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The Eliot Church of Newton
474 Centre Street, Newton MA 02458
617-244-3639
www.eliotchurch.org
No matter who you are or where you are on life's journey, you're welcome here. |
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The Columns
| December, 2010 |
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Greetings!
The Christmas season approaches, and once again we will tell the much beloved story over and over. And the ancient story becomes new again. A friend and colleague of mine, Rev. Debbie Clark, wrote a Christmas poem that helps me remember how the story of Christianity's beginning is always today's story, in God's time. The poem is simply titled "Christ is Born". (but notice the present tense: Christ is Born!)
In the rough of a Bethlehem stable, In the desolation of a Boston shelter or a high-stress office, In places we call God-forsaken, Christ is born, God's gift to surprise us.
When Mary cries out in pain, When the poor shout in protest or a widower weeps his grief, When suffering can no longer stay silent, Christ is born, Holy Comforter.
As a star shines over the stable, As a couple learns to listen or a family lights a candle, As a glimmer of understanding breaks through, Christ is born, Light of the World.
Whenever Joseph cradles his child, Whenever a teenager's talents are nurtured or strangers attempt an awkward greeting, Whenever a hand reaches out, Christ is born, God's love in human form.
In Bethlehem, two thousand years ago, A child was born. Here, now, Where we least expect it, Amid our pain, In the struggle for understanding, Through an act of caring, Christ is born, Emmanuel, God with us.
Please join us for our many telling of the ancient story, ever new, of our Savior's birth.
With care,
Pastor Tony
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Greetings from Pastor Karla
Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up the other; but woe to one who is alone and falls and does not have another to help. Again, if two lie together, they keep warm; but how can one keep warm alone? And though one might prevail against another, two will withstand one. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12.
I've been learning a lot about partnerships lately, working together across institutions and agencies. In mid-November, I attended a training on how to teach an approach to suicide prevention that was sponsored and paid for by the Commonwealth, but those especially
invited to the training were clergy. You see, agencies that are working with people at risk realize that houses of faith are one of the positive supports in local communities.
In the same vein, The Newton Partnership (TNP) consists of more than a dozen agencies working together to ensure that children of all ages are safe and healthy. This organization supports mentoring programs, parenting workshops and more in the city of Newton. (http://www.newton.k12.ma.us/newtonpartnership/)
TNP invited The Newton Clergy Association (NCA) to be one of their partners, which the NCA was delighted to accept. We all care about the same things-safe schools, environments where our children and students are nurtured and cared for, support for families at risk. It's sort of a gospel thing, isn't it? Reaching out to those on the edge? Caring for those who might be underserved?
Throughout the year, TNP and the Newton Clergy will be sponsoring several workshops, including one addressing the issue of bullying and safety. Our first workshop will be held at Temple Shalom in Newton, on December 15th, entitled, "When Kids Push our Buttons and What We Can Do About It". I hope that if you or someone you know might enjoy a workshop like this that you will attend. I will see you there!
As we move into the spirit of Advent, I invite you to keep this concept of partnership in the back of your mind, as we wait. How do you invite partnerships into your life? What other kinds of partnerships might be possible for the church and society? When I think of partnership, I think of sharing the vision, and the burden. I think of unity and diversity-the warp and the woof that makes a tapestry strong.
May the growing light of Advent, and the joy of partnership bless your journey to the stable this month.
Light and Love, Karla
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| The Sundays of December
December 5
Second Sunday of Advent
Rev. Karla preaching
10:00 AM: Service of the Lord's Supper 11:30 AM: Christmas Pageant Rehearsal after worship 12:30 PM: Pizza lunch with Crafts and Carols Workshop
December 12
10:00 AM: Christmas Music Sunday 11:30 AM: Adult Forum: Who ARE those people in Jesus' genealogy...and do they matter?? 3:00 - 5:00 PM: Eliot Advent Party at the Fritz-Kills
December 19 10:00 AM: Intergenerational Christmas Pageant 5:00 PM: Longest Night Christmas Meditation and Prayer Service
December 24, Christmas Eve 5:00 PM Twilight Christmas Service 7:30 PM Family Candlelight & Carol Service
December 26 10:00 AM: Special Day After Christmas Service: After the Crowd Has Gone
January 2, 2011 Epiphany Sunday Tony Kill Preaching 10:00 AM: Service of the Lord's Supper |
| Hanging of the Greens and Christmas Caroling
Saturday, December 4
12:30 - 3:00 pm - Decorating
3:00 - 5:00 pm - Caroling
Everyone is invited to join the Spiritual Life Commission in decorating the Sanctuary with evergreen wreaths, garlands, Christmas tree and window candles from 12:30 to 3:00 PM.
Also, everyone is invited to join the Parish Life Commission in a Christmas Caroling Tour. Christmas caroling to Eliot members and friends who are homebound is a wonderful Eliot tradition and a meaningful and fun way to start the Christmas season. This year we will carol at Chetwynde and Evans Park as well as in several homes. This is a great family event and no singing skills are required! Especially welcome are instrumentalists to accompany those singing. Do you have friends who like to sing? They are most welcome also. We will leave the church promptly at 3:00 with caroling completed by around 5:00 PM. For more info, email Susan Nason or call her at 617-965-1811.
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Christmas Pageant Rehearsals Begin
Sunday, December 5 at 11:30 amWe will present our Intergenerational Christmas Pageant during worship on Sunday, December 19 at 10:00 am. Once again this year, our story has been penned by our own Jon Bassett. All ages will be touched by this story. For more info or to sign up to participate, contact Jon Bassett at 617-969-3234 or jabassett@gmail.comback to top |
| Cuisine, Crafts & Carols
Sunday 5, December from 12:30 - 2:30 pm
Following Christmas Pageant Rehearsal, join the CE Commission for lunch and enjoy crafting for kids and adults until 2:00 pm. We'll make ornaments, and other holiday crafts that you can use for gifts and decorations in your home. It's free and all are welcome! For more info contact Pastor Karla.
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| Christmas Music Sunday
December 12 at 10:00 am This year's Christmas Music Sunday will feature several of the perky carol arrangements for choir with instruments by John Rutter. The repertoire for the morning is sure to delight both performers and listeners. Please join us at 10:00 am.
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| CMS Gift Collection
Sunday, December 12
Once again, Eliot Church will be participating in the City Mission Society's Christmas Shop, which brings the joys of giving and receiving to many people in the Greater Boston Metropolitan area annually. In 2009, over 2,000 people benefitted!
Gift Suggestions: NEW UNWRAPPED Items Only! (listed by priority...you may bring wrapping paper)
- Winter coats, sweaters and sweatshirts (large sizes especially)
- Hats, mittens, gloves and scarves.
- Socks and underwear
- Blankets and backpacks
- Toys, games, and books for all ages
- Gift cards from Target, Walgreen's, CVS, Kohl's or other merchants
We will collect our gifts on Sunday, December 12 and transport them to first Church in Winchester. We know you will be as generous as you have been in the past.
For more info, contact Patrick O'Reilly at patevan@aol.com or 617-964-4593 or contact CMS directly at (617) 742-6830. back to top |
Who ARE all those people in Jesus' genealogy...and do they matter?
Adult Forum on December 12 at 11:30 amPastor Karla and our Seminary Intern Brendan Curran will lead a discussion on the significance of the genealogy of Jesus as found in Matthew 1. Finally, you will know WHY Rahab is included!! back to top |
| Advent Open House
Sunday, December 12 3:00 - 5:00 pm
You are invited to an Advent Open House at the home of Tony Kill and Karen Fritz (182 Tremont Street in Newton Corner) back to top |
| The Longest Night: Meditation & Prayer Service
Sunday, December 19 at 5:00 pm
For some, the holidays are difficult to manage. Stress, depression, grief can be deep during a time that seems for everyone to be jolly. Do you need some quiet space? A healing space? Time for prayer, for support, for comfort? An hour to just be? Then join us for quiet reflection, prayer and meditation. For more information, contact 617-244-3639 or email Pastor Karla |
| Christmas Eve Worship
Saturday, December 24 at 5:00 pm
This shorter, early intergenerational service will include traditional carols, stories, and scripture, designed for those whom find it easier to worship earlier on Christmas Eve. Families with small children, elders, and everyone in between are welcome!
Saturday, December 24 at 7:30 pm
Join us for an intergenerational service of Candlelight and Carols!
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Special Day After Christmas Worship
Sunday, December 26 at 10:00 am Pastors Karla and Tony and others will be presenting a dramatic reading called "After the Crowd has Gone" written by Rev. Debbie Clark of Edwards Congregational Church in Framingham. The reading explores what might have happened the day after the Holy Family leaves the stable at Bethlehem. Join us for a special "day after Christmas" worship! |
URGENT! Christian Education Needs YOU!
Winter Term for Sunday School Begins December 5!
We have a PRESSING NEED for co-teachers for the 2-3-4 grade class and for the 7-8th class, and for a second person in the nursery every 2nd, 3red and 4th, Sunday. At this point, we are not honoring our Safe Church Policy, nor our baptismal vows to our children.
If you feel like you can not commit for a whole term, but would be willing to volunteer for several Sundays, the CE Commission would be most grateful.
Please, consider volunteering in this essential ministry of spiritual formation at Eliot Church.
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| Alternative Giving Opportunity
Try to imagine...
that you are a hardworking single mother of two daughters. You live in a run-down apartment in Waltham and work at a minimum wage job caring for the disabled. Your hours have been cut due to the economy and you have received an eviction notice because a developer is taking over your building. Then you learn there has been a devastating earthquake in Haiti and you agree to take in a family member from there who arrives with only the clothes on her back - no identification, no formal papers - and she has a medical condition and does not speak English. Your budget is stretched to the breaking point and your cell phone is shut off. What would you do? Where would you turn?
This woman turned to WATCH, a community development corporation in Waltham where she learned about her tenant rights, was referred for legal assistance, obtained help locating and paying first/last/security for a new apartment and was given resources for household goods. Her family member from Haiti can sign up for English language lessons and learn basic computer skills to help her become independent.
Now imagine that YOU can purchase a gift card this holiday season that will enable WATCH to assist more families like this one to obtain stable, safe housing and greater independence, and at the same time honor your gift recipient. Well, now you can! Look for Mission and Social Justice Commission's colorful table at coffee hour on the Sundays before Christmas and be reminded of the true reason for the season. Contact Ellen Abele or Connie Stubbs for more information. back to top |
Winter Clothing Collection
The Eliot congregation has been wonderfully generous in donating good used winter coats and other clothing for the homeless and disadvantaged over the past several years. This year, working in collaboration with Alex Kern and Cooperative Metropolitan Ministries, we will collect winter clothing for clients of the Community Day Center, an service center in Waltham, ( www.communitydaycenter.org) and the Haley House, a soup kitchen and service center in Boston ( www.haleyhouse.org). The Haley House needs mens' clothing and shoes, as well as blankets, backpacks, toiletries, etc. The Community Day Center can use adult mens' and womens' coats, especially large and extra large. Children's winter clothes are also welcome Please bring in clean clothes at any time through December 12 weeks and place them on the table in the entrance to the sanctuary.
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Volunteer Opportunity
Delivering and Distributing Clothes to the Homeless. The couple who has been collecting coats from Eliot and several other places, transporting them to Boston, and helping distribute them to those in need for the past several years would like to pass this volunteer opportunity on to others to take over. In addition to collecting clothes from churches, rummage sales, etc, they have gone to St Paul's Cathedral near the Boston Common on two Mondays per month, where they spend about three hours sorting and distributing the clothes. This would be a great volunteer ministry opportunity for two to four (or more) people to share. If you're interested in learning more, please contact Pastor Tony, who will put you in touch with the couple to answer your questions. back to top |
Free Parenting Workshop
Wednesday, December 15 at 7:00 - 8:30 pm
Sponsored by Newton Clergy Association, The Newton Partnership, and PTO Council
How do our kids ALWAYS know how to push our buttons? Want to feel in control of your responses rather than just reacting during these heated moments? Attend a free parenting workshop on Wednesday, December 15th entitled, WHEN KIDS PUSH OUR BUTTONS AND WHAT WE CAN DO ABOUT IT.
This event will be held from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Temple Shalom of Newton, 175 Temple Street in West Newton. No registration required.
This interactive workshop will discuss setting limits with your child, and tips on defusing your "buttons," all while maintaining a healthy relationship. The workshop will be facilitated by Amy Comeau, M.Ed. and Nancy Holczer, LICSW. Amy is currently the Middle School Intervention and Prevention Counselor at Day and Bigelow Middle Schools. Nancy is the Parenting Education and Outreach Specialist for The Newton Partnership. back to top |
| Martin Luther King - Day of Service
Saturday, January 15, 2011
City Mission Society's 4th annual Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr Day of Service and Learning. This event allows groups and individuals to come together to honor Rev. King's legacy in a positive way. Participants will go directly to the service sites working from 9:30 AM-12:30 PM. At 1:00 PM we will gather at United Parish in Brookline for lunch and closing reflections. CMS is requesting a $20.00 registration fee to cover the costs of organizing the event and for the lunch. MSJ will cover $10 of this fee for all participants.
Three partner sites will host the majority of volunteers. People Making a Difference will coordinate the assembly of LEGO Biology kits for Boston Public Schools. The Newton Community Center which houses ten non-profit organizations will host groups at three facilities. Others will go to residential treatment and housing facilities for homeless individuals and families operated by Victory Programs.
Please join members of the Mission and Social Justice Commission to join City Mission Society in a day of celebration and service. A sign-up sheet is on the MSJ Bulletin Board in the hall way.
If you have any questions about the Christmas shops or the Day of Service, contact Patrick O'Reilly at: patevan@aol.com or Connie Stubbs at: cls645@gmail.com
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Eliot Family Retreat
"Nurturing Body, Soul and Spirit"
Saturday, January 8, 2011
6:00 - 9:00 pmThanksgiving is over! Christmas and New Year's will be over! Now What? The Eliot Mini-Retreat! All Eliot folks are welcome to join us on Saturday, January 8th, from 6-9 p.m. We're still planning the event, but we know that in good Eliot tradition, there will be FOOD (a delicious dinner), MUSIC, and FUN! Beat the January Blues! Questions? Copntact Anya Bassett ( anyabassett@gmail.com) or 617-969-3234.
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From the Finance Commission
Just a reminder to members and friends to consider keeping your pledge payments up to date before the end of the calendar year. It will help prevent any crunch when the end of June comes around. For those who itemize deductions on their income tax, those all important contributions to Eliot are tax deductible. If you find yourselves with a little more to share than you had anticipated, please keep Eliot in mind.
This fiscal year statements of your pledge payments, other contributions, and the status of progress toward completing your pledge will be sent in January, April, and July, 2011. January's statement will also include an account of your contributions during the calendar year 2010, which you may find helpful in completing your income taxes. Should you need any statements prior to that time, please contact our Financial Secretary, Mary Anne Schoonover, for assistance 617-332-8118. back to top |
Eliot Women's Retreat
Save the date: February 4 - 5, 2011At the Walker Center in Auburndale plan to join the women of Eliot in this popular annual gathering. A chance to make new friends, see old friends, eat, explore, and contemplate-all in 24 hours and close to home. Karla will be leading us again in this exploration of spirituality and fellowship. A sign-up sheet will be posted soon in the hallway and an email with full details will follow in December. For more info or to sign up, email Nancy Dick Atkinson or call her at (617) 965-820 OR email Terry Hackford or call her at (617) 965-8206. back to top |
Cabaret Workshop
Saturday and Sunday, December 11 & 12
Do You Love Singing the Great American Show Tunes? Learn How the Pros Do It at a 2-Day Cabaret Workshop & Performance to be held at Eliot Church on December 11 & 12. Saturday 9:30 am- 8:30pm; Sunday 2:00pm - 9:30 pm. Sponsored by Boston Musical Theartre. All Abilities Welcome!! Includes: Choosing songs, learning your music, how to combat performance anxiety, movement onstage, working with an accompanist, relating to the audience, what to wear, microphone techniques etc. Performance by the Participants Sunday evening, December 12. Limited to 15 participants for individual coaching and an unlimited group of auditors. Fee: $200 per participant (Eliot member discount 10% for up to 5 participants); $75 for auditors (Eliot member discount 10%) Auditors will perform in one group number. Tickets for Sunday evening event for non-participants, non-auditors $10.For more information e-mail Boston Musical Theater at BosMusThtr@aol.com or call 617 323-2766 - All calls will be returned. back to top |
Fall Fair Thanks
A Big Thank You to the following businesses that contributed gift certificates or materials to the Eliot Church Fair. Having items donated decreases our costs and, thus, increases our profit. We encourage you to support these businesses and mention your thanks to them for supporting our fair. C&N Pizza Dunkin Donuts - Rte. 9 Finagle Bagle Great Harvest Bread Company Murray's Liquors Not Your Average Joe's Restaurant - Watertown Roche Bros. Russo's & Sons Starbucks - Newtonville Uno Chicago Grill - Newton Corner West Newton Cinema back to top |
Thanksgiving Thanks
Many thanks to everyone who was involved in making our Thanksgiving Feast a great success! Diane Pullen once again contributed her culinary expertise and led a team of hard workers in the kitchen, including many of our youth. Our Saturday afternoon setup crew pulled together our festive dining room, and our cleanup crew did a fabulous job! A special thanks to the Sunday School Children for preparing such festive care packaging and cards.
Again, thanks to all of you who contributed toward this special time of sharing!
Martha Totten
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Church Family News
Remember our Eliot Elders at Christmas As you write your Christmas cards this year, consider sending a note to our shut-ins and not-so-out-and-about folks. They'll be glad to hear from you and know you're thinking of them! Mary Ann Sanders Sudbury Pines Extended Care 642 Boston Post Rd. Sudbury, MA 01776
Mary Lou Gleason 16 Garden Rd. Newton, MA 02458 1 Jane Merrill Golden Living Center 1650 Washington St. W. Newton, MA 02465 Liz Woodbridge 164 Galen St. #86 Watertown, MA 02472 Susanna Peyser 164 Galen St. #48 Watertown, MA 02472 Miriam Morrow 70 Arlington St. Newton, MA 02458 Arline Weyler 44 Pembroke St. Newton, MA 02458 Jane Leighton 31 Colgate Rd. Newton Lwr. Fls., MA 02462
Ginnie Schock
Golden Living Center/Chetwynde
1650 Washington Street
West Newton, MA 02465
Richard McCann
9 Billings Park Newton, MA 02458
Happy December Birthday! 1 Ann Brown 4 Virginia Robinson 4 Kate Reardon 5 Debby Jasset 5 Philip Mann 7 Tom Abbe 7 Joslin Pettingell 8 Ted Palés 10 Julie Totten 11 Katrina McCarty 11 Henry McPerson 14 Justin Robichaud 17 Pam Cunha 17 Jackie Scott 17 Tim Zielinski 20 Jon Ravin 21 Rich Bibbo 21 Francesca Curtin 23 Lucas DeVol 23 Gary Hashimoto 23 Nancy Dick Atkinson 23 Kate Minehart 24 Daniel Smith 28 Jesse Creedy-Powers 31 Mary Ann Sanders Happy December Anniversary! 4 Dee McMeekan & Michael Apstein 19 Virginia & Bill Robinson 20 Calder & Tom Reardon
New Contact Info
Eliot Women in the News!
Two Eliot women - Paula Becker and Lisa Byrne - have been featured in local newspapers during the past few months with focus on how they have dealt with cancer. The headline for the article in the Brookline TAB about Paula is "For Brookline breast cancer survivor, refusal to give up the key to success". About nine years ago Paula was diagnosed with both melanoma and breast cancer. The article describes her philosophy about the disease and treatment, and the support provided throughout by husband, Dennis. The full article is posted on the hall bulletin board and can also be accessed through www.wickedlocal.com/brookline/news/x1616315978/ . Something new we learned about Paula from the article - she has a black belt in karate and the Korean martial art, ho shin sool. So don't mess with Paula!! Lisa was also diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer about 10 years ago and the article in October 27 edition of the Newton Tab, which is entitled "Super Mom 101" describes her approach to dealing with cancer. After researching options, Lisa chose to change her diet which she blogged about and which, in turn, led to a TV show on NewTV in which she will share some of her diary-free and kid-friendly recipes. The show is entitled "Super Mom 101" Again, the full article is posted on the hall bulletin board. Lisa's positive energy, which she brings to everything that she does, shines through. Eliot Church is proud and thankful to have women like Paula and Lisa as part of our congregation.
A Thank You from Susanna Peyser Susanna wishes to that all of her Eliot family that provided meals, support, prayers and love during her recent surgery and recovery!
Congratulations!
Jennifer Boudette, an Eliot friend and former soprano section leader (and Alex Boudette's sister-in-law) was married on November 16 in Florida to Jeffrey Rink! It was a very small and cozy wedding (30 people). Congrats and best wishes to Jennifer & Jeffrey! Kurt Walker Ordained and CalledKurt Walker has been called as pastor of Faith United Church of Christ in Indianapolis, Indiana. He and Jen and their twins, Ben and Maddy, moved to the Hoosier State in late September, and he began his ministry in October. Kurt was ordained at Central Square Congregational Church in Bridgewater MA (his home church) on November 28. Pastor Tony and Pastor Karla attended the ordination service. Kurt and his family became active at Eliot Church when they first came to Andover Newton Theological School, and during the program year of 2007-2008, Kurt was our field education intern at Eliot. Congratulations, Kurt! back to top |
| Visitors from Tottori, Japan
On November 8, Pastor Tony had two very special visitors - Mrs. Machiko Yamamoto and her daughter Mari. Machiko is a member of the Tottori Church UCC, our daughter church in Tottori Japan. Her daughter Mari lives in the Chicago area. Machiko, who is in her 80's, has visited her daughter several times over the years, but on this visit, her one wish was to come to Boston, to visit the Eliot Church, and bring greetings from the Tottori Church. We had a wonderful visit; they took lots of pictures (see the photos on the Eliot Mission bulletin board) and took our greetings back to their congregation, their current pastor, Rev. Masahiko Hashihara, and their former pastor, Rev. Yukimasa Ohmae.
As you may remember, one of the several "Mission" churches that Eliot Church helped establish over the years is the Tottori Church. In 1889 the Missions Committee of Eliot Church received a request from a missionary in Japan to help build a church, a school and an orphanage in the city of Tottori. In 1890, Eliot Church responded with a gift of $5000, which built the Tottori 'Kyokai' (= church) with its school and orphanage. What is most amazing is the timing of this gift: Eliot's own church building had been destroyed by fire in 1887, and the congregation had just managed to collect enough money to build a new sanctuary here, which was dedicated in 1889. Yet they found the wherewithal to send $5,000 (which would be comparable to over $100,000 in 2005 dollars) to a Christian community in Japan.
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Snow & Event Cancellation
Since pastor Tony can walk to church, we have never cancelled a Sunday worship service, and probably won't. However, there are times when we may wish to cancel Sunday School, Chancel Choir, Children's Choir, and other planned programs.
Since most of the congregation is connected by email, we will use the Eliot Email list to "get the word out" about cancellations. For major events, an all-church email will be sent, as well as separate emails for special groups - e.g. the choir, church school families, etc. If possible, a special message will be put on the church telephone answering machine announcing the cancellations. If you don't have email at home, or would prefer to get a telephone call (rather than email message) if a cancellation might affect you, please email Terri Whitney-Jackson or call her in the church office at 617-244-3639 ext. 201 and asked to be put on the phone contact list. back to top |
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