July 2010
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Thoughts for Leadership and Life


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Change? Thanks, but No Thanks!
Resources - The Business of the Church
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Friends and Colleagues,


Change isn't easy.  Many people are in churches precisely because the church is one institution that doesn't change much.  It makes them secure in an ever changing society.  Last month I addressed the importance of doing grief work, a dimension of leading change that is often not appreciated.  This month I do a whirlwind overview of some key dimensions of leading change.

The resource section highlights a book that addresses the dynamic tension between leadership and management.


This summer, are you taking some time to reflect on how you're doing and to set some commitments for fall?  I'd love to coach you as you do this, asking deep questions to help you clarify and focus.  Give me a call or send an email.

 

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Here's to clarity about how God is leading us!

 

Peace,

 

Bob




Change?  Thanks, but no thanks!  Part 2

Is a pastor or other church leader trying to lead change just pushing the Mississippi to run upstream???  What leadership helps some churches turn around and thrive - and what happens when others don't turn around - and often die?

Last month I drew extensively from Kenneth McFayden's book Strategic Leadership for a Change, noting that helping people face their situation and grieve what has been lost is critical to moving on.  (the URL for that issue is:  http://archive.constantcontact.com/fs032/1102564328120/archive/1103469384142.html )

While it's impossible to describe the elements of leading change in two short articles, I'll pick up with some key ideas again this month.

First, it's important to get members (especially leaders) to describe reality as they see it and to measure the situation against some benchmarks.  Simply reacting from the gut isn't enough.  How does your church measure up to:

  • foundational biblical texts like the Great Commandment and Great Commission?
  • current research into what makes for vital churches (e.g. Diana Butler Bass' books, Schnase's Five Practices of Fruitful CongregationsThe U.S. Congregational Life Survey which draws from research done by Deborah Woolover, Natural Church Development by Schwartz.)
How is what you're doing it now working for you?

I encourage leaders to do a full blown mission and vision study (see my article about this - http://archive.constantcontact.com/fs032/1102564328120/archive/1103026322135.html).

The key question is: what and who is God calling your church to be and do in the next five years here in this place?

Involve a significant percentage of the congregation (at least 50% of those who worship regularly) in these studies.  Get them to tell stories about when the church faced challenges before and how they surmounted them - or didn't.  What did they learn?  Who were key leaders and what did they do?
Since ownership of 80% or so of the congregation is key, you may need to do things to build trust. Otherwise, you're wasting your time. 

You will likely have to turn up the heat - but not too much.  In his book Direct Hit, Paul Borden shares his assertive methods for working with churches that are on a downward trajectory.  "In our region, we have often shown congregations the year and month (with some preciseness) that they will no longer be able to pay their pastor, afford health and other kinds of insurance, and have people alert enough to take care of basic day-to-day business."  (i.e. when they'll be out of business) (p - 58)  That gets people's attention. 

Of course, if you're too pessimistic, then people will either ignore you or freeze into inactivity.  Or if there has been a traumatic incident or big church fight, you'll need to deal with that.

Next, it's important to develop a clear path that shows both a big vision and intermediate objectives. Celebrate the achievement of those intermediate objectives.  That encourages people that they are on the right track.  You might set a goal of increasing worship attendance by 5 or 10% by this time next year.  Or starting six new small groups.  Decide with leaders what specific goals would stretch people but are achievable.  Make sure they correlate with the bigger vision. 

Be persistent and adapt as needed.  When something doesn't work, rather than getting angry and blaming, trying saying "oh, that's interesting" and  ask "now what did we learn from this?" 

I would be glad to share titles of books I have found helpful in this area.  Send me an email or call.

I'd love to coach you and/or your governing board regarding this process.  Give me a call and we can discuss possibilities.

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Here's to healthy churches - with healthy leaders!


Resources - books and other resources that have been helpful

The Business of the Church: The Uncomfortable Truth that Faithful Ministry Requires Effective Management - by John Wimberly

I think this book should be required reading for all pastors, especially those who are new or fairly new to a parish.

Wimberly makes a clear distinction between leadership and management, noting that most pastors have to do some of both - (1) help a congregation catch the vision of what God is calling them to be and do and (2) attend to the details of making sure things are done effectively.

He uses a systems approach, noting how the church works as a system in the larger cultural system. That appeals to my inclination to try to see the big picture. Three interlocking inputs - Personnel, Facilities, and Finances combine to produce the ministry outputs of Proclamation, Pastoral Care, Program, and Mission.

Under each category he describes many specifics of how a pastor needs to manage, appealing to people who insist that details be handled competently but who sometimes have trouble seeing the big picture. I especially like his stressing the importance of having clear personnel policies and procedures. I have seen any number of pastors who come into conflict because of unclear expectations, resulting in the pastor being forced out of the church or members leaving in anger. As one who has seen some atrocious church websites, I strongly endorse his assertion that churches normally need to hire someone to do this.

While I quibble with a few side opinions that Wimberly voices (e.g. over the proper tenure for interim pastors), I think this is a most valuable book. I have already and will be recommending it to my coaching and consulting clients.

What books or resources have you found especially helpful?  I'd be glad (with available space) to share your reviews and/or suggestions.
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