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Tip of the Week
Are you looking for techniques to help children manage their own behavior? If so, here are a few ideas that will help you.  
  • Turtle Technique
  • Solution Kit ideas
  • Problem Solving Steps
  • Social Stories
 
To view these  problem solving strategies go to
  
OR
 
For more information or resources on problem solving or behavior techniques contact the Help Line at 301-733-0000 or 800-924-9188 and press 2 or email help@applesforchildren.org

 
Upcoming Events
SAVE THE DATE
 

9th Annual Early Childhood Professional Day

 

A Day in

 Mr. Roger's Neighborhood 
 

Saturday, September 25th

9 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Hagerstown

 

 

 

Know, Love & Teach

III: Infants & Toddlers

 
Garrett & Allegany
 Saturday, July 31st &

Saturday, August 28th

8:30 a.m.- 3:00 p.m.

Grantsville Elementary School

 

 
  
Resource Library Open House
 Saturday, August 21st
 9:00 a.m. - 12 noon
  6 W. Washington Street
Suite 210
 Hagerstown
 
Coming this Fall!
 
MMSR Domain Trainings
 
and
 
Infant and Toddler Caregivers Learning Together
 
APPLES for Children welcomes
AMY WEAVER
to the APPLES staff!
 
Watch for more details in the coming weeks
Contact Us
6 West Washington Street, Suite 210
Hagerstown, Maryland 21740
301-733-0000 or 800-924-9188
FAX: 301-733-0886 
 
Help
Greetings!

Happy Wednesday.  
  
Just like baseball, caring for children in a program is not an individual effort. Daily routines run more smoothly with a team approach. The provider guides, motivates, encourages, and leads the team the same as a baseball coach. 
 
A baseball example: Bases are loaded, there are two outs and the batter has two strikes.  The pitch is thrown and the batter line-drives the ball right to the pitcher. It hits the pitcher and drops. The pitcher remembers what his coach taught him: make the easiest play. The pitcher picks up the ball, runs toward home plate, and tags the runner as he steps on the plate.  Game over!
 
A program example: The provider teaches children strategies to use when problems arise with peers or how to best express their emotions. The provider sets up situations for children to practice the strategies with a goal to eventually have the children think of their own solutions. 
 
Read on to hear a story of how a program became a team and practiced problem solving strategies.  Tell us some of your stories by emailing help@applesforchildren.org (see coupon below)
   
 
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When you get to the end of your rope...tie a knot and hold on tighter. 
              - Franklin D. Roosevelt 
 
A discouraged parent called the APPLES helpline in February about her 3 year old son who attended  a program in Allegany County. "My son has been hitting, pinching, not taking turns, not sharing, and not complying with rules at home or at the program. He aggresively fights with his sisters. I have tried time out and taking toys from him. It's not working and I don't know what else to do. Can you help?"   
 
During APPLES' observations at the program, the 3 year old acted out many of the behaviors mom had described. Originally, the 3 year old received therapy regularly for speech and developmental delays upon entering the program.  The staff implemented a visual schedule, planned better activities for transitions, and began reading social stories with all the children.
 
Still, the disruptive behaviors continued. APPLES' further suggestions were:
  • get down on the floor to play with him each day (to provide individual attention and to teach social skills)
  • teach him how to stop, take breaths, and think about a solution (using the turtle technique and solution cards)
  • post turn-taking charts (make a visual list of who's next for popular toys or activities)
  • teach him words to use when he is upset and help him to express his feelings, wants and needs 
  • play games that will help him get to know other children
  • provide music and movement activities at circle time that are of special interest to him
 
In addition to the above strategies, the staff assigned a "problem solver" job to a child each day. When a "problem" came up, the "problem solver" would help the other children find a solution.  It took some practice, but the strategies helped tremendously.     
 
The staff, family members and other children really worked as a team to teach this child and all the other children social skills. His disruptive behavior occurred less frequently at the program. The 3 year old, as well as other children learned turn-taking, basic problem solving skills, how to manage their emotions, and other social skills. The staff worked with his mom on how to implement the same strategies at home. The staff learned the importance of working as a  team and to be more confident.    
 
 See the coupon below and share your stories about building a program team  or a child with challenging behaviors at help@applesforchildren.org.
 
APPLES Help Line
 
Need help with a child with challenging behaviors? Looking for help with the Maryland Child Care Credential? Call APPLES for Children's Help Line, Monday - Thursday, 8:30 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. 301-733-0000 or 800-924-9188, press "2" or email us any time at help@applesforchildren.org.
 
Help
Volunteer with APPLES
 
Earn Professional Activity Units towards your Maryland Child Care Credential by volunteering at APPLES for Children. You can earn 2 Units for 12 volunteer hours or 1 Unit for 6 volunteer hours. Current jobs include:
 
Library Assistants Needed: Help us organize our Resource Library.
 
 
Contact us at help@applesforchildren.org or call 301-733-0000.
Email us a story about a child with challenging behaviors and receive FREE children's books
 
 
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Include:
 
Age and gender of child (no names, please)
Description of the child's behaviors
How you helped the child learn social and emotional skills