July  2009
 
 
the e-Newsletter of MCC NOVA
spirit.   community.   action.    inside & "out"
 
 
Rev. Dr.  Kharma Amos, Senior Pastor
Rev. Tim Agar, Associate Pastor 

Service at 11:00 am

 
In This Issue
News From Your Lay Delegates
From the Hearts of the Community
Read Ahead
Save the Date!
Special Invitation
Coming Up!
Micah Ministries
Spotlight on Ministry
FYI
How Do I Get In Here?
Community Notes
Support MCC NOVA
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NEWS FROM YOUR LAY DELEGATES
 
On June 21st NOVA's two lay delegates, Jean Gralley and Gail Minnick, held a meeting after service to report on developments in MCC that impact us here at NOVA.  This is a re-accounting of that news with some links for further information.

 
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FROM THE HEARTS OF THE COMMUNITY
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Fairfax Nursing Center
 by Pat Monahan

 
 
Emma, Chanda, and I made the rounds together one Sunday at Fairfax Nursing Center. We popped our heads into one room and asked, "We're volunteers - would you like some company?"  We found a woman who cut right to the chase:
 
"I want lasagna and a man!" she cried.
 The woman, Mary, settled for a diet soda and an audience. 
 
Mary was 94-years-old and was looking for a rich man. Said she might just steal someone else's man. Then she roared.
 
Mary said she had lived - had taken chances, made mistakes, and tried many new things. She told Chanda she had a cute figure and asked when Emma and Chanda were getting married. She seemed unafraid of possibly approaching the end.
 
Last I saw her, she was still hunting. She told me to behave and I encouraged her to flirt with the staff (not that she needed encouragement).
 
At Fairfax Nursing home, I've met a basesball fanatic who enjoyed the company of a fellow fan, a sharp former CIA agent, a teacher who enjoyed telling me of her elopement years ago. I met a woman with a voice so soft I could barely hear her speak. She was just happy to have someone push her wheelchair outside and sit with her a while.
 
Meeting Mary kind of stuck with me, though. When a sickly, 94-year-old with a twinkle in her eye tells you to seize the day, you listen.
 
If you have a half hour on July 12th - join us at Fairfax Nursing Home. Bring lasagna and a man or just yourself. ;-)
 
For more information, contact Grace Borell or Pat Monahan.

READ AHEAD

 July 5

First Reading:
 
Second Reading:
 
Reflection:
 
"Moving Beyond Rejection"
Rev. Dr. Kharma Amos, preaching

SAVE THE DATE!

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Sunday, July 26
 
Important Community Discussion
(and potluck) 
 
Please join us after worship on Sunday, July 26 as we move forward in addressing our need for a new facility. Your participation and input is critical! More information will follow.  All are welcome.
Please plan to attend and bring a dish to share. 

YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED

 

  ORDINATION CEREMONY

 REV. ELECT PAULETTE V. ARMSTEAD
 
 Sunday afternoon, July 12th at 3:00pm to 5:30pm
 
MCC of Washington, DC
474 Ridge Street NW
 Washington, DC 20001
 
Speaker:  Rev. Dr. Kharma Amos
 
Officiators of Rite of Ordination: Rev. Elder Arlene Ackerman
               and Rev. Elder Charlie Arehart
 
Music by: MCC NOVA Choir with Dan Scearce
               MCC DC Choir with Shirli Hughes
 
Reception with food and refreshments will immediately
 follow the ceremony.
 
COMING UP
 
BIBLE SPEAK
Sundays through July 26, 9:00 am
 
Join us for Bible study now through July 26.  Fresh coffee and breakfast items are provided.  For more information, contact Frank Vance, Cathy Alexander, Jeff Young, or Bobby Hopson.

 
CARE TEAM MEETING
Thursday, July 9, 7:00 pm
 
We will begin discussion of the questions posed to Ministry areas regarding future facility needs.  We will again take time to lift up the needs of the members of our community in prayer and continue our discussion on a summer picnic/get-together and the possibility of a 'homecoming' Sunday in September to celebrate everyone's return from summer travels and vacations as the new school year begins.

OVER-50 GAME DAY
Saturday June 11, Noon to 4:00 pm
 
NOVA's A.A.R.P. or All Ages (over 50) Ready to Play is having another fun game day on Saturday, July 11th in the church from Noon to 4 p.m.  If you are over 50 years of age and want to join other members and their friends from NoVA for a delightful afternoon of fun and fellowship, make plans to join us for this event.  If you are able to attend, please bring a salad, sandwiches or treats to share along with your favorite game.  Beverages will be provided.

 
NURSING HOME MINISTRY
Sunday, July 12, 2:00-3:30 pm
 
The Fairfax Nursing Center visit this month is Sunday, July 12, 2 - 3:30pm.  For more info or to join this month's visit, contact Grace Borell, agentgrace@mris.com, or call 301.514.3772.  Pat Monahan is also available to answer questions.  Email her at pmmonahan@cox.net or call 703.927.0093.
  
   
 
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GRIEF/LOSS PEER SUPPORT
 
Grieving the loss of a loved one is an individual process. Everyone's grief is different. Grieving is especially difficult in the first year. However, we face the grief at different times all throughout our lives, months/years later. If you have a need to talk to someone in a healthy, safe, confidential space, please contact Jean Taczak at jtaczak@att.net or
703-262-0126 home or 571-228-3536 cell or talk with Reverend Tim or Reverend
Kharma.  Jean will meet with you individually at an agreed upon place.
 

MICAH MINISTRIES

 

Micah Ministries is MCC NOVA's social justice ministry. Below are our current plans for this calendar year.  Please let Micah know what you would like to participate in. Judith Raleigh is the team lead and she would love to hear from you

 
 
MCC NOVA COMBATS POVERTY
Breakfast Delivery, Walkathon, Meals on Wheels, Hypothermia Shelters
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The first Sunday of each month, MCC NOVA delivers breakfast to Fairfax homeless. Typically, we prepare the food on Saturday afternoon. If you have an hour or two to spare, you can help.
  • The Nursing Home Ministry visits Fairfax Nursing Center once per month to provide companionship to residents
  • In the winter, local churches take turns hosting the homeless to prevent hypothermia. While MCC NOVA is not equipped to host these individuals, we send volunteers to assist the other churches.
     
    If you are interested in any of these programs, please contact Pat Monahan at (703) 684-7947 or pmmonahan@cox.net.
AIDSWalk Washington               October  2009
Homeless Shelter Meals             On-going
Nursing Home Ministry                Ongoing
Help the Homeless Walkathon     November 2009
NOVAM Angel Tree                    December, 2009
Holiday Food & Clothing Drive      December, 2009
Global Outreach  (Costa Rica)     February 14-22, 2009
 
spotlight Special Thanks to the Following: 
 
 To De Raynes for organizing our annual softball game.  Thanks to all of those who came out to play and cheer.  What a time!
 
To our Lay Delegates Gail Minnick and Jean Gralley for hosting the Congregational Forum to have conversation in preparation for the upcoming Regional Conference.  We are proud to have you as our representatives.
 
To Elethia and Cindy for their volunteer efforts in the office.  We appreciate your behind the scenes service in so many ways.
FYI
 
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MCC REGIONS 3 & 5 CONFERENCE
July 15-17, Pittsburgh, PA
 
Regional Conference for churches in Regions 3 (that's us) and 5 is right around the corner.  For more information registration, accomodations, and schedules, CLICK HERE.
 
 
 
 
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MCC GENERAL CONFERENCE ACAPULCO 2010
REGISTRATION INFO 
 
Planning on attending MCC General Conference in Acapulco in 2010?   For more information, please click here.

 
 
 
 
HOW DO I GET IN HERE?

 
opendoorTo place a ministry-related announcement in our weekly e-update or monthly e-Newsletter or for more information about placing a community announcement, please contact Tracey Kennedy at mccnovacom@earthlink.net.  For church bulletin announcements, please contact Emma in the church office at info@mccnova.com

 
ANNOUNCEMENTS DURING WORSHIP
 
It is probably not news to anyone that we have too many verbal announcements during worship on Sundays.  Though many of these announcements are important to the life of our community, the pastoral staff try to limit these as much as possible.  Below is the criteria that we generally follow and we include this as a reminder to request your assistance in helping us manage and minimize verbal announcements during worship.
 
1)    Announcements need to be reviewed and approved in advance.  Ideally this means contacting the church office during the week to discuss any proposed announcement.
2)    Announcements are judged on these criteria in deciding whether or not to include them verbally as part of worship, 1) Relevant to the whole community? 2) Time sensitive - is event coming up soon? 3) Priority given other announcements that "need" to be made? 4) Other, more effective methods for communicating subject matter - are there too many details for verbal announcement? 5) New ministry or program requiring focused attention?
 
Also, just to remind everyone that our weekly e-update, Catch the Rainbow (CTR-Sunday Bulletin) and a monthly electronic newsletter, are all more effective means of communicating news and staying update with what is happening in the community.  CTR contents can be forwarded to info@mccnova.com and newsletter contents can be forwarded to crkscrw@msn.com  Hopefully we can continue to minimize Sunday morning announcements during worship that often feel like an intrusion into the sacred space of worship.  Thank you for your support in this regard.

COMMUNITY NOTES
 
Especially During Tough Economic Times...
2-1-1 CONNECTS THOSE IN NEED TO HELP IN THE NORTHERN VIRGINIA REGION
 
It seems no one in Northern Virginia is free from the impacts of the economic downturn, the credit crisis, home foreclosures and layoffs.  Faced with those disasters, more people than ever are seeking information about health and human services and other assistance programs, but don't know where to call.  Now, there is one convenient number which is answered seven days a week, around the clock:  2-1-1.  The call is free and confidential and operates throughout Northern Virginia and all other parts of the state 24 hours a day, seven days a week.  Callers to 2-1-1 may request referrals to services for abuse and neglect, HIV/AIDS, disabilities, domestic violence, health care, housing, mental health, senior citizens, and shelters, among others.  For more information about CrisisLink and
2-1-1, check out crisislink.org or contact Carol Loftur-Thun at 703.527.6603.
 
 

HAVE A ROOM TO RENT?

 

Please let us know.  We often have people who are looking for housing and would love to know about your resource.  Contact Rev. Kharma.

 

 

CAPITAL HOSPICE SEEKS VOLUNTEERS

 

Are you interested in making a difference?  Adult daytime, evening, and weekend volunteers are needed to visit hospice patients at home, work in our Van Ness office, and join our Speakers Bureau.  We also need volunteers with cars, language skills, and a strong desire to work with people.  Patient Care Volunteer Trainings are held three times a year.  Volunteers will learn about Capital Hospice services and programs and techniques in caring for and communicating with hospice patients. To apply, please contact Volunteer Services at 202-244-8300 or visit www.capitalhospice.org 

 

 

AREA PFLAG GATHERINGS (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)

 

1.   Annandale-Little River United Church of Christ, 3rd Sunday, 4:30 pm.

2.   Falls Church--Temple Rodef Shalom at 2100 Westmoreland Street on the 2nd Thursday at 7:30 pm.

3.   Manassas --Bull Run Unitarian Universalist Church, 4th Monday at 7:00 pm. 

4.   Western Fairfax -- Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Fairfax, 2709 Hunter Mill Road, Oakton, MD 22124

5.   Bethesda MD-2 separate meetings at 2:00 pm on each 3rd Sunday: one   focused on Trans-people and their families-Cedar Lane Unitarian Universalist Church.  
6.  Alexandria, beginning Tuesday, May 12 
    The group meets on the second Tuesday of every month at 7:30 p.m.
    Location:   Hope United Church of Christ, an open and affirming congregation
    6130 Old Telegraph Road, Alexandria, VA 22310, For directions, visit www.hopeucc.org
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