Let's begin......
This is how my meditations go. I use it as a time to connect to my Inner guidance and those of the guides that are available to us. I pose questions on things I need help with and sometimes the path is not what I would expect but it is always what I need.
I was pondering what I could offer to someone in need. I visited with the most recent conversation we had and remember them saying how they "know this and that". I tried to explain how it is not the knowing but the feeling. Not that your mind knows it but that you feel it in your heart. I wanted to say,"So if you know it all, what is the problem then?"
Then I heard the question come back to me. I stopped and thought about, "What problems, did I have?" Well, funny you should ask. The one I see at the moment is people who are not nice. These same people who teach all these classes on Spirituality and love and blah blah blah and are not nice people.
And so the conversation began. S (Spirit) M (me)
S: Are you nice?
M: I would like to say yes.
S:"Nice" has some interesting inferences. What is your definition of nice?
M: Nice usually means doing for others. Making someone else happy with my actions.
S: Can someone be nice under this definition all the time and to all people?
M: No.
S: So if you can't please everyone all the time then how would someone else. Especially from a state of misalignment. That is as nice as it gets from them.
S: Next is the idea of making someone happy with your actions. What a slippery slope that is. To put someone's happiness in your care/control. To make your happiness dependent on their actions and vise versa is very dis-empowering.
So watch when you are asking people to be nice. Do you really want that person to be responsible for your happiness? If you do, you will be disappointed every time.
We could push further with this and ask about the judgement involved. In sitting as judge and jury as to someone's niceness, you are out of alignment yourself and shall we say--not so nice.
So lets look at when people seem to be not nice. Where do they seem to congregate around? Work? Money? Relationships?
Let the not so nice people be your indicator of your non-alignment. What vibration around that topic do you need to clean up? Clean up the vibration, find your alignment and the people will be nice again.
M: Gotta love Divine Wisdom. I can feel the release from the heavy feeling I have has these past few days. Now time to clean up some vibrations. gwen and our Mentors
Emotions=Communication. It is how Spirit gets our attention. Makes complete sense. Once I started playing with this concept, my life changed. How the heck did I miss that one? Sometimes it gets tricky when I have a knee jerk response to something that I am not really wanting. But with some practice I have found that my feelings don't let me down. The more sensitive I get to how I feel, the better I feel in general. The better I feel the more I find my life experience bringing to me all the things I could ever hope for. Sure I still have some resistant or limiting thoughts that I want to turn around but cleaning up my emotional vibration has made all the difference
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