Greetings!
The NY Center wouldn't last long without our volunteers and this month we want to thank you all.
I hope you'll enjoy this month's profile of Katie Cole, volunteer mediator. Katie shares some of the reasons she volunteers and what she gets back.
What do you get back from the volunteering you do?
- Editor
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Meet Katie Cole, Volunteer Mediator
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Katie Cole |
Volunteers often say they receive benefits worth more than
what they give. For example, many attorneys volunteer in mediation centers to
sharpen their skills for use in their practice. Katie Cole, though, was a
mediator first and her "second career" as an attorney grew out of her
commitment to mediation. So, what does she get?
"I grew up in a dictatorial household," says Katie,
"Discovering mediation was life changing for me -- learning that disagreements
don't have to have verbal violence. There are ways to disagree respectfully,
listen and, whether or not we come to an agreement, we can deepen our mutual
understanding."
Why travel from Manhattan to Staten Island to mediate?
Katie
has been a volunteer mediator in several centers, some as far away as New
Mexico, where she first learned to mediate. This transplanted Southerner says she
makes the trip out on the Ferry because NYCID's CDRC is the best
program she's seen.
"The trip is worth it because of how welcoming and
encouraging the staff is. They are so respectful of the volunteers and clients, and that carries over into their other programs, as well. I try not to
miss the Spotlight Series and Practicum because I learn so much. They're really
excellent."
"I find mediating life fulfilling," she continued. "Mediation
informs my life. It's about me growing. Recently I was fortunate to participate in a
mediation at one of NYCID's alternative schools - two kids who'd had to
be pulled apart the afternoon before. It was remarkable to see them get into a
dialog, to see the light go on when they discovered they had a simple
misunderstanding. They said, 'Wow, we were going to have a physical fight and
it was only a misunderstanding!' If only adults could learn that lesson so easily."
For Katie, seeing mediation work so well in a setting that is respectful and welcoming enriches her life. That's why she volunteers.
We're fortunate to have talented and caring mediators like Katie. We thank you all. If you're interested in training to become a mediator, contact the CDRC at 718-947-4035.
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Introducing Mediation in Housing Court
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When David Ramsey arrives at Housing Court on Monday and
Friday mornings, it's crowded and noisy; babies crying, people arguing, others
trying to talk above the din. Anxiety shows on many of the faces; people have a
lot to lose here - often their home.
David, our associate mediation manager,
has come to mediate, usually landlord/tenant cases, a process that may result
in an agreement that will bear the judge's signature, but more often one that improves
each party's understanding of the other's interests and realities, which makes
moving forward, whatever the court ruling, more palatable. Getting to Know Housing Court
NYCID has had a small mediation program in Housing Court for some time. Now, David's
taking the first step toward putting a larger initiative in place. Despite his years mediating
and "lawyer-ing," David finds housing court its own special world, and that, he
feels, helps him see the process through the eyes of those before the court.
He's now looking for volunteer mediators who would like to sign-on for some
training in mediating housing court cases to join him. David Ramsey |
"Yes," David says, "emotions run high, quiet space to
mediate is often at a premium, but Judge Marina Mundy and her staff go out of
their way to humanize the process. They've even hung beautiful landscape
paintings on the courtroom walls to bring a sense of peace. They know that the anxiety
people feel is heightened by the abstruse language and formal court procedures.
Mediators can cut through that, listen and talk comfortably with people.
That's why we're there."
Ask for Mediation Before You Go to Court
If you know a someone with a housing dispute brewing, tell
them about housing mediation. The sooner the better, preferably before a
conflict reaches court. To arrange a mediation session at NYCID's offices,
call (718) 947-4035.
If you're a mediator and would like to consider mediating
housing cases in Court or in the office with David, let him know. It will open
up a whole new world of mediation for you.
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April 2010 Headlines | NYCID's ACE Program collects
more kudos Supporting high school drop-outs and out-of-school,
unemployed
young people to get their lives together is no work for the faint-of-heart.
Jennifer Saladis' team at ACE just received notification of their DYCD
3-year
contract renewal. That's the third recognition of the team's skills -
the
Department of Laborawarded them $221,000 in Recovery money (the maximum
grant
given), and New York Life Foundation gave NYCID a $25,000 grant, noting
how
impressed they are with ACE's close collaboration with the College of
Staten
Island, convincing ACE participants that a college degree is indeed
attainable.
Jennifer says she's excited that that these resources have enabled ACE
to add
occupational training - Certified Nursing Assistants with internships at a nursing home and Hospitality
training
with internships at the Hilton Garden Inn and Hampton Inn and Suites -
to the
GED and counseling services. ******
Michael R. Curley | Welcome to the Board.Michael Curleyhas joined the board of the NY Center. Michael is a financial advisor with Chase Investment Services and a native Staten Islander, born, raised, and stayed in West Brighton. He is past president of the Kiwanis Club of Staten Island, an active parishioner at Sacred Heart, and a great supporter of his wife Sharon, a family nurse practitioner, and their four children. Thanks for joining us, Michael. ******
Excitement is Building: On Wednesday, June 9, 2010,
we will be hosting our annual "Celebrating Partnerships" auction
fundraiser.
You could make a valuable contribution to our ability to
constructive problem-solving, effective
communication, violence prevention and intercultural awareness.
Please
consider taking a sponsorship, journal ad or contributing merchandise,
memorabilia, gift certificates or any other items that
would generate interest for the silent auction. Your generosity and
support will help make this event a success and be acknowledged in our program,
which will be given to over 200 people that will attend.
For
more information, contact Amy Lavelle,development associate at (718) 947-4121.
****** Sign up for Summer Camp
 July 6 - August 13, 2010 If you want to know that your kids have spent
the day in a safe and nurturing summer program, learn more about the summer
camp we're operating at the SI School of Civic Leadership - a state-of-the-art,
air conditioned facility in Graniteville. This unique summer camp will
incorporate programming built on The 7 Habits of Happy Kids by Stephen Covey's
son Sean. For details, click here.

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ON MY MIND
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Our editor and I were talking about Volunteer Recognition
Month. I'd said I wanted to recognize our volunteer mediators in our newsletter
this month. She asked whether mediators were the only volunteers contributing
to NYCID.
That question led to this list of dedicated people. My heartfelt
thanks go out to you all. Without you, none of the wonderful stories you read
about here could happen.
To the 40 volunteer mediators, thank you for the over a thousand cases
you handle each year, for investing time to continually upgrade your skills,
for saving taxpayers and the court system many thousands of dollars each year,
and for teaching clients that conflict doesn't have to be ugly or violent, that
through mediation, they have a route to understanding and resolution.
Thank you to the volunteers who mount our fundraising
events,including so many staff who volunteer after their workday ends. Putting
on an event like our June 9 auction takes hours of planning, solicitation and
legwork to raise thousands of dollars to keep our doors open. It takes special
people to donate their time to do this work.
To the many businesses and agencies that supervise our
student interns,thanks can never be enough for your commitment to giving these
young people a healthy start in the world of work. We know that supervising an
intern takes time and patience. You may not think of yourselves as our
volunteers, but you give generously of your time and talent, without thought of
recompense - the very definition of a volunteer.
To our pro-bono attorneys and the law firms you work for,
thank you. We could never afford the amount or quality of legal support that
you provide for everything from negotiating contracts and consulting on
personnel issues, to representing us in the occasional distressing lawsuit.
And, lastly, my thanks to our board- a group of thoughtful
and talented people whose guidance and support has seen us through challenging
times. No executive director can claim a board more committed to providing our
community youth development and conflict resolution services that meet such
high standards.
These busy people carve time out of their business and personal
lives day after day, giving countless hours. Where would we be without you?
Community benefit organizations are only as strong as their
volunteer base. NYCID is indeed rich. The staff here joins me in
sending you all a resounding THANK YOU.
 Dominick

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Our Calendar | 
ACT Classes Helping separating or divorcing parents understand how to help their children cope with the changes. Wednesdays, May 12 & 19
5:30 - 8:30 p.m.
or Saturday, June 1210 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Spotlight on Mediationto be announcedSave the date!Annual Auction June 9, 2010
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