| How a lie became the life I love. |
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It was a simple question, but I had two answers.
There was the one I didn't like, probably because it came straight from my gut and, ultimately, I knew it was the right answer. I also had the polite, Pollyanna answer, the one I concocted to say aloud when it was my turn to share with the group. Answer it truthfully, or tell the lie?
I went with the lie. I lied to them, I lied to myself and I lied to Mark LeBlanc, who had posed the question at one of his Achiever's Circle weekends in 2001.
I was there as CEO of a national ad agency and marketing firm, one that I had started from scratch and grown large enough to attract the attention of and eventually sell to a publicly traded company. Gee, I had always thought that the most stressful thing in the world was being self-employed, what with juggling new business efforts and delivering the work, managing cash flow, making payroll--and sometimes not making payroll.
Wrong. Being owned by a publicly held company was much worse. Granted, I never again had to forgo my own paycheck, but I barely recognized my own company after five years or so. Hit the numbers. Hit the numbers. Forget about fit, just, well, you know-hit the numbers.
At least I didn't have to forgo speaking. Speaking was the best--and my favorite--way to attract and win clients. Yes, I spoke for free. It was marketing, a means to a greater end, and besides, I had no idea you could make a living "just speaking."
So there I was as consultant/speaker at the weekend workshop, listening with one ear towards growing my agency and the other wanting to know more about booking more speeches, perhaps even paid speeches, like everyone else in the workshop seemed to be doing.
As I listened to each person answer Mark's question, I silently rehearsed my lie. To this day, I don't remember what I said, only that it had a sufficient number of words to drown out the three-word answer that kept repeating itself inside my head that night, and the next day, and the next. The chant was going strong a week later, a month later.
Quit the agency. Ridiculous.
Quit the agency. "No way,"I told the voice inside my head. "I've got the best of both worlds: a steady paycheck, and I still get to do some speaking."
Quit the agency. Those words had gone from being my simple, yet scary answer to a thought-provoking question to an all-consuming command.
Six months later, I obeyed. I quit the agency to speak and coach full time, and learned that when you love what you do for a living, life will love you back. I also learned from my friend Mary Goulet that it wasn't a voice inside my head that was talking. It was my gut. Your gut is never wrong, and it speaks in commands, five words or less.
Six years after I resigned, in August 2007, at the national convention of the National Speakers Association, I walked across the main stage in New York City to receive my Certified Speaking Professional medallion from--wait for it--Mark LeBlanc, 2007-2008 NSA president. (Fewer than 10% of professional speakers worldwide have earned the designation, which involves a 5-year process of review and financial metrics.)
What was the question that changed my life? It was from a Jana Stanfield's song:
"What would you do if you were brave?"
And now I'm asking you. . . .well?
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Want to Stand Out, Get Better Results and Sell More Products and Services?
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The Maverick Marketing Workshop is
packed with creative ideas and tangible tools
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marketing budget.)
No theory, no rhetoric, no kidding. We will
be digging in and drilling down on what you
need to know and what you need to DO to get
more business right away. No excuses and no
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I will help you:
- Distinguish your business, products and
services from the competition.
- Find your points of difference no matter
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create a competitive edge no one can copy.
- Focus and create marketing messages that
are meaningful and memorable and get you the
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- Decide the right mix of marketing
activities for your target audiences and
budget.
- Generate word of mouth marketing that
creates a buzz and costs you nothing.
- Use the 4 cornerstones of an effective
marketing message to attract prospects.
- Attract more customers, clients and
referrals.
If I have my way, and you do your part,
you'll walk away with a clear direction of
how to set your business apart, a clear and
compelling message to communicate it, and a
realistic action plan for taking it to the
marketplace, all designed to get you the
specific results you're looking for.
More focus, impact, response and revenue. Who
doesn't want a little more of that?
Post-Workshop Round Up and Group
Therapy.
About 30 days after the workshop, I'll be on
the phone for an alumni conference call in
which anyone who wants to can report
progress, ask me to clarify content,
celebrate success, get feedback, ask
questions and-dare I say it-be held
accountable for their action plan. It's 90
minutes of group therapy, and it's included
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When: Wednesday, June 23 in sunny Seal Beach, California, .
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I will be presenting Blah Blah Blah: Make Your Marketing Stand Out at this new venue, during the 5:30-8:30 pm networking meeting. Here's the TV Guide description:
You know you're different, better and certainly worth the cost. How do you get that across to other people-especially to those who can use your products and services or refer you business? This session equips you to describe what you do or sell in a way that attracts, engages and triggers a decision to hire or buy from you.
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