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MOTHER'S DAY ISSUEMAY 2010
 
Dear Friend:

As you know, May is the month we celebrate and pay tribute to that all important female figure and chief caregiver in life. It's you, "Mom!"

Mother's Day is May 9th this year. But did you know that the celebration of motherhood began
in the 1870's and has been growing in popularity ever since? In fact, the estimated number of mothers in the U.S is 81.5 million. And being a mom is so popular that 81% of all women between the ages of 40 and 44 have children.

While motherhood is rewarding, it's also a  responsibility. The definition of being a mother (as a verb) is "to care for or protect like a mother; act maternally toward." So it seems being a mom is in the "doing." After "mom" brings us into this world, she changes our diapers, bakes our birthday cakes and puts a bandage on our scraped knee. She drives us to the mall, band and soccer practice and helps us choose the perfect prom dress or tuxedo. Many women are so natural at mothering, they go onto become grandmothers and great grandmothers lending their care and support to their daughters as they raise their own children.

Knowing all that a mom does, it should come as no surprise that women make up the majority of informal care providers in this country. To see what makes a good caregiver, read Derrick Merchant's article with five tips in this issue. Chances are you'll see your mom has many of these caregiver tips down pat. I've also included a poem by Pamme Boutselis entitled "Nearly 15." In this ode from a mom to her teenager, Boutselis is part Maya Angelou and part Erma Bombeck. I hope it brings a smile to your face like it did to mine.

So, here's to you, Mom for the many contributions you make to your family and society as a whole. We couldn't do it without you.

Be well and Happy Mother's Day!

Sharna Fulton, Director of Marketing
Alternative Home Care for Seniors (AHCS)
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Five Things We Can Learn From Caregivers

In our home care business at AHCS, we employ caregivers who provide personal care and companionship to seniors. Yes, they are certified and have been trained and learned special skills to work with and help seniors. But we also look for those who are naturally able to show compassion and respect for others. Here are some traits of superb caregivers.

1) A good caregiver listens and doesn't talk back to seniors.

2) A good caregiver has a soft touch. For instance, when applying ointment or lotion to a senior, they are always gentle.

3) A good caregiver speaks softly, not harshly to seniors.

4) A good caregiver lets the senior feel in charge. "He or she understands their senior has lost some independence by not being able to drive or cook by themselves anymore," explains Njeri Soley, Staff Coordinator for Alternative Home Care for Seniors. "By asking questions and showing interest in the senior's wishes, they empower the senior," she adds.

5) A good caregiver is patient. This is especially important when transferring a senior from a chair or bed.

I encourage you to consider the above ideas when providing care to a senior. You can also show respect to an elder through simple gestures such as holding a door or simply saying hello. It's a nice way to show respect for our senior citizens and it will make you feel good, too.

Derrick Merchant is a co-owner and Chief Administrator for Alternative Home Care for Seniors (AHCS)
He is also the Atlanta Senior Issues reporter for Examiner.com




Nearly Fifteen   A poem by Pamme Boutselis, (a mother)

Fourteen
nearly fifteen

and he says he has a life.

I just can't expect
 

that he has time to do
all the things 

I would like him
to do.

In comparison
 

to me, the least busy one - 
working two jobs and
involved in countless things;

doing it so long, though,
that it's just second nature.

Remember all those

firsts when you were young -
 

not just love, or driving
by yourself or being with the person
you coveted for so long.

The first time you heard
a blues standard and understood

exactly what it meant,
or connected the name of a restaurant
with a classic tale from long ago.

You thought you were the only one

to suddenly connect the dots,
the very first one to figure it all out.

You knew everything -

the universe was unfolding
right before your eyes.

You were busy;

you were sought after.
The world couldn't possibly
expect any more than you were
already giving, and yet someone
was still harping on you to pick
up your dirty socks and empty
the trash.

Read more poems by Pamme Boutselis at Beach Towel Press.

 
It's 3 AM and you need home care for mom.
But who's going to pick-up the phone?
 
We will, of course. It's our 24/7 SafetyNET™. That means no matter what time or what
day it is, you'll always get someone to help you with your home care questions.
We often can place a caregiver within 8-12 hours as well. Just call us.

 
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Home Care Today is an e-news publication of Alternative Home Care for Seniors (AHCS)

Each monthly issue features quick-read information pertaining to seniors, caregivers, our community involvement, etc. In addition, we proudly feature a story on a senior service other than home care in each issue. If you have an idea that benefits seniors, we'd like to know about it for a possible future issue. To see archived e-newsletters,
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