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Greetings!
Happy New Year to one and all, I trust this finds you
in an absolutely magnificent state of health, luck,
success and motivation!
In this issue we will consider a psychological concept
that may explain why the process of change can
sometimes be so difficult. Also, January 4 is World
Hypnotism Day and you are entitled to some way
cool freebies.
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| Cognitive Dissonance |
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?If its such a good idea, why haven?t I done it
already?? many are asking this during this season
of New Year?s resolutions. This question points to a
central idea of hypnotism, that the logical conscious
mind often comes into conflict with and is often
overruled by the subconscious. Otherwise, we would
just make intelligent decisions based on the best
evidence available and simply carry them out.
The subconscious mind refers to body/mind functions
that are normally beyond conscious awareness and
control. Today we are going to look at one particular
element that can make change difficult and even
painful: changing beliefs.
Quite a few professional motivators, myself included,
will state that if you can let go of self-limiting beliefs,
a quantum leap has been made towards your
transformation. As the old saying goes, ?if you
believe you can or you believe you can?t, either way
you?re right!.? Nonetheless, this step can be
quite challenging due to a mental phenomena called
?cognitive dissonance.?
Many years ago a college psychology professor by
the name of Leon Festinger became intrigued by a
local doomsday cult whose leader was predicting that
the world was coming to an end on a specific date in
the near future. This leader also preached that only
his followers would be saved, due to their loyalty to
him. Safely assuming this prediction was false,
Festinger was curious how the cult?s followers would
react when the cataclysmic prophecy did not come
to pass.
So the good doctor and some of his colleagues
infiltrated the group and observed. And they were
quite surprised by the group members? response when
doomsday turned out to be a dud. Instead of
becoming angry with the leader as one might expect,
instead they rationalized that it was their devotion
and faith that forestalled the calamity. From this
Festinger put forth the idea of ?cognitive
dissonance,? that when the strongly held beliefs
of a group or individual were in direct conflict with
obvious reality, this created discomfort and there
was a tendency to unconsciously rationalize the
original belief, even to the point of being
ridiculous.
The concept of cognitive dissonance was an
extremely important contribution to our
understanding of both individual and group behavior
and why change, even when beneficial, can often be
strongly resisted. People and societies will often
unconsciously choose to be miserable rather than
proven ?wrong.?
On a personal level, it may be helpful to examine your
assumptions about why you haven?t been able to
move past your personal limitations. Is it really true
that you are destined to remain overweight, a
smoker or trapped in an unhappy job or personal
relationship? Remember that releasing such beliefs
often entails letting go of blame too (it?s the fault of
your parents/society/genetics/etc.) while accepting
greater responsibility for how your life is turning out,
which can be a frightening prospect. It also means
altering your self-image which was familiar and
therefore somewhat comfortable, even though it was
limited.
Although self-examination is not always easy , the
cost of remaining stuck is usually higher. Here is
wishing you the motivation and the courage to make
2007 your best year yet!
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January 4 has been designated as World
Hypnotism Day by the National Guild of
Hypnotists.
An annual event, it is dedicated to helping the
general public gain a greater awareness of the
benefits of clinical hypnosis as well as promote
acceptance of hypnosis as a separate and distinct
healing profession.
In addition to public events celebrating the day, the
NGH also has put up a website where there are
number of complimentary audio downloads you can
explore related to problems people often seek
hypnosis counseling for.
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Learn More About World Hypnotism Day |
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