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Volume 3 ♥ Issue 8 June 21
, 2011


Happy Summer! We're super-excited at Cyber-Dating Expert Headquarters as we've teamed up with Match in our "Summer Looking for Love Online" promotion.

Our friends at Match will be providing one lucky winner with a 3-month membership to their online dating site and I'll be providing our signature Irresistible Online Dating Profile makeover to help you find love online this summer.

How can you win? It's simple. Visit and LIKE our facebook page at and share your funniest dating story on our wall. I know you have plenty of stories to share as you've been submitting them to us for our Peril of the Week feature on for several years now. I've shared enough to fill a book and it became a bestseller because everyone will relate and won't feel alone in their journey.

It's not time to be shy and everyone has a funny story to share. Rules are on the facebook page, but don't wait as this promotion ends on Saturday, July 3, 2011.  The winner will be announced on July 5, 2011. So post, laugh, and get ready to win. Five lucky winners will also receive an autographed copy of The Perils of Cyber-Dating along with a profile critique.

I'll be busy at the Internet Dating Conference this week and will report back to you with all the latest news.

Remember to LIKE us at and on the new page for my upcoming book,


Julie Spira

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Worth Flirting About - In this Issue
Dating Advice - How to Botox Your Online Dating Profile
CBS News - How to Know if Your Significant Other is Cheating Online
Cyber Love Story of the Week - Jesse and Curtis
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Dating Advice - 5 Ways to Botox Your Online Dating Profile

How to Botox Your Online Dating Profile
If you've suddenly become single  or have an online dating profile that's over a year old, guess what? Chances are your profile is as outdated as your resume from 10-years ago, which is still sitting in a drawer.  If this sounds familiar, it's time for your dating profile to be reviewed and get a digital facelift.

This doesn't mean that you need to make an appointment with your cosmetic dermatologist for expensive injections, but it does mean that some of your wording, especially keeping an outdated screen name, may send a message to your perspective dates that you've been on the site too long. He or she may quickly move onto a fresher and more appealing profile
  1. Screen name revision. If your screen name included your age such as Ken53 and your date of birth on your profile indicates that you're 56, it will appear that you hadn't been successful in finding love online for three years. Even if your two-year relationship just ended and you're back again as a new profile, take the age off completely, especially if it's inaccurate.
  2. Discard the glamour shots. We all know that nothing is more important than your profile photos. If you invested in glamour shots years ago, it's time to toss them away, along with the "big hair" look. Replace them with more natural activity photos that are represented on your Facebook or social networking sites. If your online dating profile photos don't look anything like your current Facebook photos, your perspective date will find out quickly and will be turned off, or possibly even walk out on the date.

How to Know if Your Significant Other is Cheating Online

Online Dating MinuteRecently I was asked to contribute an article by CBS News on the subject of cheating online. Between Arnold and Weinergate, the topic is a hot one as we head into the summer months.

Here are 5 ways to tell if he or she is emotionally, physically, and digitally involved with someone other than you.

1.    He or she logs on frequently to Facebook and spends hours chatting with "old friends."

2.    He or she spends a lot of time texting and goes into another room upon hearing the chirping sound on their smartphone.

3.    You met online and he or she didn't retire their online dating profile after you become a couple. Their dating profile shows recent login activity.

4.    He or she frequently cancels dates last minute due to work commitments or not feeling well and ends up being "tagged" in Facebook photos at a swanky party.

5.    You used to share a computer, now his or her computer is never left open for viewing, passwords have been changed, and it's now either attached at his or her digital hip, or even locked up while not in use.

Remember, we constantly create a digital footprint of our online activities including our blog posts, comments, tweets, and Facebook updates and photos. It doesn't take a private detective to get caught while cheating online.

Click here for full story on CBS News

Cyber Love Story of the Week - Jesse and Curtis
Cyber Love Story of the WeekOn the one-year anniversary of the online dating site Cupidtino, where Apple enthusiasts, find each other, we're happy to share one of their success stories, Jesse and Curtis.

Jesse, a woman from Northern California had initially emailed Curtis when he was in Palm Springs, CA. She noticed he was in the military and asked him what there was to do in Palm Springs in her initial email. After a few weeks, Jesse gave Curtis her personal email address so they could communicate off the site. He asked for her phone number and began communicating with her regularly.

Their first date was at a Starbucks, where they met in the middle with their MacBooks in tow. They continued their date for the weekend wine tasting, visiting Hearst Castle, and their love affair began.


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Media and Recent Appearances
Upcoming Appearances:

Tuesday, June 21, 2011 - Wellness with Veronica: Sexting on Social Networks 5pm/PT.

Wednesday, June 29, 2011 - Heartbeat Radio 1:30pm/PT

CBS News - How to Know if Your Significant Other is Cheating Online

Her Campus - You, Him and the X-Box: Tips for Dating a Gamer

Huffington Post - Great Cities to Date Divorced Dads

MarketWatch - How to Protect Your Online Identity and Reputation

North by Northwestern - The Search for Love

Providence JournalProvidence Journal - Online daters do better with a hint of cleavage
Redbook - Are You THAT Couple on Facebook?

Singular City - Tips for Using Digital Coupons

The Sydney Morning Herald - Is Internet Porn Ruining Your Sex Life?

The Toronto Sun - The dark side of online dating

Women's E News - Cyberstalking Turns Web Techology into Weapons

YourTango - Can a Couple Get Past Infidelity?

Thank you for reading this issue of the Cyber-Dating Expert Weekly Flirt.

We invite you to share your online dating stories. You may end up being featured in our Cyber Love Story of the Week or the Peril of the Week.

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