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| MOTHER'S DAY ISSUE | MAY 2010 |
Dear Friend:
As you know, May is the month we celebrate and pay tribute to that all important female figure and chief caregiver in life. It's you, "Mom!"
Mother's Day is May 9th this year. But did you know that the celebration of motherhood began in the 1870's and has been growing in popularity ever since? In fact, the estimated number of mothers in the U.S is 81.5 million. And being a mom is so popular that 81% of all women between the ages of 40 and 44 have children.
While motherhood is rewarding, it's also a responsibility. The definition of being a mother (as a verb) is "to care for or protect like a mother; act maternally toward." So it seems being a mom is in the "doing." After "mom" brings us into this world, she changes our diapers, bakes our birthday cakes and puts a bandage on our scraped knee. She drives us to the mall, band and soccer practice and helps us choose the perfect prom dress or tuxedo. Many women are so natural at mothering, they go onto become grandmothers and great grandmothers lending their care and support to their daughters as they raise their own children.
Knowing all that a mom does, it should come as no surprise that women make up the majority of informal care providers in this country. To see what makes a good caregiver, read Derrick Merchant's article with five tips in this issue. Chances are you'll see your mom has many of these caregiver tips down pat. I've also included a poem by Pamme Boutselis entitled "Nearly 15." In this ode from a mom to her teenager, Boutselis is part Maya Angelou and part Erma Bombeck. I hope it brings a smile to your face like it did to mine.
So, here's to you, Mom for the many contributions you make to your family and society as a whole. We couldn't do it without you.
Be well and Happy Mother's Day!
Sharna Fulton, Director of Marketing Alternative Home Care for Seniors (AHCS)
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Five Things We Can Learn From Caregivers
In
our home care business at AHCS, we employ caregivers who provide personal care
and companionship to seniors. Yes, they are certified and have been
trained and learned special skills to work with and help seniors. But we
also look for those who are naturally able to show compassion and
respect for others. Here are some traits of superb caregivers. 1) A
good caregiver listens and doesn't talk back to seniors. 2) A
good caregiver has a soft touch. For instance, when applying ointment or
lotion to a senior, they are always gentle. 3) A good caregiver
speaks softly, not harshly to seniors. 4) A good caregiver
lets the senior feel in charge. "He or she understands their senior has
lost some independence by not being able to drive or cook by themselves
anymore," explains Njeri Soley, Staff Coordinator for Alternative Home
Care for Seniors. "By asking questions and showing interest in the
senior's wishes, they empower the senior," she adds. 5) A good
caregiver is patient. This is especially important when transferring a
senior from a chair or bed. I encourage you to consider the above
ideas when providing care to a senior. You can also show respect to an elder through simple gestures such as holding a door or simply saying hello. It's a nice
way to show respect for our senior citizens and it will make you feel
good, too. Derrick Merchant is a co-owner and Chief Administrator for Alternative Home Care for Seniors (AHCS) He is also the Atlanta Senior Issues reporter for Examiner.com
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Nearly Fifteen A poem by Pamme Boutselis, (a mother)
Fourteen nearly fifteen
and he says he has a
life.
I just can't expect that he has
time to do all
the things I
would
like him to do.
In
comparison to
me, the
least busy one - working two
jobs and involved
in
countless things; doing it so
long,
though, that it's just second
nature.
Remember all
those firsts when you were
young
- not just
love, or driving by yourself or being with the person you coveted for so long.
The first time you heard a blues standard and understood exactly
what it meant, or connected the name of a restaurant with a
classic tale from long ago.
You thought
you were the only one to suddenly connect the dots, the very
first one to figure it all
out.
You knew everything
- the universe was
unfolding right before your
eyes.
You were busy; you were
sought after. The world couldn't possibly expect any
more than you were already giving, and yet
someone was still harping on you to pick up your
dirty socks and empty the trash.
Read more poems by Pamme Boutselis at Beach Towel Press.
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It's 3 AM and you need home care for mom. But who's going to pick-up the phone?
We will, of course. It's our 24/7 SafetyNET™. That means no matter what time or what day it is, you'll always get someone to help you with your home care questions. We often can place a caregiver within 8-12 hours as well. Just call us.
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Home Care Today
is an e-news publication of Alternative Home Care for Seniors (AHCS)
Each
monthly issue features quick-read information pertaining to seniors,
caregivers, our community involvement, etc. In addition, we proudly
feature a story on a senior service other than home care in each issue.
If you have an idea that benefits seniors, we'd like to know about it
for a possible future issue. To see archived e-newsletters, click here. All articles copyright Alternative Home Care for Seniors 2010. To request permission to reprint articles or content from past issues, please contact sharna.fulton@att.net
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