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I think its safe to say that most of our readers are against abortion and cannot understand how a woman can choose to have one. That is unless we personally, a close friend or family member has come face-to-face with an unplanned pregnancy. In a case like this the abortion issue becomes much more personal and a lot less abstract.
Take for instance, *Elizabeth. Elizabeth was a mess when she arrived at Eden... she couldn't stop crying. She had an appointment for an abortion and planned to get it done that week. She came to the Eden Clinic for information about abortion procedures. After learning the facts she cried even more, and she changed her mind! She was scared to death to tell her parents though. Offering support we asked her to call her mom while still at the Clinic, and she did!
I'm pretty sure Elizabeth's mom, who is a pastor's wife, was theoretically against abortion until a few days ago when she received a phone call from her daughter that shattered her world. The words, "Mom, I'm pregnant," hit her like a ton of bricks.
Needless to say, mom spun out of control and was reasonably upset. She said things to her daughter that would never reveal she was a pastor's wife. Her fear of what others would think was quite obvious. She kept telling Elizabeth NOT to tell anybody that she was pregnant. Mom began to tell how this pregnancy is going to affect her father's position as a pastor, his influence, and his relationships with friends. Mom said that her father would get fired - after all, he's a pastor! How will the Christian college she attends receive this news? What reflection will this pregnancy have on her extended family and her church family? Mom put a lot of pressure on Elizabeth and instilled a lot of fear. She couldn't hold up under the pressure of her mother and opted for abortion in the end.
When abortion touches our lives it becomes a personal issue, not just an abstract idea. Parents of teens, even Christians who have been against abortion will sometimes choose it for their daughter rather than face family or friends. Please be in prayer for Elizabeth and her family because the outcome of this choice has only just begun.
And may we all extend the hand of grace to those who find themselves in this situation. Please, let us help you! The Eden Clinic will give you and your family the support and resources needed to get through a difficult unplanned pregnancy. We know it won't be easy, but we do promise a lot of prayer and support that will help you make the best possible choice for your family - secrets are never good.
~Linda
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