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May 2007
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Being the Change in the Workplace
WOW!
Teens Being the Change
Volunteer of the Month - David Song
Coordinator of the Month - Kirk Wassmer
Miracles Abound
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Circles of Change
Poetry Corner
April Leader Profile - Jennifer Wilson
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Welcome to the third Challenge Day Making Miracles Happen newsletter to arrive directly in your email. Please join us in creating a world where every child feels safe, loved and celebrated!


Being the Change in the Workplace

Rich and Yvonne by Rich & Yvonne Dutra-St. John

One of the things we are becoming best known for at Challenge Day is the way we live what we teach. In this spirit, this month's Founders' Letter begins a series on "being the change" in the workplace.

Twenty years ago, faced with a growing demand for our work, we realized that it was time for Challenge Day to expand. Our goal was to create an organization big enough to support our growth, while retaining our values of love, joy, connection, and integrity.

During this time of expansion, we feared that we might become so focused on a paradigm of strategy and bottom lines that we would leave our hearts. In the midst of our concerns, an "angel" appeared in the form of a friend and mentor named Stan. Stan challenged us to bring what we do during a Challenge Day into the office. "If you can figure out how to bring love and connection into a gym full of students," he said, "you can certainly figure out how to bring it to the workplace!"

At Stan's urging, and with the help of many people who believed in our dream, we built a non-profit organization that not only produces huge results, but also lives and models a new paradigm for the workplace.

Here are some of the principles and practices we have implemented in our organizational culture. We invite you to apply them to your own lives, homes, schools, and workplaces.

1. Living the Challenge Day Vision - Our vision is to create a world where every child feels safe, loved, and celebrated. This vision extends to the child that lives inside each one of our hearts. Our goal is to create a work environment where everyone feels safe, loved, and celebrated for who they are and the role they serve.

Our challenge to you is, before you act, first ask yourself the question, "Will the decision I am about to make or the thing I am about to say or do leave the people around me feeling safe, loved, and celebrated?"

2. Daily Acts of Change - As part of the Be the Change Movement, we are committed to doing at least one intentional act of positive change every day to add to the love in the office, our families, or in the world. We take time at our weekly meetings for staff members to celebrate acts of change they feel especially proud of. The process takes very little time and leaves our staff feeling both empowered and inspired.

Our challenge to you is to commit yourself to doing at least one positive act of change each day for the next 30 days and to see how it changes your life. Imagine a workplace of one hundred employees doing just one positive thing a day. That would be 2000 acts of positive change in a single month!

Next month's newsletter features even more ideas and inspirations for "Being the Change" in the workplace - stay tuned!



WOW!

Challenge Day Sculpture It's a Wrap! Millennium Middle School Students Craft a Crystal-Clear Reminder of Challenge Day

At Millennium Middle School in South Lyon, Michigan, art teacher Jennifer Robeson and her seventh and eighth grade students are making the principles of Challenge Day really "stick."

Using a few rolls of packing tape, a heaping helping of creativity, and two volunteer models, Jennifer and her students created a stunning reminder of the impact of Challenge Day: a life-size human sculpture!

Crystal-clear and adorned with student messages about "Being the Change," the sculpture helps sustain the ideas, inspiration, and energy of the school's recent Challenge Day.

"I wanted to have something around that would remind students about their special time at Challenge Day, and I needed something to grab their attention," Jennifer explains.

"Since the statue is clear, students can identify with it because it can represent anyone," she adds.

Thanks, Jennifer and Millennium Middle School, for "Being the Change" in such an inspiring, creative way!

Inspired to create your own Challenge Day sculpture? Here are tips from Jennifer and her class:

  • Find a friend to be the "cast" for your sculpture.
  • Wrap clear packing tape sticky side up all around your friend.
  • Next, add a few more layers of tape sticky side down.
  • Carefully cut the tape off your volunteer's body. It's OK to make separate cuts for legs, arms, trunk, etc. - you'll tape the parts together later.
  • Seal the cut seams back with more clear tape. Tape all the parts back together to create your completed Challenge Day sculpture!
  • Post your statue in a public space. Encourage students, teachers, and visitors to write down and attach their own ideas for "Being the Change."




Teens Being the Change

Be the Change "You guys have brought a new light to me, and I am going to use everything that you told me. Every time I find myself making a judgment, I am going to look down on my wrist and simply read the words "Be the Change." The impact you left on me is going to change my life and the lives of people I love to be around.

"I left that room at the end of the day feeling as if I was friends with every single person in the room. I have already talked to many of my friends who wanted to participate in Challenge Day, and even they are noticing bad habits of theirs and changing them. The more I think about Challenge Day the more I realize how much everything you said to me made sense. I can't thank you enough for coming to our school and doing this and I would love it if you came back and did it again." -- Student, CA

"You have just finished having a Challenge Day at my school, and I was so inspired and felt so loved from other students that I have been picking on since third grade. It made me feel bad to be such a bully, but I just did it to fit in with everyone else. Now, since going to Challenge Day, I felt proud because I was able to apologize to everyone I have been so mean to.

"I know I'm too young to work for Challenge Day now, but I am really interested in growing further. Berenice and Shereef were an inspiration. I'm making a big change, and I am trying to create my dream school. Thank you." -- Student, CA

"Today was the most amazing, beautiful, incredible, inspiring, life-changing day I have ever had. I never thought I would be able to open myself up the way I did in front of people I had never even talked to before, but the atmosphere was so awesomely comfortable that I don't think I could have kept any of it inside even if I tried. This is the kind of thing our community really needed.

"I'm a senior and I'm graduating in a few weeks. Although I wish I could have had this experience earlier to share it with [my high school] community more, I plan on taking everything I learned today and sharing it to the best of my ability next year when I go to college." -- Student, CA



Volunteer of the Month - David Song

David Song Whether the day calls for assembling information packets, entering data, folding banners, or moving furniture, David Song is always eager to lend a hand in the Challenge Day office. "Challenge Day has a very friendly, loving working environment," David says. "Everyone is high spirited, and it is a great place to work."

David's life experiences help him feel especially connected to Challenge Day's mission. After moving to the United States in his sophomore year of high school, David faced a special challenge: communication. "Conversing in English was very hard for me at the beginning, and I was frustrated when I wasn't able to express myself to others," he remembers. "It was hard when I stood in a circle of people and could only listen; I felt that I was left out and no one noticed my existence."

David's turning point came when a compassionate teacher reached out to him. "One of my teachers helped me go through the toughest time, telling me that many people had gone through what I had, even when English was their first speaking language." Recalling his experiences, David is happy that students who face similar challenges can feel connected, loved, and celebrated through Challenge Day's programs.

Besides being a regular Challenge Day volunteer, David is a student at Diablo Valley College, and plays soccer. Thanks, David, for being such a wonderful part of our Challenge Day family!



Coordinator of the Month - Kirk Wassmer

By Shanti Ramrattan

For the third year in a row, our leaders have raved about their program days at Didsbury High School in Alberta, Canada. We'd like to introduce music instructor Kirk Wassmer, a Didsbury High teacher we've been truly privileged to work in team with.

Kirk was inspired to teach music by a few influential teachers in high school who demonstrated how important music was in their lives. "When I was in grade 12," he shares, "I had a choice between pursuing commerce and music. Basically, it came down to quantity versus quality. I love my job, coming to school and making music."

Kirk says that what he loves most about teaching at Didsbury High School is "any amount of energy I put in, I get it back from the students and parents."

Initially, Kirk was skeptical about Challenge Day's work. "I thought the success at other schools was maybe just an anomaly. After experiencing it, I can say that in 16 years of teaching, I have never seen a program do what Challenge Day does. After Challenge Day, you look at the people you see day after day in a different light."

Kirk's advice for those planning to bring the program to their school is to "surround yourself with good people who believe in the program as you do. I was extremely fortunate that I worked with a committee of staff who all believed."

If you really knew Kirk, you would know:

  • My family means everything to me; my wife and kids, mom and sister and extended family.
  • My dad passed away about eight years ago. We are a tight family, but I don't know that I realized how tight until he died. Working through the grief made us even tighter. I think that, if a positive can be said to have come of [this event] has made me more compassionate, and hopefully, an inspiration to others to be compassionate.
  • I try to be a positive person, to share that part of me and bring it to the world.
  • My dream would be to continue teaching music until I retire, and when I do, to play jazz guitar on a cruise ship.
  • Words of wisdom he lives by: "Embrace each day, it is a gift. And laugh a lot!"

Kirk, for your positive, appreciative spirit, as well as the atmosphere of kindness that you cultivate around you, Challenge Day is honored to name you our Coordinator of the Month. Thank you for contributing to our vision of positive change worldwide!



Miracles Abound

Circles "I didn't really think today was going to work at all, but I was blown away by how much we are alike. No matter what we look like on the outside, we all are the same inside. We can be role models for the community on how to 'Be the Change.'" -- Student, FL

"[Challenge Day] truly has changed things for my family. My son has indicated that his school feels "different." He said that he notices the kindness that is in people's faces. He said that normally when he walks down the halls at school, and especially when he walks into school in the morning, he just fixes his gaze on the wall and walks. Now he has noticed that even if he wanted to do that, he can't. The reason he can't is because people are looking in his eyes and smiling, and 'you gotta smile back, Mom.'" -- Parent

"When our [Challenge Day] session was over, I managed to have the most interesting conversation with my parents I have had in a long time. I am only 13, but in the future I would love to join Challenge Day and be a part of your community and serve as a role model." -- Juan, Student, NY

"[After Challenge Day,] I realized we as people don't need to be harmful towards others to fit in. We can be recognized for standing up and stopping the fights, for stopping the hurtful things that people say to each other. I want to be one of those people. I just wish that every place on earth was like this. We need to stand together as one and make sure that no one gets left behind. I will never forget what you guys have done for me." -- Sara, Student

"I'm making the commitment to be nicer to people and more open. Before today, I had so much bottled up. Today was the first time I felt like I could really be me and let everything go. I'll always keep this day with me." -- Gracie, Student, WY

"Yesterday, I participated in Challenge Day. What an incredible experience, not only as an educator but as a human being. That day, I completed the Challenge Day card and wrote a letter to my dad. Last night, I met him for coffee for two hours and talked about 'Notice. Choose. Act.' My conversation with him was one of the most 'real' and effective conversations I have had in years. Thank you so much!" -- Jennifer, Teacher, CA

"I admire your work with a passion and hope some day I will join the Challenge Day team. To me, the feeling of acceptance is one of the best feelings in the world. That feeling is great to me, but to help others feel that way would just be a dream come true." -- Mariah, Student



Calendar

Calendar The Next Step to Being the Change workshops

From Concord, California to Kalamazoo, Michigan, Next Step to Being the Change workshops are transforming lives with the power of love and connection. Thanks to our incredible coordinators, Next Step workshops have traveled to Michigan, California, and Alberta, Canada over the past four months.

In response to the outpouring of interest in Next Steps, we've trained two of our Leaders, Pam Dunn and Vinny Ferraro, to lead these valuable workshops. Pam recently facilitated her first Next Step in Bassano, Alberta, and was phenomenal. Vinny will be leading his first Next Step this month. We're excited to see the magic he will bring to the room. Bravo, Pam and Vinny!

Please see our calendar below for dates and contact information. You may also want to check out our website at http://www.challengeday.org/find- out-more/next-steps.html or email us at worksho ps@challengeday.org.

Important Dates

Next Step to Being the Change

Concord, CA
May 18 - 20 FULL

October 26 - 28, 2007 (Concord, CA)

November 16 - 18, 2007 (Concord, CA)



Circles of Change

Hugs are healing By Sela Gaglia

A warm welcome to our newest Circle of Change in Hawthorne, Nevada! This brand new Circle has already presented to their school board and has been commended for their efforts to support the youth of their community. They have also created their own Be the Change bookmarks, with a "challenge of the day" printed on them: a great idea for keeping Challenge Day alive.

Our Hawthorne Circle is a great example of the broad vision a Circle of Change can have. Challenge Day recognizes that our programs are just one part of creating a world where every child feels safe, loved, and celebrated. With this in mind, our Circle team coaches all Circles to do three things:

Create a long-term vision for your community: If you were dreaming as big as you could dream, what kind of community would you want to live in? What does living in a community where every child feels safe, loved, and celebrated look like to you?

Pick three short-term goals: It's the little steps that make the big change. What are the small steps necessary to reach your long-term vision? Maybe your long-term vision is to provide a Challenge Day for every school in your county and for each school to have an active Be the Change Team. A great place to start might be to have Challenge Day programs in one school with a strong follow-up program. You might even want to take a full year to create a strong community of allies and to prepare your first school for Challenge Day programs.

Choose an issue that is close to your heart: What are the issues affecting your area? Focusing energy and attention on an issue that concerns you is "Being the Change" - and it will make you feel good for doing your part! These community projects can also be a great place for your schools' Be the Change Teams to have a positive impact.

If you were starting a Circle of Change, how might you answer these three questions?

If you are interested in joining a Circle near you, or starting your own Circle of Change, contact our Circle team at circles@chall engeday.org or call us at 925-957-0234.



Poetry Corner

I made a huge mistake by standing still
By hiding in my shell without a sound
My thoughts and hopes stay in my heart at will
The key is hopefully to soon be found
One day a person will call out to me
The doors will seem to open with great ease
Someone will come to listen and to see
I hold the lock and they should use the keys
I do not look for sympathy from this
Instead, a chance to have a brand new start
Express my feelings from the large abyss
Let loose of captives held inside my heart
Why hold my tears inside my saddened eyes?
I feel I show the world a face of lies.

-- Allee M., Student

hey you
yes you
if i told you
you could start a revolution
i bet you wouldn't believe me
but it's possible
seen the worst of things
done the worst of things
been part of hurt and crime
don't consider myself a bad person though
i'm still a king
and all the women, girls can be my queens
if you just spoke out
just once
against some of the cruel things you see
stick up for someone you barely know
but you can tell
the hurt goes deeper than their face
or maybe you saw that kid walking alone in the hall
and you stopped him to say hello
see how his day's going
got the only real smile on his face in years
that's saving a life right there
life could be so beautiful
it could be as great as we all want it to be
and its just up to us to make it that way
i challenge you, the young
the old
and anyone in between
to go make a difference
stepped out my comfort zone today
and its never felt so good to be vulnerable
just when you think you're the only one
or you're alone
i'll be your friend
take my hand and tell me anything you want
it's going to be ok
everything will be ok.

-- Alex C., Student



April Leader Profile - Jennifer Wilson

Jennifer Wilson "I was born to be a Challenge Day leader," Jennifer Wilson says. "Everything in my life has prepared me for this."

As a high school student in the Bay Area, Jennifer was an avid performer in plays and musicals, and even won an award for being the Class Clown. When she turned 21, however, Jennifer realized that she had spent much of her life living for others. In search of insight, Jennifer bought a one-way ticket to Spain to find herself. While in Spain, Jennifer discovered that everything she was looking for was within her the whole time.

After returning from her travels, Jennifer attended a Challenge Day: an experience that would change her life. From that moment on, Jennifer worked to reach her goal of becoming a Challenge Day leader.

Committed to community service, Jennifer has also volunteered with the Make a Wish Foundation, Pathways Hospice, and has served as a Big Sister in a local mentoring program.

Thank you, Jennifer, for your spirit, talent, and love that shines so brightly at every Challenge Day!

If you really knew Jennifer ...

  • You would know that my heart holds the love and space for every being on this planet.
  • You would that my mother and father taught me how to love that big. They taught me to be compassionate, be kind, and to love all beings. They taught me what true unconditional love looks like, and I feel so blessed to have them as my parents.
  • You would know that I love traveling, sky diving, surfing, laughing, my friends, my family, music, life, beat boxing, dancing (especially hip-hop), spending time alone in nature, and falling in love.
  • You would know that Challenge Day leader Vinny has had an enormous impact on my life, and I am eternally grateful for his presence in my life.
  • You would know that I was born to be a Challenge Day Leader. Everything in my life until now has prepared me for this. And you would also know I feel like this is only the beginning of the positive change I will make on this planet.




Shero

Challenge Day was a very fun and emotional day for me. I have always been alienated because of how I look, and on this day I felt part of a big group of scared and unsteady kids who I found to be just like me. It felt strange but in a cool way because I made friends with kids that I thought were all being annoying just to get attention. But they were hurting inside like me so they would act up, and it surprised me a lot. Challenge Day made me feel that I could express my feelings, and I did. I went and I spoke to everyone on the microphone and no one laughed at me or made me feel unwanted or estranged.

It was the best feeling in the world when the woman who was running Challenge Day had everyone give me a group hug. There were kids who had teased me for years and years who came up to hug me. Although I was crushed under many kids saying, "We love you, Emma," I felt perfectly fine with it. Usually, if that were to happen, I would be so embarrassed, but I wasn't.

Challenge Day is a great school program and I recommend it for every school, grades 7 and up! Challenge Day rules!

Emma, Student, MI



Supporting Challenge Day

Shop Challenge day Inspired by the stories of love, hope and connection in this newsletter? Consider making a donation to Challenge Day on our secure online donation form. Your gift will bring us even closer to our vision of creating a world where every child feels safe, loved, and celebrated.

Show your support for "Being the Change" this Spring in in a Challenge Day T-shirt or cap. Browse through the Challenge Day store online at http://www.c hallengedaystore.com/.

Want to take part in a Challenge Day near you? View our list of upcoming Challenge Days on the Cal endar portion of our website. Please contact the school's coordinator directly if you find a Challenge Day you'd like to attend.

Ready for more miracles? Our newsletter archives are a great source of stories of love and connection, and are filled with tips for applying Challenge Day principles to your daily life. To start your own free subscription to our monthly e-newsletter, Making Miracles Happen, visit our newsletter sign-up page.



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About Our Organization

Challenge Day is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization committed to creating a world where every child feels safe, loved and celebrated. Our award-winning daylong experiential workshops and follow-up programs are designed to tear down the walls of separation, inspiring participants to live, study and work in an environment of compassion, acceptance and respect, and to truly be the change they wish to see in the world. Overall, the aim is to increase self-esteem, shift dangerous peer pressure to positive peer support, and eliminate the acceptability of teasing, oppression and all forms of violence. Based in Concord, CA, Challenge Day currently serves schools throughout the US, Canada and some International Schools. All donations are tax deductible. Our tax identification number is 94-3386810.



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