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Being the Change in the Workplace

by Rich & Yvonne Dutra-St. John
One of the things we are becoming best known for at
Challenge Day is the way we live what we teach. In
this spirit, this month's Founders' Letter begins a
series on "being the change" in the workplace.
Twenty years ago, faced with a growing demand for
our work, we realized that it was time for Challenge
Day to expand. Our goal was to create an organization
big enough to support our growth, while retaining our
values of love, joy, connection, and integrity.
During this time of expansion, we feared that we might
become so focused on a paradigm of strategy and
bottom lines that we would leave our hearts. In the
midst of our concerns, an "angel" appeared in the
form of a friend and mentor named Stan. Stan
challenged us to bring what we do during a Challenge
Day into the office. "If you can figure out how to bring
love and connection into a gym full of students," he
said, "you can certainly figure out how to bring it to the
workplace!"
At Stan's urging, and with the help of many people
who believed in our dream, we built a non-profit
organization that not only produces huge results, but
also lives and models a new paradigm for the
workplace.
Here are some of the principles and practices we
have implemented in our organizational culture. We
invite you to apply them to your own lives, homes,
schools, and workplaces.
1. Living the Challenge Day Vision - Our vision is to
create a world where every child feels safe, loved, and
celebrated. This vision extends to the child that lives
inside each one of our hearts. Our goal is to create a
work environment where everyone feels safe, loved,
and celebrated for who they are and the role they
serve.
Our challenge to you is, before you act, first ask
yourself the question, "Will the decision I am about to
make or the thing I am about to say or do leave the
people around me feeling safe, loved, and
celebrated?"
2. Daily Acts of Change - As part of the Be the Change
Movement, we are committed to doing at least one
intentional act of positive change every day to add to
the love in the office, our families, or in the world. We
take time at our weekly meetings for staff members to
celebrate acts of change they feel especially proud of.
The process takes very little time and leaves our staff
feeling both empowered and inspired.
Our challenge to you is to commit yourself to doing at
least one positive act of change each day for the next
30 days and to see how it changes your life. Imagine a
workplace of one hundred employees doing just one
positive thing a day. That would be 2000 acts of
positive change in a single month!
Next month's newsletter features even more ideas
and inspirations for "Being the Change" in the
workplace - stay tuned!


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WOW!

It's a Wrap! Millennium Middle School Students
Craft a Crystal-Clear Reminder of Challenge Day
At Millennium Middle School in South Lyon, Michigan,
art teacher Jennifer Robeson and her seventh and
eighth grade students are making the principles of
Challenge Day really "stick."
Using a few rolls of packing tape, a heaping helping of
creativity, and two volunteer models, Jennifer and her
students created a stunning reminder of the impact of
Challenge Day: a life-size human sculpture!
Crystal-clear and adorned with student messages
about "Being the Change," the sculpture helps sustain
the ideas, inspiration, and energy of the school's
recent Challenge Day.
"I wanted to have something around
that would remind students about their special time at
Challenge Day, and I needed something to grab their
attention," Jennifer explains.
"Since the statue is clear, students can identify with it
because it can represent anyone," she adds.
Thanks, Jennifer and Millennium Middle School,
for "Being the Change" in such an inspiring, creative
way!
Inspired to create your own Challenge Day sculpture?
Here are tips from Jennifer and her class:
- Find a friend to be the "cast" for your sculpture.
- Wrap clear packing tape sticky side up all around
your friend.
- Next, add a few more layers of tape sticky side
down.
- Carefully cut the tape off your volunteer's body. It's
OK to make separate cuts for legs, arms, trunk, etc. -
you'll tape the parts together later.
- Seal the cut seams back with more clear tape.
Tape all the parts back together to create your
completed Challenge Day sculpture!
- Post your statue in a public space. Encourage
students, teachers, and visitors to write down and
attach their own ideas for "Being the Change."



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Teens Being the Change

"You guys have brought a new light to me, and I am
going to use everything that you told me. Every time I
find myself making a judgment, I am going to look
down on my wrist and simply read the words "Be the
Change." The impact you left on me is going to
change my life and the lives of people I love to be
around.
"I left that room at the end of the day feeling as if I was
friends with every single person in the room. I have
already talked to many of my friends who wanted to
participate in Challenge Day, and even they are
noticing bad habits of theirs and changing them. The
more I think about Challenge Day the more I realize
how much everything you said to me made sense. I
can't thank you enough for coming to our school and
doing this and I would love it if you came back and did
it again." -- Student, CA
"You have just finished having a Challenge Day at my
school, and I was so inspired and felt so loved from
other students that I have been picking on since third
grade. It made me feel bad to be such a bully, but I
just did it to fit in with everyone else. Now, since going
to Challenge Day, I felt proud because I was able to
apologize to everyone I have been so mean to.
"I know I'm too young to work for Challenge Day now,
but I am really interested in growing further. Berenice
and Shereef were an inspiration. I'm making a big
change, and I am trying to create my dream school.
Thank you." -- Student, CA
"Today was the most amazing, beautiful, incredible,
inspiring, life-changing day I have ever had. I never
thought I would be able to open myself up the way I
did in front of people I had never even talked to before,
but the atmosphere was so awesomely comfortable
that I don't think I could have kept any of it inside even
if I tried. This is the kind of thing our community really
needed.
"I'm a senior and I'm graduating in a few weeks.
Although I wish I could have had this experience
earlier to share it with [my high school] community
more, I plan on taking everything I learned today and
sharing it to the best of my ability next year when I go
to college." -- Student, CA



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Volunteer of the Month - David Song

Whether the day calls for assembling information
packets, entering data, folding banners, or moving
furniture, David Song is always eager to lend a hand
in the Challenge Day office. "Challenge Day has a very
friendly, loving working environment," David
says. "Everyone is high spirited, and it is a great place
to work."
David's life experiences help him feel especially
connected to Challenge Day's mission. After moving
to the United States in his sophomore year of high
school, David faced a special challenge:
communication. "Conversing in English was very hard
for me at the beginning, and I was frustrated when I
wasn't able to express myself to others," he
remembers. "It was hard when I stood in a circle of
people and could only listen; I felt that I was left out
and no one noticed my existence."
David's turning point came when a compassionate
teacher reached out to him. "One of my teachers
helped me go through the toughest time, telling me
that many people had gone through what I had, even
when English was their first speaking language."
Recalling his experiences, David is happy that
students who face similar challenges can feel
connected, loved, and celebrated through Challenge
Day's programs.
Besides being a regular Challenge Day volunteer,
David is a student at Diablo Valley College, and plays
soccer. Thanks, David, for being such a wonderful part
of our Challenge Day family!



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Coordinator of the Month - Kirk Wassmer

By Shanti Ramrattan
For the third year in a row, our leaders have raved
about their program days at Didsbury High School in
Alberta, Canada. We'd like to introduce music
instructor Kirk Wassmer, a Didsbury High teacher
we've been truly privileged to work in team with.
Kirk was inspired to teach music by a few influential
teachers in high school who demonstrated how
important music was in their lives. "When I was in
grade 12," he shares, "I had a choice between
pursuing commerce and music. Basically, it came
down to quantity versus quality. I love my job, coming
to school and making music."
Kirk says that what he loves most about teaching at
Didsbury High School is "any amount of energy I put
in, I get it back from the students and parents."
Initially, Kirk was skeptical about Challenge Day's
work. "I thought the success at other schools was
maybe just an anomaly. After experiencing it, I can say
that in 16 years of teaching, I have never seen a
program do what Challenge Day does. After
Challenge Day, you look at the people you see day
after day in a different light."
Kirk's advice for those planning to bring the program
to their school is to "surround yourself with good
people who believe in the program as you do. I was
extremely fortunate that I worked with a committee of
staff who all believed."
If you really knew Kirk, you would know:
- My family means everything to me; my wife and
kids, mom and sister and extended family.
- My dad passed away about eight years ago. We
are a tight family, but I don't know that I realized how
tight until he died. Working through the grief made us
even tighter. I think that, if a positive can be said to
have come of [this event] has made me more
compassionate, and hopefully, an inspiration to
others to be compassionate.
- I try to be a positive person, to share that part of
me and bring it to the world.
- My dream would be to continue teaching music
until I retire, and when I do, to play jazz guitar on a
cruise ship.
- Words of wisdom he lives by: "Embrace each day,
it is a gift. And laugh a lot!"
Kirk, for your positive, appreciative spirit, as well as the
atmosphere of kindness that you cultivate around you,
Challenge Day is honored to name you our
Coordinator of the Month. Thank you for contributing to
our vision of positive change worldwide!



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Miracles Abound

"I didn't really think today was going to work at all, but I
was blown away by how much we are alike. No matter
what we look like on the outside, we all are the same
inside. We can be role models for the community on
how to 'Be the Change.'" -- Student, FL
"[Challenge Day] truly has changed things for my
family. My son has indicated that his school
feels "different." He said that he notices the kindness
that is in people's faces. He said that normally when
he walks down the halls at school, and especially
when he walks into school in the morning, he just
fixes his gaze on the wall and walks. Now he has
noticed that even if he wanted to do that, he can't. The
reason he can't is because people are looking in his
eyes and smiling, and 'you gotta smile back, Mom.'"
-- Parent
"When our [Challenge Day] session was over, I
managed to have the most interesting conversation
with my parents I have had in a long time. I am only
13, but in the future I would love to join Challenge Day
and be a part of your community and serve as a role
model." -- Juan, Student, NY
"[After Challenge Day,] I realized we as people don't
need to be harmful towards others to fit in. We can be
recognized for standing up and stopping the fights, for
stopping the hurtful things that people say to each
other. I want to be one of those people. I just wish
that every place on earth was like this. We need to
stand together as one and make sure that no one
gets left behind. I will never forget what you guys have
done for me." -- Sara, Student
"I'm making the commitment to be nicer to people and
more open. Before today, I had so much bottled up.
Today was the first time I felt like I could really be me
and let everything go. I'll always keep this day with
me." -- Gracie, Student, WY
"Yesterday, I participated in Challenge Day. What an
incredible experience, not only as an educator but as
a human being. That day, I completed the Challenge
Day card and wrote a letter to my dad. Last night, I met
him for coffee for two hours and talked about 'Notice.
Choose. Act.' My conversation with him was one of the
most 'real' and effective conversations I have had in
years. Thank you so much!" -- Jennifer, Teacher,
CA
"I admire your work with a passion and hope some
day I will join the Challenge Day team. To me, the
feeling of acceptance is one of the best feelings in the
world. That feeling is great to me, but to help others
feel that way would just be a dream come true."
-- Mariah, Student



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Calendar

The Next Step to Being the Change
workshops
From Concord, California to Kalamazoo, Michigan,
Next Step to Being the Change workshops are
transforming lives with the power of love and
connection. Thanks to our incredible coordinators,
Next Step workshops have traveled to Michigan,
California, and Alberta, Canada over the past four
months.
In response to the outpouring of interest in Next Steps,
we've trained two of our Leaders, Pam Dunn and
Vinny Ferraro, to lead these valuable workshops.
Pam recently facilitated her first Next Step in Bassano,
Alberta, and was phenomenal. Vinny will be leading
his first Next Step this month. We're excited to see the
magic he will bring to the room. Bravo, Pam and Vinny!
Please see our calendar below for dates and
contact information. You may also want to check out
our website at http://www.challengeday.org/find-
out-more/next-steps.html or email us at worksho
ps@challengeday.org.
Important Dates
Next Step to Being the Change
Concord, CA
May 18 - 20 FULL
October 26 - 28, 2007 (Concord, CA)
November 16 - 18, 2007 (Concord, CA)



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Circles of Change

By Sela Gaglia
A warm welcome to our newest Circle of Change in
Hawthorne, Nevada! This brand new Circle has
already presented to their school board and has been
commended for their efforts to support the youth of
their community. They have also created their own Be
the Change bookmarks, with a "challenge of the day"
printed on them: a great idea for keeping Challenge
Day alive.
Our Hawthorne Circle is a great example of the broad
vision a Circle of Change can have. Challenge Day
recognizes that our programs are just one part of
creating a world where every child feels safe, loved,
and celebrated. With this in mind, our Circle team
coaches all Circles to do three things:
Create a long-term vision for your community:
If you were dreaming as big as you could dream, what
kind of community would you want to live in? What
does living in a community where every child feels
safe, loved, and celebrated look like to you?
Pick three short-term goals: It's the little steps
that make the big change. What are the small steps
necessary to reach your long-term vision? Maybe your
long-term vision is to provide a Challenge Day for
every school in your county and for each school to
have an active Be the Change Team. A great place to
start might be to have Challenge Day programs in one
school with a strong follow-up program. You might
even want to take a full year to create a strong
community of allies and to prepare your first school for
Challenge Day programs.
Choose an issue that is close to your heart:
What are the issues affecting your area? Focusing
energy and attention on an issue that concerns you
is "Being the Change" - and it will make you feel good
for doing your part! These community projects can
also be a great place for your schools' Be the Change
Teams to have a positive impact.
If you were starting a Circle of Change, how might you
answer these three questions?
If you are interested in joining a Circle near you, or
starting your own Circle of Change, contact our Circle
team at circles@chall
engeday.org or call us at 925-957-0234.



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Poetry Corner

I made a huge mistake by standing still
By hiding in my shell without a sound
My thoughts and hopes stay in my heart at will
The key is hopefully to soon be found
One day a person will call out to me
The doors will seem to open with great ease
Someone will come to listen and to see
I hold the lock and they should use the keys
I do not look for sympathy from this
Instead, a chance to have a brand new start
Express my feelings from the large abyss
Let loose of captives held inside my heart
Why hold my tears inside my saddened eyes?
I feel I show the world a face of lies.
-- Allee M., Student
hey you
yes you
if i told you
you could start a revolution
i bet you wouldn't believe me
but it's possible
seen the worst of things
done the worst of things
been part of hurt and crime
don't consider myself a bad person though
i'm still a king
and all the women, girls can be my queens
if you just spoke out
just once
against some of the cruel things you see
stick up for someone you barely know
but you can tell
the hurt goes deeper than their face
or maybe you saw that kid walking alone in the
hall
and you stopped him to say hello
see how his day's going
got the only real smile on his face in years
that's saving a life right there
life could be so beautiful
it could be as great as we all want it to be
and its just up to us to make it that way
i challenge you, the young
the old
and anyone in between
to go make a difference
stepped out my comfort zone today
and its never felt so good to be vulnerable
just when you think you're the only one
or you're alone
i'll be your friend
take my hand and tell me anything you want
it's going to be ok
everything will be ok.
-- Alex C., Student



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April Leader Profile - Jennifer Wilson

"I was born to be a Challenge Day leader," Jennifer
Wilson says. "Everything in my life has prepared me
for this."
As a high school student in the Bay Area, Jennifer was
an avid performer in plays and musicals, and even
won an award for being the Class Clown. When she
turned 21, however, Jennifer realized that she had
spent much of her life living for others. In search of
insight, Jennifer bought a one-way ticket to Spain to
find herself. While in Spain, Jennifer discovered that
everything she was looking for was within her the
whole time.
After returning from her travels, Jennifer attended a
Challenge Day: an experience that would change her
life. From that moment on, Jennifer worked to reach
her goal of becoming a Challenge Day leader.
Committed to community service, Jennifer has also
volunteered with the Make a Wish Foundation,
Pathways Hospice, and has served as a Big Sister in
a local mentoring program.
Thank you, Jennifer, for your spirit, talent, and love that
shines so brightly at every Challenge Day!
If you really knew Jennifer ...
- You would know that my heart holds the love and
space for every being on this planet.
- You would that my mother and father taught me
how to love that big. They taught me to be
compassionate, be kind, and to love all
beings. They taught me what true unconditional love
looks like, and I feel so blessed to have them as my
parents.
- You would know that I love traveling, sky diving,
surfing, laughing, my friends, my family, music,
life, beat boxing, dancing (especially hip-hop),
spending time alone in nature, and falling in love.
- You would know that Challenge Day leader Vinny
has had an enormous impact on my life, and I am
eternally grateful for his presence in my life.
- You would know that I was born to be a Challenge
Day Leader. Everything in my life until now has
prepared me for this. And you would also know I feel
like this is only the beginning of the positive change I
will make on this planet.



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Shero

Challenge Day was a very fun and emotional day for
me. I have always been alienated because of how I
look, and on this day I felt part of a big group of scared
and unsteady kids who I found to be just like me. It felt
strange but in a cool way because I made friends with
kids that I thought were all being annoying just to get
attention. But they were hurting inside like me so they
would act up, and it surprised me a lot. Challenge Day
made me feel that I could express my feelings, and I
did. I went and I spoke to everyone on the microphone
and no one laughed at me or made me feel unwanted
or estranged.
It was the best feeling in the world when the woman
who was running Challenge Day had everyone give
me a group hug. There were kids who had teased me
for years and years who came up to hug me. Although
I was crushed under many kids saying, "We love you,
Emma," I felt perfectly fine with it. Usually, if that were
to happen, I would be so embarrassed, but I wasn't.
Challenge Day is a great school program and I
recommend it for every school, grades 7 and up!
Challenge Day rules!
Emma, Student, MI



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Masthead

Making Miracles Happen
A Monthly E-mail Newsletter
Published by Challenge Day
Editorial Team
Erika Gosser
erika@challengeday.org
Steve Ryals
steve@challengeday.org
Contributors
Tanisha Champion-Benjamin
Sela Gaglia
Shanti Ramrattan
JoDee Robertson
Rich & Yvonne Dutra-St. John
Submissions to:
Challenge Day Office
2520 Stanwell Drive, Suite 160
Concord, CA 94520
Phone: (925) 957-0234
Fax: (925) 771-1590
E-Mail: office@challen
geday.org


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About Our Organization

Challenge Day is a 501(c)(3) non-profit
organization committed to creating a world
where every child feels safe, loved and
celebrated. Our award-winning daylong
experiential workshops and follow-up programs
are designed to tear down the walls of
separation, inspiring participants to live,
study and work in an environment of
compassion, acceptance and respect, and to
truly be the change they wish to see in the
world. Overall, the aim is to increase
self-esteem, shift dangerous peer pressure to
positive peer support, and eliminate the
acceptability
of teasing, oppression and all forms of
violence. Based in Concord, CA, Challenge Day
currently serves schools throughout the US,
Canada and some International Schools. All
donations are tax deductible.
Our tax identification number is
94-3386810.


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