exactly the kind of organization that some high-profile people should be interested in being involved with. Once you bring those type of people into leadership positions, philanthropic possibilities will grow exponentially."
Rabbi Siegel said that if approved, the governance changes "would be a quantum leap for the organization" because it would for the first time allow rabbis, cantors and educators to be involved in a serious way as leaders of an organization that until now was led by lay leaders and professionals. Glaberman said there should have also been a call for a reduction in staffing and other expenditures, in addition to bringing in philanthropists. "I still believe they are overstaffed for what they provide," he said. "And how important is it if they want to change for the 21st century to be in an expensive building [in Manhattan]?"
Rabbi Siegel said he welcomed a section of the plan that calls for a new era of cooperation and collaboration between the different arms of the Conservative movement. For instance, talks are now underway regarding its various educational programs, everything from pre-kindergarten through high school and graduate education. "This is a long overdue discussion about how these organizations can work together to avoid a duplication of effort that sometimes happens," he said.
Glaberman said he would have liked to have seen some discussion in the strategic plan "about reaching out to the intermarried and how we can make them feel more supported so they don't leave" the movement. Jacob Finkelstein, co-chairman of the commission that developed the strategic plan, said that detail would come later. He compared the plan to "a 30,000-foot road map - you can sort of see the road and the route, but not the twists and turns."
Nevertheless, some specifics have begun to emerge. Instead of the 65 programs United Synagogue currently offers, there would be no more than 20 or 30. Among the programs that would be affected are those that deal with college-age students, those for senior citizens and the Fuchsberg Center in Israel that is used for congregational missions and education programs. "We are reimagining our role from being program providers to resource providers," said Rabbi Charles Savenor, executive director of the Metropolitan Region of United Synagogue. "So we would no longer be running regional or national programs for college-age students but providing resources for local communities to interface and engage with their own college students or local college students." Rabbi Wernick said the movement's college-age group Koach would still have a presence on college campuses but there would be "greater cooperation with Hillel ... which operates successful programs like peer-to-peer Jewish community building. ... One possible iteration is that Hillel would do the engagement training with them and we would do the Conservative values training."
But all of these changes are just in the proposal stage. In the coming weeks, comments on the strategic plan will be solicited from across the country. For instance, on Feb. 22, Rabbi Wernick and members of the strategic planning commission are slated to meet at 7 p.m. at Temple Israel Center at 280 Old Mamaroneck, Road in White Plains. Based on the input, changes would be made before the plan is presented for approval to the United Synagogue board on March 13.
Once approved, work would begin in spelling out the changes, one of which would be to change the organization's name to reflect its new mission and focus.
"New directions provides new opportunities for re-engagement," Rabbi Wernick said. "Once the board agrees to change direction, we can begin. It's like wanting to take a vacation with adult children - everyone has their own idea of where to go but we can't go until we all agree. Once we know where to go, we'll figure out how to get there." United Synagogue Turns Inward |
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Social Action Updates
DONATIONS OF FOOD ARE GREATLY NEEDED FOR THE KOSHER AND REGULAR FOOD BANKS!! PLEASE DONATE AT THE SYNAGOGUE NOW!!
ESPECIALLY IN THESE WINTER MONTHS, DONATIONS DECREASE... PLEASE DO WHAT YOU CAN NOW! Blue neckties are needed for the students of Milner school. Bring in your gently used neckties to either the shul or rabbi's office.
Help with Darfur ..... Help in Hartford... Help in Ethiopia
The 2010 Handbook of Hartford Volunteer Opportunities is now available for your perusal in the library!
Coming.... May 1... Foodshare annual "Walk for Hunger." Sign up to join the team at:
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Be aware of those less fortunate than we are!! Carry out the mitzvah of tikkun olam! |
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Upcoming Synagogue and Community Events
SAT, FEB 12, HAV-DELI AT MINCHA
WED, FEB. 23, 6:30PM - DR. DONNA ROBINSON DEVINE - UNREST IN EGYPT: THE FALL OF THE PHAROAH AND THE REGION'S SHIFTING SANDS - A TALK AT THE SIMSBURY PUBLIC LIBRARY - call 860-677-1235 FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION.
FRI FEB 25/SAT FEB 26 - CANTOR SHABBAT WITH CANTOR MICHELLE TEPLITZ
MON, FEB 28, 12:30PM -- SHLOMO KOFMAN, NEW ISRAEL DEPUTY CONSUL GENERAL IN NEW YORK, SPEAKING AT FEDERATION - call them for info
FRI, MAR 4 - SYNAGOGUE SHABBAT DINNER.... SHABBAT ACROSS AMERICA
SAVE THE DATE: BHS MAJOR FUNDRAISER: SUNDAY EVENING, MAY 15, COMEDY EVENING!! DETAILS TO FOLLOW......
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Israel News
A Friendship of Values, Not Convenience
By DANIEL GORDIS, NEW YORK TIMES, FEBRUARY 8, 2011
FOR decades Shimon Peres, now Israel's president, has spoken of his country's yearning for a "new Middle East," one in which Israel is at peace with its neighbors, regional economies cooperate and the conflict with the Palestinians is finally set aside. Now, with Egypt's government on the edge of collapse, Israel is suddenly faced with a "new Middle East" - and Israelis are terrified.
Many Westerners believe that the events in Egypt are a disaster for the Jewish state. Its most important regional ally faces possible chaos and an Islamist takeover. Add to this King Abdullah II's recent dismissal of his cabinet in Jordan (the only other Arab country that has signed a peace treaty with Israel), Hezbollah's quiet coup in Lebanon last month, a resurgent Syria and an increasingly Islamist Turkey, and you can understand why many Israelis feel surrounded, as they did decades ago.
In the short run America faces an uncomfortable choice. It can support Egypt's president, Hosni Mubarak, who is at least marginally pro-Western and has maintained the cold peace with Israel initiated by his predecessor, Anwar el-Sadat. But Mr. Mubarak is also a ruthless despot. Alternately, Washington can support the democracy movement, but with the knowledge that democracy could bring anti-Western, anti-Israel and possibly Islamist leaders to power. In short, none of the parties vying for control of Egypt share America's fundamental values of genuine democracy, a free press, women's rights and minority protections.
But the threat of chaos, and even Islamist rule, might have a silver lining. It is all the more obvious that there is only one country in the region that has the same values as America: Israel. If America reacts to recent events by increasing its support for those who share its values, it could reassure a suddenly surrounded Israel and perhaps even move the peace process with the Palestinians forward.
Until now the central pillar of President Obama's strategy for restarting peace talks has been to pressure Israel to cease building settlements. Settlements may or may not be wise, but where has the equivalent pressure on the Palestinians been?
The administration has failed to insist that the Palestinian Authority recognize Israel as a Jewish state, even though Israel has recognized the national aspirations of the Palestinian people. And Mr. Obama has allowed the Palestinian flag to fly in Washington, a symbolic signal of support for Palestinian statehood. All without the Palestinians making any concessions. As a result, the United States has unwittingly created disincentives for the Palestinians to negotiate with Israel. Without pressure from Washington, the political position of Mahmoud Abbas, the Palestinian president, is growing stronger each month, abetted by the growing number of countries that have recently recognized Palestinian statehood.
But the chaos throughout the Arab world could force Washington to realize that all its coddling of oppressive regimes in Egypt, Jordan and Yemen has done nothing to spread its values in a region that desperately needs them.
In that event America might, at long last, come to understand that its best hope for peace in the region is to throw its weight behind Israel's prime minister, Benjamin Netanyahu, even if he isn't its Israeli politician of choice.
In doing so, Mr. Obama should make it clear to the Palestinians that what the United States respects is democracy, a free press, equal rights for women and a commitment to the free exchange of ideas. If he wishes to pressure Israel on settlements, he should publicly pressure the Palestinians on something equally politically fraught for Mr. Abbas. Washington should bring Israel in from the cold, and let Mr. Abbas know that time is not on his side.
Daniel Gordis is the senior vice president of the Shalem Center and the author, most recently, of "Saving Israel: How the Jewish People Can Win a War That May Never End." |
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Weekly Torah Portion Commentary -
Courtesy of Rabbi Michael Gold.....
Let me share an encounter I had this week. I was driving my daughter from Maryland down to Florida, and we stopped for the night in a small town in South Carolina. In a moment of klutziness, I managed to knock the passenger side view mirror off the car. It was hanging by a thread. I was thinking, can I drive without a mirror? Is there a Wal-mart nearby where I can pick up some superglue? And would that hold it? God did not bless me with great fix-it abilities? Then we saw at our hotel a young man go to his truck, which had the name of a metal works company on it. I decided to approach a total stranger and ask for help. He looked at my mirror and told me that it should be easily fixed with a little epoxy. He took everything he needed out of his truck. I offered to pay him, but he turned me down. He said, "I always learned that it is good karma to help someone else. Someday it will come back to help me." We chatted briefly. He was from Greenville, S.C. where his family owned a metal work business. He was in this town to do the metal work for a local hospital. I told him that a few years ago I went to Greenville to give a lecture. I can speak to a community about love, sex, and marriage, but ask me to fix something and I am helpless. He replied that he could never speak publicly about such things, but he could fix most anything. Again he said that helping us will come back to bless him. I have often spoken about how we meet angels who help us, and then go on their way. The right person appears at the right place and time. It could be mere happenstance. But if you come from a religious outlook, you begin to wonder if there is something more going on. Is there a spiritual force that brings certain people into our lives? I do not know. But I do know that good deeds come back to bless us. There is another insight that came to me from this encounter with a total stranger outside a hotel room in South Carolina. We each bring certain gifts and talents to this world. We also bring certain shortcomings to this world. That is why we need other people. As the Christian thinker Reinhold Niebuhr taught, "Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore, we are saved by love." We need other people in our lives to do the things we cannot do ourselves. Those of us who can speak need people who can fix things. I like to hope that those who can fix things need people who can speak. There is a hint of this idea in this week's portion. This is the only portion in the Torah from the beginning of the book of Exodus onwards where Moses' name is never mentioned. The whole portion focuses on Aaron, the clothing he and his sons will wear and his dedication for the priesthood. It is as if Moses deliberately stepped back and let his brother have the glory. Later the Midrash will comment on this. "Who are the brothers the Psalmist referred to when it said, `Here is what is good and what is pleasant, for brothers to dwell together.' (Psalms 133:1) Moses and Aaron honored one another, Moses took the kingship and Aaron the priesthood, and they did not hate one another. Rather each was proud of the greatness of the other." (Tanhuma Shmot ) Each of us has a small part in perfecting this world. Each of us meets other people who also have small parts in perfecting this world. Often these other people can do the parts we cannot do. Like Moses, each of us needs to step aside and allow the other to do their part. As we say in our daily prayers, together we will be able to perfect this world as a kingdom of God. |
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