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August 26, 2009
Loren in capI'm delighted to invite you to our very first Best Practices webinar: "How to Do Strategic Planning With Your Congregation." It's scheduled for Wednesday, October 28, 2009, 11:00 AM - 2:00 PM EDT. (For those of you who are new to this, a webinar is an online class, that you can participate in via your computer. You don't need to be a computer expert to link up.)

We've got our denomination's best consultant on this topic, Dr. Monte Sahlin, to teach the class. Monte can only take a limited number of people, so I'd encourage you to sign up right away. You can go here to register and reserve your place. You also need this document on strategic planning as reference.

IC5, the National Conference on Innovation, is coming up next week in Columbus. I do hope I'll see some of you there. I'll also be at Innovative Impact in Nashville, October 11-13.

Blessings
Loren Seibold
IN THIS ISSUE
Pastor: Orlando Moncrieffe on getting acquainted with new members
Reading: Vulgarity for Christians
Quotes: "I am more afraid of my own heart than of the pope and all his cardinals."
News & ideas: Google Scholar for sermon research
Events: IC5, The Fifth Annual Conference on Innovation
Practicing Pastor
MoncrieffeMaking Friends with Newly Baptized Members
by Orlando Moncrieffe, Allegheny East Conference

The need to integrate new members into the full fellowship of the church family as quickly as possible is well established. Various methods have been employed to initiate, accelerate, support, and sustain the process. I have developed for my church a baptismal candidate profile form - one for adults and one for youth - to be filled out by the candidates prior to their baptism, to help church members become acquainted with new members.

As the candidates are presented to the church on the day of baptism, I introduce each one to the congregation. I focus on one individual at a time: just prior to the public examination, I ask each candidate to stand facing the congregation as I make a narrative presentation (see below) about him or her using information drawn from the profile form. I want it to be a warm and personal introduction, and not just some data about the candidate. When I am through, the candidate is seated and I invite another to stand.

My intention is to encourage congregants to initiate contacts and establish personal relationships with the new members based on shared interests such as word games, fishing, cooking, gardening, or whatever hobbies or interests they may find in common. This supplements the more formally structured programs that are in place to assist the new members in becoming acquainted with the church family, integrated into its fellowship, and engaged in its nurturing and outreach activities.

Here's an example of a new member profile:

henryMichael Henry was born in Antigua. He is married and has three adult daughters, two of whom are in college. He worked for many years as a truck and bus driver. He has also been a waiter on an ocean liner, and a store detective at a supermarket. His hobbies include cricket, cooking, and gardening. As a teenager Michael attended Sunday night evangelistic meetings in his home country, at the invitation of some Adventist friends. More than four decades later, the seed planted in his youth prompted him to search for an Adventist church in Teaneck, where he has resided since 1984. His quest led him to the First Seventh-day Adventist Church of Teaneck. After months of regular attendance and Bible studies, he was baptized.  His favorite Bible passage is the Genesis Creation story, and his favorite Bible character is Job. He is now actively involved in Men's Ministries, and is a member of the Sanctuary Choir and the Men's Chorus.

Orlando is senior pastor of the First Seventh-day Adventist Church of Teaneck, New Jersey.
Reading For Pastors
Christians and the language we use:
From Monte Sahlin: Study shows American congregations are in decline. Quote: "Most congregations report that attendance is declining, not increasing. Most congregations report that their finances are in worse shape. Most congregations report that spiritual vitality is down. More congregations say that most of their members are uncertain about the mission of their church. Many congregations have an aging membership, with fewer young adults."

How often are pastors sexual predators?
According to this Washington Post piece, "One in every 33 women who attend worship services regularly has been the target of sexual advances by a religious leader." (Some Baptists have taken this problem to the webwaves, in a most blunt way.)

Uh... seriously? The founder of Jediism, a religion based on Star Wars, is suing a supermarket chain because they asked him to remove his hood while shopping! Quote: "Jedis are very welcome to shop in our stores although we would ask them to remove their hoods. Obi-Wan Kenobi, Yoda and Luke Skywalker all appeared hoodless without ever going over to the Dark Side and we are only aware of the Emperor as one who never removed his hood. If Jedi walk around our stores with their hoods on, they'll miss lots of special offers."

Denomination vs. congregation: The First District Court of Appeal rejected a San Francisco congregation's attempt to leave the Reformed Church of America rather than submit to closure over dwindling attendance.
Reading For Pastors
The Path of Meaning
By Marcel Schwantes
 
Think of a recent situation at the office or in your congregation that triggered your emotions - your amygdala sent an emergency signal. We've all been there, right? Now step through this little process I call "the path of meaning."
  • Event - what caused it? (For example, a belligerent member confronted you about the theology of a sermon)
  • What conclusion did I come to? (The story you're telling yourself in your head includes some very unflattering things about this saint.)
  • What emotions did it drive? (Anger, frustration and rage may have now controlled you)
  • How did I act or behave? (Did you react by saying something back you shouldn't have, and it escalated?)
Perhaps you think your behavior was appropriate. I mean, what a jerk, and how dare he say that to you! But as you look back at the scenario and its conclusion, let's consider how you might have dealt with this differently by avoiding "victim and villain" storytelling. Look at the "path of meaning" again. At what point on the path could you have exerted influence on yourself, and in turn influenced the outcome of your behavior?

Why would you want to consider a different outcome? Because our emotions often get in the way of our ability to think. IQ is not enough. Even the smartest of people (including pastors!) can do very dumb things.

Marcel Schwantes is a certified life/leadership coach with a virtual office open to clients across the country. Visit his website at www.marcelcoaching.com.
Featured Media
Two outstanding Adventist conferences on innovation are coming up. The National Conference on Innovation, October 4-6 is in Ohio, and on October 11-13 Innovative Impact will be held in Nashville Tennessee. Preview the events by watching Wesley Knight's presentation at 2008 Innovative Impact and Kelly Kullburg at 2008 Conference on Innovation.
To the Point

I am more afraid of my own heart than of the pope and all his cardinals. I have within me the great pope, Self.
  - Martin Luther

Be thou comforted, little dog, Thou too in Resurrection shall have a little golden tail.
  - Martin Luther

Be a sinner and sin strongly, but more strongly have faith and rejoice in Christ.
  - Martin Luther

The victory lies not with us, but with Christ, who has taken on him both to conquer for us and to conquer in us. The victory lies neither in our own strength to get it, nor in our enemies' strength to defeat it. If it lay with us, we might justly fear. But Christ will maintain his own government in us and take our part against our corruptions. They are his enemies as well as ours. Let us therefore be "strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might" (Ephesians 6:10). Let us not look so much at who our enemies are as at who our judge and captain is, nor at what they threaten, but at what he promises. We have more for us than against us. What coward would not fight when he is sure of victory?
- Richard Sibbes, The Bruised Reed

Anyone who is to find Christ must first find the church. How could anyone know where Christ is and what faith is in him unless he knew where his believers are?
  - Martin Luther

By becoming a Christian, I belong to God and I belong to my brothers and sisters. It is not that I belong to God and then make a decision to join a local church. My being in Christ means being in Christ with those others who are in Christ. This is my identity. This is our identity. . . . If the church is the body of Christ, then we should not live as disembodied Christians.
- Tim Chester and Steve Timmis, Total Church

Every man must do two things alone; he must do his own believing and his own dying.
  - Martin Luther

For where God built a church, there the Devil would also build a chapel.
  - Martin Luther
News, Ideas & Reminders

  • From Tim Mitchell: "You may be way ahead of me on this, but I am finding Google Scholar to be a helpful tool for sermon prep.  By using Google Scholar to look for legitimate articles you can omit a lot of the crazy stuff on the web. You can also consult a single, specific chapter of a book that would cost you $30 to buy for one sermon. Recently I preached on the Lord's Supper from 1 Corinthians 11.  Here's an example of a helpful and practical resource I found online in about two minutes: Google Scholar --> G. Theissen, 1 Corinthians 11. --> Social Integration and Sacramental Activity: An Analysis of 1 Cor 11: 17-34. Send me resources you find too, ok?"
  • The Center for Youth Evangelism and Pastor Ron Whitehead invite you to receive our free 411 Newsletter monthly e-newsletter, designed for Adventist Youth and Youth Leaders. It will keep you up to date on Adventist events, news, and resources from around the world! To sign up, please visit our website, www.adventistyouth.org.
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Best Practices is a Vervent publication of NAD CHURCH RESOURCE CENTER. Editor: Loren Seibold, Senior Pastor, Worthington Ohio Seventh-day Adventist Church. E-mail: Best Practices. You are free to republish pieces from Best Practices in your own newsletter or blog, with attribution to the Best Practices newsletter and the author of the piece.