View from the Gates:
Purim Fun the Gateways Way

By Arlene Remz, Gateways Executive Director

 

If there's one holiday that our Gateways students adore, be they 5, 15 or anywhere in between, it's Purim. But parents will testify that the fun of the holiday, especially when it comes to the time-honored tradition of the Purim carnival, can be overwhelming for many of their children with special needs.

 

genevieve at purimWhich is why we designed our GJEP (Gateways Jewish Education Program) Purim carnival last Sunday to be lots of fun in a structured, accessible and enjoyable atmosphere. Everyone agrees that last Sunday's carnival was the best yet.  For many of our students, the fun-but-navigable event was all they needed to celebrate Purim. For others, it served to prepare them for their home synagogue's carnival this coming week. 

 

And, in the spirit of Gateways' increasing presence in more area congregations' supplemental programs, this year for the first time we worked with one area synagogue to make their Purim carnival much more welcoming to children with special needs and their families. Mishkan Tefila's carnival, this Sunday at the Chestnut Hill synagogue, is always open to the public from noon to 3 p.m., and this year will open at 11:30 a.m. for families whose children would benefit from a quieter carnival ambiance. Gateways will provide a social story for this carnival upon request (contact Nancy Mager).

  

As always, Gateways wants to help you make your holiday more enjoyable - and accessible -- for all your children. Click here for some downloadable activities you can use at home or in the classroom to make this Purim more memorable - and more fun - for all.

 

Hoping you enjoy all your Purim celebrations!

 

Arlene

 

 

In Memory...

 

In memory of the five members of the Fogel family, killed last Shabbat in Itamar, Israel. Our hearts go out to their loved ones. Our thoughts are with them, with prayers for peace for the Jewish people and the Jewish homeland.  

In This Issue
- View from the Gates by Arlene Remz
- Gateways' Purim Carnival
- Voice at the Gates: Lauri Cohen
- Visiting Authors Spend their Day the Gateways Way
- Gateways Enters the Webinar World
- Mazel-Tov to Amy Weinstock

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Download Purim Resources!

 

The expanding Resource Bank on Gateways' website features thematic units of downloadable resources and activities.

 

In our Purim unit, you will find various versions of the Purim story, social stories related to Purim celebrations, and examples of file folder activities with printable instructions and materials to make your own.

Success + Fun in the Comfort Zone = Gateways' Purim Carnival

 

It was that rare commodity: a stress-free Purim carnival. Gateways' Purim carnival last Sunday attracted more than 50 families from its Jewish Education Programs, several preschoolers with special needs, and a few families checking out if Gateways might be the right fit for their child.

 

Organizers planned the event to offer enough activity to create a happy buzz, but without the crowds, long lines and most importantly, chaos. 
 
 

schedule building
Student building her schedule

The activities were designed to provide both challenge and success for children with a variety of special needs. Visual supports and a color-coded map of activities helped them select the games and learn the rules ahead of time. The activities were also spread out into different rooms for gross motor and sensory activities, and a quiet room for children needing a break. There were also plenty of sure-fire crowd-pleasers including cotton candy, popcorn and - naturally -- hamentashen.

 

For Anna, the highlight of her first-ever Gateways Purim carnival was the Moon Bounce where, unlike many other carnivals, there was no line, no time limit -- and no pushing. "It's even better than the popcorn, and she loves popcorn," said her mother Vivian.  

 

Jamie Bowling
A ramp allows Jamie to try Bowl Over Haman

As Jamie enjoyed the carnival from her wheelchair, stopping to try her hand at adaptive bowling, big brother Tom was impressed. "You can see by the way the teen volunteers are interacting with all of them that the kids really feel comfortable here."

 

The second session carnival ended with a grand finale, a magic show by Gateways Sunday program alumnus Noah Bittner. It was a jubilant performance where objects disappeared and reappeared, ropes stiffened and went limp, balls changed color and shape, all before the amazed eyes of the children. Noah also made magic happen with his fellow students, many of whom he invited up as volunteer magician's assistants.  
 

Noah's Magic

Noah's Ventriloquist &

Magic Act

 This connection between the students and the community they and their families have built over the years is part of the larger Gateways magic. "This is a place where it's guaranteed my daughter will be truly successful and feel like a leader," said Rachel who brought her daughter, Genevieve, and little sister Sydra. "It's something that doesn't always happen in other venues." 

 

The carnival's lead staff, Gateways Jewish Education Programs Coordinator Nancy Mager knows why the students had such a wonderful time. "First of all, they were prepared," she says - the week before they'd worked with a social story all about Purim carnivals. "We also wanted them to start their day like they always do - in the classroom, only this time planning their carnival experience," Mager adds. "And the teen volunteers understood the goals of the day included each child feeling feel like a winner. They were able to adapt a game - often on the fly -- as needed, cheering on the children, whether they won or not."

 

 

Matthew at Purim carnival
Matt delighted at Ahasuerus' Moat

As an educator, Mager's favorite games included "Ahasuerus' Moat," featuring a floating fleet of pirate-garbed plastic ducks, and "Dig for Mishloach Manot" where carnival-goers sift through sand for plastic gems which, when added to a crown, made them a winner.

 

As Gateways music therapist Miriam Greenbaum played the children's regular Good-bye Song on her guitar as the carnival's first session drew to a close, many of them sang along, and several jumped up to dance.
 
 

"These are all kids who are on the fringe in many ways, but at this moment," said Rachel's dad Frank, "they are all in sync. Gateways really is Rachel's way of being part of the community."

 

Voice at the Gates: Lauri Cohen

 

Each month, we introduce you to another "Voice at the Gates," someone whose life has been changed by Gateways' innovative programs and services. These include children with special needs in multiple Jewish learning settings across the community, their families and their educators.

 

Lauri Cohen
Lauri Cohen

"She's been a great resource for me over the last three years," says Lauri Cohen, who teaches 3- and 4-year-olds at Temple Beth Shalom Children's Center in Needham.

 

The "she" in question is none other than Gateways' Community Special Education Services Coordinator Sherry Grossman, a familiar face in Jewish preschools and congregational religious schools around town, where she regularly collaborates with their staffs around creating more welcoming classrooms to a wide range of learners.

 

"In preschools, the success of each child is directly related to the environment. The routines and physical set-up are critical," says Cohen. "Sherry always has great ideas about how to set up the classroom for everyone's success ... from snack time to conversations with children. She's also helped me and my co-teacher work better as a team."

 

Another area where Grossman helped out was strategies for seating arrangements for circle time, a system where different learning styles are now accommodated, adds Cohen. "She pointed out that it's unreasonable to expect non-auditory learners to sit and focus for the entire time, so we offered them ways to move around when they need to."

 

Gateways OT Shana Krell has also played a part in the classroom helping the teachers focus on children's muscle use positioning. "We now make sure our chairs work so all the kids' feet touch the floor. We were surprised at how something that seemed so minor affected the kids' behavior and improved their learning!"  

Visiting Authors Spend their Day the Gateways Way

Judi Greenberg and Amy Freedman
Judi and Amy Presenting

Judi Greenberg and Amy Freedman did not have a dull day last Wednesday.

 

Early that morning, co-authors of Is It a Big Problem or a Little Problem? When to Worry, When Not to Worry and What to Do, flew up from their suburban Maryland homes to share inspiration and real-life wisdom with the staff of Gateways: Access to Jewish Education as well as educators and parents from across Boston's Jewish community.   Greenberg, an occupational therapist, and Freedman, a Speech and Language Pathologist, provided advice on everything from making home-school transitions less difficult to managing circle time. 

 

"I came away with new hints and strategies to share with our classroom teachers," said Lisa Ciborowski, Ledgewood Developmental Specialist for the Gilson JCC Preschool in Sharon, adding she also found it affirming some of the things they're "already on the right page."

 

"They offered many, many strategies that would be easy to institute and most of them are free!" adds Meryl Alpert, Director of Temple Reyim Nursery School in Newton. "They understood child growth and development and the importance of play (something that is often overlooked). I look forward to sharing some of the new strategies with staff members in my school."

 

Organizer Sherry Grossman, Gateways' Community Special Education Services Coordinator, calls the visit a huge success.  "Amy and Judi reminded reaffirmed our passion for making sure every child knows they are valued for who they are and our job is to support them to reach their highest potential."

 

Supportive Strategies for Unstructured Play

  • Help the child survey the options before choosing.
  • Ask the child what he would like to do first, second (eventually first, second and third).
  • Write these options down on a piece of paper with a small drawing next to each. Tell him to see you after each one so you can cross them off the paper together.
  • Set a timer. The child needs to stay at the first activity until the timer goes off. The timer is his cue to move on, if he wants, to the next activity.
  • Proximity control is a great classroom strategy. Be close by so you can help this child re-engage just when the attention begins to wane.

-- Amy Freedman and Judi Greenberg, two co-authors of Is It a Big Problem or a Little Problem?

  
Gateways Enters the Webinar World
yu school partnership
Last month, Yeshiva University's Institute of University-School Partnership hosted Gateways Executive Director Arlene Remz, along with Gateways' Day School Co-Coordinator Sharon Goldstein. They were able to share with professionals from around the country in YU's Web-based audience (and those who want to access it after the fact - click here) Gateways' unique regional system at work in 13 Boston-area day schools.

 

Arlene detailed Gateways' innovative multi-disciplinary team approach, with its speech and language therapists, occupational therapists, learning and reading specialists, and other supports for students, educators and parents alike.

 

She also demonstrated how Gateways' team-based system is able to provide much-needed support for day schools which typically lack the capacity or resources to hire all of the necessary learning specialists, therapists and consultants to address the needs of an increasingly diverse student body.

 

"Since Gateways is a central agency, we're able to partner with day schools across the community, working in teams with teachers and parents, supporting individual and small groups of students," Arlene says. "We also provide the professional development teachers need to develop the tools to successfully welcome and work with a wide range of learners in their classes."

  
 

Mazel-Tov to Gateways Parent Amy Weinstock!

 

Each year the Doug Flutie, Jr. Award is given to someone in the autism community who has gone above and beyond in making a difference and improving the lives of people with Autism Spectrum Disorder. This year at their conference, Laurie Flutie will present this award to Amy Weinstock for her tireless work on the passage of ARICA - the autism insurance coverage bill in Massachusetts.  Amy is also an appointee to the State's Special Commission Relative to Autism, Chair of AFAM's Insurance Committee and a past president of The Friends Of LADDERS.   


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