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Monthly Newsletter                           Volume 4, Issue 5 May 2010
 Greetings!
 
Due to an error, we are re-sending our May newsletter. Sorry for the inconvenience!
 
Mom and newbornMay is National Foster Care month. In celebration there are several fun events happening in our county, as you will see later in the newsletter. We appreciate our families all year long, but wanted to give you all a special gratitude salute this month. Angels families, you are the ones that make this special model of care work for our foster babies. I sent a note out asking for letters from all our families to explain why Angels is different from traditional foster care and the reason you decided to get involved. Your letters have brought tears to my eyes as I am reminded what giants I have the privilege of working with.Thank you so much and I will keep everyone posted on our progress with Oprah.  
 
- Meichelle
 
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Ask Dr. Charish
DrCharish150x150Dr. Charish is better known as Charish Barry, MD, a local pediatric hospitalist with Santa Barbara Cottage Hospital and a pediatrician in private practice (www.petitepediatrics.com). She is also a member of the Angels Board of Directors. Please e-mail her with your questions.
 
Certain safety rules and preventive actions apply to every room. The following safeguards against commonplace household dangers will protect not only your small child, but your entire family.
  • Install smoke detectors throughout your home, at least one on every level and outside bedrooms. Check them monthly to be sure they are working. It is best to use smoke detectors with long-life batteries, but if these are not available, change the batteries annually on a date you will remember. Develop a fire escape plan and practice it so you'll be prepared if an emergency does occur.
  • Put safety plugs that are not a choking hazard in all unused electrical outlets so your child can't stick her finger or a toy into the holes. If your child won't stay away from outlets, block access to them with furniture. Keep electrical cords out of reach and sight.
  • To prevent slipping, carpet your stairs where possible. Be sure the carpet is firmly tacked down at the edges. When your child is just learning to crawl and walk, install safety gates at both top and bottom of stairs. Avoid accordion style gates, which can trap an arm or a neck.
  • Certain houseplants may be harmful. Your regional Poison Help Line will have a list or description of plants to avoid. You may want to forego house plants for a while or, at the very least, keep all house plants out of reach.
  • Check your floors constantly for small objects that a child might swallow, such as coins, buttons, beads, pins, and screws. This is particularly important if someone in the household has a hobby that involves small items, or if there are older children who have small items.
  • If you have hardwood floors, don't let your child run around in stocking feet. Socks make slippery floors even more dangerous.
  • Attach cords for window blinds and drapes to floor mounts that hold them taut, or wrap these cords around wall brackets to keep them out of reach. Use safety stop devices on the cords. Cords with loops should be cut and equipped with safety tassels. Children can strangle on them if they are left loose.
  • Pay attention to the doors between rooms. Glass doors are particularly dangerous, because a child may run into them, so fasten them open if you can. Swinging doors can knock a small child down, and folding doors can pinch little fingers, so if you have either, consider removing them until your child is old enough to understand how they work.
  • Check your home for furniture pieces with hard edges and sharp corners that could injure your child if she fell against them. (Coffee tables are a particular hazard.) If possible, move this furniture out of traffic areas, particularly when your child is learning to walk. You also can buy cushioned corner- and edge-protectors that stick onto the furniture.
  • Test the stability of large pieces of furniture, such as floor lamps, bookshelves, and television stands. Put floor lamps behind other furniture and anchor bookcases and TV stands to the wall. Deaths and injuries can occur when children climb onto, fall against, or pull themselves up on large pieces of furniture.
  • Keep computers out of reach so that your child cannot pull them over on herself. Cords should be out of sight and reach.
  • Open windows from the top if possible. If you must open them from the bottom, install operable window guards that only an adult or older child can open from the inside. Never put chairs, sofas, low tables, or anything else a child might climb on in front of a window. Doing so gives her access to the window and creates an opportunity for a serious fall.
  • Never leave plastic bags lying around the house, and don't store children's clothes or toys in them. Dry-cleaning bags are particularly dangerous. Knot them before you throw them away so that it's impossible for your child to crawl into them or pull them over her head.
  • Think about the potential hazard of anything you put into the trash. Any trash container into which dangerous items will go-for example, spoiled food, discarded razor blades, or batteries-should have a child-resistant cover or be kept away and out of a child's reach. To prevent burns, check your heat sources. Fireplaces, woodstoves, and kerosene heaters should be screened so that your child can't get near them. Check electric baseboard heaters, radiators, and even vents from hot-air furnaces to see how hot they get when the heat is on. They, too, may need to be screened.
  • A firearm should not be kept in the home or environment of a child. If you must keep a firearm in the house, keep it unloaded and locked up. Lock ammunition in a separate location. If your child plays in other homes, ask if guns are present there, and if so, how they are stored.
  • Alcohol can be very toxic to a young child. Keep all alcoholic beverages in a locked cabinet and remember to empty any unfinished drinks immediately.
 
-- from HealthyChildren.org
Your Child's Development:
Temperament and Children Who Are to Slow-to-Warm-Up

   Every child is born with his own way of approaching the world, which we call "temperament." A child's approach to new situations and unfamiliar people is one very important temperament characteristic. The fact is that some children are naturally more comfortable in new situations and jump right in, whereas others are more cautious and need time and support from caring adults to feel safe in unfamiliar situations. At the same time, these children are often very careful observers who learn a lot from what they see, and who may be more inclined to think through situations before they act-an important skill.
   Temperament is not something your child chooses, nor is it something Shy toddlerthat you created. There is not a "right" or "wrong" or "better" or "worse" temperament. But temperament is a very important factor in your child's development because it shapes the way she experiences and reacts to the world. A child who is cautious and a child who jumps right in are likely to have very different experiences going to your annual family reunion, for example, and will need different kinds of support from you.
   Beginning at about 8-9 months of age, almost all babies are coping with separation and stranger anxiety. These are important developmental stages that most babies go through and are not the same as shyness. However, it is important to keep in mind that babies who are by nature more slow to warm up, often experience difficulty with separations and may have a harder time being soothed. 
 
Separations are a big issue at this stage because babies now:
  • Understand that they are their "own person," separate from their parents.
  • Recognize the difference between familiar people and unfamiliar people.
  • Understand that people and things still exist even when out of their sight (object permanence). 
 
   During this period, babies who previously had separated easily may start to cry and protest more at partings (such as bedtime) than they did before. You can help reassure your baby by always saying good-bye. Give her a big hug and tell her she is in really good hands.  With a smile, let her know that she will be just fine and you will see her later.  Also, be sure your baby (over one year of age) has a "lovey" or special stuffed animal/blanket to cuddle while you are away.  Although tempting, avoid sneaking out when you have to leave your little one in someone else's care. Sneaking out sends the message that you think you are doing something wrong by leaving her. This can increase any fearfulness she has about separations and being cared for by others.  
   It's important to keep in mind that the goal is not to change your baby's temperament. It is critical that he feel accepted and respected for who he is. You support your baby when you help other family members understand who he is and what he needs.Talk with them about your child's temperament, how he likes to be soothed, what comforts him, and how he prefers to be held.
 
- adapted from ZerotoThree.org
 
Special Announcements 
 
New Families
Welcome to Amy & Dave from Santa Maria!
 
New Adoptions 
There are no new adoptions to report this month.
  
 
 
Angels Calendar
 
Family Service Agency's 26th Annual Children's Festival
with special salute to "Foster Care Month"
Saturday, May 15, 11-4pm at Alameda Park, Santa Barbara
Please stop by the Angels booth - we will be featuring a balloon animal maker! Angels will be joining other non-profits who work with foster children to spotlight the role of foster parents.This is a not-to-be-missed event for any family with little kids. Features pony rides, bounce houses, obstacle courses, interactive exhibits for kids and lots of fun for everyone! Free.
 
Foster Parent Appreciation Carnival
Saturday, May 15, 12-3pm at the Buellton Marriott
This annual event is free to all foster parents and their families. Buffet picnic lunch, Puppet Show by Swazzle, arts & crafts, caricature drawings, games and much more. Please RSVP to Anne Rodriguez at Santa Barbara County Social Services by May 12 at 805.696.8959 or a.rodriguez@sbcsocialserv.org.
 
Angels Foster Parent Training - next sessions 
May 21, 5:30-9pm; May 22, 8-4pm; May 26, 5:30-9pm
July 16, 5:30-9pm; July 17, 8-4pm; July 21, 5:30-9pm
If you know of anyone who may be interested in joining the class, please have them call the Angels' office or give us their name and number and we will call them.
 
Angels Foster Family Picnics
Tuesday, May 25, 11am in South County
Wednesday, May 26, 11am in Mid/North County 
Exact locations will be e-mailed to families two weeks prior to the picnics. Families are welcome to attend one or both picnics. Please RSVP as soon as possible to your social worker or to the office at 898-0901 so we can be sure we have enough food for everyone. 
 

May 2010 FFOTM

In This Issue
Ask Dr. Charish
Social Work Corner
Announcements
Family of the Month
Angels Contacts
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Executive Director
Meichelle Arntz
Meichelle@angeslsb.com
(805) 898-0901
 
Program Director 
 North County
Social Worker
Jennifer L. Mills, LCSW
Jennifer@angelssb.com
(805) 264-4470
 
South County
Social Worker
Stacy Peterson, MSW
Stacy@angelssb.com
(805) 898-0901
 
Recruiter
Outreach Coordinator
Newsletter Editor
Ellen Dameron
ellendameron@cox.net
(805) 886-0390
 
Angels Office 
Phone:(805) 898-0901
Fax: (805) 682-6649
3905 State Street,
#7-115
Santa Barbara, CA 93105
info@angelssb.com 
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From the desk of your Angels Social Worker
 
Paperwork, paperwork, paperwork. We have some, they have some. We want theirs, they need ours. I'm sure everyone can relate to this constant shuffling. It's a necessary and important part of life, but also time-consuming and not the most fun task. Stacy and I are just about to start our quarterly file audit of Angels' kids and families. So, you may be hearing from us shortly about needing new copies of car insurance and driver's licenses or getting a reminder from us about recertifications soon coming due.  All joking aside, Community Care Licensing (CCL) required forms and certifications must be kept current at all times. CCL regulations are derived from California State law and it is vital that Angels and all Angels' homes be in compliance with these requirements. Thank you in advance for your assistance! 
 
The following are requirements for your license:  Your home's foster care certification (posted in your home); your home's completed emergency and disaster form with house diagram (posted also in your home); and fire drill log (documenting one fire drill every six months).
 
If you have any questions about the above items, please contact your Angels' social worker.
 
- Jennifer
 
 
Local Resources
 
SBParent.com (serving Santa Barbara, Montecito, Carpinteria and Goleta)
 
NorthSBcountyParent.com
(serving Santa Maria, Santa Ynez and Lompoc Valleys)
 
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