Greetings!
I hope you had a holiday filled with love and joy.
As we start the New Year, many of you have probably created a New Year's resolution list. I know that finding love just may be at the top. It can be challenging to keep your resolutions as the weeks go by, so I've come up with 3 easy to follow and keep resolutions in our featured article, New Year, New Online Dating Profile. These include narrowing down your search, reaching out to reconnect with those you never had the chance to meet in 2010, and refresh your profile content, just like you would on Facebook.
It shouldn't come as a surprise that the period between New Year's and Valentine's Day is when there's a huge increase in the amount of singles joining online dating sites. During January, our premium irresistible profiles packages now come complete with 30-days of email support. I hope you take advantage of this special offer in the New Year.
For those of you already in a relationship, I'd like to share an article that I was featured in this week on Woman's Day, Relationship Resolutions to Make This Year: Commit to Treating Your Partner for a More Romantic 2011. You'll find 7 tips perfect for all stages of relationships.
I'm busy preparing my speech for the upcoming Internet Dating Conference in Miami this month. I'll be in touch with the latest trends for online dating live from the conference, so make sure you follow me on Twitter and like our page on Facebook.
As always, thank you for sharing your online dating stories and for being a loyal Weekly Flirt subscriber. All of us at Cyber-Dating Headquarters wish you much love and happiness in the New Year.Julie Spira
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Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show
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 We're on hiatus as we prepare for the 2011 season of radio show guests, but want to share the good news. Over 35,000 loyal fans listened to the program this year. We've tabulated the Top 10 most listened to segments and wrapped them up neatly in a post, The Top 10 of 2010. Featured shows included, The Frisky, Your Tango, OkCupid, Cupid's Coach and more. Click here for the Top 10 List and to listen to the program>>> |
Reading Room
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Sometimes it's true what they say, "Out with the old. In with the new." If you're going through a breakup now, you're not alone.
This month we are featuring The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide as the go-to daily bible for those who are finding difficulty in getting over a difficult breakup.
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IRRESISTIBLE Coaching with Julie
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Media and Appearances
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Upcoming Appearances Thursday, January 20, 2011 - Internet Dating Conference, Miami, FL. 3:30pm. Web Dating 2.0: Creating Brand Loyalty on the Web. Monday, January 24, 2011. TV Appearance. WNBC Nightly News 7:30pm Recent MediaYour Tango - If He Really Wants to Marry You, He'll Put a Ring on It Woman's Day - Relationship Resolutions to Make This Year Psychology Today - The Thoroughly Modern Guide to Breakups Your Tango - Love Trends in 2011 Your Tango - How to Help Your Partner Keep His New Year's Resolutions Sympatico - Protect Yourself Against Cyber Dating Scams The Look TV - Breaking Up Isn't Hard to Do Examiner - Cyber-Dating Expert Julie Spira and Harvard Prof Spin Love Magic WIRED - How to Find Online Dating Success The Providence Journal - Recommends The Perils of Cyber-Dating
Examiner.com - How Safe is Your Date?
Huffington Post - Is Your New Beau Separated, Divorce Pending?
Her Campus - Five (Mostly False) Relationship Rules
Fast Company - Listed in Top 100 Most Influential People in Social Media
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The Art of Relationships Cruise
|  It's with great enthusiasm to let you know that one of my mentors, Dr. Pat Allen, author of "Getting to I Do" will be hosting a special relationship cruise to the Mexican Riviera on April 2-9, 2011.
Singles and couples will enjoy a 7-day cruise aboard the Norwegian Star departing from Los Angeles. Contact Willett Travel at 800-994-5538 for more information.
Let them know you heard about this in the Cyber-Dating Expert Weekly Flirt and they will give Flirt subscribers a free copy of the DVD, "The Answers from Dr. Pat Allen"" as well as a copy of her just released book, The Answers from Dr. Pat Allen - Volume 1." Value $45, or in my mind the value is priceless, as your happiness is at stake.
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Thank you for reading this issue of the Cyber-Dating Expert Weekly Flirt.
Did you know that if you submit your online dating stories for the Cyber Love Story of the Week and the Peril of the Week that you'll receive an autographed copy of "The Perils of Cyber-Daitng?" Valid in U.S. only.
Wishing you much love and happiness in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam. Julie SpiraCyber-Dating Expert Cyber-Dating Expert® is a registered trademark of Cyber-Dating Expert, LLC. All Rights Reserved.
Disclosure Statement: Some of the sites, products and services recommended by Cyber-Dating Expert and CyberDatingExpert.com may be part of an affiliate program where compensation is received for products and services that you may purchase from links in this newsletter.
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New Year, New Online Dating Profile
| Forget the holiday pressure and red candy hearts. The period from New Year's through Valentine's Day is a peak time for singles to either join an online dating site for the first time, or renew their membership.
Just like refreshing your Facebook profile with new photos and new updates, you need to keep your online dating profile fresh instead of the stagnant profile you once had.
Here are some easy-to-follow and keep New Year's resolutions for singles looking for love online.
1. Narrow down your search. Do your friends complain that you are too picky? Have they stopped fixing you up? There's nothing wrong with knowing exactly what you want in a relationship. Remember, no one really gets it all. We are an imperfect society. Make a list of what is most important to you. Number it from 1-10. Now, focus on the first 3 items on your list. Is it Religion? Bicycling? Hiking? Strolling through museums? Put those key words in your search. You might be delighted to see who pops up.
2. Reach out and reconnect. Did you get too busy during the year and miss out on meeting someone you started to communicate with online? Take a look in your Inbox and see if they still have an active online dating profile. Reach out and send an email with a simple, "Happy New Year." If their profile is still online, assume they haven't met "the one" yet. It may be a time for a new beginning for both of you.
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