First, stress God's word. The study of the Bible should be the
foundation of their study, and be a starting point of all of their course
work. High school subjects like math, science, literature; end even things
such as debate can easily be drawn from the resources of the Bible. The
key things to teach here are an overall understanding of the Bible and
how it fits together, basics of theology, and apologetics. If your son
or daughter plans to go to college, we really suggest apologetics so that
they may be able to stand firm in their faith in a very hostile environment
to Christianity.
Next to the Bible we suggest
financial management.(I bet you thought we'd say math) We do not mean
Wall Street stuff so much, but being a good steward of your finances.
For this we highly suggest Crown Ministries material and Dave Ramsey's material. This topic is of extreme importance for sons and daughters.
Out of God's word come many pitfalls and blessings from the proper
handling of finances and debt. Today's society is wallowing in these
pitfalls and the United States is swimming in personal debt. We have seen
many lives blessed in learning to let the Jones' do as they will
and live your life as a good steward.
Next we suggest you focus on
career and college prep courses. Be careful
here, and really look to your child and God's word. Many people
seek God's will for their life, but miss the obvious will given
in God's word. Most women will become wives and mothers, and most
men will become husbands and fathers. While much of what they learn might
be by example, we believe you should help prepare them for these family
careers. Teach them the biblical principle of being married and having
children. Teach your daughters how to work in the home, and your sons
how to earn a living.
Another element we suggest is you teach your children to
earn a living.
While preparing a child to go to college and get a job is good, it might
not be the best. Having been in industry for many years I can see many
people who are disillusioned. Jobs are not secure today, and many families
find their lives in turmoil due to the single source of income. So when
we say teach them to earn a living, we mean just that. A friend whose
son is a junior in business school suggested his son get true management
experience. Instead of joining a local company, which has a decent management
training program, he suggested his son start a lawn care company. He told
him that he wanted it done right: invoices, marketing, etc. He agreed
to be the first customer. While his son might or might not succeed in
this venture, he will learn a great deal about business and earning a
living.
While teaching
entrepreneurship in the executive IEM program at UAB,
I have seen many people develop a confidence they had never had before.
While they might not leave their corporate job, they often develop a since
of peace knowing they could go it alone or join a smaller company if things
went bad in the corporate job. This is well worth the education -
since so many people in America today feel trapped in their job.
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