Faced with a quick decision the most likely reactions are, first, to stammer and hesitate; then to say too little, or too much, or to "clam up" and change the subject.

Let's consider what a Mason can say in such a situation, in good taste and without violating any personal commitment to his Lodge.

What is Freemasonry? Scholars have suggested many definitions, many not altogether accurate. Just say that Freemasonry is a brotherhood whose great aim is to try to make good men better men; that this is done through symbolic instruction, applying the principles of operative Masonry and architecture to the science and art of character building.

In explaining Freemasonry, be sure to say what it is not. Stress the fact that its primary purpose is not to dispense charity; that it provides no insurance, sick benefits, no death benefits as such. It isn't a board of trade to aid its members commercially. It maintains no lobbies to exert political or religious pressures or to seek favorable legislation or court decisions. It isn't undignified or immature; it tolerates no "horseplay."

Then, what can one say when asked, "What's it like in a Masonic Lodge? What do you do?"