Thanks for your answers to our most recent "Ask PCA" question about parents saying "no" to holiday tournaments. To review that question and PCA's answer, you can continue scrolling through this item, but for now, consider this week's question:
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Following is the previous "Ask PCA" question and PCA's response:
More and more you are seeing youth tournaments pop up all over the place for all sports. In many cases the tournaments are held on holiday weekends. This has traditionally been a great time for families to travel or spend time together. Should coaches demand their players attend these tournaments scheduled over holiday weekends? Is it OK for parents to just say, "No"?
PCA Response by Eric Eisendrath, Lead Trainer-New York
Communication is the key. Prior to the season's start, coaches should convey expectations for the players, including attendance at games and tournaments.
From that point, parents can discuss with coaches any specific scheduling conflicts. Hopefully, coaches would show some flexibility, but if not, that might be an important litmus test in determining if you and the coach share the same hopes and goals for your child's experience on the team.
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