Carmel Retreat Center
 
 
Prayer Chaplain Program Newsletter
 
A program of Light and Love Ministries 
Benchmark #6 of Thriving in Unity (a program of the Association of Unity Churches International)
Prayer Chaplain Trainers Newsletter
 
September 2009
 
In This Issue
Welcome!
50 Ways to Leave Your Lover?
Prayer Bead Bracelets
Prayer Chaplain Stole
Last Training for 2009
What is the Prayer Chaplain Program
Leadership
Thriving in Unity
Light & Love Ministries Team
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"We welcome you to this  edition of the Light & Love Ministries Prayer Chaplain Program Trainers newsletter.  We hope you find value in its content and we welcome your feedback."
 
In Light & Love,
 
Rev. Lei Lanni & Jerry Burt 
JB'S Corner - Volunteer Tips
50 Ways to Leave Your Lover?
Oops, I meant to say - 50 Ways to Keep Your Volunteers! 
 
In the 1975 hit song "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover"  Paul Simon says "Just slip out the back, jack
Make a new plan, stan
You dont need to be coy, roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, gus
You dont need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, lee
And get yourself free..."
 
Now, you may be asking yourself - what does this have to do with volunteers?  The answer is a lot!  The gist the song, comical as it may be, reinforces two major principles in good volunteer management - take action and there are many ways to reach the same outcome.
 
Volunteers do what they do - volunteer - for many personal reasons but research has shown us that they are wanting to add value, seeking opportunities to do something they don't do elsewhere in their life, and wanting their volunteer work to use their skills and natural
abilities or help them develop new ones. These goals are not met accidentally, they are inherent in the way volunteer programs are designed and managed.
 
The Prayer Chaplain Program itself is designed intentionally to provide opportunities for individuals to take the next step in their spiritual growth and provides a structure for the way the service is delivered, but your good execution and leadership is important to the success of the program.  From the beginning orientation and core training, to the monthly meetings, dedication ceremony, wellness calling, and ongoing service, there are many opportunities for you to infuse these activities with the components that will keep your volunteers coming back year after year and will entice new volunteers to join your program.
 
Keeping your monthly meetings fresh and creative, taking every opportunity to say "thank you for your service" and show recognition, being available to provide ongoing support, modeling the principles you are teaching - confidentiality, self-care, keeping commitments, etc., and being a good 360 degree leader are all actions that you take with your own unique style that will aid you in successfully managing the Prayer Chaplain Program and make it an invaluable asset to your ministry.
 

Featured Products   

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Prayer Bead Bracelets
 Prayer Bead Bracelets
 
These beautiful bracelets are hand crafted with hand blown glass beads and stones gathered from all over the world by Bead Beautiful!, Inc.
 
We have selected a few that will particularly support you and your Prayer Chaplains on your spiritual path. They also would serve as excellent gifts for your Prayer Chaplains and Prayer Chaplain Emeritus. 
Each piece is shipped with it's own Story Card. All bracelets are available in three standard sizes: small, medium, and large. The medium size is the approximate "fit" of a standard 7" chain bracelet. The next size up or down is 1/2 inch smaller or larger.

Price: $45.00
+Shipping

Prayer Bead Bracelets
Assembled - Prayer Chaplain Manual
 
 Assembled Prayer Chaplain Manual
Let us make your to-do list a little
lighter.  If you attended a Prayer Chaplain Program Trainers Workshop after September, 2005 - we are able to supply you with the updated Prayer Chaplain Manuals for your Prayer Chaplain Training. Assembled* just as you received in the Trainers Workshop, these manuals include:
 
 - 100 color and black & white pages in a 1" binder
- cover page
- divider tab
- Prayer Handbook
- Come Apart for Awhile

Remember trainers - there are "customized" pages that you will need to insert into each Manual based on your ministry's needs (see "Setting Up your Program" from your Trainers Guide).

Price: $50.00 + Shipping & Handling (based on UPS ground charges)
 
 Finger Mala
Prayer for Protection Finger Mala
 
These prayer beads have been specially created to use with the Prayer for Protection. The stones represent the 4 characteristics of God in the Prayer: 

Light/Crystal Quartz
Love/Rose Quartz
Power/Amethyst
and Presence/Blue Quartz 
There are 12 beads, grouped in 3's - 3 being a holy number of completion - for 3 repetitions of the Prayer. The string is short (5" long) with a loop to go over a finger making the mala more accessible and easy to use. It's the perfect length to keep in a purse, on a desk, or in a pocket. 

Each string of beads ends with the traditional wings Unity charm. This is a one-of-a-kind item!
Price: $25.00
+Shipping Prayer Chaplain Stole

Finger Mala
Support for you!
 
We are here for you!  Light and Love Ministries' team is available to support you and your Prayer Chaplain Program.  We are just a phone call away to answer questions, troubleshoot, and support you with prayer.  You are not alone.   Call us at 602-843-8360 
The Miracle Working Power of God!
 
Have you ever felt like you needed a big miracle in your life? Have you ever felt weighed down when you had too much to do and you didn't even know where to begin? Whenever you feel inundated or stuck in your life, I invite you to consciously pause and take a breath. Every time we breathe, we breathe in God life. No matter where you are on your spiritual journey, no matter what your outer or inner circumstances, you can always pause, breathe and make room for the miracle working power of Spirit. 
 
Miracles are the natural outworking of the Law. As we align ourselves with God, we open the space for God to show up. Whether it's feeding the 5000, or taking the cat to the vet, getting the kids off to school, doing yard work or completing the project at work. The miracle is that everything will get done, everything is in Divine Order. Whenever we pause and breathe, we create a space for the activity of God to move in and work through us.
 
Jesus stood in the presence of God in all circumstances, at all times. He embraced the mystery of our humanity and called forth our Divinity. No matter what the appearance, he saw beyond the human condition to the spiritual reality. He saw the wholeness of God life in all circumstances.  
 
As we embrace the mystery of our own humanity and look to God in all situations, we can experience the miracle working power of Spirit in our lives harmonizing, balancing and bringing us blessings of completion in all that is ours to do.
 
With Peace and Tranquility,
 
 
Lei Lanni 

Affirmation:  "I am one with the miracle working power of God!"
Prayer Chaplain Program Train the Trainers Workshop
Last Training in 2009 - November 12 - 14th
REGISTER NOW!  
 NOW is the time to infuse your program with new energy, train new leadership, or bring this powerful Prayer Chaplain Program to your ministry. 
 
There are spaces left in Orlando. 
 
SOLD OUT - September 17 - 19, Unity Palo Alto in Palo Alto, California
 
SOLD OUT - October 15 - 17, Carmel Retreat Center in Mahwah, New Jersey 
 
  
REGISTER NOW - November 12 - 14, Christ Church Unity in Orlando, Florida - Early bird registration is open until October 9th.  Early bird registration:  $380; Regular registration:  $412. 
 
Location:  Christ Church UnityOrlando
771 Holden Avenue
Orlando, FL 32839
(407) 852-3940
www.christchurchunity.net
 
  

We have a special room rate available for workshop participants at the EMBASSY SUITES DOWNTOWN-ORLANDO which is 3.28 Miles to Christ Church Unity.  Rate: $89.00 PER NIGHT/PLUS TAX.  To make a reservations call H.S.C. Travel toll free at 1.888.214.4833   Let the representative who answers the phone know that you need to book a room for the Prayer Chaplain Trainers Workshop. Should you need a rental car or flight please advise us at the time of your call and we can assist you with ease and the best prices available on or off of the internet.  

To register call us at 602-843-8360 and visit our website at www.lightandloveministries.org for more information.
 
Attend the Prayer Chaplain Trainers' Workshop and:
·  Receive everything needed to establish a
   Prayer Chaplain Program;
·  Receive the newly updated training material;
·  Experience hands-on experiential training;
·   Be filled with renewed commitment.
 
The Prayer Chaplain Program is:
·  A unique sacred service program for your 
  congregants who desire to take the next step in
  their spiritual development;
·  A way to extend the heart, hands, and feet of
  your ministry's leadership in caring for your
  pastoral care needs;
· A program that creates community in your
  ministry through monthly wellness calling.
 
Who Attends the Prayer Chaplain Trainers' Workshop?
· Those who will be training Prayer
  Chaplains and/or Coordinating the systems;
· Ministers and Licensed Unity Teachers (post-
  graduate credits available);
· LUT Candidates (practicum credits for Pastoral
  Care available);
· Individuals stepping into the leadership position of
  an existing program (succession planning); 
 - Individuals desiring to deepen their prayer life and
   expand their spiritual education and training.
 
Leadership
 
 
Leadership - A 360-Degree Proposition
Practice to Lead Down - "Follow me, I'll add value to you."
 
As we have been discussing, leadership is traditionally thought of as a top-down activity - the leaders lead and the followers follow.  However, "because 360-Degree Leaders are by definition nonpositional, they lead through influence, not position, power, or leverage.  And they take that approach not only with those above and alongside them, but also with those who work under them."  "360-Degree Leaders take the time and effort to earn influence with their followers just as they do with those over whom they have no authority."
 
This is a particularly important concept for those of you that are leading teams of Prayer Chaplains.  While you do have the authority to make decisions that might impact their ability to serve - your Prayer Chaplains are not paid staff, they are volunteers - so your ability to create influence is the best way to insure they will follow your lead.
 
Lead-Down Principle #1 is "Walk Slowly Through the Halls." 
  • "Slow down" - Take time away from the busyness of running the program and connect with your Prayer Chaplains.
  • "Express that you care" - Your Prayer Chaplains will want to know that you care about them as people and not just the service they are providing.
  • "Create a healthy balance of personal and professional interest" - "Personal interest goes deeper - it shows your heart."  Take an interest in what's going on with your Prayer Chaplains on a personal level without being nosy or intrusive.
  • "Pay attention when people start avoiding you" - You will learn a lot from noticing those Prayer Chaplains that you never quite seem to connect with and go out of your way to make that connection.
  • "Tend to the people,and they will tend to the business" - "A 360-Degree Leader has many exceptional qualities.  But one thing they all have in common is that despite their passion for the vision and their love of action, they give the majority of their effort to the people.  Leaders who tend only to the business often end up losing the people and the business."

Walking slowly through the halls requires special application for you as a Prayer Chaplain coordinator because your Prayer Chaplain's service does not all take place in an office.  Have you thought about being present during varied times when wellness calling is taking place to make connections before the Prayer Chaplains begin their service and pray them in?   Be present on Sunday morning during their service times.  Connect with your Prayer Chaplains by email or by sending notes to their home.  This will require some creativity and extra effort on your part, but the pay-off will be invaluable.

This article concludes our brief exploration of John Maxwell's book "The 360 Degree Leader."  I strongly encourage you to get John's book and further explore his concepts. I have provided a link below for a site to purchase books at very inexpensive rates.  Happy reading!
 

 Abes Books

 (Excerpts taken from The 360 Degree Leader by John C. Maxwell) 

Benchmark 6:  Identify and train a ministry champion to begin implementing a Chaplaincy program.  For more information click on the link below.
 
 
To train your next "champion" call Light and Love Ministries at 602-843-8360.
In Light and Love,
 

Reverend Lei Lanni and Jerry Burt
Jeri Royce, Director of Education and Training 
Light and Love Ministries Team
 
Light and Love Ministries is a 501c(3) alternative ministry with the Association of Unity Churches International.  We are supported through love offerings and tithes as well as our trainings, programs, and product sales.