Shalom Congregants and Friends.....
  
Rabbi's Ramblings...... 

 

Last Friday evening, we heard a very inspirational talk by Gary Wolff, the UConn Hillel director, about Jewish life on the Storrs campus! He has done a wonderful job in re-invigorating, with student help, the organization there.

 

This Shabbat we will have our Hebrew school students help lead our Friday evening service. Shabbat morning we will have a special baby naming service as we celebrate the naming of Allyson Paige Sutton, granddaughter of Marcia and Jim Sutton. It'll be fun! Saturday  afternoon we are having a hav-deli event -- hope you made your reservation!!

 

It was very meaningful for Beth Hillel to host the special program honoring Holocaust survivors Thursday morning. Over 100 people were in attendance. I shared a few words, as did Rabbi Lazowski. Shiri Sandler, one of the curators of the Museum of the Jewish Heritage in New York City gave a meaningful talk, and several state officials, including our own David Baram, were present  and   gave certificates of honor, Each survivor present also received a copy of the book, The Holocaust by Bullets, by Father Patrick Dubois, who had spoken in Hartford last fall.

 

There are two special daytime events coming up this week. First, there is a need to involve more than the clergy in the planning of interfaith events. Thus the Bloomfield Interfaith Clergy Association is "morphing" into the Bloomfield Interfaith Association. We will have an open meeting on Tuesday, February 15, at noon here at Beth Hillel. Join us; give the office an RSVP as we are serving a light lunch.  See the article in Chai-lites for additional information. Second, some congregants have requested a study opportunity during daytime hours.  So, as described in the Chai-lites, I am starting a Thursday "Lunch and Learn" program on alternate Thursdays from the "shmooze." First one will be this

week --  February 17 -- maybe you can join our class at 11am? If so, please let the office know!   

 

Adar 7 is the traditional yahrzeit of Moshe Rebbeinu. It thus marks a period of time devoted to discussion about end-of-life issues. I am preparing and will soon be sending out to the congregation a booklet to serve as a guide for dealing with death and funerals. Also, on Sunday, March 6, I have organized a panel discussion on "Life After Death," sponsored by WeInstein Mortuary, to be held at the JCC - CONSIDER ATTENDING!

 

Purim is coming! Norma Bursack has written a delightful Purim play that is read -- not acted---  and we are looking for some volunteers to assist in reading it at services Saturday evening, March 19... let the office know if you are willing to share in the fun!

 

Lastly, this coming week is "Random Acts of Kindness Week." Consider doing some extra, caring mitzvot  to make the world a better place. The BHS Brotherhood has adopted the "Pay It Forward" program --  read the Torah column by Rabbi Gold on this topic as well. 

 

Shabbat Shalom...... I hope you will be with your "synagogue family" at some time here at Beth Hillel Synagogue. 


Rabbi Gary and Iris Atkins

 
"All it takes to study Torah is an open heart,

a curious mind and a desire to grow a Jewish soul."

 Shabbat  Services & Candle Lighting Times

CANDLE LIGHTING     
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 Friday, February 11, NLT 4:59pm EST 

SHABBAT SERVICE TIMES     Friday, Feb. 11 8:00pm  Saturday, Feb. 12, 9:30AM, 4:45pm Mincha  then HAV-DELI!!!!!
Joke of the Week 

 "What do you say to a hitchhiker with one leg???????"

 

"Hop in."

Congregational Announcements 
Membership Drive 

     At our Congregational meeting on Jan. 25, 2011 we voted to stay in our present location while conducting an agressive membership campaign. Every member of Beth Hillel should consider himself/herself  a member of the Membership Committee.

     If you would like to volunteer to stuff envelopes, make phone calls or talk to prospective members, please e-mail or call Norman Cohen, 860-242-1498, norman0112@comcast.net.

     We look forward to hearing from you,

                    Norman Cohen
 

Bloomfield Interfaith Association

The Bloomfield Interfaith Clergy Association is expanding its outreach to include all who are interested in interfaith dialog and understanding. In addition to supporting the annual community Thanksgiving and Dr. Martin Luther King remembrance services, the goal of the Bloomfield Interfaith Association will be to foster relationships and support between the various groups that call Bloomfield their home.

 

A first meeting will be held on Tuesday, February 15, at 12noon at Beth Hillel Synagogue, 160 Wintonbury Road. A light lunch will be served. So that appropriate plans can be made, please call the synagogue at 242-5561 and share your plans to attend.

 

PLEASE CALL AND MAKE YOUR RESERVATION NOW!!!!

United Synagogue Turns Inward

New focus on member synagogues proposed along with outreach to non-traditional minyans.

United Synagogue Turns Inward
 Social Action Updates    

DONATIONS OF FOOD ARE GREATLY NEEDED FOR THE KOSHER AND REGULAR FOOD BANKS!! PLEASE DONATE AT THE SYNAGOGUE NOW!!

ESPECIALLY IN THESE WINTER MONTHS,  DONATIONS DECREASE... PLEASE DO WHAT YOU CAN NOW!


 
Blue neckties are needed for the students of Milner school. Bring in your gently used neckties to either the shul or rabbi's office.

  
Help with Darfur ..... Help in Hartford... Help in Ethiopia

The 2010 Handbook of Hartford Volunteer Opportunities is now available for your perusal in the library!

 

Share a Random Act of Kindness .... this week/ every week!  go to the site: www.randomactsofkindness.org

 

Coming.... May 1... Foodshare annual "Walk for Hunger." Sign up to join the team at:
http:/site.foodshare.org/goto/bethhillel 

Be aware of those less fortunate than we are!! Carry out the mitzvah of tikkun olam!
 Upcoming Synagogue and Community Events  

SAT,  FEB 12, HAV-DELI AT MINCHA


WED, FEB. 23, 6:30PM - DR. DONNA ROBINSON DEVINE - UNREST IN EGYPT: THE FALL OF THE PHAROAH AND THE REGION'S SHIFTING SANDS -
A TALK AT THE SIMSBURY PUBLIC LIBRARY  - call 860-677-1235 FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION.

FRI FEB 25/SAT FEB 26 - CANTOR SHABBAT WITH CANTOR MICHELLE TEPLITZ
 
MON, FEB 28, 12:30PM -- SHLOMO KOFMAN, NEW ISRAEL DEPUTY CONSUL GENERAL IN NEW YORK, SPEAKING AT FEDERATION - call them for info

FRI, MAR 4 - SYNAGOGUE SHABBAT DINNER.... SHABBAT ACROSS AMERICA

SAVE THE DATE: BHS MAJOR FUNDRAISER: SUNDAY EVENING,  MAY 15, COMEDY EVENING!! DETAILS TO FOLLOW......


Israel News

A Friendship of Values, Not Convenience

By DANIEL GORDIS, NEW YORK TIMES, FEBRUARY 8, 2011

 

FOR decades Shimon Peres, now Israel's president, has spoken of his country's yearning for a "new Middle East," one in which Israel is at peace with its neighbors, regional economies cooperate and the conflict with the Palestinians is finally set aside. Now, with Egypt's government on the edge of collapse, Israel is suddenly faced with a "new Middle East" - and Israelis are terrified.

 

Many Westerners believe that the events in Egypt are a disaster for the Jewish state. Its most important regional ally faces possible chaos and an Islamist takeover. Add to this King Abdullah II's recent dismissal of his cabinet in Jordan (the only other Arab country that has signed a peace treaty with Israel), Hezbollah's quiet coup in Lebanon last month, a resurgent Syria and an increasingly Islamist Turkey, and you can understand why many Israelis feel surrounded, as they did decades ago.

In the short run America faces an uncomfortable choice. It can support Egypt's president, Hosni Mubarak, who is at least marginally pro-Western and has maintained the cold peace with Israel initiated by his predecessor, Anwar el-Sadat. But Mr. Mubarak is also a ruthless despot. Alternately, Washington can support the democracy movement, but with the knowledge that democracy could bring anti-Western, anti-Israel and possibly Islamist leaders to power. In short, none of the parties vying for control of Egypt share America's fundamental values of genuine democracy, a free press, women's rights and minority protections.

 

But the threat of chaos, and even Islamist rule, might have a silver lining. It is all the more obvious that there is only one country in the region that has the same values as America: Israel. If America reacts to recent events by increasing its support for those who share its values, it could reassure a suddenly surrounded Israel and perhaps even move the peace process with the Palestinians forward.

 

Until now the central pillar of President Obama's strategy for restarting peace talks has been to pressure Israel to cease building settlements. Settlements may or may not be wise, but where has the equivalent pressure on the Palestinians been?

 

The administration has failed to insist that the Palestinian Authority recognize Israel as a Jewish state, even though Israel has recognized the national aspirations of the Palestinian people. And Mr. Obama has allowed the Palestinian flag to fly in Washington, a symbolic signal of support for Palestinian statehood. All without the Palestinians making any concessions. As a result, the United States has unwittingly created disincentives for the Palestinians to negotiate with Israel. Without pressure from Washington, the political position of Mahmoud Abbas, the Palestinian president, is growing stronger each month, abetted by the growing number of countries that have recently recognized Palestinian statehood.

But the chaos throughout the Arab world could force Washington to realize that all its coddling of oppressive regimes in Egypt, Jordan and Yemen has done nothing to spread its values in a region that desperately needs them.

In that event America might, at long last, come to understand that its best hope for peace in the region is to throw its weight behind Israel's prime minister, Benjamin Netanyahu, even if he isn't its Israeli politician of choice.

In doing so, Mr. Obama should make it clear to the Palestinians that what the United States respects is democracy, a free press, equal rights for women and a commitment to the free exchange of ideas. If he wishes to pressure Israel on settlements, he should publicly pressure the Palestinians on something equally politically fraught for Mr. Abbas. Washington should bring Israel in from the cold, and let Mr. Abbas know that time is not on his side.

 

Daniel Gordis is the senior vice president of the Shalem Center and the author, most recently, of "Saving Israel: How the Jewish People Can Win a War That May Never End."

Weekly Torah Portion Commentary  - 

Courtesy of Rabbi Michael Gold.....

 

      Let me share an encounter I had this week.  I was driving my daughter from Maryland down to Florida, and we stopped for the night in a small town in South Carolina.  In a moment of klutziness, I managed to knock the passenger side view mirror off the car.  It was hanging by a thread.  I was thinking, can I drive without a mirror?  Is there a Wal-mart nearby where I can pick up some superglue?  And would that hold it?  God did not bless me with great fix-it abilities?
       Then we saw at our hotel a young man go to his truck, which had the name of a metal works company on it.  I decided to approach a total stranger and ask for help.  He looked at my mirror and told me that it should be easily fixed with a little epoxy.  He took everything he needed out of his truck.  I offered to pay him, but he turned me down.  He said, "I always learned that it is good karma to help someone else.  Someday it will come back to help me."
       We chatted briefly.  He was from Greenville, S.C. where his family owned a metal work business.  He was in this town to do the metal work for a local hospital.  I told him that a few years ago I went to Greenville to give a lecture.  I can speak to a community about love, sex, and marriage, but ask me to fix something and I am helpless.  He replied that he could never speak publicly about such things, but he could fix most anything.  Again he said that helping us will come back to bless him.
       I have often spoken about how we meet angels who help us, and then go on their way.  The right person appears at the right place and time.  It could be mere happenstance.  But if you come from a religious outlook, you begin to wonder if there is something more going on.  Is there a spiritual force that brings certain people into our lives?  I do not know.  But I do know that good deeds come back to bless us.
       There is another insight that came to me from this encounter with a total stranger outside a hotel room in South Carolina.  We each bring certain gifts and talents to this world.  We also bring certain shortcomings to this world.  That is why we need other people.  As the Christian thinker Reinhold Niebuhr taught, "Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore, we are saved by love."  We need other people in our lives to do the things we cannot do ourselves.  Those of us who can speak need people who can fix things.  I like to hope that those who can fix things need people who can speak.
       There is a hint of this idea in this week's portion.  This is the only portion in the Torah from the beginning of the book of Exodus onwards where Moses' name is never mentioned.  The whole portion focuses on Aaron, the clothing he and his sons will wear and his dedication for the priesthood.  It is as if Moses deliberately stepped back and let his brother have the glory.  Later the Midrash will comment on this.  "Who are the brothers the Psalmist referred to when it said, `Here is what is good and what is pleasant, for brothers to dwell together.' (Psalms 133:1)  Moses and Aaron honored one another, Moses took the kingship and Aaron the priesthood, and they did not hate one another.  Rather each was proud of the greatness of the other."   (Tanhuma Shmot )
       Each of us has a small part in perfecting this world.  Each of us meets other people who also have small parts in perfecting this world.  Often these other people can do the parts we cannot do.  Like Moses, each of us needs to step aside and allow the other to do their part.  As we say in our daily prayers, together we will be able to perfect this world as a kingdom of God.