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Monthly Newsletter                              Volume 6, Issue 5May 2012

 

Greetings! 

 

Baby and Mom kissThis Sunday, we honor all of our very special Angels mothers for opening their homes and hearts to our community's foster children. In small ways and big ways, motherhood changes every aspect of a woman's life. We are grateful to our wonderful mothers for giving their time and energy to help vulnerable children and, in turn, strengthen our community.

 

We celebrate them for loving, protecting and nurturing Angels babies and giving them the guidance to become responsible, healthy, respectful individuals who will one day have families of their own.

 

Happy Mother's Day!

 

From all of us at Angels...

Meichelle, Jennifer, Stacy & Ellen

 

Angels Announcements 

 

New Placements: Thank you to Shannon and David of South Santa Barbara County for accepting the placement of a baby girl in April. 

 

New families: no new families to report.

 

Adoptions: Congratulations to Shelley and Rick on their adoption of twins Eli & Sophia in April!  

 

Angels in the Community

We're looking for opportunities throughout Santa Barbara County to speak about Angels Foster Care and the urgent need for foster families. If you know of a local club, group, church or synagogue that would be interested in a presentation about Angels, please contact Ellen. 

 

Facebook:  Please become a friend of Angels today and receive frequent posts about our latest news.

  

 

Angels Calendar

  

Angels Foster Family Picnic for Family & Friends

Saturday, May 19, 11-1pm

Tucker's Grove Park, Santa Barbara

Area 5 - Kiwanis Meadows

(See full information below)
 
Mid-Morning Parenting Circle

We hope to see you and your Angels baby at a gathering soon!

 

South County Circle

Tuesday, May 22, 10-11am

Victoria Court office, upstairs in Suite 207B

 

North County Circle

Wednesday, May 23, 10-11am

Orcutt office, 210 E. Clark Ave., Suite D

 

Angels Foster Parent Training

Tuesday, July 17 - 5:30-9:00pm

Thursday, July 19 - 5:30-9:00pm

Tuesday, July 24 - 5:30-9:00pm

Thursday, July 26 - 5:30-9:00pm

 

If you know of anyone who may be interested in joining our next series of training classes in May, please have them call the Angels' office or give us their name and number and we would be happy to call them.

 

May Family of the Month 
 
 

Angels Foster Care Picnic for Family & Friends

 

Saturday, May 19 from 11-1pm

Tucker's Grove Park, Santa Barbara

Kiwanis Meadows - Area 5

 

Join us for our first annual foster family picnic celebrating National Foster Care Month! Bring your family and kids for a delicious BBQ featuring tri-tip, chicken, hot dogs, beans, salsa and bread...all donated by the Kiwanis Club of the South Coast. We'll have face painting, crafts, a bouncer, an adjacent playground and family games. 

 

This is a great opportunity for people to learn more about the Angels program in an informal environment, and meet our wonderful foster families and children. Help us spread the

Clockword about this fun event! 

 

Lunch:

* $20 for past and present Angels families (the cost includes all adults and kids in the immediate family). 

 

* $25 for non-Angels families

All proceeds benefit Angels Foster Care!  

 

Send cash or a check to Angels Foster Care, 3905 State Street, #7-115, Santa Barbara CA 93105. Or, pay by credit card using the secure donation page on Angels' web site (www.angelssb.com/donation). Be sure to note your name and your meal choices for each family member: Tri-Tip, Chicken or Hot Dog. The deadline to reserve lunch is Monday, May 14.

 

We look forward to seeing you there!

 

 

 

 

New Parent Classes & Groups

 

There are many opportunities to get involved in playgroups, classes and activities with your Angels baby! Here are a just a few organized groups. Visit the ParentClick website for a more comprehensive list of offerings and activities in your neighborhood.

 

South Santa Barbara County

 

Play with Me, Learn with Me

Family Place Parent/Child Workshop Series for ages 1-3

Fridays, May 11, 18 & 25, June 1 & 8, 5:15-6:30pm

Goleta Public Library, 500 N. Fairview Ave.

Help your toddler learn through books and play. Get handy tips from community experts. Make new friends and fun crafts. Pre-registration is required. (805) 964-7878.

 

SBCC Continuing Education: Parent Education classes 

(Spring session now underway, but you may be able to join an existing class. New session starts June 25. Summer classes display online on June 4th. 
Continuing education classes are a great way to meet other parents and kids in a supportive environment. Learn strategies and tips. Entertains toddlers with movement and play. Classes are designed for specific age groups and include:
Infant Times I & II, Growing Times I & II, Music Times I & II, Toddler Times, Parents & Kids in Parks and more. Most classes cost $10 or less for the session. Various locations throughout Santa Barbara and Goleta. Visit the Continuing Education web site to view the current class schedule or call the Wake Center at 805-964-6853.

  

MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers Group)

A non-denominational group that meets for speakers, crafts, mom's night out, and other fun activities. New groups form in the spring and fall. Santa Barbara and Goleta chapters. Visit the MOPS web site for contact information. 

  

PEP (Postpartum Education for Parents) 

The current PEP Group meets weekly on Wednesdays in Santa Barbara from 10-12noon and is a great place to get to know other new parents with babies the same age (generally newborn to 4 months). Facilitated by PEP volunteers, it is a safe place to share your highs and lows of parenting a newborn. You'll find peer support and make friends that will last a lifetime.  Visit the PEP web site for more details.

  Baby on slide

 

North Santa Barbara County

 

MOMS (Moms Offering Moms Support)

This group offers friendship, support, weekly playgroups and other activities for moms and kids. Information: Orcutt: 350-3148; Santa Maria: 928-0655 or 925-0351.

 

MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers Group)

A non-denominational group that meets for speakers, crafts, mom's night out, and other fun activities. Groups form in the spring and fall. Santa Ynez, Vandenberg, Orcutt and Santa Maria chapters. Visit the MOPS web site for contact information. 

   

 

Angels Contacts
Angels logo baby
CEO
Meichelle Arntz
meichelle@angelssb.com
(805) 884-0012

Operations Director
North County
Social Worker
Jennifer Mills, LCSW
jennifer@angelssb.com
(805) 264-4470

Lead Social Worker
South County
Stacy Peterson, MSW
stacy@angelssb.com
(805) 884-0012

Recruiter
Outreach Coordinator
Newsletter Editor
Ellen Dameron

ellen@angelssb.com

(805) 884-0012

Angels Office
Phone:
(805) 884-0012
Fax: (805) 884-0177
3905 State St., #7-115
Santa Barbara, CA 93105
info@angelssb.com
www.angelssb.com

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Social Worker Corner: May is National Foster Care Month

 

  Each May, National Foster Care Month provides an opportunity to recognize the more than400,000 children and youth in the foster care system nationwide. Locally, in Santa Barbara County, there are approximately 600 youth in the foster care system.  As you know, Angels Foster Care of Santa Barbara is a licensed Foster Family Agency, operating locally to place the youngest of these children in stable and loving homes. 

   It makes me proud to say that our name as an agency is out there in the community. I often run into people who have heard of Angels, through knowing one of our wonderful foster families, or through another supporter. However, many people I encounter in the community still do not understand what foster care truly is. Many of you may have had this

Hands in light

 experience too, or may be wondering yourself, what exactly does "foster care" mean? In light of spreading knowledge and awareness about foster care, here is a brief summary you can share with others who may be trying to understand more about what it all means:


Children and youth are placed in foster care when their parents (or guardians) are no longer able to care for them in a manner that ensures their wellbeing. Children are removed from situations where they are considered to be at risk- usually this is due to a variety of factors such as drug exposure, violence, abuse, neglect, or parents who have unmet mental health needs. Children who are at risk come to the attention of Child Welfare Services through various types of 

reporting. For example, teachers, doctors, law enforcement, concerned citizens, or other family members. Child Welfare then investigates these situations and determines whether or not a child needs to be removed. If it is determined that a child needs to be removed, then the child becomes part of the foster care system. These youth are desperately in need of stable, loving care until they can either safely reunite with their families or establish other lifelong relationships with a caregiver. The intention of Foster Care is to provide a safe haven for children who are in need, protecting them from the "adult" problems, and allowing them to receive quality care-giving. Some of these children are able to return to their biological families once the situations are deemed safe and appropriate. Other times, these children are adopted by their foster parents. 

 

   Please take a moment to think about a way you can help spread the word or acknowledge foster parents in our community. You don't have to become a foster parent to make a difference (although we always need you, so don't hesitate to call and find out more!). Here are a few simple ideas to recognize National Foster Care Month:

 

Play trivia with a friend- Ask them if they know how many children are in foster care nationwide? How about locally? 

 

Find out if there are any foster parents who are a part of your network. For example, maybe you know a friend of a friend, or someone who attends your Church. You can:

            - Offer to run errands for them

            - Drop off a care package of healthy snacks for the family

            - Send them a card to acknowledge their effort to care for children in need

 

Check out the website for National Foster Care Month and share the link via Facebook or Twitter: http://www.fostercaremonth.org/Pages/default.aspx

 

Make a donation to Angels Foster Care, or another organization that supports children in foster care.

 

 

Together we can make a change! 

 

-Stacy Peterson, MSW  
 
 
 

 

The Last Word

 

In honor of National Foster Care month, we would like to share several quotes from foster children who have aged out of the system. These quotes speak to the experience of our foster youth and the lasting impact of a childhood without a consistent, loving family to count on.

 

"We are normal kids in abnormal circumstances." 

-former foster youth, Maine

 

"They were like, 'You're 16. You're going to go off to college in a couple of years, why do you want a family?' It's about my entire life, it's not just about my childhood. I want to know that I'm going to have a place to come home to during Christmas breaks. I want to know that I'm going to have a dad to walk me down the aisle. That I'm going to have grandparent for my children." 

-Mary, former foster youth, Tennessee

 

"I don't think they (people) understand how it feels not being able to say mom and dad. ... (G)oing through foster care, you don't get to say that, you know, that often. And if you do trust somebody enough to say that, who knows how long they'll stick around."

-former foster youth, Iowa

 

"I felt like, you know, parents were torn away from us but it was even more hurtful for me to be torn away from my brothers and sisters. It wasn't my fault or their fault. It was out of our control. And we shouldn't have had to be separated like that."

-former foster youth, California

 

"I wish I had someone with me, you know, like a mentor, for my entire life. I mean, I'm fine with all the changes in my social worker but ... I never really met someone in the system or someone, (a) mentor, that was with me my entire life."

-former foster youth, California

 

"When you have a family, you have everything. You are lucky to have parents and you should always remember that. When I won the Youth Spirit Award, it was exciting. And I have won many awards and things at school, too. But every time I walked up to receive my award, there was no family there to see me get it. Other kids had a mom or a dad to watch them get their award. It should have been a happy occasion. But for me ... I wish I had a family there for me."

-Anna Maria, former foster youth, Connecticut