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Friday, July 20
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Friday, July 27
6:30 pm - Tish B'Av Shabbat Service
Saturday, July 28
4:00 pm - GRS Celebrates Summer
Friday, August 3
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Friday, August 10
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Friday, August 17
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Sunday, August 19
2:00 pm - Brotherhood Summer Outing - Family Fun Day at Harbor Yard
Friday, August 24
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Friday, August 31
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Monday, September 3
GRS OFFICES CLOSED IN COMMEMORATION OF LABOR DAY
Friday, September 7
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service/ Welcome Back BBQ
Saturday, September 8
9:00 pm - Selichot Dessert
9:30 pm - Selichot Service
Friday, September 14
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Sunday, September 16
8:00 pm - Erev Rosh Hashanah Service
Monday, September 17
10:00 am - Rosh Hashanah Service
2:00 pm - Young Family Service
Tuesday, September 18
10:00 am - Rosh Hashanah Day 2 Service
Friday, September 21
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Tuesday, September 25
8:00 pm - Kol Nidre Service
Wednesday, September 26
10:00 am - Yom Kippur Morning Service
1:00 pm - Yom Kippur Symposium
2:00 pm - Young Family Service
3:00 pm - Yizkor/Memorial/ Neilah Service, immediately followed by break fast.
Friday, September 28
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
Sunday, September 30
9:30 am - 1st day of Religious School
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Torah Portion July 21, 2012
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Matot-Masei
(Numbers 30:2-36:13)
Matot reports the laws, given to the Israelites, for making vows. It also contains a description of the Israelites' war against the Midianites, including the distribution of the booty. The portion concludes with Moses resolving a request by the Gadites and Reubenites for the lands of Jazer and Gilead. Masei recounts forty years of Mas'ey, or "journeys," by the Israelites from Egypt to the land of Israel. Moses provides instructions for conquering the land, defining its borders, and dividing it among the tribes. He also defines provisions for setting up six cities of refuge where those accused of manslaughter may go for safety and a fair trial. The Book of Numbers concludes with a counterprotest regarding the daughters of Zelophehad and a further clarification of the Torah's laws of inheritance.
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 Happy Birthday to...
| Elizabeth Berdoff Malaine Miller Rebecca Buehler Sarah Reid Jerry Rosenband Mia Schaftel Hannah Wolff Willow Furrer
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Tree of Life (Etz Chaim)

| Celebrate the birth of a child, the bar or bat mitzvah of a loved one, the wedding or anniversary of a cherished friend or family member, a graduation or a retirement through a permanent dedication on the GRS Tree of Life! Click here for more information and to place an order.
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Caring Community News
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Ronnie Gurney and Eve Goldberg are co-chairs of this committee. Committee members will be able to provide assistance to temple members in times of need and to celebrate with them in times of joy. If you know of an ill or hospitalized member, please contact the office at (203) 629-0018.
You can help us to help each other. We encourage the participation of volunteers to keep in touch with our members through telephone calls, visits, by sending cards, etc...If you would like to be a part of this committee, please contact Denise Cooper at denise@grs.org.
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GRS Staff
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Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MA, MSW, RJE
rabbisklarz@grs.org
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Cantor Sabrina Lipton
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Stephanie Glaser
Executive Director
stephanieglaser@grs.org
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Lisa Gittelman Udi
Director of Education
lisargudi@grs.org
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Clarita Agulay
Bookkeeper
clarita@grs.org
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Denise Cooper
Administrative Assistant
denise@grs.org
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Corinne Morrell
Relocation Assistant
assistant@grs.org
Peter Babivskiy
Caretaker
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Shabbat Service Friday, July 20, 2012, 6:30 pm
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Please join Rabbi Sklarz and Cantor Lipton for an informal and spiritual Summer Shorts Shabbat service followed by an Oneg Shabbat.
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A Message from Robert Birnbaum, President of GRS Board of Trustees
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What if we're wrong?
I've been professionally involved in financial markets for nearly 30 years, and one thing the markets teach is that no matter how good your models are, how careful your analysis is, how thorough your research, or how extensive your experience, your decisions are still going to be wrong a significant percentage of the time. So when making a decision, it pays to ask, "What if I'm wrong?".
That's the question I've been thinking about in connection with the cost of purchasing a site and constructing a new home for GRS, and specifically regarding the "Affordable vs. Transformational" question I discussed last week.
What if we go the "Affordable" route, and that turns out to have been the wrong decision-that is, we achieve very strong membership growth, and the size limitations of the new building start to act as constraints? There will be some, perhaps, awkward decisions-do we start additional sessions of our school on other days or times? Do we adopt the policies of some other synagogues on the High Holy Days, and either rent larger space for the services or hold consecutive services, one half of the congregation at a time? Do we even limit membership? Yet, needing to deal with such issues implies that GRS is financially secure, both from having preserved capital by purchasing the affordable site and by generating sufficient revenue from membership to support our operations. It may be that we even generate enough income to fund new programs to benefit our children and youth, our membership at large, and the community.
What if we go the "Transformational" route and we're wrong-that is, we scale our purchase and construction plans to a membership level that we don't achieve? GRS might become "house poor"-that is, we have a wonderful building, but the congregation is strained to support it. On the one hand, the new building might attract faster growth and perhaps some major donations; on the other hand, the expense load might act as a constraint.
When I think about it this way, I lean towards the Affordable. If we're wrong, the issues created by going the Affordable route are tolerable-the issues created by going the Transformational route are corrosive.
I hasten to point out that the real world will likely intrude to make the decision messy. We could well end up considering a property that is affordable with a stretch or run into unanticipated construction costs, for example. (And, we are perfectly capable of making mistakes other than the one described here!)
Neither the Site Search Committee nor the Board will make site and construction decisions alone or in a vacuum. All members can influence the route GRS chooses. To the maximum extent possible, we seek consensus on this very big decision. What do you think? How do you think about the risks of either route? Which way do you lean? Please email me at robertdbirnbaum@gmail.com with your thoughts, comments, and questions, or join the congregational dialog by posting your comments at the President's blog on the GRS website here.
Best regards,
Robert
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Tzedakah
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Thank you for your generosity...
Circle of Giving
A contribution to GRS is a wonderful way to celebrate joyous events and commemorate meaningful occasions.
If you would like to make a contribution, please send your check to GRS, 257 Stanwich Rd., Greenwich, CT 06830. For details on the giving opportunities available, please call the GRS office.
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GRS Summer Splash Saturday, July 28, 2012
| GRS Members: $18
Prospects: Please come as our guests!
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Brotherhood Summer Outing Sunday, August 19, 2012 | | |
SAVE THE DATE!
The GRS Brotherhood will be holding its summer outing at Harbor Yard - Bridgeport, to watch the

Bridgeport Bluefish take on the Somerset Patriots.
EXTRA SPECIAL EVENT!!!!!! GRS' Cantor, Sabrina Lipton, will be singing
GOD BLESS AMERICA.
Also, it's "Family Fun Day" at
Harbor Yard, so bring the family to watch the Bluefish.
Tickets: $20 - in the Air-conditioned Harbor Club Game Time: 2:05 pm
RSVP: to Ken Greenberg at grsbrotherhood@live.com or by calling the GRS office (203) 629-0018. Tickets in the GRS block may be limited, so make your reservation as soon as you can. You don't want to miss this summer event!!!
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Selichot - Saturday, September 8, 2012
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Greenwich Reform Synagogue invites you to welcome the new Jewish year 5773. Please join us as we celebrate this beautiful evening.
- Hosted dinners at the homes of GRS members at 6 pm
- Dessert Oneg Shabbat at GRS at 9 pm
- Selichot Service at 9:30 pm
Let us know if you would like to host/attend a dinner by emailing denise@grs.org.
**For more information contact the GRS office at 203-629-0018.
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Our Temple Family
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| Our deepest condolences go out to GRS congregants Susan Chorney and Richard Lewine on the passing of Richard's brother and sister-in-law, Murray and Marie Lewine.
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High Holy Day Schedule 2012/5773
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SELICHOT SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 8
DESSERT AND COFFEE 9:00 PM
SERVICE 9:30 PM No ticket is required
EREV ROSH HASHANAH SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 16 8:00 PM
ROSH HASHANAH MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 17
WORSHIP SERVICE 10:00 AM
*YOUTH WORSHIP SERVICE 10:00 AM
YOUNG FAMILY SERVICE 2:00 PM No ticket is required
ROSH HASHANAH2nd DAY SERVICE TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 18
WORSHIP SERVICE 10:00 AM
KOL NIDRE - YOM KIPPUR TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 8:00 PM
YOM KIPPUR MORNING SERVICE WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 26
WORSHIP SERVICE 10:00 AM
YOUTH WORSHIP SERVICE 10:00 AM
YOM KIPPUR SYMPOSIUM 1:00 PM
YOUNG FAMILY SERVICE 2:00 PM
No ticket is required
YIZKOR/MEMORIAL-NEILAH SERVICE 3:00 PM
No ticket is required
BREAK FAST IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING CONCLUDING SERVICE
Seating begins 45 minutes prior to each service.
*Children will be brought to the Sanctuary prior to the Shofar blowing
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Give A Ride, Need A Ride
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|  Are you in need of a ride to services? Or, would you be willing to give someone a ride to services? If your answer to one of these questions is 'YES', please contact Denise Cooper at 203-629-0018 or denise@grs.org. |
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Around the Community
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Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is offering the following programs, support groups and volunteer opportunities (For more information or to register for any of the following, please visit www.jfsgreenwich.org or call 203-622-1881):
JFS Support Groups: (All groups $10 per session) - Mother and Me: A Discussion Group for Adults: No matter what you do - you just can't get along with your mother? You try to be understanding and patient but something just goes off in your head and you can't control your emotions. Come share your experiences, explore what triggers your reactions, and learn how to deal with it. Tuesdays, 12:30-1:30pm beginning April 3
- Adult Divorce: Wednesdays, 5:30-6:45pm
- Children (Grades 4-6) of Divorce: Weds., 4:30-5:45pm
- Children (Grades 7-9) of Divorce: Tues., 4:30-5:45pm
- Bereavement: Tuesdays, 10:30-11:30am
JFS individual adult, teen, child and family Counseling:
$150 per session, Sliding scales always apply
JFS Volunteer OpportunitiesBikkur Cholim/Friendly Visitors/Grocery Shopper
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