Your Meeting Leader is an "I" If: Structure: Fluid agenda. Stories, anecdotes and unrelated discussions often lead to lengthy meetings. Example:
"How was everyone's weekend? "That's a good point. I had a similar experience..."
Priorities: No time frame. Encourages participation. Shares big picture. Often turns business meeting into social event. Example: "We covered the important items. Let's meet again this week, over lunch, to finish the rest of the agenda."
Decision Making Process: Inspires others to get involved through brainstorming. Enthusiasm drives decisions. Example: "Partner up with someone, generate a few ideas, and then we will share in the large group."
If Attending a Meeting Led by an "I": Preparation:
Come with creative suggestions and volunteer your ideas.
During: Be willing to move from topic to topic. Express your concerns with feeling/visual/positive words, stories and experiences. Avoid pushing facts to change minds. Example:
"I feel it would help if we met more often. We could then address our concerns and explore solutions in a more timely manner."
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Bonnie Burn CEO & Master DISC Trainer Certified Situational
Leadership II Trainer Author of Assessments A to Z, Jossey Bass Author
of Flipchart Power, Jossey Bass
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