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The Columns

June, 2011

In This Issue
From Pastor Karla
June Sundays
New Communionware
Recap of Tony's Farewell
Pastor Karla's Vacation
Eliot Church on the Web
FY12 Officers & Chairs
Church Family News
Quick Links
  
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Greetings! 

 

topI am completely overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and affection that you have lavished on me over these past weeks - at the Farewell dinner on May 21, especially, but in so many other conversations as well.  Words cannot begin to express my gratitude and appreciation, but Thank You!  And a special thanks for all the hard work that so many of you put into planning, preparing and hosting the farewell event.  I know that a tremendous amount of time and energy went into it.


As I said that evening, I couldn't possibly begin to realize how deep one's roots grow over 16 years embedded in a community, until I started to pull them out.  It's hard - and painful!  Much as I am convinced that this is a positive and necessary transition, for me and for the Eliot congregation, that doesn't make the parting any easier.  And it's also hard to say real "goodbyes"  when my home will still be in Newton.  But my life will be fully occupied with the next congregation that I serve and I really do intend to sever all pastoral connections and expectations with the Eliot congregation, as my ministerial oath requires.  So while it's tempting to just say "See you around" or "Till next time" instead of "Goodbye" and "Farewell," let's not do that.  Let us say farewell with love and affection and no expectations, but good memories.


The good memories come easy for me.  My years of ministry with you were some of the best years of my life. The support I found among you was honest and heartfelt, the rewards in my ministry were abundant, and the challenges enabled me to stretch and grow significantly in my professional and spiritual life.                                         

 

Thank you, and God bless you, every one!


 Pastor Tony

 

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Greetings from Pastor Karla
It has been a full and rich program year!  I would like to celebrate all of you at Eliot, because each of you are the church.  We couldn't be church without one another--from those of you who teach Sunday School to serving on Coordinating Council to making coffee and preparing goodies for fellowship every Sunday to gathering us to serve by cleaning up the Charles River banks.   I especially want to thank Lisa Hines, our outgoing moderator, for all of the time, effort and leadership she has provided us, especially this year.    She has supported the efforts of the Implementation Task Force as we talked about ensuring Eliot's vibrant future.   She pulled us all into action as we planned our farewell events for Tony.  She has lead with humour, grace, and deep faith.  Thank you, Lisa.  

And speaking of Pastor Tony---wow.  What to say?   Thank you, Tony----you have been a wonderful colleague to me, and I have appreciated beyond measure having the opportunity to be in ministry with you, here at Eliot.   It has been a wonderful four years.May God's richest blessings follow you to Randolph--they are so blessed to have you for their transitional minister.  

With love,

 

Pastor Karla

  
The Sundays in June
  
June 5 - Pastor Tony's Farewell Sunday
 We will bid farewell and godspeed to Pastor Tony, who will be preaching his last sermon at Eliot.  We will celebrate communion, and have a special ritual of letting go and honoring his ministry with us.  We will also have a special farewell reception.  Please join us!
  
June 12 - Pentecost!  
Wear red to celebrate the birthday of the church! 
Pastor Karla will be leading worship.

June 19   "Backstories"  
What are the stories behind some of our favorite hymns and spirituals?  
Robert and Nadja Young, along with Charles Raines, will be the worship leaders that day.

 
June 26   "Stories from our Past"   
Susan Nason, as our worship leader, will share some of the gems of the beginnings of our story as a congregation.    How did Eliot Church form in 1845?   Was there a Sunday School?   What about a stewardship drive?   All that and more!
  
Communion Sunday, June 5
  
Communionware from Jane Leighton
Jane Leighton asked a potter she met at a craft fair a couple of years ago if she would help Jane learn how to make pottery.  This spring, Jane, at the age of 91, presented Eliot Church with two beautiful pottery chalices and patens (Communion plates) that she made.  We will use them for the first time in our Communion servie this Sunday, June 5.  Thank you, Jane!!  
  
A Recap of Pastor Tony's  Sweet Sixteen Farewell
Saturday, May 21
  
Senior High students Mike Atkinson, Ryan & Thomas Byrne, Danny Flanagan, Nick Link & Gil Pettingell  gave this rendition
of the Kinks' tune "Lola":

 

I met him that first day I went to church
He had a white beard and a rob as red as pepperoni
P-e-pep-eroni
He walked up to me and he slowly knelt
He gently shook my hand and said his name was Pastor Tony
T-o-n-y, Tony, To-To-To-To Tony.

Well, I'm not the world's most sociable guy,
But with him it's always so hard to say goodbye.
Oh my, Tony, To-To-To-To Tony.
Well, I'm not dumb, but I can't understand
How so much love can come from a single man.
Oh my Tony, To-To-To-To Tony.

Well the years went by and I learned to pray;
Got better and better every single day.
He showed me how to day the Lord's Prayer,
His powerful sermons had me gasping for air.

Well, I'm not the world's most religious guy
But, when this man spoke, he made it easy to try.
To-To-To-To-Tony, To-To-To-To-Tony
Tony, To-To-To-To Tony, To-To-To-To Tony

He's going away;
He's leaving today
And I can't stand to say
But he will never go
His words lingering for us to know.

He'll say, "Do unto others as they do to you,
And you'll get in return all that you want to", Tony
To-To-To-To Tony.
Although I'm a senior, I just want to say,
That you made me into this man I am today, TONY
TA-TA-TA-TA- TTTTTTOOOONNNNYYYY!
  
  
  
The Lundberg-Horburgh Family, with a little help from
their friends Fred Balfour & Kevin Curtin (and all the guests
joined in on the refrain) gave this rendition
of The Beatles tune, "Yellow Submarine":
  
The Church Down the Hill
In the town where we were born,
There's a church that's down the hill,
There's a man inside its doors
He's the Pastor, Tony Kill.

REFRAIN

We all love our Eliot Church, Eliot Church, Eliot Church

We all love our Eliot Church, Eliot Church, Eliot Church.


While Tony's been on board,
Many more of us entered the door;
And the choir begins to sing:
"Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee..."
  
REFRAIN

Spoken:  Full speed ahead, Pastor Tony, full speed ahead!
Raise the anchor, cut the cable.
Aye, aye, sir, aye, aye, Pastor!

Tony walks the extra mile
Telling stories of Dr. Seuss
We will miss his gentle smile
When the iguana was on the loose;

REFRAIN
Tony trekked to Galilee
Soaking up the holy air;
Brought us back the gift of peace
And his home brew for the Harvest Fair!

REFRAIN

  
  
  
Chuck Harper read two of his poems: 

RECOVERING
I told her to
trim it
tame it
contour the shaggy edges
get it off my neck
and taper slightly
around the ears
  
She swiveled my chair
away from the mirror -
and chopped
  
My God
  
I look like an inmate
a new recruit
a businessman
a kiwi fruit
a monk
a prison guard
a sergeant
a skinhead
  
one of the regimented people
of which of course I am -
but not at heart
and I do not choose
to look the part
  
Time is a great healer
but it will take weeks
possibly months
to recover
  
Damn Delilah
  
  
  
  
  

PREACHER  

A constant theme in what he does is God.

This is not surprising for a preacher

who aspires to guide his community

along the paths of rectitude and truth.

His bow also strokes other strings of beauty

that cause our hearts to lean toward justice

 

 

and that elusive peace that only justice

can secure.  Thus is it ordained by God,

the prophets claim; a vision of beauty

so astounding that the voice of the preacher

unremittingly celebrates this truth

until the folk of the community

 

 

embrace this vision, and the community

is known to be a lover of justice,

a troupe who dance to the music of truth.

This view of the church is romantic, God

knows!  But there are moments when the preacher

glimpses some incarnation of this beauty

 

 

in the people, a luminous beauty

whose glow the hymns of the community

extol, its art reflects and the preacher

rejoices to see.  Thus does justice

call forth art and art turns our hearts to God -

and the city that is to be, in truth,

 

 

is with us now - a little.  This huge truth,

that the city rises now in beauty,

ravishes our minds and incites us to God

talk.  How else speak of the fair community

we sometimes see in small acts of justice

that are enlarged in the lens of the preacher's 

 

 

preaching until we now hear the preacher

say that today we can live in this truth

more fully than yesterday, weaving justice

into a fabric of such great beauty

that artists and poets join the community

in dance and song and praise of God.

 

 

Thus is the preacher's art a work of beauty,

a truth within himself and his community

that, striving for justice, bend toward God.

  

  
  
  
 The Eliot Confirmation Class said good-bye to Tony with a skit,
where they were pretending to be the Spiritual Life Commission,
and were fighting during the meeting.  Then, "Pastor Jeremy" opened a letter from Pastor Tony, reminding them of passages of the Bible he shared with them.   Here is the "letter":
  

Dear Eliot Confirmands,

I am writing to you from my new office at First Congregational Church of Randolph. I have an endless list of things to do here, but before I get started, I wanted to make sure that you are living in accordance with what I taught you before leaving your church. I trust you are all getting along well, and that you are serving God faithfully and with joyful hearts. I am certain that you all are engaging in fruitful dialogues in order to improve the services, and that you are dutifully fulfilling your pledges. Don't forget Paul's letter to the Romans (chapter 12:9-19) in which he states:


Love must be completely sincere. Hate what is evil, hold on to what is good. Love one another warmly as Christian brothers, and be eager to show respect for one another. Work hard and do not be lazy. Serve the Lord with a heart full of devotion. Let your hope keep you joyful, be patient in your troubles, and pray at all times. Share your belongings with your needy fellow Christians, and open your homes to strangers.                          
  
Ask God to bless those who persecute you - yes, ask him to bless, not to curse. Be happy with those who are happy, weep with those who weep. Have the same concern for everyone. Do not be proud, but accept humble duties. Do not think of yourselves as wise.                         
  
If someone has done you wrong, do not repay him with a wrong. Try to do what everyone considers to be good. Do everything possible on your part to live in peace with everybody. Never take revenge, my friends, but instead let God's anger do it. For the scripture says, "I will take revenge. I will pay back, says the Lord." Instead, as the scripture says: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink; for by doing this you will make him burn with shame." Do not let evil defeat you; instead, conquer evil with good.                                        
  
I can't wait to get some news from Pastor Jeremy on how closely you are following these commandments given to all of us by God through his servant Paul. You are a wonderful congregation, and will miss you all very much.                
  
Warmest regards and stay golden,                
Pastor Tony
  
  
Pastor Karla's Vacation Schedule
June 17 - July 2
If you have a pastoral emergency, or need assistance, please contact the church office, or Susan Nason. The UCC pastors in Newton will be providing pastoral coverage for all the congregations throughout the summer holidays.
  
Eliot Church on the Web

 

New Website
We are in the process of re-building our church website with a web-based platform.  If you have ideas, questions, or thoughts, please contact Terri Whitney Jackson in the church office.
  
  
Facebook
  
  
Sign Up to be a Welcomer
Here's an easy way to sign up to be a Welcomer.  We've created an electronic sign up sheet to volunteer to be a Welcomer on Doodle. 

 

  
FY12 Roster of Officers and Commission Chairs

 

New Website

Report of the interim Leadership Development Committee

As Amended and Approved by Vote of the Congregation

May 1, 2011

 

Nominees for Officers and Commission Chairs and Members 2011 - 2012

Oncoming:

Kevin Curtin, Moderator
Nancy Lane, Clerk
Jan Perkins, At Large Member, Coordinating Council
Laura Seoane, Chair, Christian Education Commission
Aaron McPherson - Investments Committee (appointed in FY11 to fill mid-term vacancy by resignation)
Marjorie O'Reilly - Investments Committee
Peter Seoane - Investments Committee
Connie Stubbs, Chair, Mission & Social Justice Commission
Barbara Oppenheimer - Parish Staff Relations Committee

Continuing:

Rich Stroshane, Treasurer (Second Term)
Mary Anne Schoonover, Financial Secretary
Lisa Byrne, At Large Member (Second Term)
Dan Flanagan, Chair, Facilities Commission
Elizabeth Baker, Chair, Finance Commission
Jan Paul von Wendt, Chair, Music Commission
Robert Young, Chair, Spiritual Life Commission
Mary Anne Schoonover, Chair, Interim Leadership Development Committee
Sue Finegan, Chair, Safe Church Response Committee

Outgoing:

Lisa Hines, Moderator - 3 years' service
Barbara Couturier, Clerk - 2 years' service
David Wood, At Large Member - 2 years' service
Sue Maraventano, Co-Chair, CE - 2 years' service
Josephine McNeil, Chair, Membership - 4 years' service
Ellen Abele, Co-Chair, M&SJ - 3 years' service
Don Oppenheimer, Chair, Investments - 11 years' service
John Rutherford, Past Chair, Investments - 10 years' service
Elizabeth Baker, Chair, Parish Staff Relations Committee - 3 years' service
Susan Jeghelian - Parish Staff Relations Committee - 3 years' service
Members of Teaching Parish Committee:
 Carolyn Clark, Chair - 3 years' service,
Barbara Couturier,
Nancy Lane,
 Jan Perkins,
Christine Stuart

Open Positions:

Financial Secretary Elect
At-Large Member, Coordinating Council
Finance Chair Elect
Co-Chair(s), Membership Commission
Co-Chairs, Parish Life Commission
    
  

Eliot Celebrates Boston PRIDE!

Saturday, June 11 

Join Karla and other UCC churches in the annual interfaith PRIDE worship and parade on Saturday, June 11.  Worship at Old South begins at 10:00 am. Special guest preacher: Rev. Liz Walker of the African Methodist Episcopal Church - award-winning television journalist and documentary film producer.
The 2011 Pride Interfaith Award recipients: Ken and Marcia Garber of Dignity/Boston - parents and transgender youth advocates.


After worship, we will join other  UCC church groups and march with under the Massachusetts Conference "God is Still Speaking" banner, led by "The Spark of Love and Joy" band.   Join us!  It's FUN!

 

  
Church Family News 
  

Happy June Birthday!

2  Benjamin Bassett 
2  Benjamin Smith  
5  Frannie Miller  
5  Mimi Zielinski  
6  Phil Sharp  
6  Tim Walton  
7  Maya Stroshane 
8  Matthew Hults 
10  Mike Mikula  
11  David Castillo Gocher 
11  Elizabeth Reid  
11  Elizabeth Flanagan 
13  Nancy Lane  
16  Bill Robinson
21  Kayla Hreczuck  
25  Connie DeVol  
25  Dave Persampieri 
27  Sachi Hashimoto 
27  Adrian Staples
30  Sue Dinn 
  

 

Happy June Anniversary!

6  Lisa & Jim Byrne
10  Donna & Bob Rombauer
11 Diane Pullen & Lisa Gonsalves
14  Sharon & Fred Balfour
16  Fawn & Robert Dare
16  Lisa Hines & Ed Zielinski
17  Virginia & Richard Munkelwitz
25  Anya & Jon Bassett
27  Betsy Harper & Dave Persampieri
28  Nina & Brucke LeDoyt
30  Steve & Jennifer Smith

 

 

New Website for Parents

Eliot member and mom, Amy Lankenau McPherson, has started her own website:  www.theparentingconnection.com.  It was created to connect parents to each other around shared issues and concerns. The site contains a matching engine for bringing parents together, blogs, ratings, and a marketplace. Amy would love for you to join and send her feedback on the site!