B"H
 
Chabad of Sunny Isles Beach
17555 Atlantic Blvd. (ground floor King David)
January 16, 2008   Shvat 10, 5768
 
A BIT OF WIT
Sometime in the 1970s, on an absolutely freezing  day, a shipment of meat arrives in a town in the Soviet Union.
 
The  townspeople, bundled to their eyeballs, line up outside the town store to wait  to be given their rations. After about an hour, a man comes out of the store and  announces, "Comrades, I'm sorry to tell you, but there isn't enough meat for  everyone, so the Jews have to leave." The Jews in the line leave grumbling. 
 
About an hour later, the man comes out of the store and announces,  "Comrades, I'm sorry to tell you this, but there isn't enough meat for  everyone, so anyone who is not a member of the Communist party will have to  leave." More grumbling as the non-Party members depart.
 
Another hour goes  by and the man comes out of the store again and announces, "Comrades, I'm  sorry to tell you this, but there isn't enough meat for everyone in the line, so  anyone who wasn't a member of the Party before 1956 has to leave." More  grumbling as all the younger Party members leave. A  few old people remain in the  line.
 
Another hour goes by. It's now getting dark and it's cold. The  same man  comes out of the store and announces, "Comrades, I'm sorry to tell you  this, but there isn't any meat. Go home."
 
One old lady in the line turns  to her neighbor and says, "See? It's like I  told you. The Jews always get the best treatment ..."
ASK THE RABBI

Dear Rabbi

 I am open to being set up with girls and have been on a few blind dates. But it's going nowhere. I'm just not attracted to the girls I'm set up with. Are there no good-looking girls around?

 Answer:

 You remind me of an old friend of mine. A few years back we were walking down a main street in Brooklyn talking about the dating scene. He complained, "Every girl I am set up with I find unattractive."

Then he nodded towards a girl across the road and said, "Why can't someone introduce me to someone like her?"

At that moment the girl crossed the street and walked straight past us.

"Oh," my friend whispered, "I did go out with her!"

 We can be so kind in our judgment of strangers on the street, while being so harsh on the person we are dating. If she doesn't knock our socks off with her dazzling beauty, then we go into ultra-critic mode, waiting to pounce on any little flaw that we can find and say, "She's not for me."

 I'm sure you have had the experience of meeting someone who at first didn't seem attractive, but as their personality unfolded their beauty emerged and you became attracted. Equally, we have all met someone who at first struck you by their beauty, but as you got to know them better an ugly side of their personality surfaces, and their beauty is soured.

A person is a multi-layered being, a soul as well as a body. These layers overlap and influence each other. An inner charm can spill over into outer beauty. An attractive inside makes someone more attractive on the outside too. Allow someone to share their whole being and you may surprise yourself and find that you are deeply attracted after all.

Of course you need to be attracted to your wife. But she doesn't have to knock your socks off. (And by the way, she doesn't have to pick them up after you either). Better find someone who leaves your socks right where they are, but draws your heart closer and closer as her inner self is revealed.

 View your date as a soul, not just a body. Then you will find beauty is not to be found across the street, but sitting right in front of you.

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Chabad of Sunny Isles Beach is proud to announce our Family Shabbaton. Leave the cooking to us and enjoy
Friday, January 18 and Saturday, January 19.  Feed your stomach and your soul as we enjoy an inspiring Shabbat together. 

Friday, Jan.18 Evening Services 5:30 PM Followed by a Gourmet Dinner.
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Yitro: A New World After Sinai
 
Prior to the the giving of the Torah, man was certainly capable of doing good, and when he did good, his soul was elevated spiritually. But the objects of his experience remained the same. The events at Sinai not only brought G-dly wisdom into the world, but it transformed the physical world itself. Material reality now became capable of holding onto holiness, and every element of physical creation became capable of elevation. In this week's class we will learn about one of the most fundamental principles of Judaism: The transformative effect that a mitzvah can have on every aspect of creation.
 
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Reflections on Jewish Faith, Reason and Experience
Our beliefs color the way we see the world and helps us to make sense of the inevitable challenges that confront us.
 
Beyond Belief is designed to help you take a closer look at how Jewish beliefs can help bring meaning to your life and guide your choices.
 
Class Starts Tuesday, February 5th at 7:00 PM and continues for six weeks.

Parsha In A Nutshell

Soon after allowing the Children of Israel to depart from Egypt, Pharaoh chases after them to force their return, and the Israelites find themselves trapped between Pharaoh's armies and the sea. G-d tells Moses to raise his staff over the water; the sea splits to allow the Israelites to pass through, and then closes over the pursuing Egyptians. Moses and the Children of Israel sing a song of praise and gratitude to G-d.

In the desert, the people suffer thirst and hunger and repeatedly complain to Moses and Aaron. G-d miraculously sweetens the bitter waters of Marah, and later has Moses bring forth water from a rock by striking it with his staff; He causes manna to rain down from the heavens before dawn each morning, and quails to appear in the Israelite camp each evening.

The Children of Israel are instructed to gather a double portion of manna on Friday, as none will descend on Shabbat, the divinely decreed day of rest. Some disobey and go to gather manna on the seventh day, but find nothing. Aaron preserves a small quantity of manna in a jar, as a testimony for future generations.

In Rephidim, the people are attacked by the Amalekites, who are defeated by Moses' prayers and an army raised by Joshua.

E-TOAH

 Is it possible to be spiritual and selfish at the same time? Let us have a look at the words of the Torah that shed important light on this question.

Vayasa Moshe et ha'am -- "Moses made the people journey from the Sea." The great miracle had happened. The sea had split and the Egyptian army was no more. The word vayasa -- "he made [them] journey" -- implies that Moses had to force his people to move on. But why was this necessary? Why wouldn't they move on their own?

According to Rashi, the enemy was so confident of victory against the Israelites that they bedecked their horses and chariots with gold, silver, and precious jewels. These treasures were now being washed up on the seashore, and the Jews were collecting the riches. So they were in no mood to move on. But Moses said they had a date with G-d at Mount Sinai. As the nation's leader, he had to compel them to carry on their journey.

The Zohar gives a more spiritual explanation. We are taught that the Divine revelation at the Splitting of the Sea was quite an extraordinary experience. In the words of our sages, "What a simple maidservant saw at the Sea, even the great prophets were not privileged to see." According to this mystical view, it was not the material wealth they were obsessed with, but rather the incredible spiritual delights they were experiencing.

Either way, it was up to Moses to move them along to their appointment with destiny. And the question is this: If it was gold and silver that was delaying their journey to Sinai, we can well understand the need for Moses to hurry them on. But if it was the spiritual experience of inspired revelation, why move on? Why not stay there as long as possible? Surely, the more G-dly revelation the better!

The answer is that G-d was calling. Sinai was beckoning. The entire purpose of the Exodus and all the miracles in Egypt and at the Sea was nothing more than to receive the Torah at Sinai. That was the Revelation that would give the Jewish People its unique way of life and its very raison d'etre. Sinai represents our mission, our mandate. Sinai made us G-d's messengers on earth. However we may understand the concept of a Chosen People, it was the Sinaitic experience that made us that. Any detours or distractions from the journey to Sinai are therefore out of the question -- no matter how lofty or spiritual they might be.

It comes as no great shock to learn that gold and silver is not as important as Sinai. But that spirituality, too, must take second place to Sinai, this is indeed big news. And what exactly is Sinai? Torah. And what is Torah? The will of G-d. In other words, the bottom line is: what does G-d want? How does He want us to act, to live our lives? So, the big news story here is that even the most amazing spiritual experience, the most extraordinary revelation, is not as important as doing what G-d wants us to do.

It is a very important message that emerges from this one word, vayasa. It's not what we want that counts, but what G-d wants. If we want money and diamonds, and He wants to give us His Torah, then we leave the loot and we go to Sinai. And even if it is a spiritual experience we seek, and G-d says Go to Sinai, we still go to Sinai and we leave the spiritual inspiration for another time.

The following is a true story. It once happened back in the old country that late one night, a wagon driver ran into a yeshivah and cried out to the students to come out and help him. It was urgent, he said. Apparently, his wagon had overturned and his horse was stuck in a ditch and was in danger of dying. He needed help to get the wagon upright. It was late at night and there was no one else he could turn to, so he appealed to the yeshivah students to come to his assistance.

At this point, the students' Talmudic training kicked in and a long halachic debate ensued. Was it right to leave their Torah study for the sake of a horse? After all, is not Torah study equal to all the other mitzvot combined? On the other hand, the horse provided this Jew's livelihood. Which takes precedence? The debate raged on and on -- and when they finally did decide to go out and help the poor man, it was too late. The horse had died.

Sometimes we can get so caught up in our own spirituality that we become quite selfish. Spiritually selfish, of course, but selfish nonetheless. At the end of the day, it's not whether we are into materialism or monotheism, money or metaphysics. The ultimate question -- and, in fact, the only question -- is: what does G-d want of me at this moment in time? Where should I be and what should I be doing right now?

So if you find yourself in a quandary or on the horns of a difficult dilemma, ask yourself this very question: what would G-d want? Yes, sometimes it might be helping a horse out of a ditch. But if that is the call of the hour, then so be it. It might not be very spiritual, but it is the right thing to do.

And if it's the right thing to do, that makes it very G-dly.

 
Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Yisrael and Toby Baron
Chabad of Sunny Isles Beach