WHAT KIND OF LEADER ARE YOU?
As a Master Practitioner of ELI, S2K Consulting can provide you with an objective, quantifiable measurement of your current leadership style.
The Energy Leadership Index (E.L.I.) is a one-of-a-kind assessment that enables leaders to hold up mirrors to their perceptions, attitudes, behaviors, and overall leadership capabilities.
The assessment takes about 45 minutes online and S2K provides debrief session for interpretation of results. |
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Mike Malinchok
S2K Consulting, LLC offers one-on-one executive coaching, team coaching, and leadership training.
The name of this newsletter 'The Second Cup' was originally based on my own morning routine that requires a second cup of coffee before the cognitive portion of my day begins.
Recently,though, a good friend told me about the ancient Himilayan customs around sharing of a special tea mixture known as paiyu cha. Tradition goes that the second cup of the mixture is reserved for sharing with an honored guest.....a good friend.
The first reason tells you something about me. And, the second one......is all about you, my good friend.
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Emotions don't belong in the workplace
- or do they?
The answer depends on who you ask. If you ask catabolic leaders, they're likely to agree. But anabolic leaders have a different point of view - they understand that emotions can't be left at the office door. Our comparison between anabolic and catabolic leaders continues with an exploration of how aware they are of their own and others' emotions, how they express their emotions, and how they manage or control them in the work environment.
Awareness, expression, and management of emotion are the three main aspects of emotional intelligence. In the Energy Leadership Development System™, emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to distinguish, understand, and have an awareness of how thoughts and feelings connect with outward displays and behaviors, as well as the ability to manage and express appropriate emotions and help others do the same.
Let's look at each of the components of EI and see how they are different in catabolic and anabolic leaders.
Awareness
Catabolic - Not only are these leaders unaware of their own emotions, but they are unaware of other people's emotions as well. They're also unaware of the effect they have on others.
Anabolic - These leaders are not only aware of their and other's emotions, but they're able to step back and recognize that their emotions are not automatic (emotions arise from interpretations). They also look for clues in their emotions, asking questions such as "Why did I have this response, and what can I learn from this?"
Expression
Catabolic - Many catabolic leaders have a limiting belief that expressing emotions should not be done in the workplace. They don't want people to see their emotions, and don't want to deal with the emotions of others. When they do express emotions, they often express them inappropriately, for example, by yelling or rolling their eyes.
Anabolic - Anabolic leaders understand that emotions are a part of each of us, and that they can't be "turned off" at will. They know how to appropriately express their emotions, at the appropriate time. By sharing, acknowledging, and validating, they create an environment in which their co-workers and staff feel valued and understood.
Management
Catabolic - Catabolic leaders can't manage their own emotions, and therefore, the people around them don't look to them in times of crisis for guidance and support. They tend to be frustrated, angry, and resentful, and this is apparent to everyone.
Anabolic - Anabolic leaders have the ability to manage their own moods and to help other people shift to more positive moods. They also are able to control their own emotions, even during stressful situations. They respond, instead of react, and their generally calm attitude promotes a positive work environment.
Emotional intelligence is directly related to interpersonal effectiveness. The higher your emotional intelligence, the more effective leader and communicator you will be.
Thanks for sharing your 'second cup' with me, my good friend. Hope you have a happy, healthy, and blessed Thanksgiving Holiday!
Looking forward to our next time,
Mike Malinchok, CPC
President
S2K Consulting, LLC
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THE ALCHEMIST
By
Paulo Coelho
Harper Collins 1993
'To realize one's destiny is a person's only obligation'.
This story is powerful for it's simplicity and wisdom. The story of Santiago, an Andalusian shepherd boy, is a testament to the transforming power of our dreams and the importance of listening to our hearts. A relatively quick and easy read,ideal for a post Thanksgiving meal retreat. . | |
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