Find Your Joy
JOY ~ The Journey of You                                      January 29, 2010
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I was gifted a dragonfly pin (THANK YOU!) and I looked up its symbolism.
 

"As a creature of the wind, the dragonfly represents change. It's iridescent wings are incredibly sensitive to the slightest breeze, and so we are reminded to heed where the proverbial wind blows.

Dragonflies carry messages that deal with deeper thought - and they ask that we pay attention to our deeper thoughts and desires.  

It should be noted that the dragonfly lives a short life, and it knows it must live to the fullest with what it has. This lesson is huge for each of us."  

 
Humans, and insects alike, live your life to the fullest. 
 
 
 
Words to Ponder~ 
 

Darkness cannot drive out darkness;

only light can do that.
Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
--Martin Luther King, Jr.
 
Lyrics to love
"I'm in love with a waitress..."
 
I'm in love with you, baby,
and I don't even know your name
 
"I Don't Even Know Your Name" ~ Alan Jackson
Joy
 
What brings YOU joy lately?
 
* "Sailing in January." Allen & Ruth Penticoff, New Milford, IL currently in Florida
 
*"The medicine has shrunk the tumor in my daughter's head to almost nothing." Torrie Cullinane, Mulvane KS
 
*"Volunteering at Spring Creek School for the reading program." Murl Hill, Rockford, IL
 
*"That Valentino bag..." Tess Iandola, Chicago, IL
 
* "Custom diamond plate floor mats and hi-performance exhaust for my smart." Jim Hanson, Hanover Park, IL
 
* I suprised my hubby on Christmas with reservations for DisneyWorld in May. He is insane about that place. I have reservations for NINE. Four grandkids, our two unmarried kids, a boyfriend, hubby, and me. Unspeakable JOY!" Karen Phillips, Atlanta, GA
 
* This photo is from Kathy Batzkall, Belvidere, IL of last week's fog/ice crystal creations.
 
 
 "It was like a gossamer vision in the fog."
Giggle
  
My giggles this week come from you.
 
Allen Penticoff sent a list of oxymorons and quipped, "Oxy-moron - something to get your idiot clean."
 
Commenting on the late hour of my emails, Stephanie Meier, said: "You're sending emails at 3 am?! Someone had better be throwing up for me to be awake at 3 am!"   
 
This from Randy Lape is bad!
A woman goes to the doctor, beaten black and blue.
Doctor: "What happened?"
Woman: "Doctor, I don't know what to do.  Every time my husband
comes home drunk he beats me to a pulp." 
Doctor: "I have a real good medicine for that..  When your
husband comes home drunk, just take a glass of sweet tea and start
gargling with it.  Just gargle and gargle."
   
Two weeks later the woman comes back to the doctor looking fresh
and reborn. 
Woman: "Doctor, that was a brilliant idea!  Every time my
husband came home drunk, I gargled with sweet tea.  I gargled and
gargled, and nothing happened!"
Doctor: "You see how keeping your mouth shut helps?"
 
 
Picks this week
 
Flick Pick -  The Little Black Book
                    Brittany Murphy is adorable (RIP sweetie) and sings Carly Simon songs.
                    I heart Carly Simon.
 
Book Pick -  Girls Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon and the Journey of a Generation
                   by Sheila Weller
 
 
Birthday Love
 

  HAPPYHAPPYJOYJOY BIRTHDAY WISHES TO:

 
 WOLFGANG AMADEUS MOZART
 
 DOTTIE DAY
 
VAL ROTE
 
DEB MCKEW
 
NATE NANIA
 
 
 
JANUARY BDAY WINNER IS: 
REBECCA JOHNSON
 
(I need your address, pretty please.)
 
(Send in your birthday. Each month a name is drawn for a JOY prize delivered via snail mail.)
 
 
Quote Junkie
 
"There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them."
~Vicki Baum
 
Sage Advice
 
 From the email inbox:
  (thanks, Sherri Meredith, Machesney Park, IL)
 

>Never buy a coffee table that you can't put your feet on.

 
>Believe in miracles, but don't depend on them.
 
>Ask yourself if what you are doing today is getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow.
 
>Remember that nothing important was ever achieved without taking a chance.
 
>Be willing to accept a temporary inconvenience for a permanent improvement.
 
>Protect your enthusiasm from the negativity of others.
 
>Never forget that life's most treasured moments usually come unannounced.  
 
 
Inquiring Minds
The question was:
Movies at the theater
 or
Movies at home
 
Replies have been back and forth all week. There are merits to both. Big screen creates "an experience," but costs more money and annoying cell phones ring at inopportune times. (Any time during the movie is inopportune.) The small screen at home is cozy, cheap, and if the movie stinks, you can turn it off.
 
Many opinions, but ultimately, it was a tie. I won't cast a vote one way or the other because I love both.
 
 
THIS WEEK'S POLL:
Gas fireplace or wood burning?
Ice, Ice Baby
 
 
Antartica
Gigs
 
February 4 - Joy on the Job; Rockford Memorial Hospital, Perionatal Network
February 8 - Finding Joy; Center for Learning in Retirement
February 12 - Finding Joy; Park Tower
February 20 - Write Your Personal Story, Elgin Community College
 
 
Kelly's newspaper column -   The year of the engaged adult
 
Kelly's blog for healthyrockford.com -  Write it out
 
Wise
  
Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.
~Goethe
Wit
 
 From the "church bulletin typo" files...
 (thanks, Kristin Podemski, Rockford, IL)
 
"This evening at 7 pm there will be a hymn singing in the park across from the church. Bring a blanket and come prepared to sin."
 
 Anne Taintor Inc.
Word Nerd
  
 
 Widdershins (withershins)  (adverb)

Pronunciation:  ['wid-�r-shinz]

Definition: Moving in a direction opposite the usual; moving counterclockwise or in the contrary direction (of the sun, especially).

Usage: Today's word is basically an adverb but may be used as an adjective without the final [s].

Suggested Usage: Today's word is another wonderword from the land of kilts and bagpipes that we should all fight to keep alive: "Gerard does everything widdershins; he will either turn out a grandiose success or an abrupt failure."  "Remember, the prophets agree that you get nowhere walking widdershins up the escalator."


  -Dr. Language, YourDictionary.com
 
 
 I might be living my life widdershins, but it feels like the right direction for me.
Spirit of Giving
  
Many people have been moved to donate to Haiti relief. Something of that magnitude grabs our attention and our heartstrings and we give. We should.
 
 
Some people are moved to give when something on a smaller scale grabs their attention and heart. Read how one teenage girl convinced her family to sell their home, live more modestly, and give.
 
 
 
And read how one man who became a billionaire also then found himself "joyless." Until he decided to give it all away.
 
 
 
Play together
  
 
 Married over 60 years and playing a piano duet with a smile and a bounce
       piano couple
 
(Thanks for sharing, Lisa Larson, Pasadena, CA)
  
 
"Art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday living."
~Pablo Picasso
 
 
 
 The Old Guitarist
You Tube junkie...
  
* Take a sad song and make it better.....
 
 
 
 
 * "The shiny guy always worries..."
 
Star Wars synposis from a 3 year old
 
 
 
* My boys used to sit in a chair together
 
 
 
Earmuffs and sweaters and slippers. Warmth equals joy. To all of you readers in warm climates, please enjoy it. Send me a postcard.  
 
joyfully,
xxkelly
 
Disneyland in April - the Biology of HOPE!
 
 
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parting shot...
 
Baby, it's cold outside. I hear that song only in December and it's not a Christmas tune. Tis perfect right now. Vanessa Williams' version is wonderful (I love her Wilhemina Slater on "Ugly Betty.")
 
I really can't stay. Well, maybe just a half a drink more. 
 
 
 
 
Kelly Epperson
Writer, Speaker, Listener
www.kellyepperson.com
kel_epperson@yahoo.com
PO Box 2324 Loves Park IL 61131
 
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