Creative Calm Newsletter
Helping You Help Yourself
November 2010
In This Issue
Prepare for the Worst?
Experiment Follow Up
NGH Chapter Meeting
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Welcome to the Creative Calm Newsletter, I trust this finds you shining brighter than the light of a thousand suns and if not-give me a call at (732) 714-7040!

Our main topic concerns what has to be added to your visualization practice in order to ensure success.

Also, I am going to let you in on the secret of the mental influence experiment some of you took part in a awhile back.

And for hypnotists and other serious students of human nature in the greater NJ area, you will want to attend the November NGH Chapter meeting.
Prepare for the Worst?
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Some proponents of positive thinking maintain that you should never allow yourself to dwell on a negative thought or image. And they are right to a point-yet wrong too.

A "sacred cow" of self-improvement is that you should focus continuously on an image of what you want to achieve such as having a leaner, healthier body or more success at your career.

Yet some research indicates that dwelling solely on that positive picture may actually be counterproductive.

In one experiment college students who had an important exam coming up were divided into two groups. One was coached on study habits. The other was asked to visualize receiving a fantastic grade and to imagine how good it felt to have exceeded everyone's expectations, including their own.

Much to everyone surprise the feel-good visualization group did significantly worse on the exam as a whole.

Upon debriefing, it was surmised that while these students reported feeling better about themselves, they studied less since they perceived the good grade as a given and thus felt less urgency to apply the necessary effort.

This is not to say that focusing on what you want is not helpful. It can energize your psyche and help you stay on course.

However, what you must also do in order for visualization to be effective is to also imagine overcoming the obstacles you will encounter.

So while imagining getting an A on your mid-terms, you also need to picture yourself overcoming bad habits like procrastination or giving in to distractions.

Or if you are looking to avoid unnecessary weight gain over the holidays and want to remain thin and healthy, spend some time imagining yourself confidently and powerfully saying no to the tempting situations you will encounter. IMAGINE THAT!

The reference for this article was 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot by Richard Wiseman, one of the best non-fiction books I have read in ages.

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Follow up to Experiment

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The last time I contacted all of you I put forth a fun little experiment  involving "mental influence" where I asked you to get your keys, a pen and a coin and to arrange them from left to right in any order that felt right to you.

Participants then clicked on a link to see what if I could predict what order you would put them in. About 70% of those responding said that they arranged them in the predicted order of coin-keys-pen-which was well above chance (1 in 6 possible arrangements)

Alas nothing mysterious was involved.  This simply played on the tendency to put things in order from smallest to biggest.

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NGH Chapter Meeting for November
ngh logoThe featured presentation for the meeting of the Greater NJ Chapter of the National Guild of Hypnotists om Wednesday, November 17, 7 PM, is:
WARNING! Medical Speak May Be Hazardous to Your Health! Empower Your Clients as They Navigate the Health Care System

If you attend one chapter meeting this year it should be this one as the presenter is none other than Patricia Crilly, aka "Nurse Crilly."

Whether you are the patient or the Health Care Professional, using language that heals, comforts and lifts the spirit are essential in the pursuit of well being.  Pat's seminar at the NGH this August was a WOW!

The meeting will be held at the Galloping Hill, Union, NJ.  Call Dr. John Gatto to register at (908) 964 4467
Thank for you reading and please keep your questions and comments coming in, they are greatly appreciated!
 
Sincerely,


James Malone
Hypnosis Counseling Center

P.S. I just created a Face Book page for the New Jersey Hypnotist (me!). Could you like it please? Thanks!