Greetings!
Welcome to the Cyber-Dating Expert Weekly Flirt. Did you enjoy the fireworks on the 4th of July? Did you take time to reflect on past relationships or ask yourself if there was still a spark in your current love life? Perhaps it's time to light that fire and start looking for love online. Even if you're already in a relationship, our featured story, "To Text, or Not to Text" gives tips for singles and couples to communicate in the 21st century. If you are in the San Diego area, tune into the FOX-5 Morning Show next Tuesday, July 14th at 7:40 am, where I will be a featured guest talking about The Perils of Cyber-Dating. I have been asked to help a few single women create their IRRESISTIBLE online dating profiles and will be sharing my secrets on TV. A link of the segment will be posted on the Cyber-Dating Expert site and it will appear in next week's newsletter. If you are in the Los Angeles area, get ready for a very special VIP Single's Day event at Tikkun Holisitic Spa in Santa Monica on July 26th. As always, thank you for sharing your stories and online dating experiences on the Cyber-Dating Expert site.
Julie Spira
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Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show
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Join me on Saturday, July 11th at 2pm/ET, 11am/PT as I welcome my guest, bestselling author Dr. Diana Kirschner on Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert Radio Show.
Diana is the author of Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love.
She has appeared on the Today show, FOX TV's morning show with Mike and Juliet,and she will be helping you answer those frustrating questions or "Why am I attracted to the wrong guys?" "Will I ever find The One?" Dr. Diana will give her expert advice on how to be successful online with tips from her book.
Call in at 646-929-0012 with your questions for Dr. Diana.
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Peril of the Week
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A California beauty just shared her story of the Doctor she met from an online dating site. The physician told her he practiced medicine at a prestigious clinic. He drove 60 miles to meet his cyber-date. He handed her his business card confirming that he was indeed a medical doctor. He spoke proudly at great length about the facility he provided medical services to. The Doctor was a bit nervous on his date and kept rambling on and on, until the truth was finally revealed. It turned out that he was in fact a patient at the well-known rehab clinic and not a Doctor at all. He went as far as having business cards printed up that he proudly handed out indicating he was an M.D. The woman got a bit nervous when she realized that his stories didn't add up and ended the coffee date quickly after 20 minutes. One wonders what the meaning is behind the term, "practicing medicine" and if this gentleman raises his hand when he hears, "Is there a Dr. in the house?" For consideration for The Peril of the Week, please send your entries to info@CyberDatingExpert.com.
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Cyber Love Shoppe
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 One of the results of being a successful online dater may mean you'll get involved in a long distance relationship. If you missed your honey on the 4th and couldn't share fireworks together, let her know you are thinking of her by sending a nice arrangement of America's Favorite - One Dozen Roses Vased.It will make her smile and start searching for a boarding pass in a New York minute. |
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Thank you for reading this issue of the Cyber-Dating Expert's Weekly Flirt.
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To be considered for inclusion in the Cyber Love Story of the Week, Peril of the Week, or the Cyber Wedding Album, please send your stories to love@CyberDatingExpert.com.
Much love and happiness,
Julie Spira
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TO TEXT, OR NOT TO TEXT?
That is the Question
7 RULES FOR ONLINE DATERS
Sending a text message can be a fun and flirty way to communicate with members of the opposite sex. But depending on the nature of your relationship, more often than not, texting can damage your relationship, create hurt feelings, and send your status from "hot" to "permanently deleted" as quickly as it takes to press the send button.
Here are some of my online dating tips as it relates to text messaging someone you are involved with.
1. Running late? Send a text message to let your date know, if you are unable to call instead.
2. In a meeting? Of course you can't call, so go ahead and quickly send an update of your status if plans have changed.
3. Flirting by text. If you are in a relationship and have discussed the use of text messaging, and just want to let your honey know you are thinking about them, go ahead and send a cute text. "Thinking about U" will always make someone feel good about your relationship, but only if you have continuity and a regular phone and dating schedule.
4. Reconnecting with an old flame? Forget about it. It screams booty call. If your intentions are sincere, please pick up the telephone.
5. I Love You! The first time you tell your sweetie that you love them should always be in person, without alcohol, and while you are fully clothed. The anticipation of those three special words should never be done initially in a text message.
6. Breaking Up. Please give someone the courtesy of ending a relationship in person, or at least via phone. Only a coward would break up with someone in a text message.
7. The Morning After. If your date ends up with a pile of clothing on the floor, please don't text the woman to say you had a good time. If you truly hope to see her again, call her and tell her how special the evening was. Better yet, if it's in your budget, send flowers. If you are a woman, don't text the man to say, "How are you?" It sends a message that you are needy and you may not hear from him again.
Keep in mind that text messaging can end up being a unilateral form of communication. You don't know for sure if the other party has read your text or not, or if they deliberately chose to delete it.
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The Book
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Are you looking for a good summer read?
Are you looking for a relationship with a spark like the recent fireworks on the 4th of July?
Learn how you can find the man of your dreams this summer with my tips and stories in my online dating book.
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