September 2009
Harris Coaching and Consulting            
Thoughts for Leadership and Life


In This Issue
Achieving Commitment and Accountability
Competence Commitment Grid
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Friends and Colleagues,

In my two previous newsletters I introduced you to Patrick Lencioni's Five Dysfunctions of a Team.   I asked you if members of your leadership team (staff and lay leaders) trust one another and know how to fight effectively?  If you and your fellow leaders have built a deep sense of trust and know how to deal with differences, then you're ready to move on.  See the main article below.

The other article describes a handy tool for you to assess your leaders and to clarify your approach to helping them lead.

My goal is to help pastors be better leaders.  If you find something here that's helpful, great!  Please forward it to a friend.  (and if you do so, please do it with the forward button on this newsletter - that helps reduce spam!).

Should you be interested in some coaching, please get in touch.  Send me an email or give me a call.  I'd love to explore possibilities. 
 
I hope you had a good summer.
 
Peace,
 
Bob




Building an Effective Leadership Team: Steps 3 & 4 - Achieving Commitment and Mutual Accountability
 
Patrick Lencioni, in his book The Five Dysfunctions of a Team identifies five characteristics of dysfunctional teams:
  • Lack of trust
  • Destructive conflict
  • Lack of personal commitment
  • No mutual accountability
  • Poor results
For a full description of these dysfunctions, I urge you to read Lencioni's book.  See his website for a graphic summary.  http://www.tablegroup.com/our_books/pdfs/the_five_dysfunctions.pdf

If you didn't receive the newsletters in which I dealt with the first two dysfunctions, please email me and I'll send them to you.
       
What's next?   Lack of personal commitment.

Ever been in a meeting where the group seems to decide something and one or more members of the group say  something like "I guess that's ok for the church to do, but I think I'm busy that day"?  Or if they don't say it with words, they do so with their actions?   I certainly have encountered this behavior.

So how do you make sure that leaders are committed to a common course of action?  Lencioni suggests that there are two dimensions to this: buy-in and clarity.  First, it's critical that every member of the team has input as you discuss the issue.  Make sure that people ask whatever questions they have and express any concerns.  And be very clear about what it is that you are deciding.  Who is going to do what?  How will you know whether you've done it? 

I'll never forget Charles, who chaired a committee in my first church out of seminary.  At the conclusion of every meeting he would quickly go around the table and summarize who had agreed to do what.  This exercise, which took all of 2-3 minutes, clarified ownership and commitment.
 
One important distinction needs to be made at this point: commitment is not the same as consensus.   Lencioni declares that "Waiting for everyone on a team to agree intellectually on a decision is a good recipe for mediocrity, delay, and frustration...  Commitment is about a group of intelligent, driven individuals buying in to a decision precisely when they don't naturally agree.  In other words, it's the ability to defy a lack of consensus." (Overcoming the Five Dysfunctions of a Team, p. 51 ).   The key in getting commitment is everyone having the chance to ask questions, express opinions, and generally believe he/she has been heard.
 
Mutual Accountability
 
Once a team achieves a sense of commitment to its decisions, what next?  It's important that members of the team hold each other accountable for actions.
 
For example, in a church the Christian Education chairperson might say to the Worship Chair something like: "Hey Joe, three months ago, you said that you were going to find some ways of involving youth in worship leadership.  When do you anticipate that happening?  I think it's really important."

Additionally, the pastor and other leaders will need to hold each other accountable for behavior.  I consulted with a church where some members of the governing board attended worship infrequently, in what was clearly passive-aggressive behavior .  When I asked the pastor about this behavior, the pastor gave me a helpless look. 
 
What methods have you found that hold people responsible for subversive or other non-helpful behavior?  ?   I have found that sometimes simply describing what I see to be very helpful.  "Jim, I'm puzzled.  You said that you agreed with this decision and yet I hear that you are actively speaking against it during coffee hour.  What's up?  Did we not adequately consider your concerns?  What do the rest of you on the Board think?"

I encourage you to get and read The Five Dysfunctions of a Team and the companion workbook.
 
Call or email me if you'd like me to coach you as you build up your leadership team.  I'd love to work with you.
 

Assessing Competence and Commitment
 
The Competence/Commitment grid is a helpful little tool to assess the abilities of your leaders.   The vertical axis measures competence, the horizontal measures commitment.  (imagine the axes below - I couldn't figure out how to show them)

 High Competence


Low                                           High Commitment                         Commitment



Low Competence



Optimally every leader will be highly competent and highly committed!   Such a leader simply needs a cheer-leader.  However, I've never served in a church filled with such folks. 
 
What approaches have you used to lead those in the other quadrants?   What training is helpful for the enthusiastic new officer who doesn't know the ropes?  What might motivate the tired old-timer who knows a lot, but needs to get going?  And what about the person who is neither motivated nor competent - someone elected perhaps because nobody else would say "yes''?   How can you minimize their impact while leading them to deeper commitment?
 
I have found this tool helpful as I have assessed the leaders in a congregation.  May it help you too.

 

 
Future Issues (monthly)
  • Getting Results - what's important
  • Personnel Appraisals

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Bob
Robert Harris
Harris Coaching and Consulting