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Greenwich Reform Synagogue Newsletter
 
July 18, 2012                              Tammuz 28 5772 
 
In This Issue
Calendar
Torah Portion of the Week
Happy Birthday
Tree of Life
Caring Community
GRS Staff
Facebook
Join Our List
Shabbat Service
President's Message
Tzedakah
GRS Summer Splash
Brotherhood Summer Outing
Selichot
Our Temple Family
High Holy Day Schedule
Give A Ride, Need A Ride
Around the Community
Calendar
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Friday, July 20

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Friday, July 27

6:30 pm - Tish B'Av Shabbat Service

 

Saturday, July 28

4:00 pm - GRS Celebrates Summer

 

Friday, August 3

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Friday, August 10

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Friday, August 17

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Sunday, August 19

2:00 pm - Brotherhood Summer Outing - Family Fun Day at Harbor Yard 

 

Friday, August 24

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Friday, August 31

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Monday, September 3

GRS OFFICES CLOSED IN COMMEMORATION OF LABOR DAY

 

Friday, September 7

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service/ Welcome Back BBQ

 

Saturday, September 8

9:00 pm - Selichot Dessert

9:30 pm - Selichot Service

 

Friday, September 14

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Sunday, September 16

8:00 pm - Erev Rosh Hashanah Service

 

Monday, September 17

10:00 am - Rosh Hashanah Service

2:00 pm - Young Family Service

 

Tuesday, September 18

10:00 am - Rosh Hashanah Day 2 Service

 

Friday, September 21

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Tuesday, September 25

8:00 pm - Kol Nidre Service

 

Wednesday, September 26

10:00 am - Yom Kippur Morning Service

1:00 pm - Yom Kippur Symposium

2:00 pm - Young Family Service

3:00 pm - Yizkor/Memorial/ Neilah Service, immediately followed by break fast.

 

Friday, September 28

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service

 

Sunday, September 30

9:30 am - 1st day of Religious School 

 

    

Torah Portion
July 21, 2012

Matot-Masei       

(Numbers 30:2-36:13) 

 

Matot reports the laws, given to the Israelites, for making vows.  It also contains a description of the Israelites' war against the Midianites, including the distribution of the booty.  The portion concludes with Moses resolving a request by the Gadites and Reubenites for the lands of Jazer and Gilead.  Masei recounts forty years of Mas'ey, or "journeys," by the Israelites from Egypt to the land of Israel.  Moses provides instructions for conquering the land, defining its borders, and dividing it among the tribes.  He also defines provisions for setting up six cities of refuge where those accused of manslaughter may go for safety and a fair trial.  The Book of Numbers concludes with a counterprotest regarding the daughters of Zelophehad and a further clarification of the Torah's laws of inheritance. 

 

bday
Happy Birthday to...
Elizabeth Berdoff
Malaine Miller
Rebecca Buehler
Sarah Reid
Jerry Rosenband
Mia Schaftel
Hannah Wolff
Willow Furrer
Tree of Life
(Etz Chaim)
Tree of Life
Celebrate the birth of a child, the bar or bat mitzvah of a loved one, the wedding or anniversary of a cherished friend or family member, a graduation or a retirement through a permanent dedication on the GRS Tree of Life!  Click here  for more information and to place an order.
Caring Community News
Ronnie Gurney and Eve Goldberg are co-chairs of this committee. Committee members will be able to provide assistance to temple members in times of need and to celebrate with them in times of joy. If you know of an ill or hospitalized member, please contact the office at (203) 629-0018.

You can help us to help each other. We encourage the participation of volunteers to keep in touch with our members through telephone calls, visits, by sending cards, etc...If you would like to be a part of this committee, please contact Denise Cooper at denise@grs.org
GRS Staff

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MA, MSW, RJE

  rabbisklarz@grs.org 

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Cantor Sabrina Lipton

sabrinalipton@grs.org  

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Stephanie Glaser

Executive Director

stephanieglaser@grs.org

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Lisa Gittelman Udi

Director of Education

lisargudi@grs.org

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Clarita Agulay

Bookkeeper

clarita@grs.org

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Denise Cooper

Administrative Assistant

denise@grs.org

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Corinne Morrell

Relocation Assistant

assistant@grs.org

 

Peter Babivskiy

Caretaker


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Shabbat Service
Friday, July 20, 2012, 6:30 pm
Please join Rabbi Sklarz and Cantor Lipton for an informal and spiritual Summer Shorts Shabbat service followed by an Oneg Shabbat.
A  Message from Robert Birnbaum,
President of GRS Board of Trustees

Robert Birnbaum 

What if we're wrong?

 

I've been professionally involved in financial markets for nearly 30 years, and one thing the markets teach is that no matter how good your models are, how careful your analysis is, how thorough your research, or how extensive your experience, your decisions are still going to be wrong a significant percentage of the time. So when making a decision, it pays to ask, "What if I'm wrong?".

 

That's the question I've been thinking about in connection with the cost of purchasing a site and constructing a new home for GRS, and specifically regarding the "Affordable vs. Transformational" question I discussed last week.

 

What if we go the "Affordable" route, and that turns out to have been the wrong decision-that is, we achieve very strong membership growth, and the size limitations of the new building start to act as constraints? There will be some, perhaps, awkward decisions-do we start additional sessions of our school on other days or times? Do we adopt the policies of some other synagogues on the High Holy Days, and either rent larger space for the services or hold consecutive services, one half of the congregation at a time? Do we even limit membership? Yet, needing to deal with such issues implies that GRS is financially secure, both from having preserved capital by purchasing the affordable site and by generating sufficient revenue from membership to support our operations. It may be that we even generate enough income to fund new programs to benefit our children and youth, our membership at large, and the community.

 

What if we go the "Transformational" route and we're wrong-that is, we scale our purchase and construction plans to a membership level that we don't achieve? GRS might become "house poor"-that is, we have a wonderful building, but the congregation is strained to support it. On the one hand, the new building might attract faster growth and perhaps some major donations; on the other hand, the expense load might act as a constraint.

 

When I think about it this way, I lean towards the Affordable. If we're wrong, the issues created by going the Affordable route are tolerable-the issues created by going the Transformational route are corrosive.

 

I hasten to point out that the real world will likely intrude to make the decision messy. We could well end up considering a property that is affordable with a stretch or run into unanticipated construction costs, for example. (And, we are perfectly capable of making mistakes other than the one described here!)

 

Neither the Site Search Committee nor the Board will make site and construction decisions alone or in a vacuum. All members can influence the route GRS chooses.  To the maximum extent possible, we seek consensus on this very big decision. What do you think? How do you think about the risks of either route? Which way do you lean? Please email me at robertdbirnbaum@gmail.com with your thoughts, comments, and questions, or join the congregational dialog by posting your comments at the President's blog on the GRS website here.

 

 

Best regards,

Robert

Tzedakah

Thank you for your generosity...

 

Circle of Giving 

  •  Lisa and Richard Baker

 

A contribution to GRS is a wonderful way to celebrate joyous events and commemorate meaningful occasions.   

If you would like to make a contribution, please send your check to GRS, 257 Stanwich Rd., Greenwich, CT 06830.  For details on the giving opportunities available, please call the GRS office. 

GRS Summer Splash
Saturday, July 28, 2012
GRS Members: $18
Prospects: Please come as our guests!
GRS Summer Splash
 
Brotherhood Summer Outing
Sunday, August 19, 2012 

SAVE THE DATE!

 

The GRS Brotherhood will be holding its summer outing at  Harbor Yard - Bridgeport, to watch the  

Bridgeport Bluefish take on the Somerset Patriots.

 

EXTRA SPECIAL EVENT!!!!!!
GRS' Cantor, Sabrina Lipton, will be singing  

GOD BLESS AMERICA.

 

Also, it's "Family Fun Day" at  

 

Harbor Yard, so bring the family to watch the Bluefish.


Tickets: $20 - in the Air-conditioned Harbor Club

Game Time: 2:05 pm

 
RSVP: to Ken Greenberg at grsbrotherhood@live.com or by calling the GRS office (203) 629-0018. 

Tickets in the GRS block may be limited, so make your reservation as soon as you can.  You don't want to miss this summer event!!!

Selichot - Saturday, September 8, 2012

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...Listen to the sound of the shofar, begin the Days of Awe...

Greenwich Reform Synagogue invites you to welcome the new Jewish year 5773.  Please join us as we celebrate this beautiful evening.

 

  • Hosted dinners at the homes of GRS members at 6 pm
  • Dessert Oneg Shabbat at GRS at 9 pm
  • Selichot Service at 9:30 pm

Let us know if you would like to host/attend a dinner by emailing denise@grs.org.

 

**For more information contact the GRS office at 203-629-0018. 

 

 

Our Temple Family

yahrzeit plain candle Our deepest condolences go out to GRS congregants Susan Chorney and Richard Lewine on the passing of Richard's brother and sister-in-law, Murray and Marie Lewine.

 

 

High Holy Day Schedule 2012/5773

 

SELICHOT      SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 8

DESSERT AND COFFEE                       9:00 PM                    

   SERVICE                                             9:30 PM         No ticket is required

  

 EREV ROSH HASHANAH                          SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 16               8:00 PM         

ROSH HASHANAH     MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 17

   WORSHIP SERVICE                           10:00 AM

   *YOUTH WORSHIP SERVICE          10:00 AM

   YOUNG FAMILY SERVICE                 2:00 PM         No ticket is required

    

ROSH HASHANAH2nd DAY SERVICE  TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 18

     WORSHIP SERVICE                          10:00 AM

 

KOL NIDRE - YOM KIPPUR       TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 
                                                                    8:00 PM       

 

 

YOM KIPPUR MORNING SERVICE    WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 26

    WORSHIP SERVICE                    10:00 AM        

 

   YOUTH WORSHIP SERVICE     10:00 AM

 

   YOM KIPPUR SYMPOSIUM       1:00 PM

 

   YOUNG FAMILY SERVICE         2:00 PM      

   No ticket is required                     

 

   YIZKOR/MEMORIAL-NEILAH SERVICE    3:00 PM     

    No ticket is required

                               

     

BREAK FAST                                                       IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING CONCLUDING SERVICE

 

Seating begins 45 minutes prior to each service.

 

*Children will be brought to the Sanctuary prior to the Shofar blowing

 

Give A Ride, Need A Ride

TYGRS

 

Are you in need of a ride to services? Or, would you be willing to give someone a ride to services?

 

If your answer to one of these questions is 'YES', please contact Denise Cooper at 203-629-0018 or denise@grs.org.

 

Around the Community

Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is offering the following programs, support groups and volunteer opportunities (For more information or to register for any of the following, please visit www.jfsgreenwich.org or call 203-622-1881):  

 

JFS Support Groups: (All groups $10 per session)
  • Mother and Me: A Discussion Group for Adults: No matter what you do - you just can't get along with your mother? You try to be understanding and patient but something just goes off in your head and you can't control your emotions. Come share your experiences, explore what triggers your reactions, and learn how to deal with it. Tuesdays, 12:30-1:30pm beginning April 3
  • Adult Divorce: Wednesdays, 5:30-6:45pm
  • Children (Grades 4-6) of Divorce: Weds., 4:30-5:45pm
  • Children (Grades 7-9) of Divorce: Tues., 4:30-5:45pm
  • Bereavement: Tuesdays, 10:30-11:30am

 

JFS individual adult, teen, child and family Counseling:

$150 per session, Sliding scales always apply  

 

JFS Volunteer Opportunities
Bikkur Cholim/Friendly Visitors/Grocery Shopper

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Greenwich Reform Synagogue
257 Stanwich Road
Greenwich, CT  06830
203-629-0018
203-629-0613 - fax

www.grs.org

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