GSAFEGAY STRAIGHT ADVOCATES FOR EDUCATION

Working to Make Every Student and Every Educator SAFE at School Regardless of Sexual Orientation or Gender Identity/Expression

GSAFE January Newsletter

Happy New Year 2011

New Year, No Name-Calling & Activism Edition
January 2011
In This Issue
1. Upcoming Events: Free movie showing - Bullied and Day of Action
2. Lesson Plan of the Month: No Name-Calling Week January 24-28, 2011
3. GSAFE MEDIA HITS
FEATURE: GSAFE's Word Wall
Upcoming Events: Free movie showing - Bullied and Day of Action
An image of the Bullied flyerOn January 25th at 7:00, in recognition of "No Name-Calling Week", a national observance, GSAFE (Gay Straight Advocates for Education) will show the film entitled "Bullied: A Student, A School, and A Case That Made History" at the Carousel Luxury Theater in Greensboro (1305 Battleground Avenue). "Bullied" chronicles the powerful story of a student from Ashland, Wisconsin, Jamie Nabozny, who stood up to his anti-gay tormentors with a federal lawsuit. The suit led to a landmark decision that held school officials accountable for not stopping anti-gay bullying. Still anti-LGBTIQ bullying continues to be a severe problem. Today, more than 80% of LGBTIQ students report being harassed at school - yet schools across the country are still unwilling or afraid to address anti-gay bullying openly. Too many children have taken their own lives after enduring relentless bullying. READ MORE... 

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Please join Equality NC for what could be our most important Day of Action yet on Tuesday, February 15th, in Raleigh from 9am to 4pm. The stakes are higher than they have been in years as we venture into a new political climate in our state.

Now more than ever, we need to make sure our voices will be heard and our stories will be told. And we need to show that we will not sit back and allow our rights to be taken away from us.
We have moved up this year's Day of Action to get ahead of anti-LGBT legislation. Many of our legislators won their elections by promising less government involvement in citizens' lives and claiming that their top focus will be the economy. We need to remind them of their promises rather than allow them to move forward on writing discrimination into our state constitution or repealing the School Violence Prevention Act.
Your senator and repesentative--whether they have solidly strong track records of supporting equal rights, consistently vote against our best interests, or are too new to have voting records--need to hear from you!
Let's have early and impactful discussions with them in February so that when a marriage discrimination amendment gets brought up, they will understand that they would be voting to allow discrimination against your family to be written into our state constitution.
When there is talk of repealing the School Violence Prevention Act, let's make sure they know they are talking about you or your children or your friends who are counting on our protection.
When they are urged to put aside a bill that would protect people from employment discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity, ensure they realize they are putting aside your rights and your job security.
Please register today for the Day of Action. It's free, lunch will be provided, and we'll do all the legwork for you to set up your appointments. Remember, it could be your voice that makes all the difference!
Image of little girl I am not an illegalLesson Plan of the Month: No Name-Calling Week January 24-28, 2011

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No Name-Calling Week is an annual week of educational activities aimed at ending name-calling of all kinds and providing schools with the tools and inspiration to launch an on-going dialogue about ways to eliminate bullying in their communities.  Anyone who wants to work towards eliminating harmful name-calling, harassment and bullying in their school can be a part of No Name-Calling Week, whether you are a teacher, student, guidance counselor, coach, librarian or bus driver. Feel free to download materials  to create your own No Name-Calling Week initiative in your community.  

 

Lesson Supplement: Drop the I-word & Get Your Activism On!

Image of little girl I am not an illegalYou wouldn't call someone a w*tback, or the n-word. Saying "illegals" is just as bad.  The I-Word creates an environment of hate by exploiting racial fear and economic anxiety, creating an easy scapegoat for complex issues, and OK-ing violence against those labeled with the word. People are not illegal.  Let's stop feeding the hate machine.  Drop the I-Word.

 

SIGN THE PLEDGE 

 

About the I-Word Campaign-Illegal(s):  a damaging word that divides and dehumanizes communities and is used to discriminate against immigrants and people of color.  The I-Word is shorthand for illegal alien, illegal immigrant and other harmful racially charged terms.  The I-Word Campaign represents a broad spectrum of individuals and communities from across the country that are demanding respect and rejecting the I-Word, "illegals," as a designation of their neighbors, children, families and themselves.  Through the I-Word Campaign, our community of everyday people, business leaders, human rights advocates, religious and labor groups, attorneys and journalists nationwide call on media outlets to uphold reason, dignity and ethics by dropping the I-Word.  To learn more http://colorlines.com/droptheiword/

 

GSAFE MEDIA HITS 


 
Be The Change book coverGet this book! - This book examines the ways young people engage in action, dialogue, and activism, and how they become global citizens. The essays in the book illustrate how young people with deep convictions on how to change the world make a difference in their communities. The community becomes the classroom, and their activism the true lesson. Possible «utopias» are realized with every effort to engage in activism, to be an advocate for both oneself and others, and with each critical engagement with oppression. These young activists are the unsung heroes and theirs are the victories in current educational debates. Moving away from theoretical debates on multicultural and progressive education, this book illustrates how youth action, curriculum strategies and creative writing, service learning projects, advocacy work at community-based and grassroots organizations, and global initiatives can result in real-life victories. Learn more from: www.peterlang.compurple dividing line


Rosa Parks' legacy endures decades later - CNNRosa Parks sitting on the bus Wednesday marked the 55th anniversary of the civil disobedience on December 1, 1955. Rosa Parks did
not intend to get arrested as she made her way home from work that day. Little did the 42-year-old
seamstress know that her acts would help end segregation laws in the South. READ MORE...
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By Bill Moyers, AlterNet
Moyers: "If you go and do the right thing NOW, and you do it long enough good things will happen -- something's gonna happen." READ MORE...
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Life After Bullies: How the "It Gets Better" movement is giving fresh hope to LGBT teens
by Alexandria Abdallah
Writer Dan Savage was tired of silently empathizing with bullying victims. Shocked by the tragic suicides among LGBT teens in recent months, he made a YouTube video to tell teens "It Gets Better"-it's possible to live happily as an openly gay adult.  The project went viral as thousands of videos flooded in from LGBT adults, eager to offer their personal stories as reassurances of hope for struggling young people. Gay parents boasted about their fulfilling family life, a Marine and a police officer kissed in uniform for all of YouTube to see, and a lesbian minister urged teens to have faith.  As gay characters are increasingly appearing in TV shows and the Episcopalian church has begun formulating a same-sex marriage rite, it seems clear that to be LGBT is becoming more positively embraced by our culture.  At the same time, high school is as tough as ever for LGBT teens who struggle to feel comfortable and accepted. Many teens-especially those who have been bullied-can't imagine a life beyond oppression and loneliness.  Fortunately, New Jersey is leading the way with an anti-bullying Bill of Rights. And the Trevor Project, a suicide prevention organization founded specifically for LGBT teens, has a 24/7 crisis prevention hotline. To raise money for the organization, Broadway stars teamed up to sing Jay Kuo and Blair Shepard's original song, "It Gets Better."
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By ERIK ECKHOLM
Lessons to teach acceptance of homosexuality, which have gained urgency after suicides, are causing culture wars.
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Gay Bullying: It's Up to Us
 
by Benjamin A. Talarico
As a gay teen, what I can do to support the victims of homophobic bullying
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Make It Better Project - http://makeitbetterproject.org/
LGBTIQA youth should not have to suffer through bullying at school!

We can Make It Better NOW!

The Make It Better Project gives youth the tools they need to make their schools better now!  Through our website and YouTube channel, youth and adults can work together to make schools safer for LGBT youth right now.
Columnist Dan Savage launched "It Gets Better," a video message in response to recent youth suicides to tell LGBT youth that life gets better after high school.  The Make It Better Project takes this one step further, giving youth the tools they need to make their lives better now.
We aren't waiting until high school is over for our lives to get better... We are taking action now! Join us!
Here's What You Can You Do to Make It Better Now!

1. Make a video!  Join the YouTube campaign to Make It Better!
2. Check out For Youth and For Adults to learn what you can do to make schools safer for LGBT youth right now.
3. Write a Letter, Make It Better!  Learn about our partnership with Write Your Principal.
4. Donate to support the Make It Better Project or make a gift to any of the participating organizations.
5. Join Actions and Events being organized nationwide.  You can even plan and promote your own event on our calendar!
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By LAURIE GOODSTEIN
Bishop V. Gene Robinson said an international uproar had taken a toll on him and on his New Hampshire diocese
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Office of Civil Rights in Department of Education Issues Guidelines for Schools on Addressing Anti-LGBT Bullying

Oct 25, 2010 Media Contact: Daryl Presgraves 646-388-6577 dpresgraves@glsen.org
 
The Office of Civil Rights in the Department of Education has released clarifying guidelines for schools indicating that under certain circumstances students are protected under federal law from bullying based on sexual orientation and gender identity/expression.
"This guidance is an extremely important reminder to all school districts of their existing responsibilities under current civil rights statutes," GLSEN Executive Director Eliza Byard said. "The Departments of Education and Justice are rightly focused on the plight of certain religious students and lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender students who may not be receiving the full protections from bullying and harassment that are their right. While additional, specific protections are still needed, I commend this Administration for doing all in its power to protect vulnerable students."  While the guidelines are similar to ones released under the Clinton Administration and reaffirmed by the Bush Administration, they mention bullying specifically for the first time and list a clear and specific example of how students are protected under federal law.  The OCR's example of a situation in which a school is obligated to take immediate and effective action to address bullying of a gay student where the bullying is based on sex-stereotyping:  "Over the course of a school year, a gay high school student was called names (including anti-gay slurs and sexual comments) both to his face and on social networking sites, physically assaulted, threatened, and ridiculed because he did not conform to stereotypical notions of how teenage boys are expected to act and appear (e.g., effeminate mannerisms, nontraditional choice of extracurricular activities, apparel, and personal grooming choices). As a result, the student dropped out of the drama club to avoid further harassment. Based on the student's self-identification as gay and the homophobic nature of some of the harassment, the school did not recognize that the misconduct included discrimination covered by Title IX. The school responded to complaints from the student by reprimanding the perpetrators consistent with its anti-bullying policy. The reprimands of the identified perpetrators stopped the harassment by those individuals. It did not, however, stop others from undertaking similar harassment of the student.  GLSEN further commends the Department for recognizing the value of schools and districts adopting anti-bullying policies as an additional tool toward creating safe learning environments.   The Administration also indicated its support for the goals behind two proposed bills, the Safe Schools Improvement Act, which will require schools to adopt comprehensive anti-bullying policies, and the Student Non-Discrimination Act, which will prohibit discrimination in schools based on sexual orientation and gender identity/expression.
 
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Organizing in the Internet Age: How online activism can help us understand how real change is made
by Mark Engler

The Internet is no substitute for person-to-person organizing. But it is a tool that can be used by activists. And it is potentially a rather powerful tool.  This is the not-so-novel conclusion I presented recently when writing about "The Limits of Internet Organizing." The piece was a follow-up on a much-discussed article by Malcolm Gladwell in the New Yorker.
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Agency refers to the ability of individuals to act autonomously-to have control over their lives, to make choices, and to actively pursue their interests and desires.  Agency among queer youth takes many forms; resisting and challenging homophobia and heterosexism (in their various manifestations), and interrogating and questioning taken-for-granted assumptions that serve to stifle or deny agency.  These assumptions include the notion that young queers must hide their sexuality in order to reduce the risk of reprisal or must rely on others to act on their behalf.  Young queers are, for example, participating in pride marches/rallies and are organizing and operating support/social groups. Agency also involves young queers recognizing that they have skills, knowledge, and experiences that are valuable to other young queers.

(from Curran, G. (2005).  Agency.  In J.T. Sears (Ed.), Youth, education and sexualities: An international encyclopedia (Vol. One: A-J, pp. 34-36).  London:  Greenwood Press.)

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