The difference between humans and any other living thing on this planet is man's ability to communicate in symbolic futures otherwise known as "words". I have been on this earth since Elvis was a truck driver. Yet I confess to having mixed feelings about words. I have heard so much false bravado words from those who cannot "walk the walk". The pubs of America are full of guys who can "talk the talk".

The Media reports leading up to Super Bowl Sunday is an example of hyperbole. Eli Manning was chastised for answering "Yes" when asked if he thought he was one of the elite Quarterbacks in the NFL. But Wow, he did it again, lead his team to came from behind in the fourth quarter to victory!

The miracle known as the spoken word, in lyrics or prose can conger up treasured memories and feelings. Words are powerful, real things to be valued. You can build some one up or shatter their dreams with words. Words can empower a troubled individual in a time of need. Leaders need to know why there is a problem and discuss it openly. It is said that a lie goes around the world twice before the truth gets down the block. Rumors and hateful words involve too much wasted energy. We all have an obligation to others to think before we speak. The most effective leaders, parents, and coaches kindly speak consistent words of encouragement. The most powerful people in the Free World kindly speak of uniting mankind, while tyrants throw insults and threats our way.

A very real danger is that the spoken word can divide us. We all need to fight against those who use words to promote HATE. At American Youth Football, our success has resulted in those seeking power to report half-truths. I wish I did not have to answer such emails and calls of those using hateful words. This is so contrary to why AYF was founded. Yet, some people try to play one individual or group against the other. If an organization helps children, they have a value.

Never tear down someone's hard work for selfish reasons. The situation is as old as the Bible and as clear as the constitution. We are "thy brothers keeper" and you should "love thy neighbor" as every person has an unalienable right, " to pursue life liberty and happiness". When you are busy rowing - you wont have time to rock the boat.

Who has it better than Americans who lead kids?   True happiness is when your share with others.   Don't envy or compare.  I will continue to say, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you".  Everyone deserves to be loved and cherished by their, families, friends, teams, and Community. Be aware that to be kind, does not indicate a weakness.

My favorite quotes are those spoken by powerful men at critical times in History. "We stand today on the edge of a new frontier - a frontier of unfilled hope and unfilled dreams. For man holds today in his hands the power to eliminate all forms of human suffering or all forms of human life.  Let us go forth to lead, with History the final judge of our deeds, knowing Gods work is truly our own".

An ancient parable went like this: "To attempt to take back words you have spoken is like tearing open your pillow and casting the feathers to the wind. Then try to gather back up all those feathers and put them back in your pillow". That is the same as trying to take back Words you have spoken".  Or, as my Dad once said, "You can't put the tooth paste back in the tube once you squeeze it out". Be careful with your choice of words.