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TopApril, 2010
Life at Eliot
Calendar of Events
Greetings from Pastor Tony
Greetings from Pastor Karla
April Sundays
Holy Week Schedule
Spiritual Life
March 14 Cong Mtg
Stewardship Campaign
Christian Ed
Mission Trip Fundraiser
Membership
Mission & Social Justice
Music
Parish Life
Church Family News
Greetings!

Holy Week and Easter are upon us!  Come join us for the celebration, we'd love to see you!

 

Calendar of Events for April, 2010
A Note from Pastor Tony
Dear Sisters and Brothers,
 

The contemplative monk and spiritual director Thomas Sheehan once wrote, "When we have strained all the active adjectives in our vocabulary, and multiplied all the pertinent predicates we know, and exhausted our store of descriptive nouns, we come to the sublime conclusion that we Christians cannot explain Easter.  Rather, Easter explains Christians."

 

Easter explains Christians. 

When our joy is so full we could burst

for the unexpected, undeserved blessings in our life,

only a joy like Easter could capture it.

When we find ourselves bathed in love and compassion

from friends surrounding us in a hard and painful time,

only a hope like Easter could describe it.

When we discover to our disbelief and surprise that we are not alone

even when we've sunk to the pit of loneliness and despair

- that a hand of  mercy reaches out toward us even there -

only a  promise like Easter could predict it.

That is when we collide with

"the sublime conclusion that we Christians cannot explain Easter. 

Rather, Easter explains Christians."

 

And isn't that why we all want to be in church on Easter Sunday morning - to let our souls feast on the bright festival of spring flowers and floating balloons and party clothes, and join the glorious chorus of Handel's Alleluia?  Easter floods our hearts and captures our imaginations with the symbols of life conquering death, light overwhelming darkness, joy sweeping away sorrow, and hope dissolving despair.  It not only happened for Jesus and his friends, it can happen for us.  And it not only can happen for us, it has happened for us, again and again in our lives.  God's love lifts us, Christ's presence blesses us, and the Spirit's promise of new life and surprising possibilities never fails to strengthen and sustain us.

 

Come and celebrate the glorious mystery once again.  Help the church witness and proclaim the joyful power of spirited and spiritual Christian life- for ourselves, for our elders, our families, our youth and children, and for the generations yet to come.

 

But don't just come on Easter Sunday!  Come and celebrate the whole mystery of Easter with us - the full cycle of the death and resurrection of Christ.  We have special services of worship on

Palm Sunday, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday and Easter Sunday, re-telling the power and mystery of the Passion and Cross as well as the empty tomb.  See the other side of this letter for details of

the services -- but most of all, be part of them!

 

May the joy and hope of Easter fill your heart and your home!

 
 Tony

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Greetings from Pastor Karla
 

"Spiritual AND Religious"

My colleague, Rev. Martha Hoverson, is a pastor living in Portland, Maine.  She often writes op-ed pieces for the Portland Press Herald, and is an intentional interim minister.  She blogs at "Reflectionary: Where Life Meets the Lectionary" (http://revsongbird.typepad.com).   Below is an excerpt from her blog, which is a wonderful reflection on spiritual, religious, Congregational heritage, and testimony.  I think it speaks to us at Eliot in so many ways.  Enjoy!

 

"We're spiritual, but not religious." It's not only young people who say this to us, and when those of us who are religious hear it, we almost invariably react a little defensively. What's wrong with being religious? In church, I hope we can be both, connected by the history and tradition passed down to us but also in touch with the leading of the Holy Spirit that moves among us, guiding us to new ways of being faithful to God and to Jesus Christ.

 

There is no question in this second decade of the 21st century that being church means something different than it did when I was a little girl growing up in Virginia or in the Maine of 50 or 100 years ago. We live in a world, for better or worse, where businesses open on Sunday, where people carry coffee everywhere and sleep with their iPhones nestled on their pillows, a world where weekly attendance at worship and Sunday School no longer goes without saying. When you meet a young couple and ask if they go to church, you'll likely hear the same thing I heard, "We're spiritual, but not..."

 

But aren't we spiritual? I want to think I am, in the sense that the word means to me. Like the people who define themselves that way, I've experienced the transcendent in nature, walking in the woods or watching the waves break or looking west to Mount Washington while the sun sets. But I have also experienced the transcendent, literally something beyond my rational understanding, in the gasp of a gorgeous toddler surprised by the handful of water I've just laid on his red curls as the water runs down his forehead. Our rituals, our sacraments, retain their power as signs of God's presence among us. The breaking of bread, repeated so many times, does not become dull or repetitive, but rather becomes amplified by experience. And whether we pass the little cups in their special trays or dip the bread into a chalice, we are both spiritual *and* religious when we experience the presence of Christ among us, a presence we cannot explain but can feel in our hearts and souls.

 

I think what we've lacked in many mainline churches is an inclination to talk about what our faith means to us, unless we're in a very safe space or a moment of crisis. We've allowed the world to think we are simply religious, engaging in practices that are simply old-fashioned, something your grandmother does, not necessary for today's world. When we close in on ourselves and insist on doing everything the way we've always done it before, when we hold to habits and traditions for their own sake, we write our own epitaph. When we're reserved about the deeper reality of our faith lives-our spiritual lives-we miss the chance to connect with others.

And that's what people are hungry for, what they are seeking on the Internet and in coffee shops, something they don't believe we even care about in the average church of Congregational heritage. Really, they don't even know what that heritage means. But we do. We know it means the freedom to figure out for ourselves who God is and how we understand the life of Jesus. It means agreeing to disagree when the person sitting down the pew from us sees Christ a little differently. It means leaving each other enough breathing room that the Spirit has some space to move among us.

 

In this second decade of this 21st century, I believe we're being called to let our friends and neighbors know that church is not quaint or forgettable but real and meaningful, that the connections we make with one another and the world through worship and service make our lives richer and deeper. I believe we're being called to speak up and tell our stories, to share the ways God has touched our lives: in art and music, in nature and in relationships, and even in church. When we are ready to share it, the world will see we are spiritual *and* religious.   (March 17, 2010)

 
Karla
 
The Sundays of April, 2010

April 4:  Easter Sunday  

A celebration of the Resurrection                   

Karla Miller preaching

with the Lord's Supper and the Alleluia Chorus

 

April 11: Confirmation Sunday

Seven of our Eliot youth will be confirmed.

 

April 18:  Third Sunday of Easter          

Tony Kill preaching

Adult Ed Forum following worship: 

Various rituals and traditions regarding Holy Communion

 

April 25: Fourth Sunday of Easter

Tony Kill preaching

Adult Ed Forum following worship: 

Eliot's ministry as a Teaching Parish for seminary students

 
Holy Week Schedule 
March 28 - Palm/Passion Sunday
10:00 am Service will include a reading of the Passion
Rev. Tony Kill preaching
Pancake Breakfast following worship as a Mission Trip Fundraiser
 
April 1 - Maundy Thursday
7:30 pm Service of the Last Supper and Tenebrae
Led by the Confirmation Students, with the Pastors and our Seminary Intern, Emilia Halstead.
 
April 2 - Good Friday
7:30 pm Meditation Service in the Chapoel
Led by Emilia Halstead
 
April 4 - Easter Sunday
10:00 am Service of Celebration of the Resurrection
Rev. Karla Miller preaching
Featuring the Halleluiah Chorus from Handel's Messiah 
 
Spiritual Life Commission Notes

Upcoming Adult Education Forums

Sacred Conversations

Would you be interested in joining pastors Tony and Karla for a few weekly gatherings for prayer and conversation about what matters most in our lives?  We would like to invite a group to meet weekly for 4 to 6 weeks later in the spring at a time that is mutually convenient.  If you would like to join us, please let either of us know.  - Tony and Karla

 

Various rituals and traditions regarding Holy Communion - April 18

The Spiritual Life Commission has had some discussions about the various ways that Christians celebrate the Lord's  Supper and receive the bread and cup: grape juice or wine? passing plates of bread and small cups of juice? coming forward individually to receive the bread and juice from a worship leader?  gathering around the table and serving each other?  drinking from the cup, or dipping the bread?  We come from many different traditions, and each of these practices has a history with special significance for some of us.  Join us for an Adult Education Forum after worship on April 18 to learn more about these practices, and to discuss how we here at Eliot might be enriched by them.

 

Eliot's ministry as a Teaching Parish for seminary students - April 25

For several years, our congregation has served as a field education site for Andover Newton seminarians. As part of this ministry, one of the pastors has been a trained supervisor, and a lay committee has volunteered as a Teaching Parish Committee ('TPC') to work with the seminarian on their learning goals during the field education experience.  Last year, the Field Education department asked if Eliot's seminarian (Emilia Halstead), supervisor (Pastor Tony), and Teaching Parish Committee (Carolyn Clark, Chris Stuart, Nancy Lane and Barbara Couturier) would make a training DVD to help train other congregations and TPC's in the field education ministry for seminarians.  The DVD is now complete, and will have its debut showing at Eliot after worship on April 25.  This is an opportunity to learn more about how seminarians are trained in practical ministry, and how a Teaching Parish Committee functions.

March 14 Congregational Meeting Minutes.
 
For those of you who weren't able to attend the March 14 Congregational Meeting, you can read the minutes here.
 

The meeting started with some housekeeping issues and the Rev. Kill opened with prayer.  The Moderator started the meeting with some welcoming comments and some recommendations on how the meeting should proceed.  Elizabeth Baker gave a 2008-2010 financial perspective.  Susan Jeghelian gave a framework for the discussion as it pertains to Option 5 as will be presented in a motion following Susan's framework.

 

The motion with some typographical amendments was offered as:

Moved that the Eliot Congregation accept this 5th option, as proposed and presented with 3 typographical amendments, by the Coordinating Council.  This fifth option comes as a result of the congregational dialogue forums conducted in response to the FRC motion at the fall 2009 Special Congregational Meeting.

 

 

This motion was seconded and opened for discussion.  There were many people who spoke about this motion and their perspective on what should have been offered as well as what they thought were shortcomings of this motion.  There were others who spoke in support of this motion as it moves us forward in a thoughtful way.  The minutes will reflect individual's contribution during question and answer stage.

 

 

Don Oppenheimer proposed a revised amendment not to deal with 2011, but to focus on and commit to having a balanced budget for 2012.  Jon Bassett proposed specific language -- Add in #1

 

This amendment offered is inserted in #1 (Level 2) and is denoted by the bold print:

 (Level2) Development of an expense reduction plan across programs, staff salaries and other operating expenses for the FY 2012 representing a balanced budget without drawing on the endowment beyond the usual distribution by the Finance Commission in partnership with the Commissions and Committees that minimize impact and enable the performance of functions as set forth in the bylaws. (Common Theme #6)

 

This amendment was seconded and open for discussion. 

 It was voted that we needed no further discussion.  It was voted that we approve the amendment, there were 37 in favor and, 11 opposed

The vote on the 5th option with amendments:

Vote on the 5th option and amendment, as proposed.  The option was passed with 35 in favor, 4 opposed.

The Moderator thanked all in attendance and noted that there were proxy votes that were attached to the minutes.  She shared some other really important good news:

In the motion, it asks the Moderator to appoint an implementation task force.  The Moderator has approached Susan Jeghelian and she is excited about the opportunity to lead the charge of taking this motion to the next step.  She and the Moderator will work together to round out this Implementation Task Force.  For this we are truly blessed.

This motion calls for every congregant to become involved.  We ask you to look over each of these numbered conditions and see if you find yourself among the passionate.

Susan was approached by many congregants, after the meeting, offering their support and willingness to assist in an effective way.

 

Lisa Hines, Moderator


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From the Stewardship Commission
FY11 Stewardship Campaign 

The Finance Commission will soon begin this year's annual pledge drive for the funds needed to pay for the Eliot we all love.  These monies will support the staff, the services, and the programs that help us make Eliot a welcoming, vibrant, spiritually rich community.  In the coming weeks, please consider how you can contribute and then look for materials in the mail right after Easter.  Thank you.

                                                           
Christian Ed. Corner
 Easter Egg Hunt!

After our Easter Celebration Worship, the CE Commission will be hosting an Easter Egg hunt in Farlow Park!  Pre-school children will hunt in the fenced playground, and everyone else will enjoy a romp in the park looking for goody filled eggs!

 

Join us!

                                                           
Youth News

April Vacation Week is coming soon!

And so is our Mission Trip to Appalachia!

We want to thank all the adults who will be helping us pull off the Pancake Breakfast!  And we want to sincerely thank all of you who have donated to our trip, and we are excited to missionaries from Eliot to share God's love in Appalachia.  We look forward to transforming moments, fun, hard work, and the experience of a life time. If you still haven't had the opportunity to buy stock, please contact Karla Miller at revkarla@gmail.com


Mission Trip Fundraiser

Thank youTailoring,hemming and Sewing, by Norma

Pants need hemming?  Suit taken in?   Norma Escamilla is a professional seamstress, and can meet any of your sewing needs.  She can do it all!!  For each project you give her, she will ask you to make a donation to the Mission Trip. This is a win-win-you don't have to worry about that hem you taped up with scotch tape any more, and our Mission Trippers benefit!  Please call Norma today, 781-929-7950.


 

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Membership Commission Notes

Eliot Church Slogan Submissions

Thanks to all who offered suggestions on how to articulate Eliot in a few words or less! We got many great lines, and will be using them to make banners for the outside sign, and more!  Since all the submissions are so great, we declare everyone winners!!!

 

Here they are:

 

Come, you are welcome at our table

-Jeremy Holt

 

Eliot Church is a peaceful place for all people in UCC

--Catherine Holt

 

People have a lot of God in them when they leave here

--Francesca Curtin

 

People expect that we will talk about God and Jesus but we talk about more than that

--Francesca Curtin

 

Eliot is a caring community of seeks and believers

--S. Nason

 

Does God believe in you?   We think God does.

--Wheaton Wilbar

 

At Eliot, it's not just a church it's a way to live the Good News in Christ

--Isabella von Wendt

 

Energetic

Loving

Inspirational

Open and Affirming

Theologians?  Thoughtful?

--Lisa and Robert

 

Your Home is Here

--Thomas Byrne

 

Open doors

Open  minds

Open to the Spirit

--anon

 

A welcoming, accepting, loving community of seekers and believers

--Mary Lou Gleason

 

Turn the corner to faith

--Elizabeth Flanagan

 

Have we got a pew for you!

-anon

 

Eliot Church:  Reaching Deeply into our Faith

Reaching Boldly out to the World

-anon

 

An open, compassionate community of friendship and spirituality

 

Sharing Joy and Compassion

 

Faith Without Borders

 

Eliot Church:   A loving/caring/grateful/joyful (pick one) community alive with spirit!

-Susan Jeghelian

 

Eliot Church is a caring place for everyone.

-Francesca Curtin

 

At Eliot, we make strangers into Friends.  Come try us!

--Larry Shafer

 
Mission & Social Justice Commission

We raised the money to help rebuild the feeding station in Zambia!

Members of Eliot responded enthusiastically to the Alternative Giving opportunity this Christmas and donated $1,740 to help rebuild the meal shelter in Zambia where our partners, the Chipego Women of Hope, feed and care for 70 AIDS orphans and other vulnerable children. Through Mission & Social Justice, Eliot covers school fees and uniforms for just under half that group. We asked what else they needed, and the women replied with a detailed budget to add walls and a cement floor to the structure where they provide meals before and after school. Board members from our local contact, Communities without Borders (CWB), delivered the check when they visited in February. Thank you to all who participated. Hooray!

 

 

Trip to Zambia Summer 2010?

Patrick O'Reilly is looking  to see if anyone would like to join him on a trip with CWB to Zambia this summer.  These visits have been described as life changing events.  He would welcome the company. You can reach him at patevan@aol.com.

 
 
Jumping for Justice!
May 1, 9:30 am - 3:00 pm
Congregational Church of Needham
1154 Great Plain Ave, Needham, MA  02492
 

Keynote Speaker:

Anthony Zuba, Lead Organizer,

Massachusetts Interfaith Committee for Worker Justice

 

Timely & dynamic morning & afternoon workshops offered by:

City Mission Society...Cooperative Metropolitan Ministries,

Church World Services...Greater Boston Interfaith Org.,

Mass. Interfaith Committee for Worker Justice

Mass. Interfaith Power and Light...AND OTHERS

 

Justice Fair with exciting resources.

 

Registration: $20; or $15 per person for 4 or more;

Students FREE! Lunch provided!

 

Come Be Inspired and Empowered!

 

To register send checks payable to:

Just Peace Ministry, 33 Round Hill St, Jamaica Plain, MA 02130.

Please include your name, address, phone number and email.

 

Offered By:  The Just Peace Ministry of the Metropolitan Boston Assoc. of the MACUCC

 

Endorsed By:  The Mission & Justice Commission of the MACUCC.

 

Cosponsored By: City Mission Society, Cooperative Metropolitan Ministry, and Greater


 

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Music Notes
 

What is a Mini Concert?

 The music commission is excited to provide opportunities to enjoy a small dose of excellent live music and musicians in a very convenient location -Eliot. On a Mini Concert Sunday, you can come to church, then enjoy coffee hour, and then enter the sanctuary at 11:30 to enjoy some fine music! The concert will be about thirty minutes and all ages are welcome to attend.

 

Amanda Kaipio, Voice Recital

Sunday, April 7 - 7:30 pm  at BU Marsh Chapel

This recital is being presented for the fulfillment of Amanda's Master of Music Degree in Vocal Performance. Hope to see you there! Reception to follow.

 

David Castillo Mini Organ Recital

Sunday, May 2

If you would like to hear Eliot's organ in full sound, our music minister David Castillo will "pull out the stops" during a mini concert right after worship. The program includes the Prelude and Fugue in C Major by Bach, magnificent toccatas by Buxtehude and Pachelbel, and a set of choral preludes. All Eliot members and friends are invited to attend.

 

Mozart Coronation Mass

Sunday, May 16

The Eliot Church Chancel Choir, soloists, and orchestra will present Mozart's Coronation Mass during worship service. More information to follow.

 

Save the Date!

June 26, 2010 for the Marriage of David Castillo and Christopher McAdam.  Ceremony at 4:00 at the Eliot Church of Newton. Reception to follow in the Chapel. All Eliot folk invited!

 

Children's Choir

All children are invited to join this choir under the expert direction of Brita Lundberg and assisted by Heidi Nepf!  Contact Brita at 617.527.6267 for more information.

 

Chancel Choir

It is always a great time to join the Chancel Choir!  Rehearsals are Thursdays 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. and Sundays at 9:00 a.m.  Contact David Castillo for more information. 

 

Eliot Philharmonic

This organization, directed by Bill Powers and conducted by Jan Paul von Wendt, is an ensemble of many instrumentalists of all ages who play about three times a year for the church service.  They accompany hymns and provide ensemble pieces.  The Philharmonic rehearses on Sundays seasonally from 11:30 am to 12:30 pm in the downstairs Parlor.   Contact Bill at 617.964.4635 for more information

Spring MBA Meeting 

Spring Meeting of the Metropolitan Boston Association

"Test, Testimony, Take Away"

Sunday, April 25 from 2:00 - 5:00 p.m.

The Congregational Church of West Medford, UCC

400 High Street, West Medford, MA

In advance, please complete the Vitality Self-Assessment Survey here

http://www.macucc.org/emj/VitalitySelf-AssessmentSurvey.htm

 

The spring meeting of the MBA will include a very interesting program on Church Vitality.  Each congregation attending is asked to take a church vitality self-assessment survey before they attend.  At the meeting, a brief presentation on what makes a church "vital" will be followed by three testimonials from three congregations (Eliot Church being one of them!).  After the testimonials, creative, easy ideas and resources will be presented that will give encourage congregations to continue to deepen their  vitality. 

 
Church Family News

Happy April Birthday!

Name                April

Christine Couturier       2

Philip Jasset                5

Wayne Jasset              5

Miriam Morrow             5

Marissa Apstein           6

Bob Rombauer              7

Rhys Hackford             10

Daniel MacDonald         13

Ann Lennihan                15

Isabella Link                15

Nick Link                      15

Alison McPherson         17

Caleb McPherson          17

Brianna Albers             18

Joe MacDonald            18

Gabe Perrone                19

Andrea Whitney           19

Paul Couturier              20

Gretchen Hunt             21

Adam Rutherford         21

Jeff Jasset                 22

Louisa Carey                 24

Connor Vasu                  24

Allison Stoner              25

Joan Colglazier            25

Katy Albers                  28

 

 
New Feature - Happy Anniversary!
We only have a few of your Anniversary dates in the church database,  If you would like to list your anniversary in upcoming issues, please email Terri Whitney-Jackson so she can add it!
 
Happy March Anniversary!

Leslie Creedy & Bill Powers    March 21

Connie Stubbs & Chris Dame  March 25

 

Happy April Anniversary!

Elizabeth & Dan Flanagan       April 4

Siu Wai & Rich Stroshane      April 23

 
 
Graduation is Fast Approaching!
Soon it will be time to honor our graduates; both high school and college.  If your student will be graduating this spring, please email Terri WJ with your student's name, school of graduation and future plans.
 

College Student Available for Babysitting

May 11 through June 19

Nanny on vacation?  Need a night out?  Gap in childcare arrangements?

College Junior, First Aid and Lifeguard certification, own

transportation, available before leaving for summer camp job as

Lifeguard and Land Sports Director.  Please contact Christine

Couturier at couturci@muohio.edu or 617-947-9338 (cell). Excellent references.